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iterator25: Not when you're sexually active

so dats ur own excuse

Frying my hair, watching football,pressing my navel,rejectin rubbish food, only GOD can change these things in my life.

Adetayo100: What kind of rubbish is this?? If u were duped by a lady kindly tell the house maybe we could be of help for you not to fall victim again.

so wat ar u tryin to say, ur comment doesn't relate wit d thread

BiggerBro: The thrill and the adventure of it. Especially because of the fact that it is wrong abd that they preach it to us all our lives not to do it. And the preaching leads to the desire for freedom we think going into it will bring from the lifelong preaching. That is my excuse. And maybe some curiousity.

so wats ur point

Her clit was removed? Meanin she won't hav enof urge for sex? Chai

y-fo:
Did you even read my post

I didn't deny what he said, but that he was generalising which is the mistake he made. He also made it seem like ALL ladies are innocent and forgetting that SOME ladies are actually out for the money and quite forward in their requests....should I also generalise and say ALL ladies are the same?


If he had made a constructive argument to pass his point across, I wouldn't begrudge him but his post was as emotionally laden as a heart-broken lady.

. Oga I'm nt generalising, every guy knws where he falls into, so most of dem abusin me are d ones d thread hit badly

Nonso23: Do males still cry after clocking 16 years I don't think so. Besides, losing a fifa14 tournament final to your hommie should hurt more than any heart-break IMO...

lmao

Vivly: I heard some guys cry for sex, so why wont they cry when they get dumped? You know, no more sex

When ashawo joint full everywhere

Extom: Now this is the very definition of LIMPOPO!!!
There's one thing nobody can ever change; the TRUTH. By what you typed, we already know the kinda guy you are.
Here's how dumb guys act towards a girl(they make up 88% of the male population): See a girl, try to impress her with the small coins they've got, the girl in turn sees a limpopo, and dances to his tune.
But here's how its been done by real men(12% of the male population): sees a lady he likes, tries to connect with her in a deeper-than-physical way, and if they're compatible, he impresses her with his not-just-financial capabilities(real men always have one), and then you see a girl GOING for HIM, and not just his POCKETS!
Dude, you already know the category you fall into, without been told.
N.B. The REAL men get the LADIES, while the LIMPOPO gets the GIRLS... Because no matter how much you're ready to throw around, there are some ladies you just can't lay.
I'm out.

. Chai, if say we dey beer parlour, I for give u one bottle

y-fo:
Seems you a nice girl and not playing the guys but that doesn't mean all girls are classified into those who guys offer material things to first.
Whether you like it or not, there are girls that bring up the monetary ish first thereby sending signals to the guys bout where her mind is and how to get her.

On this thread, it seems it is now the guys that ALWAYS offer materialistic things with girls classified into those who accept and those that don't. For where .

What of girls who asks for recharge cards/bbm subscriptions on e-chats or a week into meeting each other.

Hell, my jnr bro was being turned into an atm for recharge cards when he and the girl were just 12 or 13. na wa o.

What of girls that ask you to take them out to bukas/fast food joints with the usual 'im hungry'...sometimes in front of their female friends so you forced to agree

I could give other accounts of girls making the first move in terms of monetary ish so ladies, let's stop showing just one side of the coin. Thank you .

now wat happens to turnin d ladies down, its nt by force to giv dem wat de ask..wen u agree,u don fall mumu, de wil keep askin

Olly barbie219: That's jst d 'fact' stop attackn d op abeq! Som guyz jst refuse 2 read d handwriting on d wall,a gurl tells a guy no,treats hm like crap...n he stil persists,swearing to do wateva it takes jst 2get a chance...den wen she plays hm,he turns around 2 call her names......wen a gurl truly luvs u,she hardly demands anything#Fact#......(imagine a guy asking me wat he has 2 do to make me luv hm,my answer was simple....'U cant do anything...it comes naturally! N he goes like..nooo dere has to be somthing,wat dd oda guyz do to get u to love dem....my last reply was jst...Smh!

help me tel dem oo, d guys tink I'm against dem, bt I'm only tryin to save d guys,,smal tin dem don open post abwt hw bad naija gals are and hw dem drain der pocket

lorretta u: I was going to open a thread like this.
The truth is that for most men getting a girl they admire is an ego thing.especially when their friends know they've been asking her out.
They just won't accept defeat.
Ogugua you're talking about one week.haven't you ever Come across those ones that don't give up even after one or two years of 'toasting' you.
Only god knows how many times I've heard " I'll give you anything you want"

Any unscrupulous babe wouldn't mind using such opportunites to milk the desperate dudes.

Meanwhile the broke dudes still have girls who will die for them.aren't they Nigerian babes?

The simple solution guys is to leave any girl who isn't interested in you alone.the more you 'force' her.she might succumb to ur pressure.chop ur money
And still leave you for Audu the vulcanizer.

chai,,ur head is so so correct

IAMBREEZY: Op u wrong even if they like you they will still drain your pocket i don't know where you are getting your fact from...

and wen u notice dat de ar nw been too demandin, stop givin dem and see wat wil happen, dats wen ul knw if de truly like u

DonCrust: Oh yea? You're consoling yourself after spending your savings on a girl that care-less about you, keep it up dude!
If its the NL ladies you just want to impress, I'm sorry for you. Do you know why? You can NEVER see the pant of any of them.

I'm nt consoling mysef, I hardly spend on women, and my gf dnt ask me of anytin, she's a big gal hasef, I giv tins to ha wen I want to,and I'm nt stingy

constance500: Nd dis is cumin frm a guy....are u mad Eleyi ti jonz o

yes I'm a guy, and deep in ur hrt u knw its d truth, every gal has a guy she truly loves, dats jus it, jus pray to find d right person

We always complain of how greedy naija babes are, and how they love money a lot,but come to think of it, you meet a girl who obviously doesn't even like u,not to think of love,u now use money to impress her. Why won't she play along to dry ur pocket, she's just a smart girl,and there is nothing wrong in being smart.

The signs will be very clear that she doesn't care about you, yet you won't mind spending dough to win her and after you come here to post on how naija babe are bad.

Have you ever noticed that some girls that drains the guys pocket have another guy they don't even ask for anything?

guys grow up, we still have plenty of girls who truly love, just find the one that that suits you.

If u like be 100ft, if ure ugly , no hope for u, u hav to be fine b4 I start lukin at ur height,,,nw I knw this hit the ladies bad........*runs away*

Dias this one in my church,he's even a student pastor, I feel he's a gay, he always talks abwt hw fresh my lips are and hw he wud want to kiss it, I jus gave him red light, I can't fully say he's one bt I tink he is,,from their actions ull know

sunny t: Your question is why do we sin against God. Right?

If you are a christian and you read your bible you would have found the reason in the holy book.

Ok, i will give you a clue, the devil had been condemned and becos he rules the world, he is doing everything to distract us away from God and need i say it, he is suceeding. The truth has been mutilated, people dont glorify God anymore.

We now glorify the devil and ourselves. People dont wanna hear the truth anymore, even pastors wouldnt say the truth anymore. We now live in a world where sin is the norm.

There are 2 categories of sins, call it A and B.

Category A are those direct sins, the ones stated in the 10 commandments, the once clearly stated in the Bible. God told Moses what and what he dosnt want. He dosnt want you to kill, hate, lie, steal, fornicate, he dosnt want you to serve anoda God.

Cartegory B are those indirect sins, i will call them the prerequisite sins, the devil has made us so intelligent that we have fashioned out ways to modernize and funkify sins.

Smoking or alcohol are not a sins, but these acts wouldnt help you in any way, they will only lead you to direct sin, they will bring you in contact wit people who will lead you to sins, they will chase away the holy spirit and angels from your domain.

Wearing of trousers/leggings by ladies, is not a sin but it might expose some parts of your body which might provoke lust in the oda person, lust in itsef is a sin, then lust leads to direct fornication, going to club is not a sin bt wat kind of people are u gonna meet there and wat do they do there.

So, in a nut shell, the devil has given us reasons to defend our sins, infact in our society this days, people see righteousness as a weakness.

so on point, well said

dahmie2013: The spirit is willing, but d flesh is weak.

. Is dat d cause?

charlisco: topic like this should make front page. true matter

. Tel dem ooo

30% true 70% false

Most times we argue about what is right and what is wrong,e.g is it a sin for a girl to wear trousers,and all stuffs like dat. We always argue about all these sins dat are a bit controversial,but when it comes to the ones that are very clear,we say nothing about them,like this one"fornication and adultery. We all know clearly that it is a sin,but yet we keep doing it and mosttimes we come to discuss d ones we are nt very clear about,, Now the question is.....why can't WE stop fornication and adultery since we knw clearly dats its a sin,,and mind u, I'm nt been judgemental,I included mysef,dats Y I used the word "WE"

Ill simply introduce mysef, I'm sweetest guy, yes, u kip seeing d name sweetest guy on most posts,and ill leave dem to decide if I'm really d sweetest

I'm jus wonderig o, d way pipul type first to coment even wen de are like 11th to comment, is there really any reward for this, some even say funny tins after dat, here is an example of such. Re: P-Square- Fast And Pray For A Month Before Releasing Any Album by Lionbite(m): 3:27pm
I feel so honoured to be the 2nd to comment, it has been 2 months since i've been checking Nairaland's homepage for fresh post's and to God be the glory i finally found one. I want to appreciate my mum for not giving up on me even when people say i cant make the First page- mum i made it! Special thanks to my teacher mrs. layonu for tutorials and tips on how to make it. And finally thanks to seun and the whole Nairalanders. Thank you for your support and Thank you for fufilling my Dream.
( ,,,,,,,,,Lol doh he's d 2nd to comment, bt is Dia any benefit someone gains or is dis guy jus displayin his stupidity and childishness

Ah ah, guys, una no get small pride? If na girls na, ul hardly see any response. See as una jus de disgrace unasef, una no get babe? D truth is dat a really handsome dude wil nt respond to such post, dats d fact cos he knws he's cute and der ar plenty gals already, sorry@op no insults intended

29000153, Ping me on bbm, I'm sweetest guy. male 25 I jus need pingmates , both male and femal, jus pingmates, cute peeps ,I aint lukin for a r/ship, I hav a luvly GF

Abujafood: There's this girl that has a nasty temper and always flares up at her man. He has had it with her and wants to break up but before doing so he needs advice. How can he get her so angry that she'll get more than she can handle.

Please good advice only if you have any!

. u said she has a nasty temper and always flares up @ ha man, wat does ha guy do dat meks ha do dat b4, jus tel ha guy to kip doin it, clueless stupid question

bobthebuilder99: Why have you clicked on enough female profiles to notice the trend?

yes I have