the question sef get as it be.

This thread is getting too long and disinteresting. To each his own.

@op since your idea of a real man is a man who does not complain in regards to paying for your bills then you should go look and search for that individual wherever he may be.

Personally, I think topic like this reek of women who come come below middle class homes. You can never hear a lady from the middle class or from a rich home complain about material things. It all points down to how we were raised.

If the op thinks a man who takes care of all her financial needs during the courting stage is the ideal man for marriage, who are we to complain and give contradicting views.

Y'll gotta watch this http:///Yp0Kyf7tKy

sleekch1c: All of you attacking the poster, keep quiet!!!
I mean, STFU!!!!!!!!!!
A guy comes here complaining his gf is denying him sex (as if it is his birthright) and these are the responses you get:
The female posters: talk to her,and you two shld reach a compromise.
The male posters: some other guy is shinning her congo jor! Dump her sorry arze!!
Now a lady talks abt getting financial assistance from her man and all them old and lonely single ladies hoping to score cheap points and the broke azz brothers descend on her like vultures.
Now tell me all ye so-called independent women.
You said no sex b4 marriage, how many of you are in a chaste relationship or were in one b4 marriage?
See how they are all hurling self-righteous nonsense and ingredients here!
@op,do what you want,it is your relationship anyway...I just got pissed reading the load of crap that was posted as response to you.

You head dey dere. What's the big deal in paying your girl's rent

freecocoa: I pay my bills too dear (mostly na dad money thinz ) so I'm not saying your boyfy is responsible for them, I'm only saying in a case where you can't afford to pay it at the time, its not a crime to ask boyfy for help.

The OP presented her matter the wrong way, I'm only even still here cos people made it sound like its a sin against, God and satan to put bf and money in the same sentence.
P.S some people when in need to go their partners first especially people who feel they are too old to ask parents for money.

Bf and money no b big deal. Sex = money? U sef reason am nau.... Allen gals go talk money for hand bck for ground, op dey talk money = toto. Can u spot any difference?

pimp_lucious :


Is this for real or some joke? Is this actually an average Nigerian girl mentality? This is the lowest of low! God forbid

and most average Nigerian guys dont do the unthinkable to make money? Might i add, then they blame it on the government and porverty?

Bukato3:


You head dey dere. What's the big deal in paying your girl's rent

Henhen? I'm billing u tonite.

U don jam!

@idowuogbo, reply my pm na. Nor be crime say a dude wan get to know you better. Na wa for you ooh.

And this thread keep going? Interesting.


Mods,lock down this thread before it lead to an all-night e-war! Enough said!

lorretta u: Lmao
If you met me in real life,you'd drop most if not all of your ill conceived ideas about women.

Sorry sis, i've seen it all
the good ,the bad and the ugly
even the ones i call armed robbers.

Your type may not likely show sign of falling for the green back ,but once a smart player notice this he'll quickly switch over to the emotional game and i bet my black azz you'll take the bait....and if it doesn't work again then comes the waiting game until you're completely worn-out with his constant outpouring of his heart, telling you how much he loves you and you're inside.because the only thing that comes into your small mind is "lemme give him a chance" and that's exactly when you've become the chiker

Trust me I know exactly what i'm talking about.

Now i understand the root of this thread. Make una dey here dey fight with keypads.

Damn! I like this babe.

Rent?u shld ask him 2 buy u a house......b4 u entered into a relationship were u staying under d bridge?if boy just tell some girls I love e don turn 2 deir papa....dats y some girls re threated like shit...biko learn 2 pay ur bills

precydadiva: Rent?u shld ask him 2 buy u a house......b4 u entered into a relationship were u staying under d bridge?if boy just tell some girls I love e don turn 2 deir papa....dats y some girls re threated like shit...biko learn 2 pay ur bills

Lmaaaaaaaaaaao!

Caracta:

Now i understand the root of this thread. Make una dey here dey fight with keypads.

Damn! I like this babe.

Sharrap and go to bed.....and ermm..... remember to put on your adult pampers

Oboy,see the number of people viewing and exchanging banters on this thread.



Caracta and Freecocoa,una no dey sleep?? Why una carry matter put for head like this?

Caracta brought me here o.
Learnt wwe is going on here?
Hmmmmm
*spreads mat here while munching pop corn

Idowuogbo:
Bf and money no b big deal. Sex = money? U sef reason am nau.... Allen gals go talk money for hand bck for ground, op dey talk money = toto. Can u spot any difference?

I spot the difference alright, like I said earlier, it sounded to me like people were saying its a crime to ask your bf for money that's why I even bother.

Some men sef take it to mean you don't see them as real men if you don't ask them for stuffs.

Thank you sir.

Except that you still haven't made a point.so when are you going to tell us what men need to improve on to get relationships working?

Unless you're trying to tell us that the men are perfect and the women are the only ones who need to improve.

In that case tough luck trying to sell us that idea.

As for the olodo part. I wonder if you or anyone in your lineage past and present can actually be a fair match for me.

werrin_dey:

Ur such a thick head, a duns! A simple cliche u can't put forward correctly its how a man will sustain u ur busy thinking. FYI, It is not "The real you is who you are when no one is looking."as u stated in ur profile. It is "the real u is what u do when no one is watching" it makes more sense that way. olodo.

mizzocho.cinco:
im sure you have been promised the world by men you gave your jackpot too and many of them moved on to the next one, does that make you a semi-maga?

No! Cus I enjoyed d lapanshing. As in d helicopter o, wheelbarrow o,monkey-ing o, I enjoyed it.

precydadiva: Rent?u shld ask him 2 buy u a house......b4 u entered into a relationship were u staying under d bridge?if boy just tell some girls I love e don turn 2 deir papa....dats y some girls re threated like shit...biko learn 2 pay ur bills

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I never knew Nigerian women are this pretentious,God forbid.
Much love dear op,you are always spot-on.

freecocoa: I spot the difference alright, like I said earlier, it sounded to me like people were saying its a crime to ask your bf for money that's why I even bother.

Some men sef take it to mean you don't see them as real men if you don't ask them for stuffs.

Dose men don follow ur forefathers go chop Akpu for heaven na! See dis chick o! Are u a learner?

Truckpusher: Sharrap and go to bed.....and ermm..... remember to put on your adult pampers

Ok

Danhumprey: Oboy,see the number of people viewing and exchanging banters on this thread.



Caracta and Freecocoa,una no dey sleep?? Why una carry matter put for head like this?

You need eye glasses. That's all i can say to you.

idnoble135: Caracta brought me here o.
Learnt wwe is going on here?
Hmmmmm
*spreads mat here while munching pop corn

Go to bed o. I love the thread though...learning some new things

What's your point?

Truckpusher: Sorry sis, i've seen it all
the good ,the bad and the ugly
even the ones i call armed robbers.

Your type may not likely show sign of falling for the green back ,but once a smart player notice this he'll quickly switch over to the emotional game and i bet my black azz you'll take the bait....and if it doesn't work again then comes the waiting game until you're completely worn-out with his constant outpouring of his heart, telling you how much he loves you and you're inside.because the only thing that comes into your small mind is "lemme give him a chance" and that's exactly when you've become the chiker

Trust me I know exactly what i'm talking about.

freecocoa: I just remember say na you.

Hello, goodbye.

druid06: @idowuogbo, reply my pm na. Nor be crime say a dude wan get to know you better. Na wa for you ooh.

Hehehe... Chillax!

Caracta:

Ok



You need eye glasses. That's all i can say to you.



Go to bed o. I love the thread though...learning some new things

New things like

Idowuogbo:
No! Cus I enjoyed d lapanshing. As in d helicopter o, wheelbarrow o,monkey-ing o, I enjoyed it.

After enjoying all the lapanshing ,monkeyi-ng and helicopter with approximately 50 to 60 guys before you hit 28 ,you still think that guys will come around when every shock absorber would have been destroyed and dangerously grooved with the clit tilting like titanic to come and stick around and possibly roll forever with you? smh

SugaryBelle: I never knew Nigerian women are this pretentious,God forbid.
Much love dear op,you are always spot-on.

now this is interesting....

idnoble135:
New things like

We are different. We do not think the same way. Life is fun...serious too. There are two sides to a coin

I'm not sure you understand my point sha. Na only me fit explain am.

Truckpusher: After enjoying all the lapanshing ,monkeyi-ng and helicopter with approximately 50 to 60 guys before you hit 28 ,you still think that guys will come around when every shock absorber would have been destroyed and dangerously grooved with the clit tilting like titanic to come and stick around and possibly roll forever with you? smh

U got my attention, happy now?

Wait sef, so guys don't dump spongers she? Ask op how many don waka pass her merchandise b4 u spew shyte.