RiffRaff:
Are you by any chance named, Wayne Bridge? And is your friend's name John Terry?

Omo, she is your Ex-wife.. She has the right to visit/Date or Bleep whosoever she wants.
She owes you no explanation or obligation. If you are unhappy, that is your own problem. You are not married anymore & she has moved on with her life. Do the same so you stop worryin about who she is fuuckin now.

If Some Nigerian men have their way, they wouldnt let any other guy Bleep their Ex. Na wa oh.

If your ex keeps visiting your close friends, to me, it either she is trying to know about you(still interested) or want to get in between you and your friends. a wise advise is to ignore and advise your friends to keep what ever discussion to themselves.

winetapper:
The reason for her visit would tell

its not neccessary what the reason is, just let her keep away from his friends, it annoying.

They broke up sometime in 2013, and both went their separate ways. He tried all he could to keep the marriage but she left. His friends did their very best to intervene but she also decline. Now she is visiting his friend regularly and they keep telling him about her visit which he is not too happy about.

Should he tell his friend about his feelings or just keep silent about it or rather avoid those friends?
is it proper as a friend to allow your friends ex-wife to visit you.
What is your opinion on this issue no matter the relationship that existed with him/her before the breakup.

FrancisTony:

Yes!


Oya, I'm waiting.

ok give me yours let me sent it to your phone directly

FrancisTony:


I smell LIES and fabricated story.

If it's true, then, that woman is so foolish.

I can give you her Phone number if it would make u believe that not every story is like saharareporters story.

5minsmadness:


See Palavar!

Nonso has low spérm count, yet he Impregnated a woman outside on first attempt.

Madam was raped by three boys. Two of exes have told me similar stories. Both turned out to be false
But even if true it has no bearing/significance on this story.

They have not been to a proper hospital if not hormone problem and infection is not difficult to treat.
. Nonso played away match and now has a son albeit unwillingly. He should cater for his child. But don't bring the child to the house unless madam permits him to. That child should stay with the mother or sister.

Madam left. Hmm. OK o. It's her joice cho I wish her luck in her future endeavors. But it's possible she has inadvertently paved the way for the other woman to enter BUT WHO CARES! She doesn't need nonso's sorry cheating ass right? She doesn't need the five years wasted. She can pick herself up and move on, afterall nothing is holding her to the bastard cheating good for nothing husband!



At the dentist waiting for the anaesthetic to kick in.
Mabye it alweady has!

but no be nonso fault na. away match can only be used against you if you are caught. he did not deny or accept it.

kaima1984:
if am d wife, I wunt leave my home for any reason,wat Nonso did ws annoying n betraying BT d deed has been done and forgiveness will b d right thing t do instead of leaving home

Tell them. Women react too quickly. she did not even consider what the man was saying. she just parked and left. A man who marriage her in the same community were she was raped. na wah oh.

They meet 9yrs ago through a friend while he was developing his property. Initially he wanted a fling with her but as the relationship progressed, he saw the gentle and unique person in her. she confided in him how she was raped by 3 boys in the community and how her family could not follow up the case at the station because they were poor. The police was demanding so much from her poor parents to prosecute the boys. The families of the boys threatened to deal with her family if they are jailed. Her family been strangers had no choice but to close the case at the station. she forgive the boys and left it to God to judge.

Nonso listened as glory amidst tear was narrating her past. He promise not to ever hurt her, while the relationship lasted. One thing lead to the other and eventually Nonso married glory in 2009 when she was 3months pregnant. The marriage was the talk of the town as the community (were she was raped) never believed she would ever get married. Nonso and glory lived within the same community.

Five years in the marriage she could not get pregnant again after she lost her initial pregnancy. Nonso became a laughing stock from his friends who knows her story and advise him not to marry her. He tried all he could medically for her to get pregnant but non was forth coming. The lab result reveal he had low sperm count while his wife had some infection and hormonal imbalance. Nonso did not believe the lab test. He went out and cheated on his wife. The lady (outside) got pregnant and told Nonso. Nonso did not believe her, but told her to abort the baby if it was true. The lady informed Nonso's sister, who advise her to keep the baby that she would take care of her and the baby.

She gave birth in January this year. (beautiful baby girl) and Nonso learnt about it in March. Nonso could not believe the conspiracy, he accuse his sister of deliberately trying to brake his home, he vowed not to have anything to do with the lady and his child. Nonso's wife heard about it (God knows who told her), she confronted Nonso who did not deny or accept but told her the hold truth. Rather than stand by her husband, she dropped her wedding ring and parked out of the house.

I have deliberately changed names to cover identity. Please advise.
Is nonso under a spell?
would you advise the lady to abort the girl considering the yrs of searching for a child?
Now that the child is born, is nonso action still logical?
if you are the wife, would you end your marriage?
is there a way out? No insult Please, the deed has been done.

YUNGLURD:
was it because I typed end time baby? Where is ur sense of humor?

aaahhhhhhhhhh, Yunglurd, not in the mood for this. please your advise is accepted.

YUNGLURD:
End time baby..maybe the baby enjoys tasting the poo, who knows?.. seriously the mom/dad should watch her closely.

Nigerians and religion.

[quote author=qbd2 post=33415336]
Then they shud start tying her hands or something, what makes u thibk shell outgrow it? Bsds, u shud take her to d dcotor[/quotew

noted

AwesomelyMade:


Whoever was her guardian at the moment she started eating poo would have flogged her very well.

I have personally talked about it with the father, but with what the young man went through in the hands of his in-law (Edo people-okada village) the day his wife was buried, beating is out of the question. They accuse him of killing his wife. and wanted to take the child from him. it was real hell. I vowed never to allow anyone i know marry from Edo state.

qbd2:
Its an habit they need to take away from that babay. If twill require spanking, then so be it cos leaving the child to keep doing dat is not caring bout his/her health

The circumstance surrounding her delivery is the major reason why they are not beating her. moreover, i feel she will outgrow it.

AwesomelyMade:
Hmmm. Yuck..Yucker....Yuckest!!!

That baby and the mother who refuses to beat her needs serious deliverance!

The mum is dead since 2013. would beating her stop this action.

In 2013 a family friend lost his wife during pregnancy, she had a still birth, but part of the placenta did not come out of the womb. she had complication and died 3weeks after the delivery. The baby was in an incubator for 2 months before she was handed over to my friend.

The baby is 2years and some months old now. The problem is that, each time the child poo without her diapers on, she starts eating her own poo. several time she has done it. My friend have refuse to beat her considering the nature of her birth. To avoid such, he constantly wears her diapers. sometimes she removes it and poo, and start eating it. she is well feed.

I know only dogs eat poos. Except one is forced to do it.
Please doctors is the house is the child normal? does her birth have any thing to do with her action? is there any nutrient in the poo to make her do this? would have love to post this in the family section. Please help.

yomi007k:
Is d lady doing d right thing by refusing to pay her rent?

Answer this first then I'll answer urs.




If she's unconfortable,she can leave.

Two wrongs cannot make a right, she does not have the money to renew. haba, were is the place of conscience in this world.

Residence woke up as a result of a loud shout from a tenant in Port Harcourt Rivers state as the landlord of the property was removing his Gmp windows from his house. Initially he has disconnected his water and electricity, yet the tenant refuse to leave the property. This made the landlord to go a step further by removing the Window. while we were pleading the landlord started opening the sock away chambers to block the toilet drains.
On further inquiry, we were made to understand that the tenant (lady) have been owing the landlord 7months rent, and have refused to answer the lawyer who happen to be the attorney in charge of the property for the landlord. The landlord said he had made effort to talk to her but she refuse to answer him. In his words (landlord) " when you ignore the lawyer and me, who else do you want to talk to, she is taking advantage of the fact that the courts in the state is closed, let her go to the police am waiting".
The tenant(lady) said she does not have the time to talk to both of them that she would leave once she gets the money to pay for another accommodation.
My question is the landlord doing the right thing since his lawyer is handicapped due to the closure of the courts in the state?
is their a better way to reach an understating in this case considering the fact that the tenant is not even ready to talk to the lawyer nor the land lord?
can the landlord wait until when ever the court is opened to exercise his right.
please advise.

mufutau55:
It may not be a good advise... but he is giving you a honest advise. Take it or leave it.

If its a good advise, why must he include widows.

I went with my younger brother to see his lawyer over an issue with one of his tenants. while they were discussion, to my surprise his lawyer took a sheet of paper, and listed out the following.

1. Lawyers
2. Police officers.
3. Widows.

he said if you want peace avoid giving your house to these group. Do u think the lawyer is giving his client good advise.

[quote author=Professorval post=32786435]My advice? Write a letter to the president elect, on entering office, he'll help you get your moni back...Mtcheeeeeeew[/quot}

you hardly make any sensible post, your comment are worst than i can imagine. This is a serious issue. if you don't know what to comment, just read and leave.. mcheeeeeeewwwwwwwwww

shumuel:
It just doesn't feel right, The Bible says and i quote ''It is not what goes into the Man that defiles the Man but what comes out of him''

Just think of it, the same tongue you use in Praying ''communicating'' with your maker is the same tongue you use to lick sper.m or cum, these things are meant for reproductions not Ice-creams.

But because the world has gone A wire, if you must, please protect the tongue. I heard there are Tongue Condo.ms now, use it.

pls were can i buy one. ask the person who told u the place.asap

adexway:

Best advice. Can't recall any instance or tradition where bride price is ever refunded. When the lady left after five years did she leave as young and "intact" as she came into his life? And why was she bent on leaving, was Emenike another womanizer, has she suddenly realize that he can't father a child, was she gradually becoming a bread winner while Emenike laze around? There is more to the story than said. However, it's advisable that Emenike leaves the 20k and move on.

why do u want to know everything.culturally, they are suppose to return the bride price. cos if they don't, Emenike is still married to her and if any thing happens to Emenike she can still claim she was married to him. Moreover i have been in a customery court in Choba sometime ago, when two brothers of the same mother but different fathers were claiming ownership of their mothers estate. The judgement was center on who paid the womans bride price.

garyaustin:
The bride price is the consideration that makes traditional marriage valid and binding contract. It is generally known that bride price is the only returnable item in traditional marriage and most towns accept as little as 30 naira as dowry. The effect of bride price not returned is far reaching; 1 it means that the woman in question is still Emenike's wife. Any child she bears for another man is automatically that of Emenike although supreme court had ruled against it. 2 if the woman dies in this state, Emenike will bear the full responsibility since she is still the wife. 3 Emenike will not be able to marry another woman under statutory law because he has a subsisting marriage and may be guilty of bigamy and risk 7 years imprisonment. 4 if Emenike dies now, she can inherit properties as a valid wife of Emenike. There are so many reasons why Emenike must collect the bride price and he is adviced to do so as soon as possible once he is sure the marriage has failed. Collection of bride price back is a statutory requirement to end traditional marriage.

You are one in a million. i really learnt from your post.

andyanders:
If the guy is after the bride price, then he must be a very poor person to be after the bride price paid.How much of that money can change his life. Poverty.Maybe he is hoping to get money from them to now buy another lady.

guy you really need to grow up

pickabeau1:


for those who don't want to see and are harassing uncle for wanting his money back

thanks

rapthugx:
If returning the money is so important then he should try going through the traditional leader of the community before resorting to the court. My humble opinion.

he has done that, but the father said his daughter have everything to loss, that as long as he is alive no man would come for his daughter in marriage again.

Atigba:
The parents should return the pride price..it is cultural

As long as the bride price is not returned they are still married whether they live together or not.

Same with our culture

Please tell your friend to do anything possible to get his bride price returned

Without that they re still married

thanks for the encouragement

Spirit1:
I think people are missing the point here. Return of bride price in Delta - Igbo, as in most Igbo cultures has nothing to do with the money paid as dowry. Most times, this is only a few hundred naira.
The significance of return of bride price is that you are cutting off every relationship with your inlaw's as being part of your family. This is why the father Inlaw said that he will be his son Inlaw forever!!!

just like a said. the father-in-law is a nice man. he know the culture of the people. many nairalander know nothing about issues of culture.

folabayo1:
The man must be a sharp igbo man

do you have any problem with the igbos. for your info, emenike is a Rivers man married to a delta woman

kponkedenge:
What of all the nacking he gave her for 5 years, how does he intend to compensate her, if the father shuld pay back the bride price, the he shuld compensate her for all the sex he had wit her.

In another news

www.nairaland.com/2258274/face-santa-studio-male-version

5years of nacking without any child. who lost out in the marriage.

holatin:
forget the bride price, snap the woman, upload on olx.com and





















SELL HER !!!!!

bros, you harsh oh.

Ewuro4:

Uncle wan marry another oreke

its the other way round