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Mrs0J:
It's not about spark, the guy is a chronic womaniser, simple.

Mrs0J:
Not all men caught are remorseful and r willing to change. A lady church member of mine has such husband, chronic serial cheat and unremorseful. The last quarrell that the wife left it was his mother and a deaconess in my church that went to plead with her family n brought her back cos the man couldn't face the father in-law over multiple infidelity.

Creamish:
Right from the first day hubby decided to cheat, he already bargained for a scene so a scene he shall get.

The only thing i'l save the gril from is a black eye...since well..she was nice to me and all...so il be nice to her. She'll take a hike with her complete unscathed self. Me n him gon settle our ish when we get home...except he wants it all out in d open at the reception venue.

Creamish:
The bolded is the part I dont quite get. Why d'hell will I allow d b1tch get in the car to start with? Right there and then b1tch takes a hike!!

Mrs0J:
Either am staying and we work things out depends how remorseful he is and willing to change or I live the marriage.

ricebeans668:
I enjoyed it but what and where have you connected it with this Tompolo issue?

bukatyne:
Strange for the poster I quoted.

bukatyne:
You believe in divorce/separation when a husband cheats?
That's strange.

cococandy:
Lol not after what happened in that story.


Thanks

darkenedrebel:
What klutziness...your wife said she'd be attending a wedding reception and your side-chick also asked that you picked her up from a wedding reception...and yet he was so clumsy that he didn't bother to inquire the address of the reception his wife said she'd be attending in order to cross his Ts...I'm sure if I were to be the man in question, I would had it mapped out from start to finish - Michael Scofield style.

- I would know the places my wife would be visiting and her activities for the day.

-and beforehand, I would have also instructed that voluble side-chick to never address me as boyfriend.


What's there to talk about? - the wife either forgives him or dissolves the marriage.

Fkforyou:
Well I guess everybody is different....

She can get angry if she wants too, but she shouldn't lay her frustration on me cos it won't make me regret my decision to act on my feelings,she is on a long thing,

If she wants to stay fine, I will continue to love her to the best of my ability, but if she wants to leave, its all the same.

If she cheats on me, she is leaving no two ways about that and that's one of the reason I won't blame her for wanting to leave me as stated in the paragraph above.


On a side note; I don't understand the concept
" Worth fighting for "....how can someone risk something as fragile as trust and starts to weep when you were the one that made the decision to break it in the first place.

delishpot:
Pidgin

Mrs0J:
Well as for me, I won't be in that car, will use Taxi to go home. When he comes back, I won't confront him, he will explain himself by himself, then only then will I tell him my mind.

cococandy:
Which home? What's homely about that?

delishpot:
Dont forget...... Fa fa fa faaaa Foul* Non sense and ingredient* Story* Wash*

Mindfulness:
Your thread must hit the front page. It has been fun!

Mindfulness:





If caught ...





Only when I visit NL.



This is how men are caught, not women, especially not those who have been living alone for five years.

Mindfulness:





If caught ...





Only when I visit NL.



This is how men are caught, not women, especially not those who have been living alone for five years.

deebrain:
You are the joke itself.

deebrain:
You are the joke itself.

Mindfulness:
Likewise.

Mindfulness:
Your husband cheats. Now what?

Mindfulness:
Give your thread a new title. I don't think it can hit fp with this one. It is too vague.

Mindfulness:
Thanks.

Loisemm:
Make it more realistic na. How will the woman be quiet in the car up to the extent that the cheating husband will drop her and still have the guts to go on to drop his girlfriend! Haba!!
E no real na. It cant and wont ever happen to me o but if I were the wife, of course the girlfriend would come down from that car. I dont care if its in the middle of nowhere we drop her. At most she can be given trans to go to her house. Me & Hubby will continue home. At home, there will be long talks and explanation and serious repentance from him. Even at that, eeh... hmmm.... e no go easy o. Why will someone cheat on me when I can never do same?! My Husband is not the type sha and we undastand ourselves. He cant take cheating and I cant take cheating too. N we established this while courting sef.

byvan03:
Harsh enough for a cheating / lying bast*ard, that's why I think is better the man stays away from home and make peace before returning.

postmann:
Bro, I'm close to rounding up a topic on the meaning of traditional marriage. Whatever the husband may do, terminate the marriage as a woman if you must. You simply can't be married to him and have another man into your body. It's a curse!