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iLegendd:
20 Questions: A Submissive Woman Is the True Head of the Family

Here are 20 multiple-choice questions based on the write-up:

1. B (Zebra)
2. B (Competing with men)
3. B (He let's go of defense mechanism)
4. B (Samson)
5. B (Neck)
6. B (Ends the arguments peacefully)
7. B (Strong but unnoticed)
8. C (The submissive wife holds quiet power)
9. C (He will prioritize her needs,)
10. B (He was missed by his wives' feminine energy
11. B (The power of a feminine energy)
12. B (Her feminine energy and humility)
13. C "What do you bring to the table?" )
14. C (Respond with conflict)
15. A (A woman who competes with men)
16. C (Feminine energy)
17. B (Embrace their feminine energy)
18. B (A head and a neck)
19. B (He fears losing her respect)
20. C (Submitting to him and using feminine energy)


By the way, this does not mean you should tolerate a sadistic and wicked man!

iLegendd:
A Submissive Woman Is the True Head of the Family

If you understand ilegenddology, you'll silently devour this wisdom because in the nearest future, you will have to pay to gain access to it; especially in this "woke" era.

I was made to believe I was crazy but here is one of the greatest West Africans I know teaching people my default state of thought.

I literally collected a young girl's phone number this evening just because of her feminine energy, somehow my mother likes her. She once asked me if I liked the girl, I was surprised, my mother is finally becoming more open to topics like this.

Another crazy thing is, since I have realized how powerful this feminine energy can be, I'm always conscious so I don't become another Samson. Even my sisters that used to be so "aggressive" at times to me when we were kids, have now become angels when they're with me .

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The article or should I say book is so smooth, I like what you did boss.

silvoice:
Let me help you with answer to this question
If you are doing standard size 6 by 9, 12 point font, use between 1.15 and 1.25 never make your book 1.5
It's a book, not a class room project

I already did that, this warning came too late. It came out well though... Thank you.

CaveAdullam:
The angle that I have always viewed this feminine power is from the kitchen.

Women think that jokes that tie them to the kitchen are mere ridicule. However, it's a joke that connotes power.

You have power and hold the life of a person who eats your food. Either through the preparation of nutritious meals to elongate life or poisonous meals to end life. Food is power. And whoever is in control of the kitchen automatically controls your life.

That's why, as a man, selecting a good woman surpasses her physical looks. You must be cocksure about a steady character when choosing a woman. Because she can mince what you don't know inside your food and launch it like Israeli missiles into your stomach.

The most dangerous woman isn't the one who acts crazy and wants to form macho. But the quiet ones that revenge silently, when smiling to your face.

If a man wants to kill, he needs big muscles and weapons. He needs to be extremely manipulative and conniving.

A woman wouldn't go through that stress. For her, it's a matter of poisoning an aromatic meal and serving it seductively. Simple.

In that feminine hood holds a lot of surreptitious manipulative tendencies unknown to men. Women are as destructive as men albeit covertly and inconspicuously.

That's why you can't judge a woman's innocence from her looks. Know her back story, there's something behind it. Their innocence is deceptive - a necessary tool for survival.

Feminine women will always get the best of masculine energy provided they are smart. Men need their ego to be caressed; a woman who does that will win. If she is respectful + gentle + calm + clean + modest + wholesome, she can win the best of men.

Masculine energy is always soft and titillating toward feminine energy. She got the man under her bosom and lips.

The difference between this and simping is that the more she endears the man, the more he releases his masculine energy + the more he gets filled with her essence + the more she gets happy to be with the man, and the more her respect for the man increases.

Simping is attempting to please a woman who lacks respect for you. She is only there to exploit you. And you'll never enjoy that warm feminine sweetness. The man forcefully releases masculine energy, which is not replenished by feminine energy.

A woman can be like the other women her husband lusts after, and once she gets him hooked, she will be the only woman her husband wants to be with.

The problem with women is that they are too lazy to work. They have a natural charm they can use to enforce fidelity and commitment from their spouses but are too myopic and dumb to put it into practice.

It's easier for an average woman to access the world's richest or strongest man. Because at night, what he wants is a soft woman, not an intelligent or strong man.

Women need to get used to their power. But they can't and still need men to teach them, which will always be the case because they are lazy people.

Thanks.

This is perfect! I'll come back to watch the video but I gotta say this thought of yours was methodically crafted. Most women do not realize how powerful they are.

goran3310:
It's show time.

Natbrowny:
She asked you to send 2k. But u sent 1k.

U failed to fulfil ur part, send the remaining 1k balance and i promise you, she'll send the nude 4u.

TheBreastSucker:
This is one of the reasons why I'm careful of the girls I suck their breasts.

I avoid poor girls like a plague because I don't want to mistakenly suck in poverty genes and contaminate my ancestral family gene pool

Cousin9999:
Wasn't Kiyosaki broke until he started selling his fairytales on getting rich?

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Anywho, I haven't watched the video but this is a very interesting topic. I assume when he said "genetically," he meant the influences around you when growing up plays a crucial role on shaping your mindset. Our mindset is a critical weapon needed to achieve anything in life.

I was born poor, in an extremely poor family, but one thing that has helped and will make me a millionaire very soon is reading. I read anything 'readable' and allowed my curiosity and imagination obstruct those negative impacts around me.

By God's grace, I'll prove to the world that poverty is man-made and can be destroyed.

So much deep insights packed in this thread.

bestman09:
For the fact that he killed himself means that he's lazy to restart his life even when it seemed hopeless and his being selfish is because he thought about himself alone not minding the pain his aged mother and siblings will go through as a result of his actions. No parents will beat the death of a child talk less of the child taken his own life.
I pray for my children to succeed and I always counsel them about failure. As a human being, you can fail 10 times and rise again if you are determined to rise!

I pray your loved one never thought of suicide in times of problems

I understand your point, and I can't imagine the pain his loved ones must be going through; but all I'm asking is for us to protect vulnerable people like this young man. Let's cut off the neck of this problem before more people end up like this man. I know what exactly how he felt because I've been there.

I hate the fact that he ended up causing more pain to his loved ones but he was not lazy.

bestman09:
Take your frustrations elsewhere.
Why haven't you committed suicide? Or you have never been disappointed in life before or has everything been rosy for you all your life?
Like I said, the young man is a disgrace to the Igbo man. You put in your best in times like that and excel and shame those who thought you won't make it in life.
Wish you were the sister or mother of the man.

You called someone you know nothing about "lazy" and... what else did you even call him?

bestman09:
Selfish and lazy man that killed himself for nothing. I just pity the mother and siblings. I served for 8 years and wasn't settled because of an issue. Assuming I committed suicide then, who lost?

And there must be a reason why he was not settled! Some masters can actually be wicked and ruthless but if you keep your hands clean, you must be settled if you completed the agreed years no matter the amount.

Meanwhile, Igbo apprenticeship system goes beyond being settled by your master. If you are very diligent in the business, the knowledge, experience, connections and contacts you make will be able to take you far in life even if you were not settled!

You must be living an awfully sad life.

vanbonattel:
Suicide note without a body, fishy. Maybe a story to trend online.

Some of us who served the first master for 6 years and wasn't settled, and served the second one for 4 years with no hope had to enter Street and go into "oso affia" mode to make enough money to start our own nko?
Guys should toughen up, don't hope on anyone, those who hoped T-pain will settle them after robbing ballot boxes for him haven't committed suicide yet. They are still here on nairaland talking nonsense.

You sound like a coward for belittling another man's pain, suffering is not a competition! Why are we ignoring the neck of this problem but focused on the reaction? I'd rather cut off the neck so it doesn't hurt more people, thereby creating a broken society full of frustrated young men willing to do anything. That's why there are Igbo men foolish enough to push drugs despite the risk involved.

And people wonder why I have come to hate Nwaboi apprenticeship with every drop of blood in me? You see ignorant Igbos bragging about Nwaboi apprenticeship success while ignoring the dark side. No doubt Nwaboi apprenticeship was a genius invention but without being regulated properly, it has also birthed monsters. If it is not stopped or restructure, we will pay the price, a great price.

Before they start fuming on the mouth like a girl with convulsion giving a blowj0b, they better know that SuperOnyi was also a victim. I was so broken down, the idiots hoped I did something crazy or end my life, so they can rub it on my Momma's face. But guess what? I swore never to do that even even suicide was the only option, I don't know if I will live longer than Tupac, but I know I will live long enough to spit on their face and say "I told you PusSies!"

Never rest until you have your revenge, you did your best, man.

lonelygem:
National grid issues that has thrown the country into total darkness and unplanned shot down is fully restored at 4:20 am.

Kindly confirm your location and leave an update.

We are still in darkness here.

illicit:
Na d camel toe my eyes first see

Now I am looking at the nipples


Damn

🥺

Bruh, we're in this together , this is why Trump "grabs 'em by the p*ssy" . I once jokingly told a girl that dressed like this (she had gone far though) to give me her number and my mom said "You wanna bring me home a naked woman, huh?"

iLegendd:
I don't know o. A spirit just told me to blur it for blurring sake. Some amebos might contact her and send her a link to this post and she may decide to sue me. You know, nice guys always think telling a woman secrets will make her love them.

The screenshot is below but read this first.

What is a camel doing on between her legs and why is she showing the world the "property" of her man?

Anyway, my mother just came back from the hospital — I now have another daughter (niece). She has been telling me great things about my brother in-law and how he treats my sister so well, and how they both love each other. I'm praying that it continues that way.

I find it so absurd that they kept attacking ilegendd for saying something we all know is the normal — well, for normal people. My sister is a university graduate, EXTREMELY BEAUTIFUL, and strong. But somehow, this is not the definition of a strong woman 👇🏿👇🏿👇🏿

iLegendd:
You can give it a detailed prompt to generate the table of content and put them in chapters, then prompt it to write each chapter. You just need to watch some YouTube videos on prompt engineering or prompting for authors.

Thank you so much, boss. I know how to go about the prompts, Chatgpt is a friend of mine, we play a lot.

iLegendd:
That's the power bad boys have over women. Look at how he convinced her on his third attempt to lie against her husband, the father of her 3 kids, which I doubt he's the real father of all 3.

When I saw that news of a Canadian woman with drugs in Lagos airport, I just laughed and knew one bad boy from Nigeria that lives in Canada must be involved.

This is why men should make sure ex is out of the picture. Knowing that you had an ex is even a turnoff, but since it has become a culture, men had to let their egos down and settle with used products.

Women think we're happy? The tear rubbers our fathers and grandfathers enjoyed, we can't enjoy it anymore, yet they're laying false allegations and cheating on us. It's sad.

Yes, I do understand her family for standing with her at first because some evil men do such dastard acts, so I truly get it. But now that they know, they should better apologize and she should move in with the bad boy.

I agree. Some men just don't understand how easy it is to make a woman do crazy things for you, I began to understand that there was something crazy about the way I treated girls, I used to think I was doing something wrong until I came across your posts and other legends like Ubunja.

I was surprised someone was "teaching" people my default state and I was fooling around trying to be like the others . My sister was deceived by an ugly light skin Igbo man (not dissing my lovely sis) and she turned against everybody, going as far as bringing my mother's store to the ground to please this fat fool.

That's when i started getting a clearer picture: it's not just about the looks, there's more. A "bad boy" understands how human psychology works even without realizing. Just like, all of us feel confronted when someone looks us dead in the eye like a maniac. We don't need to read about psychology to know that.

iLegendd:
I haven't written any book with it, but if it's a topic you're good at, write it yourself and use ChatGPT for proofreading and some minor corrections.

I prompt it, do some research on Google, and then write my own content looking at Chagpt's, but I'm just too slow; I want to use it to generate contents now just to meet up with my target, then just do some "human touching."

iLegendd:
Even in this era of AI, some people are still lazy to read. If it looks too cumbersome, he could easily open his ChatGPT and give it a prompt that says: Read the text below out loud: paste your text and enter.

ChatGPT will refuse, then you click on the voice conversation button and speak into it by telling it to read the text in the chat.

It'll might refuse again, but persist and tell it to read it and it'll agree to give a summary, then tell it to give a detailed summary and it'll end up reading everything.

From there, you can start having a conversation with it from what it read or even ask for its opinion, solution and suggestions.

Some people are not really using this AI era to fast track their productivity. When Buhari called us lazy, I thought he was wrong.

Sir, what do you think of using Chatgpt as an author to write a book faster?

iLegendd:
My Wife and I Had a Misunderstanding and This Happened

Part 2 of "Treat Her as a Friends with Benefits Until She Does This" https://www.nairaland.com/8236941/treat-friend-benefit-until-she

This is why I told my mom that although she's my everything but there are certain times I will not do as she says because she's just too "Christlike," which is why everybody wants to step on her.

I don't blame the family of that woman for believing her, besides, they just did what any family would be for their own. God forbid but if I accuse someone wrongly, there's no way my family wouldn't have my back as they know me as someone that never lies. But come to think of it, that was a very serious allegation that could have gotten him locked up for a long time...

That woman is despicable and if I was her brother (God forbid ), she will totally lose my trust, SuperOnyi will personally persuade the husband not to get back with her.

His mother will end up ruining his life all in the name of "forgiveness."

tensazangetsu20:
I am not a conspiracy theorist but I am forced to believe that they are higher foreign powers aiding the destruction of Nigeria. Things are degrading too fast and it's very deliberate.

I swear this shit crossed my mind too.

Everyday247:
I drink plenty water and sleep well so that i can produce a lot of blood. Then i sell my blood on the dark web for quick cash. So i don't worry about savings.

Edited

The same changes I have always been on, but I took it a step further:
1. I quit my shittty job that did nothing to change my financial status but worsen it and my health.
2. I relocated to the countryside where I try to focus on making money online.
3. I have maintained my "no social media presence."
4. I'm also working on my mental health as it is one of the main reason I might end up unaliving myself.

By doing this, I will become a millionaire very soon with God by my side.