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Especially, any little thing ,they run to parents or friends. Its expected that issues are sorted out amicably in love than involving 3rd party.

ifyan:
The truth,you ought to add though we am not perfect.

1. Pride
2. Involving 3 parties
3. Etc

A man was reportedly kidnapped and forced to marry a woman at gunpoint in India.

Video clips circulating online show a man identified as 29-year-old Vinod Kumar appearing to be forced to perform wedding rituals in the Indian state of Bihar.

According to the Daily Mail, Kumar, a steel engineer, was abducted while attending his friend’s wedding. During the ceremony, a group of men reportedly seized Kumar and hauled him away before pointing a gun at his head shortly after.


http://livelystones.com.ng/indian-man-kidnapped-forced-marry-woman-even-cried/

Do not judge me please!

I am married and live in Ilorin with my husband and two girls. However,I have a son whom I had before I got married.

My Son lives with my mother in another part of the town in Ilorin and he is now a teenager. The story we told him was that I got pregnant for a boyfriend who didnt want the pregnancy. I was sixteen years old and we were both young and foolish.

http://livelystones.com.ng/how-do-i-explain-that-my-uncle-is-my-sons-father/

Dear ma,

Please I need help urgently before the worse happen in my marriage.
I was happy before i got married and even after the first two years things were still okay. But now I don’t know who I offended. I need your collective counsel and prayers to God to see me through this trying times.
Dave was one of my admirers and toasters when I finished secondary school. I actually didn’t accept though I liked him then,but I felt I was still young to get involved in any relationship that will distract me.I got born again shortly after my Jamb result came out. I was always in church because I needed a miracle to gain admission, hence I was always seeing the pastor after serve to remind him to pray for my admission, that was how my pastor and his wife took interest in me. When I gained admission to university we became very close and they were of immense support to me all through my university days. I graduated with a good grade, thanks so much to the man of God for always calling and reminding me of the reason I was in school. He and his wife were so encouraging.

I got a good job immediately I pass out from youth service. And six months down the line I met Dave in a fast food, we exchange numbers and before I new it, we were dating. In another six months he asked me to marry him and I gladly accepted. I was 24 years old then.
Excitedly I told my pastor the following Sunday. He, seems not happy from his expression, but then I cared less.


He requested to see Dave. I knew that was not possible because of his(Dave) personality. When I told him, he was upset, started venting all manner of things. saying what right has my pastor over me, is he my father, or am I having something with my so called pastor. That was how I stopped the church to prove to him I didn’t have anything to do with the pastor. I also stop answering my pastor’s calls.
We had our introduction and traditional marriage and I immediately moved in with him. One year later we had a son after which I started seeing strange behaviour, keeping late night, getting drunk and nagging about everything and anything became habitual. Sometimes, I hear things like your are unkept, not looking attractive and pretty any more, my food don’t taste well……etc


Things got worse when he lost his job. He is always drunk now....Read More



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Dear Lady,
Thank you for trusting us to provide you sound counsel .
First of all, God is not punishing you . You have to understand that life is governed by principle of which you either work by it or face the penalty.
Your pastor who brought you up academically and spiritually tried guiding you aright but you disobeyed. This may not have been the case if you had listen .
My candid advice is to reunite with your pastor first . Ask for forgiveness . He will join you in praying . The heart of a king is in the hand of lord. Make him a prayer point . Also forgive yourself. No matter how you blame your self , nothing will work out.

ORAGBON:
Dear ma,

Please I need help urgently before the worse happen in my marriage.
I was happy before i got married and even after the first two years things were still okay. But now I don’t know who I offended. I need your collective counsel and prayers to God to see me through this trying times.
Dave was one of my admirers and toasters when I finished secondary school. I actually didn’t accept though I liked him then,but I felt I was still young to get involved in any relationship that will distract me.I got born again shortly after my Jamb result came out. I was always in church because I needed a miracle to gain admission, hence I was always seeing the pastor after serve to remind him to pray for my admission, that was how my pastor and his wife took interest in me. When I gained admission to university we became very close and they were of immense support to me all through my university days. I graduated with a good grade, thanks so much to the man of God for always calling and reminding me of the reason I was in school. He and his wife were so encouraging.

I got a good job immediately I pass out from youth service. And six months down the line I met Dave in a fast food, we exchange numbers and before I new it, we were dating. In another six months he asked me to marry him and I gladly accepted. I was 24 years old then.
Excitedly I told my pastor the following Sunday. He, seems not happy from his expression, but then I cared less.


He requested to see Dave. I knew that was not possible because of his(Dave) personality. When I told him, he was upset, started venting all manner of things. saying what right has my pastor over me, is he my father, or am I having something with my so called pastor. That was how I stopped the church to prove to him I didn’t have anything to do with the pastor. I also stop answering my pastor’s calls.
We had our introduction and traditional marriage and I immediately moved in with him. One year later we had a son after which I started seeing strange behaviour, keeping late night, getting drunk and nagging about everything and anything became habitual. Sometimes, I hear things like your are unkept, not looking attractive and pretty any more, my food don’t taste well……etc


Things got worse when he lost his job. He is always drunk now....Read More



http://livelystones.com.ng/god-punishing-marriage-sins-servant/

Exactly .

No one does that.

She has made herself of less value to the guy.

alexistaiwo:
Will she die if she do the proposing?

Abeg who will go through the stress of buying the cow when the milk is free

Hello friends,

If you’ve been married for a while, chances are you’ve experienced some level of bedroom boredom. Like any often performed human activity, sx runs the risk of becoming routine and predictable. While we may choose from a variety of natural responses, if we really want to tackle this relationship challenge, it may mean stepping outside ourselves a bit and evaluating how we tend to respond. This is needed before we can craft our way forward to a what I will call sexual best practices.

http://livelystones.com.ng/enjoying-marital-sx-from-boredom-to-best-practice/

Hello friends ,

I am a 33 year old young Lady.I started dating Tom in September 2017. Things have been going strong and I expect that he would propose anytime soon. How do I know,well,he has been giving hints like,saying am his wife..that he is saving money to buy me a proper engagement ring,that our wedding will be the talk of the town,etc.

I love Tom,hes cool. The only problem I have started in late November. When we started to date,we used to meet in restaurants and sometimes in my place. Later,when I started visiting his place,it would be on Saturdays and Sundays. But in Late November,anytime I visited,Tom would ask me to help wash his clothes,plates,clean and other petty house work. I didnt like that. I was like taken aback so I limited going to his place just so I wouldn't have to force myself to clean and wash. I mean,we are just dating,now am washing and cleaning..when we get married,maybe that will be my full role.

Dont get me wrong,I am not being spoilt but there are ways of doing house chores these days. There is washing machine for instance. As for cooking and others,I feel I should not be obligated to do so as a girlfriend,only when we are married right?

http://livelystones.com.ng/i-really-want-to-get-married-this-year-but-is-this-a-deal-breaker/