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SirLewis:
You're probably older than this guy sef. Shouldn't you be thinking about your own future and not be obsessing on someone who has no idea about your existence?

seriously

flokii:
LMFAO

@OP una two resemble tortoise...

lol

HumbledbYGrace:
you just gave up on me abi? Oya kontinu, God is watching in 10D.

God,where in d world re u,pls can u send in ur pin or whatsapp number,re u still in south africa

HumbledbYGrace:
you just gave up on me abi? Oya kontinu, God is watching in 10D.

God,where in the world re u,pls send in ur pin or whatsapp number,re u still in south africa

Penisinpenisout:
Seriously, why would anyone wanna look like a tortoise?

God,why hatred now

morganacanta:
Uglier version .yep

nawa o,u can yab o

Freemanan:
Whats all these?
You look sick sir.

lolz

Estharfabian:
In other words, She should wait for A Non-Virgined dickhead masking in the name of ''Husby" to come rob her of that pride?? seriously?


isn't that A little Irrational?? hypocritical? lame?
You should advise girls on Sleeping around rather than saying Virginity makes A woman Complete! It's Hogwash!

if A lady is over 26+ and Isn't married and just maybe, she happens to have A Boyfriend whom she loves and adores, I don't see why she shouldn't go for it!? What if she doesn't wanna get married? she should remain a virgin till she dies? Aba! Marriage isn't meant for everyone!


the main thing's do what Makes You happy and don't be too slutty in the process! life's way too short!

Please and please! do away with those old-fashioned Mentality!

thank u. Dear,u hit d. Nail on d
Head

jamex93:
Tank God I get backup

naso en dey happen jare

jamex93:
If u tell her finish she go con send u her account details say make u prove all u have said

lol,true

LordVoldemort:
Have you not read the full write up? He never said idanre is in Akure, please pick up your Glasses and read again.

As For idanre hills, nearly jump off the hills when I was small cos I believe I was superman. Special thanks to my brother for beating the shit outta of me that day.

na God really save u o

sonnie10:
A girl told you she was traveling and you took her to several of her ATMs without any withdrawal made. What does that tell you? She just did not have any money in her account. Her expectations were; (1) She wanted you to use your own ATM to get some money for her (2) She just wanted the money and probably was not even traveling (3) If she was actually traveling, she felt entailed to some pocket money from you. To some girls, they just don't know how to openly beg for money. You should be able to decode some of these things. Since you could not satisfy any of those, that incident was the last straw that broke the ox's back.


But if you ask me, I will say you did not do enough. From what you have listed so far, for a guy that owns a private car to complain, when you have only bought:

1) A packet of sugar
2) A tin of milk
3) Recharge card once or twice
4) A plate of rice

Why do you feel entitled to anything from these few things you mentioned? Bros, you can do better before claiming ownership abeg. If she was you sister how would you feel? abi you want to reap where you did not sow? Before you saw her and liked her, someone must have been maintaining her to be that presentable.

thank u jare,word

bellville:
Run as far as your legs can carry you. If your legs fail, take a bike. My uncle had this kind of wife- very diabolic and wicked. I can relate with the scenario you described. She made him lose his job and dignity.

My uncle left with his three kids. Thanks to family members who took custody of the kids till he was able to find his feet.

shame

ajuwarhodes:
Problem is I don't have such up bringing,such words are usually heavy for me to say.but ur advice will be taken o,cos am fed up, my problem again is that I don't want my kids to see such

hmmmm,abusive relationship again!!!,what. Re. U still waiting for,will. U like it to physical abuse before. U opt out,cos seriously,verbal abuse always leads to dat

madepearl:
my broda the bible supports divorce on account of adultery,your wife does not deserve you,plsss take your daughter witout her knowledge nd relocate to a place she cant find you,infact dnt tell any1 where you are going.start a new life nd care for your daughter.if u love your life nd dat of your daughter.she mit not kll u physically,but gradually physcologically.plsssssss runnn.i lost a cosuin and a friend in death to dis tin u are facing, because dey refused to listen.family members and pastors dnt knw wat u pass tru,dey will only cry wen u die nd forget u within few months.and your wife will be happier nd her life continues.pls run for your life nd your little daughter

good advise

waley007:
I have done that several times yet she will keep disturbing me again and still won't change

I. Think she still ve some feelings for u

MzCorleone:
Eleyi gidi gan! :O


You are married to a physically,emotionally and spiritually crazy woman. To avoid stories that touch,save yourself and your daughter by divorcing her because that woman maybe the death of you. There is no need for counselling,family meetings or pastor's pleadings.

Take your daughter and yourself for serious deliverance.

Run!


Run!!


Run!!! And never look back before it gets to late

My2shillings

Word!!!,he who has ears,let. Him hear

pogolowa1:
Bros dont mean to be rude but your wife has a mental proboem.

yeah I think,seriously

Toks2008:
We are on the same page on this.

Many people can lie...Some ladies have fallen for ritualistic man all in the name of business man and many ladies have said YES I DO to a monster.

learning

Toks2008:
Nope, first date is just for peripheral familiarity but before you allow yourself to start developing strong feelings please investigate very well and don't just fall for cheap talks.

good talk

haibe:
Most stupid thread ever

I'm telling u,vry vry silly thread

lolaluv1:
You seem controlling....

I think na only me dey see am ni

Oliviaarims:
To begin with, I doubt ur gf 's cheating on u. U guys have been dating for two years, yeah? That's some good time. Perhaps, she's gotten a bit bored.. It's a phase, don't worry. But the sad thing seems to be that this friend of hers is feeding her with trash. She wants to explore other options now. I think she's even attracted to one of those her numerous admirers. It happens sometimes.


Her recent attitude's just an affront. She's allowing those guys flocking around her to get into her head. She feels she's got nothing to lose should u break up with her now. There's a guy to fall back to. In fact, she may just be intentionally or subconsciously pushing u to break up with her, so she kicks off with the next guy, with less guilt.


I think she still loves u, though. But she's being really silly. She's trying to destroy her relationship she's built over 2 yrs because she feels there's a better guy out there.


If things are to work out fine between the both of u, then u've got to give her a wide berth,for her to come to terms with what she wants on her own. Stop paying her attention. Stop calling, texting and visiting. She'll show concern, but be slow to allow things get back to normal. Allow her have a feel of what it would look like to lose u. Allow her press harder to save ur relationship. If she doesn't put in much effort, then, pls... Let her go.

dats it,word

SirJeffry:
Make yourself unavailable for her, women don't like always available and loving man.

If you really want her, act like you don't need her and act like you are also seeing a woman.

Thank me later

seriously,dis is a bad advice,she will leave u sharparly,when she see u dnt send her again,some women re like dat.

ncoolsome:
6yrs wow..was the relationship a medical course?....i feel for u

lol

akinladejo:
since is NOT your 6 years he wasted, nothing concerns u now. and u should not bother.

lol

DonUjay:
. WTH is a Big Long Fat Dick. Why don't you just get married to a cucumber?

lol

permanentgrace:
'condoms' portrays multiple rounds. Do you like multiple rounds? Not just after the first, he's gone and gone for real when you are still in need of more.

hmmm

permanentgrace:
See Jamb kweshion!
Oga, i used condoms..not a condom..

hmmm

schumastic:
For a preamble and for the benefit of those visitors without the necessary background knowledge of the subject here discussed, OSU, like the “Dalits” of India is a caste system in the Igbo speaking areas of South Eastern Nigeria, Africa. OSU are people tainted by their birth into a caste system that deems them impure and less human. According to legend, OSU came into being as a result of human sacrifice to the gods wherein a person usually a slave or a war-spoil, instead of being physically killed as a sacrifice to the gods is spared the butcher’s knife and instead dedicated symbolically to the deity as its’ property. The implication therefore is that such a person breathes and exists for the deity and none other; and assumes the stature of a lesser human who has been sacrificed as an offal to the gods. Regrettably these human-sacrifices married and procreated thus transferring unto their descendants the stigma of their “burnt-offering” status; which also make them properties of the gods that their forebears were sacrificed to. The downside is that these “people” because of their very lowly and sometimes “non-existent” status in the society are forced to reconcile their fate to the worthless and basest of a given Igbo society; wherein they found themselves and nobody seriously speaking, wants any association with them be it marriage, neighborhood, business and/or other associations that brings people together. One who is a free born cannot marry the lowly caste OSU and vice-versa. An OSU cannot also aspire to be a high chief or ruler/king in the society wherein they are born. This practice is prevalent within the Igbo society and its denial sometimes is for public relations purposes only. Several legislation have been targeted at this practice which so many have come to regard as inhuman practice aka man’s inhumanity to man; but is the OSU really man or human in the eye of the Igbo society wherein the practice thrives to date?
This blogger remembers quite vividly too, a traditional ruler (king) who wanted to outlaw the OSU practice. He summoned his Igwe - in- council (cabinet) for a parley wherein he intimated them of his intentions. According to the story, this Chief informed his council that he plans to outlaw the practice of OSU in his domain. After he finished speaking, one of the elders in the council raised his hand for recognition to speak or contribute to the deliberation. He was granted the floor to speak and all he did was ask the Chief if he would, as a show of goodwill allow his daughter to be married away to an OSU. The Chief was livid with anger and demanded to know where from the speaker got his audacity to speak on the subject as it appertains to his princess. And this was the last bus stop for the proposed legislation in the Igwe-n-councilThe irony for victims of OSU practice is that no amount of wealth they may acquire is ever enough to wash them off this stigma. Also their rise in the society of their ancestry is always stunted forcing most of them to take a long hard refuge in a foreign soil where they sometimes live out the rest of their lives agonizing of this fate; which though not self-inflicted but a result of generational apron string, are yoked down irrevocably to the tabooed status of being an OSU. It is such a very painful experience to undergo and no one should wish that - being an OSU on his worst enemy, indeed!
This blogger also knows one prominent well to do family who were living happily until one of the daughters decided to marry. She fell in love with this young medical doctor practicing in New York City – they moved in together and within nine months had a baby. Then the traditional marriage rites started in earnest wherein the man sent words to his family still in Nigeria to proceed with formalizing their relationship. Wherein it was discovered that the bride came from an OSU family and this was no brainier; so the child notwithstanding, the marriage or jactitation or semblance thereto has to be terminated [/b] forthwith because the father of the groom was a politician who would not want any taint whatsoever, of an OSU, as a daughter in-law. The girl moved to the west coast with her daughter and presently lives in southern California as a single mother. The groom has since re-married but the girl has not been that lucky as all the men who came around always jumps the ship as soon as the story of her ancestry reached their ears.

hmmm,nawa for all dis igbo tradition o

funkyibodude:
Osu caste system is an ancient practice in Igbo land, in which somebody or a family is considered to be a property to the gods of the land they are considered sacred and some are used for sacrifice and are forbid to participate in any village activities or holding any title thus are banished and don't have any business with anyone. Most of them are extremely beautiful and very intelligent that's why the believe the belong to the gods and the posses special powers. That's in ancient Igbo land before civilization. Most villages in Igbo land have abolished this practice due to religion and civilization but some still consider this practice because of the fear of wrath of the gods. OSU normally marry themselves and if a freeborn marries an osu you are forbid to have a child with that person and you will equally be banished from the land.. Hope you are satisfied.

hmmm,nawa for dis kind tradition o,I'm just forced to comment

GboyegaD:
You are only looking for excuses. If you know you don't want to continue them explain to her why it cannot. The idea of age leading to disrespect isn't true. A lady who loves you will respect you irrespective of age.

I'm teLling u