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Travel / Re: Canadian Student Visa Thread Part 20 by sweet2blv: 9:52am On Aug 28, 2021
Thanks to all great minds who are impacting lives positively. You all are doing much more than the Presidency:

For MEng in UAlberta,Uwaterloo,UCalgary where a 3 Credit course cost CAD 1,800 on the average and its expected to take 8 compulsory courses with 3 electives. Want to know if CAD 30,000 is good to start with the tuition and other expenses.
Like how much do I need to have for a courses base master in any of these institutions?

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Investment / Addy Fx Investment Payment Reimbursement by sweet2blv: 3:08pm On Aug 03, 2021
Fellow investors, its over three months now that investment ROI has stopped. Efforts to refund the capital seems hopeless. There is actually a weekly re-payment ongoing but with over thirty people in my cycle; with each having more than one investment plan. It baffles me how none of us has been paid even after 5 batches of re-payment.
Is this ongoing capital reimbursement truly TRUE?
Have you or anyone you know being paid?

Front Page please.

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Family / uy by sweet2blv: 7:50pm On May 14, 2017
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Jobs/Vacancies / Re: Fidelity Bank Recruitment For Graduate Trainee 2017 (Bsc And HND Only) by sweet2blv: 11:57pm On May 03, 2017
My boy wrote the test at Ajah and scored 91% but no call yet
Jobs/Vacancies / Re: Agxis Human Resources by sweet2blv: 7:17pm On Jul 07, 2016
kingjibe:
You are invited for an Interview at 47, Agxis Suite, Odua Shopping mall, Idi-Ape, Ibadan on Sat. 9th July, 2016 by 10.am prompt.
Tel: 09057-0000-94, 09057-0000-95
someone sent this to me. What post n wc company as am coming from maiduguri.pls reply
Family / Re: Just His Will by sweet2blv: 10:39pm On Apr 02, 2016
EfemenaXY:


And this comes from a guy whose supposedly graduated from a private university, a Masters Degree holder, earns N3.8m per month after tax... undecided

Little wonder why you're still "searching" for your missing rib. lipsrsealed lipsrsealed

@ Taryour 'n Dyt: cheesy cheesy cheesy
Tnx fo ur comment. Noted
Family / Re: Just His Will by sweet2blv: 5:13am On Mar 26, 2016
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Yieldings:


I am thinking right alright, but you need to check yourself.

1) You don't know me, so don't compare me to other females. I could care less about how much money you make or the car you drive.
2) You won't find true love if you keep attaching it to material things and/or enticing females with material things. You created a thread telling us your net pay, as if anyone here asked for that info. Learn to keep some things private. You yourself just stated that the ladies coming your way are doing so because of what you have and not because of who you are. How do they know what you have if you're not making public announcements? Not everything is meant to be shared.
3) You need to start practicing humility before you can attract the right person. You get what you give.
4) I didn't say your moniker has anything to do with your personality. I didn't even mention your moniker nor your personality.
Thanks for ur comment but to correct few of ur points, stated all such jst to b detailed and sinx no one here knw of my identity why shd I keep.a secrete from ppl dt cud help?
Above all, am sorry if i sound rude but its because of ur 1st comment
Family / Re: Just His Will by sweet2blv: 4:55am On Mar 26, 2016
taryour:




is this a new method of advert

erhmm oga you forgot to drop ur number and house address for prospective clients. iranu.
Damn
Wonder how sm ppl tink
Am nah here for any fucking advert and I wonder why ppl cant jst stay off. Mst u comment on a thread?
Sorry if I sound so harsh or buggative. Just tryin to express mysef and to u all, accpet my apology. Ok?
Family / Re: Just His Will by sweet2blv: 6:02pm On Mar 25, 2016
MRBrownJ:


how is giving your car away be a solution to finding the proper partner?
what do you do apart from work? where do you socialize in order to meet women?
did you have a gf, back in Nov 2015, when you were still unemployed?
when was the last time you had a gf, and why did the r/ship broke?

also, many single women may read this so tell us what is great about you, what makes you special (sell yourself!!!)

I gave out my car in order to live a normal life and for ppl coming my way to see me as I am and not for what I have. The good side of it is that I stays close to my office and the car was given out to an uncle not a woman
Lastly, I have never bn out of job so whr did u see that i was out of job in Nov 2015
Family / Re: Just His Will by sweet2blv: 5:56pm On Mar 25, 2016
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Family / Just His Will by sweet2blv: 12:47pm On Mar 25, 2016
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Career / Re: Is It Possible To Be Invited For Interview In Uk For Job Applied For In Naija by sweet2blv: 10:40pm On Nov 13, 2015
thanks all. i got intouch with someone working qith the company via linkedin and i was made to know that, it was a pure scam. later sent mail to the traveling agent and i was sent a document that i should pay 2000 pounds for travelling documents. wondering how they got to know am project management professional
Career / Re: Is It Possible To Be Invited For Interview In Uk For Job Applied For In Naija by sweet2blv: 12:56am On Nov 12, 2015
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Career / Re: Is It Possible To Be Invited For Interview In Uk For Job Applied For In Naija by sweet2blv: 12:54am On Nov 12, 2015
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Career / Is It Possible To Be Invited For Interview In Uk For Job Applied For In Naija by sweet2blv: 12:49am On Nov 12, 2015
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Religion / THE LOVE OF GOD by sweet2blv: 7:07am On Nov 11, 2015
One day, I drove into a fuel station for a refill. I was driving a car with a capacity of about 60 litres. While the pump attendant refilled my tank, a motorcycle also rode in to the second pump. Before I knew it, the motorcycle was full and the rider rode off while I was still at the pump.

I got in before the motorcycle but it left before me. It suddenly occurred to me that it would be absolutely silly of me to think "I got here before it. How come it is leaving before me?" Why? Our capacity is not the same.

The truth is there are times in life when we are stuck at the pump of divinity. Those who came in behind us have gone ahead of us; those who learnt from you seem to have outran you; those who graduated years after you are now the ones calling the shot and it seem as though you are stuck.

Could it just be that your capacity is bigger than theirs? Could it be that your own assignment needs longer preparation? Could it be that your character is being formed for the task ahead?

You do not know what you need. Only the one who designed the journey knows what is important. Why don't you hold on?

People will often say my mates are doing this.....
my mates have done that .....
my mates have this...
My mates are now....
But I'm still here doing, having, nothing

It is important to know that you spent nine months of formation in your mothers womb alone and you were given birth to alone even if you're a twin. Therefore never classify anyone as your mate.
God's dealings with/in your life is never an estimation of what is happening in the life of your friend or colleagues. God's dealing in your life is VERY PERSONAL and unique and should never be an estimation of physical and tangible things.
Take your gaze off other people's path and concentrate on your race which is the gospel of Christ.

Relax, your emergence is at hand...Just make sure you are always at the filling station of God's presence ...that's what counts, your life is the Gospel

You are greatly loved and value
Nairaland / General / Nigeria Youth Of THEN & NOW by sweet2blv: 9:10am On Oct 11, 2015
Arise O' Sleeping Youth of Nigeria!!! Awolowo was (37), Akintola (36), Ahmadu Bello (36), Effiong (36), Balewa (34) and Okotie-Eboh (27), Enahoro (27) led the struggle for independence after the death of Macaulay. Only Zik was 42 at the time. In 1966, the first coup was led by: Kaduna Nzeogwu (29) and countered by Murtala Mohammed (28), Theophilus Danjuma (28), Babangida (25), Nanven Garba (23), Sani Abacha (23), Shehu Musa Yaradua (23), and brought into power Gowon (32), Ojukwu (33), Obasanjo (29), Buhari (24). Most of the military administrators who governed the states under the successive military regimes, most of whom are governors now, were under 30 years. The brief democratic dispensation which interjected the military interregnums also saw the House of Representatives in particular populated by majority of members under 30 years as well as some senators.Under 30s were also not in short supply with appointments, we have examples of MT Mbu who became foreign affairs minister at 23 and Pat Utomi who became a presidential adviser at 27 and so on and so forth. NOW: Why is it that this age bracket is today still sleeping in 3 seater chairs in their parents’ homes? Why is it that this age bracket is today still collecting pocket money from their parents? Why is it that this age bracket is today still writing JAMB? Why is it that this age bracket is today still sagging their trousers? Why is it that this age bracket is today still searching for jobs?Why is it that this age bracket is today no longer qualified to even be leaders of youth wings of political parties? Why is it that this age bracket is today so docile? Why is it that this age bracket is today still incapable of feeding itself? Why is it that this age bracket is today barred by law from even aspiring to certain political offices? Why is it that this age bracket is today incapacitated, unwilling, unable and incapable of asking questions?
Romance / Re: My Babe Saves Another Guy's Name As My Love by sweet2blv: 10:02pm On Sep 16, 2015
why every one downgrading op.dnt mind dem jare.
am sure the guy na her boy friend y u are the fiance
Jobs/Vacancies / 5 Truths You Must Know For Your Executive Job by sweet2blv: 3:17pm On Sep 03, 2015
With 15 years of executive recruiting and over five years of coaching job seekers around the world, I’ve worked with executives at all levels, in all kinds of industries—from big bank CEOs, CTOs of companies with hundreds of thousands of SKUs, VPs, Directors, and all kinds of executives in every area of the company (finance, operations, sales, marketing, customer support, IT, etc.).

RELATED : Need job search tips? Watch these tutorials! What I have found is that as experienced, competent and even innovative as executives are in the job, there’s a lot you typically don’t know about getting a job, especially one that fits you and offers you what you deserve. That’s one of the reasons statistics say you will spend one month in the job search for every $10,000 you earn. I wouldn’t want to wait that long, and I suspect you don’t, either.
Here are five Executive Job Search Truths you must know in order to be successful in your executive job search and in your career:

1. You Must MARKET Yourself With Your Resume It’s not enough to have the title. You have to market yourself as well as you’d market a product of your company. They need to know why they need you and why you are the solution they need. The way to do this is to create a resume that ‘sells’ you. Highlight what you’ve done to help companies succeed.

2. You Must AGGRESSIVELY REACH OUT To Others At this stage of the game, you probably have quite an extensive network. Let every person in your network know you’re looking—everyone you’ve ever worked with (over, under, or side-by- side) and even every one you know socially. You never know where a good job lead will come from. Also reach out to executive recruiters. They won’t know you’re looking until you tell them, and they may easily know about a perfect-fit job for you. Send them your resume.

3. You Must LEARN TO WRITE AN INTERESTING, COMPELLING COVER LETTER You probably hate writing cover letters— everyone does. However, they are worth the time and effort you put into them. This is a valuable opportunity to set a bias in your favor BEFORE they see your resume. It’s much better to have someone with a positive mindset reading your resume instead of someone with a negative or even neutral one.


4. You Must PRACTICE Before Your Interviews Even though executives typically are wonderful at speaking about their product at their company in their area of expertise, they are not as good at speaking about themselves—so, when they get into interview situations, it doesn’t go as well as it should. The way to combat this is to practice answering interview questions. At your level, you may want to invest in an interview coach , but you can also practice with a trusted friend or even in a mirror. Put as much effort into preparing for this interview as you would into preparing for an important company presentation or a board meeting—especially one that would involve a transition. In this case, you are the transition.

5. You Must Keep Your MENTAL GAME Positive A job search can be difficult at every level. There will be some rejection—it’s built into the process. But in order to get hired, you must present an image of positive confidence. So… Don’t say negative things to yourself that you wouldn’t say to a member of your team. Put up notes reminding you of who you are and what you’ve done (in your car, on your bathroom mirror, in your books, on your computer, etc.). Use neuro-linguistic programming (in other words, talk to yourself in positive, direct, and forward-looking ways) to help yourself achieve your potential.

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Jobs/Vacancies / Your Experience With Longhall Consulting by sweet2blv: 2:03pm On Aug 26, 2015
please house, i am planning to go for a PMP training at Longhall consulting and i plan to write the certification after the training. please is there anyone who has done pmp training with them in the past to please advice or orientiate me
Family / Re: Facts About Penis......matured Mind Only Please by sweet2blv: 7:57pm On Jul 18, 2015
Size matters
To the average man, whether he’s straight or
gay, his penis is, consciously or unconsciously,
one of the most important things in the whole
world. At an early age he discovers it and
immediately becomes fascinated by it.
But then a note of uncertainty enters his mind:
'Isn't mine rather small?' Look at Dad's, look at
big brother's, look at those in the men's
changing room – and he asks himself if he will
ever be as big as that.
And so he goes on through life, always a tiny bit
sensitive about the size of his organ, always
convinced that it would be nicer if it were just
that little bit longer.
No matter how often it's written that penile size
doesn't matter, and that women aren't attracted
to a man because of the length of his organ,
many males continues to think the same way.
The average female cannot understand this
obsession with penile measurement. So if you're
a woman, never belittle a man's penis in bed,
even as a joke, or say anything to indicate that
you think it's small. The guy may take you
seriously, and if he does, he'll be deeply hurt.
We have known men who have gone on to have
problems with impotence (erectile dysfunction)
after someone made an unthinking remark about
their dimensions. But almost all of these men
had a perfectly normal male organ. Each one just
thought he was very small compared with other
guys.
It is also worth noting two points about women.
1. Some women really dislike the idea of a
large penis and may be frightened by one
that is too long.
2. Some women are much more impressed by
the thickness of a penis, rather than its
length. This is because some females like
the sense of feeling stretched round the
entrance to the vagina – so if a guy is
quite broad at the base of his penis, this
can feel very exciting and satisfying to
such women.
A question of perspective
The trouble is that every man sees his own penis
in a foreshortened view. The angle at which you
look down inevitably makes your penis seem
shorter than it is.
But when you glance at another man's organ,
there's no such foreshortening effect, so very
often it'll look as though the other guy is slightly
better endowed.
A lifetime of comparison of this sort (and
virtually every male does a quick mental check
on each naked man he sees) can easily make
you feel a bit inadequate. But it's important to
realise the facts about penis length.
Average penis length
Measuring the penis when it isn't erect is
pointless, since the length and bulk are affected
by various temporary factors, such as the
ambient temperature.
Even the largest male organ can shrink to
virtually nothing if the man goes for a swim in
cold water.
However, at normal temperatures a non-erect
penis usually measures between 8.5cm and
10.5cm (3 to 4 inches) from tip to base.
The average figure is about 9.5cm (3.75 inches).
Of course, it's true that some men have big
joysticks and some have smaller ones, just as
some men have small feet and some have big
feet, but the measurement is not – repeat not –
an index of virility.
Most people think that a tall man will usually
have a large penis, but this is not entirely true.
The distinguished American researchers Masters
and Johnson measured the penile lengths of
more than 300 men.
The longest organ was 14 cm (5.5 inches) in
the flaccid state. It belonged to a slim man
who was 5' 7" tall (170 cm).
The shortest penis measured 6cm (2.25
inches). It belonged to a fairly heavily built
man of 5' 11" (180cm).
It's also worth pointing out that there is no
correlation between penile size and race.
Average size of erections............... to be continued
Family / Facts About Penis......matured Mind Only Please by sweet2blv: 8:42pm On Jul 17, 2015
In 2015, newspaper headlines suddenly started claiming that the average man’s erection measured only 5.2 inches (13.2cms) in length. While this was good news for a lot of men who think that they are 'too small', the new research is not quite as straightforward as it might seem. In fact, it is a sort of ‘compilation’ of various studies from around the world – some of which appear to have been of less than ideal quality. Nevertheless, over the last few years it has become apparent that the average man's penis is not as long as had been thought previously. For decades, medical books and articles in the press have confidently stated that penile length is generally about 6.5 inches (16.5 centimetres). As a result, a lot of males who are slightly shorter than this have felt pretty inadequate. However, it now seems that the statistics on which this 'average' was based had a serious flaw. It is this: the figure was originally calculated by collecting measurements that men had carried out themselves. Self-measurement of this sort is notoriously unreliable. Why? Because so many males don't know where to measure from or use inaccurate rulers or ancient tape measures. Also, there's a tendency for guys to round their 'scores' upwards, in an attempt to make themselves sound better-endowed. And the results tend to be skewed by people who falsely claim to be 10 or 11 inches long. In recent times, a number of scientists have attempted to obtain more reliable figures, by the simple expedient of employing a trained person to carry out the measurement of each man. And the results, which they have produced, seem to indicate that the average adult male is considerably shorter than had been thought. In reality, the mean length of the erect penis appears to be only about 5.88 inches (14.9 centimetres), which is considerably less than the 'old' measurement. Does all this matter? If you're a woman, you probably think that this concern about fractions of an inch is rather silly. But if you're a man, you will know that such matters are – somewhat irrationally – of considerable importance to many males.
Why do men worry about length? Even in this supposedly enlightened century, men fret about penis size and especially length. Though the vast majority of guys have more than enough bulk and length to perform well as lovers, there's a widespread masculine obsession that 'more would be better'.
So, we get a constant flow of emails and letters from males who are worried that they are 'too small'.
Companies who advertise penis-enlarging creams and pills on the internet make vast sums of money by exploiting this obsession. But other than surgery, there's nothing that's clinically proven to increase penis size.
Any woman reading this article may find it puzzling that so many males are concerned about the length of their joysticks, and wish they had 'just a couple of inches more'. But that's the way that a lot of men are.
Worrying about penile size is not confined to heterosexual males. Many gay men have the same feelings about 'wanting to be bigger'. However, a lot of homosexual guys do not want a partner with a particularly large penis. Size matters ..........to be continued
Romance / Re: My Ex Who Is Married Is On My Neck. Advice Pls [screen Shots] by sweet2blv: 10:34am On Jul 17, 2015
Orijin101:

Hope you will join me when going for the condolence visit to English's family embarassed
u r a kid i guess. i will suggest mr seun shd try put age limit to some posts
at the op:passion joe, u shdnt av brng d mata here. toun husband is readin ds u knw?

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Career / Workplace Dating: Will It Lead To Marriage Or Unemployment? by sweet2blv: 10:33am On Jul 15, 2015
Despite all the cautionary tales regarding the
dangers of office romance, countless employees
wind up in relationships with co-workers every
year. And as you might expect when two people
try to maintain both a business and emotional
relationship – while spending virtually every
waking hour together and keeping the whole
thing a secret – workplace dating often ends in
tears.

Poll just about any office, and you’re likely to
hear at least one story (if not more) of
workplace dating that went awry. What’s worse,
the fallout from these failed office romances can
be far more brutal than a run-of-the-mill
relationship. At least in normal life, if you look at
the person you thought you’d marry and suddenly
realize that you actually can’t stand the sight of
them, you can just break up. But when this
person is a work colleague, you may still have to
maintain a professional relationship no matter
how badly things end. Depending on the
circumstances, failing to do so could cost you a
raise, a promotion – or even your job.
Of course, warnings about the dangers of
workplace dating and office hookups are nothing
new. The phrase “don’t dip your pen in the
company ink” is a well-worn cliché, and some
companies are so concerned about the negative
effects of office romances that they expressly
prohibit workplace dating. Yet, despite this, co-
workers continue to wind up in bed together,
restrictions and warnings be damned.
So if workplace dating is such a bad idea, why do
employees keep doing it? Is it because the stress
of working together creates a unique bond
between people? Or that as employees work
longer hours, the office has become the only
available place to meet people? Maybe the truth
is that in spite of conventional wisdom, not all
office romances are destined for failure. People
who are drawn to the same employer often have
common interests and a similar outlook on life.
In fact, some of today’s best-known power
couples began their relationships while working
together. Then again, some notable romance
disasters also began with workplace dating, so
it’s important know what makes office romances
succeed – and what makes them fail.

If you have you got your eye on a co-worker but
don’t know whether you should make a move,
proceed carefully. Handle your office romance
the right way and you might live happily ever
after; screw it up and you could wind up looking
for a new job. If you’re not sure whether to act
on your office crush, try taking a queue from
these famous (and infamous) couples for some
of the main do’s and don’ts of dating someone in
the workplace:

Barack and Michelle Obama
Barack and Michelle Obama met when they both
worked at a Chicago law firm, and Michelle was
assigned to mentor Barack while he was a
summer associate. They married in 1992 and
have continued to work together throughout the
rise of his political career.

Workplace Dating Advice:
Communicate clearly about how you should act
at work. Do you want to be open about your
relationship, or keep a professional distance? If
one partner feels like sharing with others while
the other wants to pretend nothing is happening,
this can quickly lead to trouble.

Bill and Melinda Gates
Bill and Melinda Gates met at a press event in
1987, and married in 1994. For many years Bill
continued to run Microsoft while Melinda headed
the Bill & Melinda Gates Foundation, dedicated
to global philanthropy. Now, after retiring from
Microsoft, Bill and Melinda run the foundation
jointly.

Workplace Dating Advice:
Give each other space when you’re in the office.
Don’t crowd each other or constantly check up
on each other. If you were both independently
successful before you began dating, there’s no
reason you can’t continue the same dynamic
after getting together.

Ben Affleck and Jennifer Lopez
Lopez and Affleck’s romance caused such a
media frenzy that the couple was referred to as
“Bennifer,” and virtually every aspect of their
relationship became the subject of intense
scrutiny. Having met on the set of the movie
Gigli , the film’s failure served as the culmination
of the couple’s overexposure, and the two split in
2004.

Workplace Dating Advice:
Hollywood stars may be the only ones who need
fear media overexposure, but you should watch
out for “overexposure” of your workplace
romance, too. If you date a coworker publicly, try
not to get so involved in each other while at
work that it begins to breed resentment among
your colleagues. When it comes to workplace
dating, a little attention from your coworkers
goes a long way.

Jennifer Aniston and Vince Vaughn
Another Hollywood pairing, Vaughn and Anniston
began their relationship during the filming of The
Break Up. While the romance sparked plenty of
tabloid coverage, it never caused quite the
media frenzy of Affleck and Lopez, and the
relationship appeared to peter out by 2006.
Workplace Dating Advice:

Your relationship should be a collaborative effort.
If one of you is putting more time into the
romance than the other, it could be a warning
sign that you’re headed for trouble.
Career / Re: Choosing Between My Job And Educational Career by sweet2blv: 3:59pm On Jul 14, 2015
op: ur issue is nt a problem. i also fall into this category bt i have good colleagues at work to d point of travelin from lag to a city in d north fo my MBA. al u need to do is to relocate n talk to ur colqs sure yh on d path of greatness. d good news is dt, i got a job 5* my then wages b4 i even fnshd my progm. u can send me a pm
Family / What Women Really Want by sweet2blv: 5:36pm On Jul 12, 2015
A woman really doesn’t want much from a man.
There are really only seven things – seven
qualities that she’s looking for in a life partner.
Although these qualities are hard to find, they
are qualities of which every man is capable.
These seven things are not out of any man’s
reach, yet the fact is that most lack at least
one.
Now, you may like to argue that no one is perfect
and therefore no one has all seven of these
qualities, but that’s just not true. There are
plenty of men out there who are sufficient in
each of these categories, not perfectly, but
sufficient enough to make a woman incredibly
happy. That’s all that matters, right?
1.
Honesty – but not too much of it.
A woman doesn’t want a man to lie to her about
important matters. She wants to be an important
part of his life – the most important part, in fact.
She wants to know the things that are going on
his life and she wants him to have trust in her.
As far as she is concerned, they are one – his
life is her life.
She wants him to want to share in his pleasant
experiences and memories. She also doesn’t
want him to feel that he has to lie, because
when that is the case it usually means that he
was stepping out of line, making poor choices
and mistakes. On the other hand, she doesn’t
want the truth in all circumstances. Brutal
honesty isn’t wanted.
If she asks, she looks great, she looks beautiful,
the fact she gained 15 pounds doesn’t bother
you, her new haircut makes her look even cuter.
Now that I think about it, the only thing you
should really lie is about such shallow matters as
appearances. We all look like sh*t sometimes –
but she doesn’t need to hear you say it.
2.
Understanding – so that she doesn’t feel the
need to have to explain herself.
She wants you to know her – inside and out.
Why? Because only then will you love her for her.
We all sometimes need confirmation that we’re
worth loving. The real us – not the people others
perceive us to be. We may not all need such a
confirmation of our value, but we all want it. But
it’s more than just that.
Having someone understand you is having
someone completely know you for the person
that you really are. There’s no confusion, there’s
no misunderstanding or misconception. They
know you for you and because they know you for
the person you really are, you, in a sense, exist
outside of yourself. As long as they live on, so
do you.
3.
Caring – she needs to know she matters to
you.
To be cared for means not to be alone in this
life. Most people are forced to care for
themselves and the truth is that it’s a lot more
difficult than people let on. As human beings, we
aren’t always in the right mindset to care for
ourselves. To top it off, that’s usually exactly
when we need the most caring – when we aren’t
mentally or physically capable of doing it
ourselves.
She wants you to be there for her when she
needs someone, to be there to share her burden.
I know it sounds ridiculous, but she wants you to
make her life a little easier. Craziness – I know.
On the upside, she’ll be there for you when no
one else will. Fair enough tradeoff I think.
4.
Strength – both mental and physical.
No woman wants a physical weakling – it’s
against her nature. That doesn’t mean she won’t
settle for slightly less than Herculean, but you’re
a man dammit. She wants to feel that when
she’s in your presence. She wants you to be
intelligent and to practice self-control simply
because you can.
We’re all still animals and women will always be
attracted to the stronger men. She wants you to
be strong not for the sake of being strong – she
wants you to be strong for her. It brings her
pleasure, makes her feel safe and turns her on.
Do you honestly need more convincing?
5.
Compassion – shows her you’re capable of
loving.
A woman doesn’t only want a man to have love
only for her, but a love for life, for living things.
She wants a kind man, a man whom others will
look up to, appreciate and admire. She wants a
good man.
She doesn’t see being good and compassionate
as a weakness. And that’s because it’s not. I
know lots of men are taught that to be strong
you have to be hateful, spiteful and malicious.
That’s very unfortunate, but it’s simply the world
we live in. She doesn’t need that. You don’t need
that either. No one does.
6.
Security – financial and literal.
You don’t need to be a millionaire. Well, for some
women, you very well may need to be, but
hopefully you’ll only end up with one who
admires the traits required for turning oneself
into a millionaire and not the money alone.
Generally speaking, the right woman will love you
for you, but she does need you to make her feel
secure.
She wants to feel that you will protect her from
physical harm. She wants to know that you’ll
keep her safe, healthy and comfortable. Does
she need you to keep her safe? To bring home
the bread? No. But she’d like you to be capable
of it – even if her salary is bigger than yours.
She’ll have your back too so you can rest easier
as well.
7.
Blind Loyalty – she wants to be the only
woman he has eyes for.
We all have big egos – men and women alike.
We want to feel special. We want to feel unique
and better than the rest. We’re competitive by
nature and there is no getting around it. Women
want a man who sees the world in her. Her and
only her.
She knows she’s not the most beautiful or
smartest woman in the world, but she doesn’t
need to be – she’s not delusional. She just
wants you to think – know – that she’s the most
beautiful, best woman in the world for you.
She needs you to think she is the best thing that
ever happened to you. She wants to be the best
and she wants a man who will allot her that title
Family / How Can I Prevent A Miscarriage? by sweet2blv: 8:37pm On Jul 08, 2015
Most miscarriages are caused by genetic abnormalities in the fetus.
Unfortunately, there is nothing that can be done to prevent miscarriages caused
by genetic abnormalities.
However, not all miscarriages are caused by genetic abnormalities. If you have
had a miscarriage, work with your health care provider to determine the reason
for your miscarriage, if possible, and to plan a future pregnancy . A healthy
lifestyle before and during pregnancy may help. Here are some tips that may help
prevent miscarriage:
Be sure to take at least 400 mg of folic acid every day, beginning at least one
to two months before conception, if possible.
Exercise regularly.
Eat healthy, well-balanced meals.
Manage stress .
Keep your weight within normal limits.
Don't smoke and stay away from secondhand smoke .
Don't drink alcohol or have more than one to two cups of a caffeinated
beverage like coffee a day.
Avoid illicit drugs.
Make sure you are up to date on immunizations.
These steps may help to prevent miscarriage, too:
Avoid radiation and poisons such as arsenic, lead, formaldehyde, benzene, and
ethylene oxide.
Take special care to keep your abdomen safe while pregnant. Avoid sports that
carry a higher risk for injury, such as contact sports and skiing, and always wear
your seat belt.
Check with your health care provider before taking any medication including
over-the-counter drugs during pregnancy.
Avoid environmental hazards such as X-rays and infectious diseases.
You can also help ensure a healthy baby by finding out about and treating any
health conditions you have before you try to conceive. If, for example, you know
a previous miscarriage was due to an autoimmune response or a hormonal
imbalance, seek treatment for this underlying condition. Once you become
pregnant, get early, comprehensive prenatal care to improve your chances of a
healthy pregnancy.
Family / Re: A by sweet2blv: 12:16am On Jul 02, 2015
op, if a lady ask me ds kind question, i go curse her , curse her family.
Family / Re: Why The Need For Intra Tribal Martial Issues Among The Yorubas by sweet2blv: 11:05am On Jun 30, 2015
please i will like to marry ijebu lady i am from the north central(yoruba)
Family / A Wife's Unfailing Love For Her Husband by sweet2blv: 10:15am On Jun 30, 2015
Pls read carefully and learn .........
A WIFE’S UNFAILING LOVE FOR HER HUSBAND
EPISODE 1
I, Sarah Adams take you, Lawson Kuti as my lawful wedded husband, to love and to cherish, in sickness and in health, till death do us part” she smiled at him through her veil.
“You may now kiss your bride Mr. Lawson” The Pastor beckoned.
Lawson’s heart raced as he gently unveiled his bride’s face. She looked so beautiful. He gently bent over and placed a soft kiss on her lips. Sarah in turn embraced him tightly with tears of joy streaming down her face.
“Never leave me Sarah” He whispered in her ear.
“I will never leave you” she whispered and they slowly released themselves from the embrace.
“I present to you the latest couple!” The Pastor exclaimed excitedly
The church cheered and Sarah cried more in her husband’s arms
5 years Later
Sarah silently tip toed behind her husband. He was in his study, engrossed in reading. She smiled to herself and gently covered his eyes with both hands.
“It’s just you and I in this house Sara, plus, I smelled you the moment you walked in” He dropped
Sara released her hold, sighed and sat on the study table, “Why do you figure me out so easily? I can’t even surprise you! That sucks” she curled her arms around his neck
“You are my wife, nothing you do is supposed to surprise me” He playfully pecked her nose.
“But you’ve been in the study all day and I’m bored!” She rolled her eyes
“So what kind of fun do you suggest we have then?” He swooped her off the table in his arms
“No! no that kind of fun!” She hit him playfully till he put her down
“Ok”, He folded his arms on his chest, looking into her eyes, “So what do you want us to do?”
“Not us. Actually, all I want is to play with your play station and you’ve hidden it again! Just give it to me and you can continue your reading, pleaaaseee” She blinked her eyes playfully
“No way”, He went back toward his study chair and sat, “Not my play station”
“Why! You never let me touch it…like its your baby” She sulked
“Well”, he rolled his eyes, “Not like you’ve given me a baby yet”
Sara paused for a moment. Did he just say that to her? The words struck her deep down
“You shouldn’t have said that Lawson…” She managed to say, her countenance changing.
“But it’s true…I’m only saying the truth Sara” He turned to face her, still sitting on the chair.
“The truth? You think I don’t want us to have kids?”
“Don’t get me wrong, I’m not saying that…” He stood to face her now.
“Then what are you saying Lawson? Tell me, what is the truth?”
“Let’s not do this today…please. You can have the play station and play all you want. It’s in my footwear locker and the key is in my Bible”
“You always do this…hurting me with your words” Her voice began to shake
“Don’t start Sara please”
“Tell me why you said those words to me! I want to know!”
“Because I’m tired! I want to be a father! I want to have my own kids Sara…”
” and you think I don’t?!” Sara flared, trying not to let the tears pour
“Then why can’t you get pregnant Sara? This is the fifth year we are trying.” He clenched his teeth and walked out of the study room.
Sara was in shock. She sat on the chair for some seconds, stood up again and sat on the chair again…this time she held on to her blouse and burst into tears.
2weeks after
“Lawson, wake up please” Sara tapped him
Lawson gently opened his eyes and looked at the alarm clock by his bedside, “It’s 2:00am Sara…”
“It’s urgent”
“I’m listening” He said drowsily
“Mother says we should come for tests. She says she’s spoken to her doctor and he said we should come.”
“What?” Lawson opened his eyes now, “Your mother is in the UK for Christ’s sakes”
“Let’s just do it. We can go for the weekend, lets just give it a shot, please.”
“No. That would be rather expensive and…”
“It’s my birthday today and the only thing I want from you is this trip”
Lawson fell quiet now. For the past two years now, his wife’s birthday skips his mind…totally.
“I’m…I’m sorry Sara…It skipped my mind…”
“It always does” She lay down back on the bed, backing him.
Lawson wrapped his arms around her waist, “I said I’m sorry…”
No response.
Lawson sighed, “Fine, we go this weekend”
“Really?” She turned sharply, excited
“If it will make you happy today”
“Thank you baby” She hugged him.
A week after
Sara jerked at the vibration of the phone in her pocket.
“Hi mom!” she pressed the phone to her ear with her shoulders, wiping the washed dishes with her hands.
“Honey…”
“What is it mom?” she pressed it harder
“The result…the result of the tests…” her mother cried
Sarah gently dropped the plate and the wiper, hear racing…”Just say it mom…”
That night
“I can never have children Lawson…” Sara cried
Lawson felt his world crash right in front of him, “W…what?”
“Mama called today…she’s gotten the tests results”... TO BE CONTINUED
Travel / Re: Total Expenses Of Phd(management) or Msc( offshore) abroad by sweet2blv: 10:47pm On Jun 22, 2015
easrael:



Please tell us the school that gave you a B.Sc talk less of an M.Sc?


Anything short of this means you just came here to lie..... While I watch my back, I'd advice you to watch your front WELL....


I'm no deceitful person, I move from the front.
get a job with ur good grama and zoolgy cert first?
then u can com back to ask samr question
Travel / Re: Total Expenses Of Phd(management) or Msc( offshore) abroad by sweet2blv: 12:37am On Jun 22, 2015
easrael:
justwise

Really, With all these grammatical blunders, it leaves all of us to believe that he's a Ph.D student!

We should simply ask sweet2blv which Universities did he have his B.Sc/HND and M.Sc programmes

God bless us all Meanwhile I'm preparing for TOEFL and If you have any tip for me abeg, just mention me anywhere for Nairaland @easrael and I'll be there ASAP
young man, i pray ur zoolgy certificate takes u far in life. wat h ur back

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