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Mindfulness:
Well, I know what type of a man I am married to. I didn't rush into marriage.

that's really nice congrats...wish u all d best in ur marriage...

postmann:
Husband not being around for 5yrs isn't an excuse. Except she was raped, or drugged or under a spell, there'd be no turning back. And if she has a role to play in the 3 reasons l mentioned, then I'll consider it as if she willingly spread her legs for another man to hit her vulva.

You know how foolish most women can be:
Paying a guy a visit in his house knowing it's the two of you alone and she believes "she's got this". Some of them get raped, coerced, drugged and all that in situations like that.

so a damaged good she remains? Some men really make their wives cheat on them though..vice-versa

Mindfulness:
I am sure more people will comment soon.

love the way u would v handled d situation.. My only prob is what if after everything he still goes back and do the same thing? You know us men? If its in the blood then its really hard to stop..seen men that could kill for their wives yet still cheat..

postmann:
Caught his wife cheating?
Now that's a different kettle of fish all together. Nah! I commend that man, whatever be the reason behind his decision.

For me she's damaged goods!

lol @ damaged goods..they could be a reason for her action u know? To mention a few..like maybe the husy ain't always around..up to a year sometimes due to work..not supporting her though..just saying

Mindfulness:
Either way, I would ask him how he feels about me and if there is anything I did that made him act the way he did. I would also ask if he is still interested in working things out between us and if yes, how he intends to go on about it.

that's really nice..wife material...
Still want other people to comment on this topic.. This mod boys will not move this post to FP..if its snake now or tonto dike..or one farmer killing one beautiful animal..he 4 don reach fp

Dyt:
Did you read the drama queen part?
Muchechecheche
No one can predict
Not even the husband to me and the boify to her
One thing o know for sure is, he will ask her to get down with immediate effect
But me go just sit dey look
Body language alone can make him wanna enter the ground

I have stopped taking cheating with a tip of my finger nail
Cheating is a serious crime in my book

nice..real nice..
And if he refuses to tell her to get down? You would cause a scene right(drama queen)? Would that really solve anything?

Mindfulness:
What do you mean by "everything"?


Something like, it was nothing, only s.ex or something like "I have fallen in love with this girl"?

if he said d first one..ur reaction would be?

And the second one also..what would be ur reaction here also?

Mindfulness:
What else should I do? Throw a tantrum? Go mad? Would it solve the problem? I guess not.




Something like: I think, we need to talk. Tell me what is going on between you and the girl.

and after he tells you everything?

SirShymexx:
Lmao @ re-enter the competition when she's already in the competition.

But I feel for the woman - that's an awkward situation.

really awkward

Dyt:
Depends on my mood oo
I am a drama queen
But its my husband o not boify
Hormones will dictate

mood would be bad in such situation..everybodys mood...so what will you do?

lynnfeb:
I will not utter one word. Its not even just the cheating, he had the guts to go drop her at home, height of disrespect.

My days r numbered in that house.

yea..but don't u think u are making it too easy for the side chick?

Mindfulness:
Talk to him.

just talk? How would you start the conversation pls?

byvan03:
People should learn to go for separation or divorce than disgrace themselves. Marriage is not by force. Food poison is better, stabbing while asleep is real too.

that one na harsh death o

SirShymexx:
Lol.

She should accept defeat and applaud the side-chic for winning.

Life's all about competing.

maybe she would re enter in the competition..??

Lalasticlala I think you should allow this page grace the front page so people can air their views..

joseph1832:
How can the man be that _stupid? Shouldn't he have known the wife and the girlfriend were at the same event?

ignorance could lead to a lotta things..maybe he didnt ask..love dey shack u know?

postmann:
It can, bro. But there's no explaining away the obvious; that a husband has found someone else more interesting, someone more worthy of little sacrifices and risk. Which other way can a man make his wife know that the spark is gone?

If the marriage stays, it'll only exist and not live.

true sha..the spark can be brought back though.. Have seen a situation were a man caught his wife cheating..after everything they settled and are living happily till today..everything forgiven nd forgotten.

byvan03:
I will make sure am forgiven before I enter that house.

lol..funny..na still ur house sha..u no go eat that day be that..food poisoning is real

MissMalia:
for better for worst, after cheating on me? Last time I checked STD is still in existence... Make one man come kill me abi? I m not interested

don't u think she must have seen signs of this while they were single before going ahead to marry the man? Plus maybe there is something he is not getting from his wife that made him do side chick?

MissMalia:
I do not have any explanation to make. In as much as I ve given birth and d marriage is not new then am off. Thank God am a career woman. I don't need his money because I already have my business to take care of my kids. Marriage is messed up already so I no get time for heart attack cos of one stupid man or love...

for better for worse.in good nd bad tyms..or those oath no mean anything again.remember?

postmann:
Nothing to say from either parties. The marriage has run its course.

don't you think it can be settled?

byvan03:
Returning home to where? Only a mad man will return home. It's safer to disappear from there .

are u telling me you would leave your home? Like forever

OPEN DISCUSSION, let hear ur view
A wife asked her husband to drop her off
at a
friends house, where a wedding reception
was taking place. He responded that he
would be
too busy throughout the day in the office,
and
gave her some money to use as taxi for
transport. He left for the office. The wife
took a Taxi to the wedding reception,there
she met a fine Girl and they got talking to
each other.
Soon they became friends. In the evening
when everyone was leaving, the Girl asked
the
Woman how she was going home. She
replied that her husband was too busy in
the office to
pick her up so she would use a taxi. The Girl
responded; "My boyfriend brought me here
and would be coming to pick me up. I just
spoke to him on the phone and he's on his
way. Why don't you join me in his car and
we would drop you at your house"The
woman
agreed. A few minutes later, her husband's
car arrived. The Girl jumped into the front
passengers seat of the car and asked the
Woman to sit at the backseat, which she
did
confused and perturbed. Then the Girl
introduced her new friend to her boyfriend.
When the man turned around to greet the
woman, he recognized her as his wife.
Nothing much was said along the way. He
dropped
the wife at home first as planned and
proceeded
to drop the Girl at her house.........
The question now is: If you were the wife,
what would
you do when your husband returns home? If
you
were the husband, what would you say to
your wife when you return home.
Please open discussion..

Lalasticlala

The West African Black Rhino has officially been declared extinct.. Thats right, somehow we managed to kill them all.. There isn't even any in captivity.. How do we always manage to Bleep shit up so badly.. Humans are the most putrid disgusting creatures ever to walk the earth.. Religion.. Politics.. Greed.. We consume and destroy everything.. The only hope nature has, is to somehow make humans extinct.. Destroy us, before we destroy her.. Sorry for the doom and gloom.. But this shit makes me sad..

#Copied

Ok

Even wit 3 Moses'
1. Moses Simon
2. Victor Moses
3. Ahmed Musa (Moses)

Nigeria couldn't conquer the Egyptians. A job that just 1 Moses preformed before " nawa oh

Even wit 3 Moses'
1. Moses Simon
2. Victor Moses
3. Ahmed Musa (Moses)

Nigeria couldn't conquer the Egyptians. A job that just 1 Moses preformed before " nawa oh

You did the right thing bro..believe..gave a friend of mine my laptop to help me format..next thing I heard was some guys broke into their house nd stole my lappy which I confirmed.. He was like what should we do?my response shocked baba na..I said na small thing make we forget am....my mind was free cause same thing could happen to me...so just let go bro..

MadCow1:
Na wah!

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This boy Parents go don dey happy say the journey is almost over. The Tree don grow, bear fruits, remaining to ripe make dem pluck am.. Then this happened.



PDP & APC in Rivers State do not have the interest of the people at heart.

I would rather withdraw from the race than have it cost anybody their lives.


The current generation in Power in Rivers State are a failure to Rivers People.

There lies a dead corp member. Killed because opposing parties are struggling for a right to who would help protect his future. Now the struggle between these politicians has killed one of the people they are struggling to protect. How does this make any sense to us as a people.

no parents..he is an orphan..d painful part...Rip

Khd95:
Ibadan leleyi


dat rusted roof na trade mark of ib town

lol..be like say u don stay there b4

Iamlordgee:
Dubia.. Only real Niqqaz will understand me

real niggas wey dey do osogbo or ukwale?

Iamlordgee:
Dubia.. Only real Niqqaz will understand me

real niggas wey dey do osogbo or ukwale?

Iolite:
Ibadan

you are right jaire