Politics › Re: DSS Chases #FreeSowore Protesters With Tear Gas And Gunshots (Video) by SUPOL(m): 9:33pm On Nov 12, 2019 |
Unprofessional Conduct |
Celebrities › Re: Alex Unusual And Yvonne Nelson Pictured Together In Ghana by SUPOL(m): 11:03am On Nov 10, 2019 |
Are they dating? |
Romance › Re: I cheated, Deep Down I'm In Pains. by SUPOL(m): 10:48am On Nov 10, 2019 |
You have not sinned against Man(or woman) but against God. If u can find Mercy from God Ur good to go. She has no business that |
Christianity Etc › Re: The Main Message Of The Bible: The Major Reason The Bible Was Written by SUPOL(m): 10:41am On Nov 10, 2019 |
FYI
JESUS IS THE LORD!!!!!
Incase u ve not heard it before. Some of these words ur doubting will be recounted to u on the last day. |
Crime › Re: Woman Stripped, Disgrace Over N200 Debt In Lagos (PHOTO) by SUPOL(m): 10:03am On Nov 10, 2019 |
There Should be orderliness in the society. I don’t do things anyhow |
Crime › Re: Police Officer Quarrelling With His Colleague For Stopping Motorists.video by SUPOL(m): 3:43pm On Oct 25, 2019 |
The funny thing is that the one with blue shirt is a sergeant and junior to the one with black who is a senior inspector of police. The sergeant is telling the inspector “I will change u in this place let’s bet it” Kai Nigeria is Finished!!! |
Christianity Etc › Re: Pastor Tears Bible And Feeds It To Church Members (watch Video) by SUPOL(m): 1:07pm On Oct 21, 2019 |
They’re Sheep ofcos |
Celebrities › Re: BBNaija: Mike Gets 1 Million Naira As Winner Of Lipton Sunshine In A Bottle Task by SUPOL(m): 3:16pm On Oct 20, 2019 |
Gentle man, konji for kee u inside that BB House |
Celebrities › Re: Mercy Eke Dazzles At Headies Awards 2019 by SUPOL(m): 10:14pm On Oct 19, 2019 |
What is beautiful about that dress? Immoral dress on immoral somebody TheGiftedOne: A beautiful dress on an immoral soul. |
Politics › Re: Governor Obaseki’s Convoy Accident: 7 Dead On His Way To AAU Convocation by SUPOL(m): 10:11pm On Oct 19, 2019 |
promotervickky: Take a look at this photo all of you who is saying the governor's convoy did wrong! What is the Audi doing at the hilux lane? Don't you see that the Audi left its lane and came to the hilux lane? Check! this the pothole
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Politics › Re: Governor Obaseki’s Convoy Accident: 7 Dead On His Way To AAU Convocation by SUPOL(m): 8:40pm On Oct 19, 2019 |
These are the pictures
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Politics › Re: Edo APC Suspends Lawrence Okah As Secretary by SUPOL(m): 7:37am On Oct 19, 2019 |
Proud n Arrogant Non-entities from that state |
Politics › Re: Sadiya Umar Farouq Visits Onitsha Fire Outbreak Scene - Photos by SUPOL(m): 7:35am On Oct 19, 2019 |
No be this woman wey dem say Baba wan Marry? |
Christianity Etc › Re: Man Attempts To Kill Prophet TB Joshua With Charms In Church - Joshua Ministries by SUPOL(m): 1:35pm On Oct 16, 2019 |
Power dey pass power naa |
Nairaland General › Re: Headies 2019: Here Is The Full List Of Nominees by SUPOL(m): 4:55pm On Oct 04, 2019 |
I no see my name, what happened? |
Autos › Re: Cheap Toyota Avalon 2002 by SUPOL(m): 2:19pm On Oct 04, 2019 |
How much |
Family › Re: My Niece Said My Husband Got Her Pregnant by SUPOL(m): 2:39pm On Sep 27, 2019 |
Ayotemide: It would soon come home for you; I hope you can take your own advice when it does. I am a Man, that won’t happen. |
Family › Re: My Niece Said My Husband Got Her Pregnant by SUPOL(m): 7:40am On Sep 27, 2019 |
Agneseze: I can’t sleep , i am so depressed right now . I am writing this with tears in my eyes
I have been married for 13 years , and my husband and I have 4 children together. Everything was going well in my family until my niece came to live with us. She is 19 years old
She became close to my husband, but I never thought they were having an affair. I didn’t see anything going on between them to make suspect them. She was respectful to him.then I observed that she was not looking right and complaining that she was ill. I asked her what the problem was, she said nothing. Then a few days later after she was not feeling well, I told her i should take her to the doctor but my husband offered to take her. I still didn’t take that to mean anything.
My husband took her to the doctor. When she came back , she told me that the doctor said nothing was wrong with her. Then a few days after when I was at work , she packed her bags and went back to her mother. She told her mother that the doctor said she is pregnant. It was my husband who got her pregnant and he wanted her to do an abortion, but she was afraid. Her mother said when she came to live with us she was a virgin, but my husband took her virginity.
My husband calls her a liar. He said that he never had sex with her. I can't look at him, I have nothing to say to him and all he wants to do is hold my hand and kiss me, and try to manipulate me into bed. But I am worried , because my husband is respectable man and is well known. I don’t know what to believe. What should I do please Madam take care of the girl and the child, children are blessing, and u must stand by ur husband. Don’t put him to shame but let him not repeat the error. May God help u with Wisdom, Amen |
Celebrities › Re: OFFICIAL: Yemi Alade Signs Deal With Universal Music Group (see Photos & Video) by SUPOL(m): 2:43pm On Sep 10, 2019 |
Fine Spoilt geh |
Autos › Re: 1999 Honda CRV For Sale by SUPOL(m): 3:59am On Sep 07, 2019 |
What’s d mileage |
Autos › Re: 2008 Kia Cerato For Sale by SUPOL(m): 3:55am On Sep 07, 2019 |
What’s the mileage |
Autos › Re: Lexus Rx 300 900k by SUPOL(m): 4:54pm On Aug 30, 2019 |
swimnigeria: Sound Engine Sound Gear Neat Lether Interior Alloy wheel and new 4 tyres Well Maintained
Going @a GiveAway... Call or WhatsApp... 08144523044. whats d mileage |
Politics › Re: Daura Residents To Buhari: "We Only Have Light When You Are Around" by SUPOL(m): 2:27pm On Aug 14, 2019 |
It’s not true |
Politics › Re: ”I Want To Return To Nigeria” – El-zakzaky Cries Out by SUPOL(m): 2:24pm On Aug 14, 2019 |
Abeg remain there |
Politics › Re: Shiites: El-zakzaky Laments In India, Wants To Be Flown Back To Nigeria by SUPOL(m): 2:21pm On Aug 14, 2019 |
This man should stay one place naa, we have enough issues to handle over here. He should learn from NNAMDI KANU who is now on exile. |
TV/Movies › Re: Sky News Reports On Khafi Having Sex In BBNaija House by SUPOL(m): 1:46pm On Aug 13, 2019 |
BBC
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Romance › Re: Help! I'm Emotionally Wrecked! by SUPOL(m): 10:11am On Aug 12, 2019 |
pansophist: My young bro, take heart. The sad truth is, she has found someone better, and you should accept it even if you do not feature in the picture. It's about emotional maturity and letting this just be.
Your next step is to give yourself time, as time has a way of healing things. You'll pass through it, and you'll like yourself better after this. I experienced something you passed through when I was 18, and felt even worse than you, but I was naive, innocent, and didnt understood the timeless truth of female nature, keeping attraction, and stimulating the relationship sustainably. Looking back those times, I could see clearly the mistake I made, and I've refined myself to a point that such could not happen again. And in the unlikely scenario that it does, well, a replacement is around the corner. You should do the same.
It seems to me that your relationship with her is your job, you specialized in loving her and treating her as the best thing, while ignoring your own personal growth. Listen attentively, women DO NOT want to be your goal. They want to be part/beneficiary of it, not the goal. You treated her nice and gave her everything to the best of your ability and probably didn't focus on your growth, and compete with other men in the free world.
You were too available, making you appear as someone with female scarcity, with no option and not a real catch. Also, pursuing her even after her formal declaration for relationship withdrawal is something that men with no options do. You cannot beg a woman into a relationship with you, it's an instant attraction killer. You attract and keep her with the lifestyle you've built for yourself, and the man you've developed yourself to be.
Remember the biblical story of when God told Adam (after eating the forbidden fruit from Eve), that henceforth he would toil the ground for food and survival, and cursed Eve that she will suffer doing child birth? The true meaning of this story is that as a man, you have to be out there hustling, pursuing your goal and fulfilling your dreams, as no woman want to be for a man that is not out there toiling the ground.
She dont want to cry during child birth for man with no purpose, and be amother to his kids. Whether you believe in this story or not, you may comb any other religion, culture, science, and just observe the world around you, you would see that your value as a man is by being resourceful. You're almost depressed (that's if you're not), because you are not pursuing things in the real world that would make her wonder why you do not call her always, that even if she breaks up with you, you're too busy achieving and breaking through to even feel an inch of her jilting you.
That even if she breaks up with you, in the back of mind, she knows there are younger and far beautiful women out there waiting to take her place, and will question herself if she can get a man in the same calibre as you. Do you think Davido will be worried if Chioma decides to leave him? Davido will laugh at her because he knows that she will be dead lucky to meet a man in his status, and she knows this as well. In every relationship, many young boys are clouded with feelings and love without understanding the power dynamics that is ever present and playing in the background.
I hope you get well, but remember this, you will never loose women chasing money (interpret it as goals, achievements, purpose etc), but you'll always loose money chasing women. Goodluck young man. bro I need ur contact. |
TV/Movies › Re: #BBNaija: Gedoni And Khafi Kissing Each Other While Other Housemates Are Playing by SUPOL(m): 6:30am On Jul 31, 2019 |
Officers n se’x shaa |
Politics › Re: No Doctor On Duty As Borno Gov Visits Hospital Midnight by SUPOL(m): 6:27am On Jul 31, 2019 |
They’re afraid of boko boys |
Celebrities › Re: Bbnaija: Topless Photo Of Venita by SUPOL(m): 6:25am On Jul 31, 2019 |
I don’t have respect for people with tattoos on there skin. They look irresponsible n “cheap” |
Politics › Re: "The Real Boko Haram That We Know Has Been Defeated" - Garba Shehu by SUPOL(m): 6:23am On Jul 31, 2019 |
Well let them release LEAH SHARIBU |
Politics › Re: Abba Kyari: Atiku Is Cameroonian In 'Flesh & Blood'. COS To Election Tribunal by SUPOL(m): 6:22am On Jul 31, 2019 |
None of them is a true Nigerian, including the one talking. |