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sameolg616:
how many have u paid? or how many have paid u..dumb talk...
no be blood he too dey use to sleep with her or be her man....
do u know ow painful the transformation has been to become "her kinda guy"
he must have made sacrifices too.....if u used to sleep on the floor,do u know ow uncomfortable it wld av been in his first few experiences sleeping on a proper bed....
if he used to watch soccer at viewing centers with his goons,he has now forfeited that pleasure so they can both watch african magic at home...
im sure there are other tins he failed to mention like the gal sending him on errands or him cooking (since he sold his rights to her)
i know those kinda gals,they can be possessive in the name of love.....

hmmm

ShaheedBinAliyu:
if you don't marry her.... you will end up a poor man... besides, karma is a bitch

for real

Youngpo413:
uwaafid

the meaning of that

faith551:
Is that how you see it?


Hold on,, before you start screaming of how a guy can't do that to you and how you can't take rubbish and stuffs
One thing we always sweep under the rug is the fact that when we really fall in love we all become foolish. That's real love, you might have not seen some one you love that much, but the girl prolly did, she shouldn't be blamed, the guy should be

thank u for. Dis,loving it so muah

misspicy:
Amen

amen

Estharfabian:
Hope for the broke Niggaz..

lolz,I'm telling u

Eddygourdo:
ok, misunderstood you earlier. Your brain is good. Cheers hon

thank u

Eddygourdo:
Well true sha, but nevertheless the beating was too much and uncalled for.

I blame her also,for overreacting to a man like dat

Eddygourdo:
you these women sef, I feel like caning you, what is true about what she said.

dat nobody knws what d makes dat woman to be provoked like dat,seriously,I can just imagine

daretodiffer:
You are a liar

A very bad one

How many times have I told you that emotional abuse is as worse as physical abvuse?

How many times have I written that victims (like the husband in this case) are not to be pitied?

Clearly. in your made-up story this wasn't the first time she would be abusing him

Except in self defense (legally, there is a limit too), if anything had happened he would go to jail

Why did he stay with her? Did she threaten to kill him if he left or what?

the woman is a beast and there is no justification for what she has done. The man has every right to sue her to court and make sure she does not see her children ever gain

But If I were to tackle this issue like you would have done

I would have began my analysis with 'What did he do to provoke her'

yeah,thank u,dis is vry much true

vani86:
i admire the mans patience sha, cuz i know i wont have that patience at all, or even give my wife/gf that opportunity to shout at me in the 1st place.

as far as i am concerned, relationships are meant to be easy, yes there will be challenges here and there, but when it comes to a point when i dread going to my own house, that relationship is gone, finished, kapiche.

I'm telling u,dear

DICKtator:
Why not?

It is even one of the best ways to get her

But you need to be witty and understand what is happening.

You don't want to stop a girl that is rushing to a meeting or running home to go and shytte!!!!

lolz at dis

daretodiffer:
To all the foolish unmarried girls on this thread

If you have common sense, protect yourself with condom, pills and everything

Our men believe that they have the ultimate right to screw other women.

In the moment of wild passion, they wouldn't mind complicating your lives just for the se.x o

You also have to remember that your Universities have the worst toilets in the history of Universities. Men can have toilet diseases too, you do not want to get infected, do you?

The best is to abstain but if you cannot protect yourself left, right and center. Nobody has the right to tell you that you are too paranoid. Please go on birth control and insist on condom.

He is a mere boyfriend not your husband. Please be careful.

word

fikolo:
@ OP, you have every right to your opinion but please bear in mind we live in a real word with real problems. It only makes sense to choose a less evil when faced with odd choices. Don't play with HIV! Don't bring a child to this world when you are NOT ready.

I am very sure most parents will swear their wards are virgins, same with most guys about their sisters and vice versa, leaving one wondering who are those getting bleep every seconds!

Please, take time to visits HIV clinics and their wards in hospitals, maybe you will have a different thoughts regarding UNPROTECTED intercourse. This is not a question of love, respect , cheap or trust. The first basic instinct of human is survival after wish we could discuss other issues.

Folks protect your future by all means necessarily!

naso o,dear,tanx

markkaycee:
mr man.., u are seriously misleading people..u dont reason like this at this age/time..pls my people protect urself.,male and females are likely to be carriers of stds..be wise..

thank u

Toks2008:
Lets assume one reads this in isolation please what comes to mind?

The fallacy surrounding condom use has made it easy for sexual recklessness to be the order of the day. We now see women who ought to bury their head in shame coming out to the world to spew morally decadent utterances and i can't help but see why ladies are now seen as intimacy gadgets that should be used and discarded.

My point is that condom use on a lady a man sees as a potential wife is tantamount to sleeping with a lady of easy virtue.

You talk about guys cheating on their girlfriend as if husbands dont cheat on their wives but the funniest thing is that most maried men use condoms for the girls outside to protect the wife and what does this translate to? it simply menas those ladies out there are potential disease carrier,how disdainful.

That guy that wants to use condom on you probably has a special girl he wont use rubber on and that means while he sees you as a slut,he sees the special girl as SPECIAL so why not make yourself special and do the right thing by getting married first rather than allow him screw you with a rubber like a LovePeddler?

so conclusively i made a simple remark that rather than a lady allowing one regberegbe guy use condom on her, she should rather ask the guy to put a ring on it or take a walk rather than to allow one randy dog poke a rubber in her but here we have unreasonable and dumb ladies reading crazy meanings and coming all out to defend the use of condom in the light of illicit sex outside marriage..how stupid,dumb,and appalling.

I t is understandable if guys come out to curse vut im so surprised that this thread have brought out the ladies with slutty mindsets who gallivant in the euphoria od condom sex outside marriage rather than real sex within the confines of marriage.

if dis ur mindset should be followed,then I trust everybody will be living with a disease soon,and for u saying,married men use condom outside to protect their married wife,can u prove a fact there,okay,where did u think d era of 2nd wife come into show,dnt u think its by them sleeping with a girlfrnd outside without condom,and dat later results to pregnancy,which later make them turn into a 2nd wife or a babymama,or u dnt read stories of how married men infect their wives frm outsides relationship,condom should nt be seen as a whoreful play,its used for protection even on a LovePeddler,girlfrnds,or even by married women in their men,if they dnt trust their men so much,tell me,who wan die like a chicken becos of love or trusted thingy. In a relationship

misspicy:
you dey mind the hypocritic eediots? as if the useless love will stop him from dumping them.after he is fed up of their punny or that love will stop him from cheating if he wants and he will still bring the d!ck he used in cheating and put it direct inside them and give them STD all in the name of you are decent and they will say he respects them and is not demeaning them,while he gives them as many STDs as possible....awon ode




if you want to be decent abstain from sex,be a virgin.....lobatan

wagbayi,baby girl

misspicy:
ko ni da fun aye love......infact i want to.ask.the OP a.question,is relationships based on sex alone?


how can you say using condom that is used for protection is demeaning to a particular gender,wait is it only females that wear the condom? what of the male that wear the condom? what of gays that are both males?

jeez inu den ro mi fun opolo kukuru ti agbalagba mii gbe sori.....lori pe e fe so fun wa pe okunrin ni yin?

HIV that some people get thru hair cut,1 night stands,knife cut,blade cut even hospital syringe o.....someone will now take a risk on the basis of true love like seriously?

even if they go for test and know their HIv and other STDs status how many people go for the three three months test which is the best way to test against this disease



so because i want to show that am faithful and trusted i will now encourage my boyfriend who likely has other girlfriends and side chicks the sex without condom? because my so called boyfriend loves and respect me,i will gladly get infected? because i want to be tagged a decent lady? ko ni da fun aiye decent

Jesus
ori mi ngbona i swear

thank u my lady for dis,some ladies should learn to love with their brain,nt their heart,most guys out there cheat on their girlfrnds.and what I knw mostly about nigerian guys is dat,they like. Going down raw with a lady,they hate dat thing call condom,which protects frm any serious sexual disease

bqlekan:
as in ehn.. I pity the lots of those who reads sh*ts on here and follows blindly.. The dude should be stopped from spreading craps like this..

seriously dear,aint good for teenagers reading dis

MRBrownJ:
i am truly sorry you feel that way, but let me help you:

MISCONCEPTION #1 if you cant trust anybody in your life then you will surely live a sad life filled with stress and worries.... and you might as well be single.

MISCONCEPTION #2 LIFE is about taking risks, and if you are not willing to TRUST and give your aLL to your partner (in due time) then you guys are simply wasting each others time.

MISCONCEPTION #3 with IFs, BUTs and MAYBEs, people like you who never give anyone a TRUE chance at love, will ultimately end up bitter and miserable people for life.

with all ur sayings,I aint single,bt just talking about what I've seen frm people,what they do in their relationship life,its better be safe than sorry

MRBrownJ:
by the time this r/ship is going places (aka making life plans together), trust is present AND you have both tested yourselves, then i see no reason why you should keep using condoms.... but maybe you can educate me on the matter?

I'm nt talking about in dat aspect,nobody should ever be trusted,except u want to die untimely,those things of getting tested re still nt it,cos u may never knw if there is a side chick somewhere or d lady sleeping with other
Guys

Toks2008:
lol..were ni bobo yi o

lol,seriously

MRBrownJ:
TRUST and a clean bill of heath is not handed freely to every strangers, so YES, until you can trust her and her status is revealed to you, there is NO WAY you should have unprotected sex with anyone.

I'm telling u dear,u must protect if u dnt want to contract a deadly disease

nonesense:
Nonsense

Lolz

princeemcee:
why not? Cos even my boo get a boo.. 900 million ain't a childs play.. Sorry bae

lol

KingTom:
yeah

okay

KingTom:
I'm not up to 30 sir. Besides, this thread is for matured individuals, and I see children viewing. Am I missing something?

lol

SkinnyDude:
my mind is telling me that you are a guy..,

hmmm,skinnydude don start his own,u wan spoil d thread kwa

czarr:
the guy na gigoloic Casanova in this present era.
na bad sharp guy.

u reason am,ehn

kpeteman:
the guy na armed robber, that's why he disappears and appear.. Abi him na witch?

hmmm

sunnico:
Op me just came to see comments walai......

lol

prettythicksme:
So pple actually wnt to see op gf's pusssy? wonder shall never end

seriously,nawa