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Romance › Re: How Has Your Childhood Trauma Shaped Your Adult Love Relationships? by SUVs: 8:53am On Jul 30, 2023

Though I started experiencing my it in my early teens; I was always escaping sexual abuses...thanks be to God who never allowed it to transcend from sexual harassment to sexual abuse...before finding one way or the other to stop it....there are times I have ignorantly allowed adult ladies and guys to touch and grope me inappropriately, or carresses, they jokingly call you their husband, for the guys, takes a special liking to you, favor you and do other stuffs for you...all in a bid to gratify their cravings, what do I know...was very very ignorant....I don't wanna talk of how I escaped sodomy several times from these guys when we relocated to Asaba......

Mehn, all of these impaired my impression about sex and relationship, even my self-esteem.

I became very suspicious of every person who has an interest in me.
Once someone shows an interest in me, male or female, weather for friendship or relationship, the first thing that occurs to me is that their interest is basically a sexual interest.

So I kinda unconsciously built a 'do not approach' atmosphere that tend to chase people away from me, I became so introverted and timid...the list goes on and on.

I do really hope to snap out of it, because for sure, that is not what I was as a kid...but my teenage experience impaired my personality so much. God help me.

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Romance › Re: What’s Your Pretty Privilege Story ? by SUVs: 8:24am On Jul 30, 2023

GodWrites:
I was born ugly though. Thanks to puberty.

🤣😂😂 this part got me, I can relate well. Apart from when I was still a toddler, I don't wanna lay my eyes on any of my childhood pics even the ones taken in school...omo I wowo eh...like hausa children...but thanks to growth and puberty...I have enjoyed a lot of compliments on my looks 😁😁

Jobs/Vacancies › Re: Can You Work As A Manager In A Company That You Experience In. by SUVs(op): 4:46pm On Jul 29, 2023

Meerahbel:
Yes you can
Adapt
Overcome

Thank you

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Jobs/Vacancies › Can You Work As A Manager In A Company That You Experience In. by SUVs(op): 11:51am On Jul 22, 2023

Good day guys, I trust you all are doing well. If you can afford at least 2 square meals in Nigeria, you're definitely doing great 👍 grin

. Thank God for that.

Uhmm, I just wanna know; as a job seeker, I updated my LinkedIn profile and included manager position as one of the jobs I seek. My only experience as a manager is in a business sector ( electronics) specifically.

So the opportunities popping up in my profile are showing Manager positions in other sectors like ICT companies, construction companies, production and marketing companies, real estate and so on. Usually, managerial skills entails more of good and effective communication and good management of human and other resources for effectiveness in the company.

Now my question is, can one work as a company's manager even though he does not have a clue of what the business entails...like manage a construction company even if you don't have a clue in construction business..or s

Pls I need your opinions.

Literature › Re: The Greed Of Nairaland Writers! by SUVs: 7:59pm On Feb 17, 2022

I'm interested and also an aspiring writer, if you will, give me an opportunity to an experience

Literature › Re: Nairaland Writers, How Are You Mentally? by SUVs: 7:43pm On Feb 17, 2022

Yeah, its really not easy... I recall starting a story here on NairaLand, with my other account..The masked love if I could recall correctly.
The comments and positive vibes from my readers were there..I was encouraged and intrigued to write on...but these positive vibes, encouragements and intrusion was rattled by the fact that this does not help me financially...I write for hobbies, it's my passion but since it is time-demanding and time is money, I kind of find it a bit less rewarding.
Take it or leave it, an average Nigerian is committed and concerned only with things that will fetch him money.
So as rightly stated by Divipen..the lack of financial rewards to the writers is a contributing factor.

Additionally, with the intense hardship, evils and countless woes that betides the citizens of the nation in the past few years, i doubt if there will be anyone interested read stories here on nairaland, supposing a writer writes out of enthusiasm, cos we're all distracted and depressed by the hardships and happenings in our society...just speculating, though.

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Crime › Re: Isreal, Delta Community Chairman Rapes 12-Year-Old Girl At Gunpoint by SUVs: 7:13pm On Feb 17, 2022

Karlovych:
What kind of nonsense is this? Igboland again!!

So childish... this style of spiting Igbo people no longer work...step up

Romance › How Should I Tell Her That Am Not Interested Without Hurting Her. by SUVs(op): 8:36am On Jan 19, 2022

Good day fellow Nairalanders...this is almost my first post with this account, for those who might want to check out my profile. There's no profile pics yet.

So I used to be...or still an introvert right from secondary school days; I've seen a lot of diva and beautiful girls who had a great impression on me, but had never been able to approach any to declare my intention, maybe because am an introvert or I haven't met the one whom my love for her is strong enough to make me break off from my shell.. i cant tell...for the mean time, all I've always been was a distant admirer and a discrete crusher.

In my secondary school days not much girls took notice or slightest intrest of me except my then best friend who is a girl....and some of younger sister's girlfriends who frequent our home....which is the reason why am mostly in the position of a crusher and crush to very few.

But in my university days, some very good factors (that I wouldnt want to mention, to avoid publicity) has put in a high intense spotlight and coupled with the fact that my looks has improved immensely due to proper grooming and packaging....I am now crush to a lot.

Nonetheless I've not been in any relationship yet, but am kind hemed in by girls who keep making advances...you know what I mean...there is this particular one that keeps on trying hard... doing some favours..i did not ask...calling and texting every morning.. true...true she's a very good girl...but not my spec for a relationship.. u understand.
Time will not permit to tell she has done to make me give her a chance...and I keep pretending not to notice the green lights... but that pretence will only be for a moment b4 she either concludes that am gay or very insensitive.

I've made her one of my best friends, but she wants more than that and she is making it very obvious....and it pains to to see her exerting a lot of efforts that I know will no not have any effect.. I need to make her stop wasting her energy...but i'm in lack of how to do this politely without hurting her....

Relationship experts over to you.

Front Page if Possible.
Thank you.

Celebrities › Re: Shatta Wale Accuses Bourna Boy Of Multille Sexual Crimes While In Ghana by SUVs: 7:23am On Jan 03, 2022

and Nigerian youths are modelling after these dumplings... Spits...God have mercy.

Celebrities › Re: The Misguided Hate On Nigerian Rich Kids - Opinion by SUVs: 5:10pm On Dec 30, 2020

Omihanifa:
The hate and jealousy is simply because of the high poverty rate in the country coupled with the fact that most of these rich kids parent are part of the people that destroyed the country.

They are part of the people that contributed to the rot in the system

So Nigerians are automatically transferring that hate to their children.

How do you expect people not to hate somebody like kiddwaya that was busy bragging on bbnaija that he spent 3.1 million naira to charter a private jet that took him to Lagos for the show.

In a country where people are dying of hunger and there's extreme poverty you sef think am.

And for somebody like Davido, his own hatred is even self inflicted ( I feel he talks and displays to much information on social media)

Only a Davido will buy a car and be videoing how they are offloading the car inside his compound and still tell you that he paid 120million for it.

In other for these hatred to reduce some of these Rick kids should learn how to be conservative, it not everything they should be saying on social media. this is Nigeria where hunger and poverty is endemic and a lot of people live for the day

Travel › Re: Driver Loses Control And Kills A Child In Anambra (Photos) by SUVs: 4:27pm On Dec 30, 2020

Rest in peace

Crime › Re: 85-Year-Old Man Rapes And Impregnates 12-Year-Old Girl In Osun by SUVs: 4:56pm On Dec 28, 2020

Ethanuella:
How many more years does he even have to live? Somebody that can die tomorrow if he's imprisoned today.

Before castrating the werey, four people should dip their toes into his an us for 8 hours. He should afterwards be tied to a moving waste management van and dragged for about 1000km after been left in the hot sun for 7 hrs.

Idiot! Even if he has less that a week to live, he should suffer small.

An 85yo to a 12yo? Ha! Aye Le o

aaaaiish, though he deserve the punishment u re suggesting for him, bt bro take this from me....."you have a dark soul' cry

Ethanuella:
How many more years does he even have to live? Somebody that can die tomorrow if he's imprisoned today.

Before castrating the werey, four people should dip their toes into his an us for 8 hours. He should afterwards be tied to a moving waste management van and dragged for about 1000km after been left in the hot sun for 7 hrs.

Idiot! Even if he has less that a week to live, he should suffer small.

An 85yo to a 12yo? Ha! Aye Le o

aaaaiish, though he deserve the punishment u re suggesting for him, bt bro take this from me....."you have a dark soul'

Phones › Re: You Are Actually Giving Away Your Personal Data When You Copy And Paste It by SUVs: 4:59pm On Oct 14, 2020

Smartdepotng:

https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=Q2oYl0pMSjg

I wish smartphones have clipboard access permission but they don't have, once you copy anything (it goes into the clipboard) it is a public access area - almost every app in your phone can access, read and copy the information in your clipboard. It's like anything uploaded to the internet via http, it can be accessed by anyone who wishes to have the information.

Let me make it simple - Stop copying and pasting sensitive personal information in your phone like email, passwords, credit card details, bank accounts etc.
Your phone clipboard is a public access area and any app can collect and use any data in the clipboard.
Check out how to go about it securely in this Video...

https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=Q2oYl0pMSjg

plshow do I access my clip board

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