Nairaland General › Re: Facts That Will Blow Your Mind by SugaryBelle(f): 10:53am On Nov 02, 2013 |
There is a poisonous plant that leaves its victims with a smile on their face at the time of death.Its named the Hemlock water dropwort. *fact |
Nairaland General › Re: Facts That Will Blow Your Mind by SugaryBelle(f): 10:50am On Nov 02, 2013 |
If you put two straws in your mouth,one inside a drink and one outside it,you won't be able to drink through either straw. *fact |
Romance › Re: The Right Time To Ask My Boyfriend For Rent Money? by SugaryBelle(f): 7:38am On Nov 02, 2013 |
rman: The OP is way smarter than majority of the people responding to her post. You all don't understand her at all.
SHE IS ABSOLUTELY RIGHT TO ASK!
After reading a few of her comments I get it, I surprised 99% didn't.
All relationships including marriage is trade by barter, you give something to get something. Theer is nothing wrong if you cut through the chase and go straight to the point of what you want.
She even gave a few examples. To all those ladies calling her a LovePeddler, the term is equally applicable to you. No one, I repeat! No one sleeps with someone that offers them nothing, it may be money, time, affection etc
People even divorce because of lack of sex or babies.
So look critically and logically at your relationship and you will arrive at the same conclusion.
If ladies claim they have sex because they love and care, it is still because he is doing somethings right and satisfying some emotional needs. The moment he becomes a jerk in your eyes, will you still sleep with him?
A lot if ladies live way above their means, this lady asked an honest question, she wants rent and at what point should she ask? I don't have answers because I'm not a lady but all the hypocrites on this thread have failed.
Marriage o, boyfriend and girlfriend o, it is all trade by barter. I'm happy, the society has started throwing up more logical ladies like the OP. We can all pretend but the truth is what it is. 90% of the ladies here won't even hug a BF that forgets or didn't get them a gift on their birthday. Thats withdrawing your emotional attachment for a while because u didn't get something.
Emotional sentiments and societal expectations has made majority of the people zombies that can't decide for themselves.
Don't have sex on first date, don't cook until a few weeks, it is okay to sleep with him or her after proposal are just societal rules. You can conform and play by all these rules and still have a broken relationship. Or you can dare to be different and cut through the chase and ask for what you want straight up.
The OP is just being honest about her expectations, we should not judge based on our own sentiments and prejudice. its so unfortunate,men like you are very few here. kiss kiss |
Celebrities › Re: Caption This Photo Of 2face Idibia & Wife by SugaryBelle(f): 7:14am On Nov 02, 2013 |
2face has this ' i'm content' look on his face. Cute. |
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Nairaland General › Re: Facts That Will Blow Your Mind by SugaryBelle(f): 12:09am On Nov 02, 2013 |
kunlesehan: 100 likes for you Sugar. I've always known there was sumtin sweet about u. May ur sweetheart be a Chelsea fan as well. My regards to ur bro. haha,ok. |
Nairaland General › Re: Facts That Will Blow Your Mind by SugaryBelle(f): 11:52pm On Nov 01, 2013 |
I'm sure he felt bad about that. |
Nairaland General › Re: Facts That Will Blow Your Mind by SugaryBelle(f): 11:23pm On Nov 01, 2013 |
kunlesehan: huh? pls tell me it's a lie S.B I thought all sweet and sugary ladies are BLUE blooded? . UP CHELSEA! hahaha,Slap1 is a nairaland moniker of a die hard arsenal fan,i didnt mean i'll slap you lol,my bro is a chealsea fan though so if ever i get to support any club it will definitely be the blues. |
Romance › Re: The Right Time To Ask My Boyfriend For Rent Money? by SugaryBelle(f): 11:03pm On Nov 01, 2013 |
I never knew Nigerian women are this pretentious,God forbid. Much love dear op,you are always spot-on. |
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Nairaland General › Re: Facts That Will Blow Your Mind by SugaryBelle(f): 5:39pm On Nov 01, 2013 |
kunlesehan: Happy new month y'all! . Twitter was Created in 2007 and arsenal last won a trophy in 2005. That means no arsenal fan has ever tweeted about winning a trophy for almost ten years!... Lol . Up Chelsea! ☹ Slap1 this is for you,lol. |
Family › Re: Have You Ever Forgotten You Child Or Ward In School Till It Becomes Dark? by SugaryBelle(f): 12:09pm On Nov 01, 2013 |
My dad forgot me many times when i was in primary school ,i liked it though cos i enjoyed eating meals prepared by the reverend sisters, he later allowed me go with the school bus though when my mum threatened to put me in a public school close to home . |
Romance › Re: Is Your Spouse/partner Aware You Are On Nairaland?? by SugaryBelle(f): 8:43am On Nov 01, 2013 |
Lmao@ Sexkillz and Ogugua. Jonsin. |
Family › Re: Good Bye Nairaland.....i Am Killing Myself This Night by SugaryBelle(f): 7:57am On Nov 01, 2013 |
190: [color=RED] what the . .
how many tymes do i have to answer this
[size=38pt]NOOOOOOOOOOOOOO!! [/size][/color] easy hun,i thought as much bt jst wantd to be sure. |
Family › Re: Good Bye Nairaland.....i Am Killing Myself This Night by SugaryBelle(f): 7:38am On Nov 01, 2013 |
Pls is 190fan and 190 the same person? |
Celebrities › Re: Photo: Iyanya’s Birthday Cake, The Only One Of Its Kind (must See) by SugaryBelle(f): 7:07am On Nov 01, 2013 |
Inyanya too like woman o... Nice concept,like they just finish knackn'. |
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Travel › Re: A Nairalander's Tale On His West African Tour by SugaryBelle(f): 8:37am On Oct 30, 2013 |
Tonye so no gist only pinshures? *frowns* |
Travel › Re: A Nairalander's Tale On His West African Tour by SugaryBelle(f): 8:36am On Oct 30, 2013 |
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Phones › Re: MTN Customer Care Thread by SugaryBelle(f): 11:04pm On Oct 27, 2013 |
Lol,you are not serious. |
Phones › Re: MTN Customer Care Thread by SugaryBelle(f): 5:04pm On Oct 27, 2013 |
slap1: Lol. But then we chat regularly, don't we? I know they're not quite the same. So, don't worry, I'll call. haha,yeah. |
Phones › Re: MTN Customer Care Thread by SugaryBelle(f): 8:22am On Oct 27, 2013 |
Lol.Ok here it is,081419914419. |
Phones › Re: MTN Customer Care Thread by SugaryBelle(f): 10:37pm On Oct 26, 2013 |
slap1: I have N200 airtime bonus but I can't make calls with it. When I try, my airtime goes. What is the problem? because you are dialing every other number except mine. |
Nairaland General › Re: Facts That Will Blow Your Mind by SugaryBelle(f): 12:41pm On Oct 26, 2013 |
kunlesehan: Central Australian Walibri men from different tribes greet each other by shaking joysticks on ceremonial occasions. lol gross. |
Literature › Re: BARTER TRADE ( Fiction With Nairaland Characters) by SugaryBelle(f): 11:10pm On Oct 25, 2013 |
ewww,190 haff suffer.lol |
Food › Re: Cook In Your Kitchen, Take Pictures And Post It Here. SIMPLE! by SugaryBelle(f): 11:05pm On Oct 25, 2013 |
totalbaby: Ukwaka(Plaintain pudding) looks yummy,please how is it prepared? |
Celebrities › Re: Popular Husband Snatcher, Nollywood Actress, Ireti Osayemi Pregnant by SugaryBelle(f): 7:20pm On Oct 25, 2013 |
'popular husband snatcher' lmao. Werey... |