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Am happy for this man oooh
At last he finally God finally uplift him
Congratulations to the new oyo state governor in advance
He's sure of winning
He's the man of the people

tell him how u feel

I am in need of a driving job that pays well, I will appreciate if you can connect me with companies. I have 10 years of driving experience and my drivers license is up to date

[b][/b] Always remember that cutting off head is not the medicine for headache [color=#000099][/color]

afanide:
Men dont look out for those things any more

am very sure you still look for some of these today

Sayelabola:
This OP is looking for our trouble...

op?

[quote author=surhaj post=51692774][/quote]7 Don't Over-react

We talked about staying in shape, and building a solid body of muscle requires that you eat quite a bit. However, those that aren’t lifting weights will want to avoid pigging out most of the time. Stuffing your face not only makes you look like a slob, but it is also a red flag to a woman that you’re going to be not so slim in the future.

You can still eat all of the foods you like, but not every meal has to be a buffet. Unless you’re dealing with a competitive eating groupie, women don’t particularly find themselves attracted to constant overeaters. Seriously, though, there are competitive eating groupies out there.

8 Be Willing to Cook at Least Three Times a Week

I wish I knew where things had taken a turn for the worst in terms of women’s progress, but apparently the domestic ability of being able to feed yourself without ordering takeout or putting some TV dinner in the microwave has fallen by the wayside.

9 Stop Hoarding Guy Friends

9 out of 10 of your guy friends just want to sleep with you anyway. Men know how other men think. The first guy that comes to comfort you after a big fight will also be the first one to say “he’s not good enough for you” in order to sabotage the relationship, and then he’ll be the first one to try to get into your pants after he convinces you that your man is a creep. It’s not about having trust issues. It’s about knowing how people act. Trust is earned, not immediately granted.

10. Pre-Emptive Answering To Counterargument Sound Bites:

A. “You don’t speak for every man out there.” These attributes operate on a bell curve, and more men sit underneath the curve than amongst the outliers. Obviously not every man wants every single trait on here, but the less that you deviate from the standard the more “marketable” you are.

B.“That goes both ways.” Nice observation. You are fully at liberty to have the same standard(s) for the men you date. You should write an article about it.

C. “Don’t tell me what to do or how to be.” You can take all of this with a grain of salt for all I care. I am just giving you some insight into the minds of men once the filter has been taken off.

D. “My boyfriend loves me just the way I am.” “I don’t have XYZ, and I have lot of men chasing after me.” Good for you. Everybody settles in some aspect. Holding out for the partner that is perfect in every way is a fool’s errand. He has simply learned to accept your faults. Stop deluding yourself. The thirst is strong these days. A saying I heard less than a week ago was, “If you have standards, you’re just cock-blocking yourself.” Some men will take whatever they can get.

E. [Insert random hostile comment that attacks me directly.]” Ad hominem. Debate the ideas presented. You will be more productive that way.

F. I would do this, but….” You can rationalize it all you want. It still doesn’t detract from what men want. You can’t argue someone into finding you attractive.

[quote author=surhaj post=51519116]here are the tips


1. Stay in shape

Men don’t want bag of bones nor do they ant a woman who looks like she is smuggling beach balls. I suggest 3-4 times a week of cardio-esque activity regarding your diet. You do not need to starve yourself, you do not need those greasy chips either

2. Lay off the body modification

Men gravitate to natural hair colour, tasteful and coverable tattoos [if any at all] and piercing that are out of control and all over the place

3. Make your own money

When it comes to money,men really couldn’t care less if you have the whole list, but you need to be making enough so that you are not a financial drain on him. If you make more than him, more power to you, just refrain from throwing it in his face like some form of one-upmanship

4. Sex Life

Men want a woman that has a healthy sex drive and few past sexual partners. That means that you and your past boyfriend had a lot of sex. It does not mean that you were the town bicycle. Life isn’t fair. Get used to it. The average men will never see that many women anyway. Men also do not want a woman that leverages sex as a way to get what she wants. That is a pretty good indicator that she really is not all that interested in sex [with him] in the first place.

5. Be Intelligent

No man wants a woman that cannot flex her mental muscles

6. Be childfree

This is kind of the not-so-secret secret. Men don’t want instant families, nor do they want the ultimate form of cuckoldry that is raising another man’s child. This goes double if you have multiple children and/or if your children are biracial. It does not matter if your child’s father was abusive, a deadbeat, a good man, or hit by a bus tragically. The bottom line is that you have a child, and it does not belong to the eligible bachelors out there

to be cont.

this one will dump you once she notice you're broke, think deep bro

here are the tips


1. Stay in shape

Men don’t want bag of bones nor do they ant a woman who looks like she is smuggling beach balls. I suggest 3-4 times a week of cardio-esque activity regarding your diet. You do not need to starve yourself, you do not need those greasy chips either

2. Lay off the body modification

Men gravitate to natural hair colour, tasteful and coverable tattoos [if any at all] and piercing that are out of control and all over the place

3. Make your own money

When it comes to money,men really couldn’t care less if you have the whole list, but you need to be making enough so that you are not a financial drain on him. If you make more than him, more power to you, just refrain from throwing it in his face like some form of one-upmanship


to be cont...

hello ladies and woman, some weeks back i came across something like this, although the issue got to another level between this woman and her husband, sincerely speaking, the husband has divorce that woman as am talking to you right now, for the sake of friendship, i don't want to hear such things from a friend again in life, that's why am sharing a little out of my experience

Haaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaahaaaa yoruba people wicked enh
Aye ma roll bi cd, lol its very funny

monshow25:
the size is 10gb+ and the 2.0 patch is 600mb

Gbam!
On top say I wan play game, that is hell

what size is it abeg, is it up to 3gig?

ElsonMorali:
If the two of you are 18 and above, look or two friends of yours as witnesses and approach the court and get married.

I sure hope you can cater for the lady and the unborn child though. Otherwise let your family help out where they can.

Life is sacred. Defend it.

God will help me,thanks ;Dthanks guys for the good and bad advises

STENON:
If you Love her... Go and do the necessary things for her family.

the thing they want me to do is abortion, and i can't

omega25red:
see your statement here is the problem. you have a fiancee who you didn't marry and probably can't marry right now maybe due to financial issues and you are having sex raw. God will provide indeed but you need to provide as well. you have to have a job and work hard and have enough money to care for the baby. Bread and honey has not fallen from heaven since the biblical days so saying God will provide

you might come back and say you have money and means to which i will say instead of running away, marry her now so her family can simmer down. A condom is not that expensive use it. God will not stop you in the street and put money in your pocket.


sorry if i seem harsh but for real people need to stop making decisions that complicate your lives.

Her family didn't want that, all they want is abortion, we can now proceed with wedding activities after that abortion, THAT'S WHAT THEY WANT, and she has been sent out of the house yesterday

[b][/b] left to me, it's absolutely rubbish for a lady, yes rubbish[color=#990000][/color]

what should i do to avoid all these, she was sent out very late in the night yesterday, do i still wait and look till something happen to her?

Blendoscarz10:
surhaj or whats your name...pardon me, its like your crazy ooo....how can you, you no get money na im you go give girl belle...dey talk say God go provide

you be olodo, agbalagba no dey use all him mouth talk, na proverb dem dey call that

jashar:

Please be strong. 

Don't abort.

Are you financially buoyant? 

If yes, rent a place for her.

If no, beg your parents or siblings 

to let her stay

With them. 

that is the more reason i seek advise, hope that won't put me into danger?

eyinjuege:
OP, pls how old are you, and how old is your girlfriend?

What vocations are you both involved in?

Do you both work or non of you does?

am working, she's about to start her hairdressing shop

carmag:
you impregnated someone's daughter without formal introduction to her family and you think you are cleaver...continue

i need advise dude

Loyalblak007:
Can you care for her till and after she gives birth?

Her parents might involve the police...that you kidnapped her

God will provide, she is my life and that baby inside her is my blood

you be bad guy

[b][/b]abeg,am having a very serious problem wey i need advise on what to do
My fiancee is pregnant for me and her family said she must abort it, she's scared and totally depressed right now, she don't want to abort it and i don't support it either,we are now thinking of running away from them for now till she gave birth, its just 2months now, what should i do?

I was told noun request only ssce result, how true is this?

this is kinda funny and serious, i feel her pain oooh but we need to be sure of something, is this message real or advice to people

lol

google go answer her the best

its no big deal bin a virgin and its no big deal for those that turn their ******** to their source of income, everyone has his/her own life to live, but remember you wont be able to face the public like this on this matter whenever you are bin disvirgined

SkinnyDude:
lol. ya, i know this girl who i was romancing. she was saying STOP STOP STOP while holding my CHAIRMAN and stroking it..

That means its time for u to insert your Sim card into her phone and start chatting