chaircover (f) Re: Fathers Will Tears Familly Apart.
« #5 on: Today at 07:35:00 AM »

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Call a family meeting, pick the most vocal & most difficult relative, and in front of the rest of the family formally hand over all the documents/deeds of the properties. Tell the relative that the rest of the will stipulates that they must join the cult. Its then up to them.

just a quick question, didn't your father remarry?

yeah. he has a wife. just one girl outside my immediate family.

fellow naira landers, Am the first child (male) in a familly of (Two boys and a girl) my late father left behind his properties in my care. This i got to know through his lawyer. The Truth is that i don't want any piece of my fathers properties but, its has been willed to me. Am ok with what i have and am doing very well with my wife, i have asked the lawyer to rewill it to my younger brother who also refused.

The reason is because my dad belong to a cult group (ROC) which made my mum to leave him with her children 20yrs ago. In his will he said his first child must join the group and a clause that his properties must not be given to charity or his relatives.

We have managed all these years without him and his wealth. His relatives have vowed to deal with us if we give out his wealth to charity homes or anyone outside his relatives, which is exactly the options we have in mind if we accept it under pressure. The lawyer have insisted that my fathers will must be obeyed to the latter.

My Question is that, must my father's will be Obeyed.
why did he not get his properties to his fellow brothers in his group. Please i need good advice on this issue before my dads buried.

hi room. this discussion created so much argument that i thougth it wise for nairalanders to discuss. whom would you crucifer first. The man who robs with a gun or the politician who robs with this Pen, answers should be backed with reason.

Re: Is This Really Possible
« #2 on: Today at 03:30:34 AM »

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Hormones Baby, hormones! I am not a doctor or a nurse but I am a voracious reader, my love of reading has exposed me to lots. I have only come across two women that have had ceasation of their period. One has hormonal imbalance that sometimes causes her period to cease for months and when it returns, runs for weeks too. In the medical field such women are placed on hormonal treatments.
The second person that I have seen was suffering from leukamia. Your wife need to visit a doctor to check and be able to cross out these if they are not the cause. She should first undergo two more pregnancy test to be able to rule out pregnancy entirely before checking out on the others okay. Seek the advice of qualified doctors too they may have other takes to it. Hey where are the doctors in the house? we need you here now. I will recommend that while these tests are ongoing that she be including more of spinach (akwukwo nri) and Ugu to her meals, they are great sources of folic acid, I try to include them in my meal and when I do that I notice a great boost in my blood and my overall vitality. Do give her much support and love, she sure needs them at this time.



thanks advise taken.

park the car for sometime and see if his attitude will change towards you. if any question is asked, tell them it was on hire purchase and that u could not foot the balance so the hirer have taken it. that way you have sometime to look for another job while they celebrate your misfortune.

is it possible for a woman to miss her monthly cycle for two months and still not be pregnant. This is the situation i find myself. The pregnancy test we did in two different places was negative and yet she has not seen her cycle for months. is there any medical explanation to this.

I happen to be the judge in this very issue, a land lord increased his rent to what is abtainable within the vicinity. hell was let loose as all his tenant conveyed to the landlords residence. The house in question is well furnished, wardropes, kitchen cabinets, water heater and a very large packing space with flower lanes. compared to other houses within the area, i would say its the best. The landlord called me to be a witness. In the process of the discussion i told the tenant about my dad whose tenants pay half the rent within the area and yet one of his tenant toke him to court when he asked him to live because his family would be moving over since he has retired. I asked the tenants.

when is the right time for the landlord to increase his rent?
if the time is right, would you as a tenant tell the landlord to increase his rent.

The law gives so much rights to the tenant.

Hi all. am sending this post cos its really needs an argent reply. A friend of mine got married Nov 2008. Three months after had a fatal accident with his wife in 2009. Thou my friend came out ok but the wife since then had a broken limp. Not minding the disability she got pregnant

Her pregnancy lasted for about 10 months. Series of prayers was said for her before she delivered. In the prayer session the pastor said that her father inlaw is the course of her misfortune. she asked her husband not to tell his worried parents she has delivered that if he does she would know he does not love her. its 3 days now and my friend has not told his parent and he is so worried. do you support his wifes idea. what do u advice considering the problems this might cause if the parent hears it from someone else.

borrowing money from an ex is way too much for me to take as a husband. i will not allow her to take a ride in an ex car. To hell with such idea. i happen to meet an ex in a wedding i went with my wife. the ceremony bearly ended when my wife said we should go home. i refused cos i was part of the committee of friend. my wife never left myside ever since she saw the ex.

maybe u have to be careful not to miss your way. The cocanut tree you use in recognising your house may have been removed. na today people like u dey come back. quess what u may be surprise your people fit no get time for you. afraid ke afraid ni.

it irretates me to talk about it,

alcohol when taken moderately is good. even Our Lord change water to wine in the bible. no one can say if it is alcoholic or not. so moderation is the watch word. You guys want to put Nigerian breweries out of business. The unemployment rate would increase and other social vices would take over.

do u depend on her? if no' kick her out.

[b]My B/f Is Mad At Me Because Of My Innocent Dream
you girls have a way of telling guys stories b4 u actually begin. its now in a dream then d real action takes place. dream well. why did u not dream abt wht u think. dreams are reflections of your thoughts

April fool or not. there is a limit to april fool. this is way too far.

I believe kanti bello should be made to recite the national anthem

somegirls don deserve a pet name. maybe u should be called indomie or sphaggetti

fat; hmmmmm
not good at all. they grow old fast. No amt of mary kay would help

move on with your life. she is not your future wife. what happened to you has happened to me. mine is even worst. its so painful. i have gotten over it and by Gods grace u will also. forget abt her otherwise you would die silently with pain, my best advise is dat u keep it to yourself. u don owe ur friends any explanatin. silence would help u see clearly your mistake. with time u would be ok.

move on with your life. what happened to u is Gods way of telling u she is nt the right one. it has happened to me. mine is even worst. The embarrasement is too much to bear. my advice to u is to keep it to yourself. u don't owe your friends any explanation. u would end up been the laughting stock. i know its difficult to keep to yourself. pls try. its the best thing to do now. silence.

Things happen. what happened to u is even worst than  what happened to me. it bearly four days for my familly to go knocking. my fiancee have been sleeping with a security man for four years and i never know. God have a way of solving problems which u would never have known. forget her, u can never be able to live with it. You would be killing yourself silently. The best advice is for your to keep it to yourself. Your dont owe your friends any explanation. u would make yourself a laughing stock. am telling u out of experience. it has happened to me.

u better get help or your man would definitely go out side. marriage is for a lifetime. no make dat mistake oh cos na time bomb u dey set.

Shanice111: i think the best thing u can do now is to know how important u r to him. no second fiddle. tell him hw u feel and give him a definite stand. what do u really want yourself. The best advise is the one u give your self.