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iceberylin:
After giving Ugly guys hope

Sweetlemon:
NLers are really very unexposed.
You guys should get your noses off the internet for once and explore the world. Haba!

Is it the Okoye wives that are ugly? Abi Wizkid, Davido, etc girlfriends are ugly? Abi Dakore Akande is ugly? Internationally, look at George Clooney, Check out wives of NBA stars, think of any handsome star and google his wife.

The only so-called handsome dudes that end up with below average girls are the ones that don't have money. Even if you are too introverted to go out, go to Bella Naija and see for yourself. The ones with less than average wives are the ones that married long before money and fame.

The fine, boxed up niggas I know are allergic to anything below Genevieve Nnaji kind of beauty.

Shoo.

Danfoditee: U stil av some days grace, in my skul (USMAN DANFODIO UNIVERSITY SOKOTO) we've start our xams already on d 6th of January, and our lecturers are not from Samaria(like Yoruba pipu wil say 'Alaanu ara Samaria'). Is beta u read wella for d forthcoming xams, I wish U & myself best of luck (not gudluck).

andromida: Can't tell or don't want to? Anyway its good you are aware but awareness amounts to nothing if you are unwilling to do nothing about it. You can be aware that your car needs to be serviced, you may service your car or keep on driving it until it knocks.

The 3-5 mnths mark is usually when bonds begin to get deeper and that's when you get tired could it be that's when you feel overwhelmed by your emotions, get scared and back off because you are afraid of being rejected if the woman gets to see who you really are,are you afraid of losing the adoration? So you get another woman to get you high again, keep your distance when bonds are being formed again and the cycle continues.

You believe you are protecting yourself yet you keep yourself away from experiencing what you crave, a deep emotional connection with someone else.

Olly barbie219: Passing by

andromida: Why do you get tired?

experimentist:

mizzthang: Hahahahaha!!!! Yeye like you!!!

Okay now... have a sneak peak...

Dovahkiin: you dont really need to do anything to make a relationship last long tbh , there are some wonderful women out there , you just need to meet one and you wont even feel the time passing . if u wanna cheat , dont get caught and also most importantly , give yourselves space .

andromida: Sometimes its as simple as you have not met the right fit. Your exes may have been pretty, well mannered, kind and have all the good gal criteria but may not be what you need. The right person for you may come in an unexpected package so follow your heart.

Are you afraid of being your real self? If you are too busy pretending to be who and what you are not you will definately be with miss wrong start being authentic and the real deal may show up.

You may be afraid of being abandoned, of being vulnerable, of being hurt and have built walls around your heart to protect yourself.

You may be repeating patterns you learnt
From your parents subconsciously and creating thesame dynamic in your own relationships.It could also be you have not fully healed from a previous heartbreak.

For reasons buried deep within you, you may have lost respect for women and hey you may be gay.

You need to start work on releasing the barriers to a healthy,happy longterm rship in your mind. Keep digging into your heart the answers are all within you.

DailyNews: Life has never been fair dear....have you ever wondered why some innocent babies die immediately after childbirth Have you ever wondered why over 1million innocent Jewish people got killed by Adolf Hitler Have you ever wondered why some innocent kids got born in a very wretched family where there is no food, no shelter Have you ever wondered why some innocent kids got mothered by some mad and insane mothers

Have you ever wondered why some brilliant and hardworking people end up poor why some lazy wicked people prosper and live happy life? Have you ever wondered why some good men end up marrying bitches....whores and unworthy ladies who spent the rest of their lives sleeping with different men?

Have you ever wondered why some good girls end up marrying woman beaters? cheaters and lazy men who can't even provide for them?

Have you ever wondered why some good, kind and honest people die while wicked people live to become centenarians?

Have you ever wondered why some innocent children are born in Sudan, Somali, etc where there is no peace but daily conflicts, hunger and disease whereas so naughty kids are born in America, Switzerland, Norway, etc enjoying and even calling Police on their parents for not buying them chocolates

Have you ever wondered why some innocent children inherit sickness and disability from birth?

Life is really not fair generally...and only God knows why He made things the way they are and we can't question Him. Everyone of us, presidents, Kinds, queens, stars, palm wine tappers, pastors, prophets, etc have one or two questions to ask God...or something we keep wondering why it happened or why we get treated in a certain way....but that will remain a mystery to all.

What am I trying to say? He may meet a better, nicer, more caring lady than you are if that's his destiny...if that's in the original plan of this world...so don't get too emotional even though it hurts....just take it as one of those things about life...take it as a lesson and move on happily...come on, there are millions of lovely guys out there waiting to treat you like a queen...why get so sad just cos one guy left you?

Do you know why God or nature made him to leave you and not marry you like you desired? You better open your eyes now and begin to thank God ahead of the best guy coming your way. and dont shut your emotion down just cos of him and scare other guys away while he is somewhere having fun.

Go out...make friends...in fact, flirt if that would make you happy....every relationship mustn't end in marriage! This is one thing ladies must understand....stop expecting every guy you date to marry you...have fun....be good to people you meet and let nature decide the best for you okay?

Come on...do you know the next guy coming your way and you are here crying and hurting for one guy that left you, don't let me slap you from my computer screen...please smile okay? This is New Year o

mark joshua: The point is that,you must focus on that girl that u date,don't look down on her because you have seen her naked.do things together.prolong relationship is never advisable because girls will be uselessed Α̣̣̥и̣̣̣̥d̶̲̥̅̊ abandoned.don't date when u don't have any intention of marrying soon

McLuhan: I find this fixation on sex and sexuality rather annoying. Must every discussion on Nairaland be connected to intercourse? The worst of all is that such threads often tend to objectify women and reduce them to mere apparatuses for the satiation of male lust. As a man, I find this portrayal not only demeaning to women but also insulting to those of us who consider our wives equal partners with us. The idea of menstruation on one's wedding night as being some kind of sin or abomination is sexist, chauvinistic, and condescending.

Distingue: Come 25th of this month, it will be exactly 11years that have been dating her. The relationship is becoming miserable for some reasons, hence my planning to leave. How do I go about it without hurting her ? Please advise, no insult.
N.B.: The relationship is free of sex.

dechandel: