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Ruby,

.   Kini a ti so, ti otin la enu yakata yakata
Exactly! You scare me but i still have to live with you (in the Nija context)

Ruby,

Iwo noh gbenu so hun! se mo pa iro ni?.

You too don dey scare me already.

huh!!


@ sam, Onyinye's got a boyfriend k! though am sure it's not who she really wants.

Shuppie, so you say!

But what about the girls who know the guys are married, and still jump in?  Go to the nigerian universities and see for yourself.

But then, same reasons why some nigerian women dont mind becoming second wives, third wives etc.

Ruby, naija woman scare me too, but hey! we have to live with them.

Onyinye, you are from anoda planet. Come back to nija and see thousands of married men chasing fresh **** in clubs and bars.

The guy is having trouble in his marriage and saying whats bothering him. chikena

Cuddling ke?

pre-intimacy for me Cos i know it will lead to the icing on the cake.

Sisikill:
Diamond of Africa?

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And those little cute nicknames they give us women. . . just beautiful.

Olowo ori wa, oko gbo gbo awon obirin laiye, Awon Boda she e fe ti won mo ori gbon, Ikun le ni mo waaaaaa oooooooh!

Jeebus! I hope I didn't over do it oh.

Hey Sweetcherry I hope you like that cute name tooo.

Read all the posts A-Z, and was wondering why the idiotic poster of this idiotic thread has not returned to defend his idiotic way of thinking.

It is written in the Bible that we wrestle not against flesh and blood, but against principalities and powers.


In the Naija context, Do you think it is normal for one man to steal billions of dollars and stash them away (eg. Alamesiya, Abacha, Balogun, OBJ, IBB and so on)

Chinesedoll,

i noticed you've been campaigning for this your so called cousin for along time. The same way naija guys say no naija wife material abroad, na the same way naija girls say no naija husband material abroad. which one are we going to believe?

Chinese, i hope you are not having the same difficulty in manchester?

People,

I NO BE GAY!

but,

Be realistic.  Why Una dey act like say gay no dey naija or na something strange.  If No be OBJ _{thank God for baba iyabo} and his anti gay law,  Dont you think you would have been seeing open display of gay affection, and men kissing each other in Public?

I was reading an Indian university students magazine and i came across several functional and marketable products being manufactured by the students.

Does anyone have info or pictures of functional and marketable products manufactured by Nigerian students in Nigerian Universities?

@ henry

Had a female best friend who was my wingman before, nothing we didnt talk about. i dated her friends willy nilly but secretly, she had a crush too not minding all of her friends i had dated. She was always wondering what was wrong with her that i couldn't date her. We almost got close too close for comfort someday, but i had to stop myself cos i knew deep down i only wanted her as my friend. Hence my saying that the friendship has a time limit

But then, would i leave my girlfriend in the company of a guy she calls her best friend?  _{only if i have eaten gbelekokomiyo}

@ poster, they can but it has a time limit of some sort.

Cos after sometime, she will wonder why you go after other girls and don't want to date her. (_{Talking from experience})

@ poster and sista woman.

How did she get the fiance's phone number in the first place? by mental juggling?

Analyze this!

In Nija if you are observant, and see a young girl that usually calls someone (say a guy) uncle TJ, brother TJ etc. The day you hear the girl call TJ or disrespects the man in the presence of other people, definitely the guy has done something fishy.

Just replying to an earlier post of Rubi, who says one can tell people's personality through their post. That's off target Rubi.
If it was that easy, then no one will be getting scammed.

Anyone can be anything behind a computer screen.

@ poster,

There's no smoke without fire. truthfully i feel your fiance has eaten the neighbour's forbidden fruit. but i guess he may have told the lady about you before, thats why he's playing it cool.

And there's is no guarantee that you wont get dumped by the imported lover, so that he too can bring his own imported girlfriend he was dating before he met you.

Fiona,

There is no guarantee that your imported lover will not change to what you mentioned you despise.

Karmamod,

if it does happen to you, will you rush out?

sistawoman,

Don't mind Karma, she's just being a sissy.

@ Onyinye

a man has to be firm in his household does not interprete to being a punk.

Karmamod, please watch your language, this thread is not for insults.

If your own father cries like a baby each time, does not mean you should insult people on here. That statement from me was used as a reference and not a standard of measure geddit?

A man controls his emotions, and not the other way round.

My father may feel pain sometimes, but i have never in my lifetime seen the guy cry.  even when his dad and mum died. now what painful emotion can be more than that?

Not someone who cries at every little opportunity just because his wife left him.

david,

it's not being brute, but being firm.

@ Onyinye,

My research shows most women get annoyed when they expect the man to take the decision and show the lead rather than asking her what he should do.

First of all, a woman looks up to man to be the leader in the relationship.  When the man starts looking up to the woman, then there's something wrong.

50/50 means there's no leader in the relationship.

I have observed my father, and noticed that he holds the reins in his relationship like a charriot, wearing the trouser in the relationship.

while my girlfriend's father is the exact opposite. I mean i've never seen a man cry until when i met my girlfriend's father. I used to think women were too emotional but this one beats me. I was shell shocked.

I am now at a point where i have to hold the reins, and i have resorted to take after my father.

Guys, what makes you a man?

bare in mind the ladies will be reading this, but please be truthful.

So in essence, you would take anything dished at you? is that what you saying?

So david,

if you get to that stage, and you spot things which may not have showed up before, will you still be dress rehearsing, fixing tings up or considering break up?

if Eve had poison Adam, then she would have been getting it on with the animals.

So is courtship supposed to find out  if u can live with him or her, or if u should dump him or her?