Lack of attention, no affection, no respect for the guy anymore, hurt from the guy or payback. But if it gets to this point the relationship is over no matter what. I don't think the majority of women can cheat and carry on with the relationship as women usually cheat with someone 'better', the decision to cheat is not solely based on looks or passion. But insecure, selfish and childish people choose this way to end a relationship, balanced people end their current relationship first and then move on.

No unless if the guy is gay.

If your b/f or g/f  is asking for a break in the relationship because he or she wants to think about future/sort out himself how much time will you give? One week, one month or more?

when someone ignores you 'silent treatment'

how is 'have a nice time' in yoruba language?

hi, does anyone know what belle or pele means in yoruba?

It is not easy to find out if they got free condoms as he visits many sites of national health service because of his job. I'll speak with him again tonight. If he had the intention to cheat for whatever reason hopefully we can try to sort things out, if he had cheated already I have to be strong and finish the relationship.

Thank you all for the replies. We are not married but doesn't mean that he is allowed to cheat, this is not something I can accept. I haven't cheat on him so many years we are together and I expect the same from him. If he wants to play around he can do it but I am not going to be in his life. He should be honest if for whatever reason he doesn't love me anymore. I was shocked because I trusted him and we have a very nice relationship. It is not only the cheating (hopefully he hasn't cheated as all the condoms were in the box) but the fact that he's lying as well.

Hello everyone

I found a box of condoms in my boyfriend's car yesterday but we don't use condoms, only occasionaly but we had other condoms in the house (we are many years together). It was a box of 3 skin condoms and all the three were in the box. They were not hidden but on the side of the driver's seat, he asked me to get something from his car and that's how I found them. We live in UK and he is working for NHS, so when I asked him why he has condoms in the car his answer was for no reason. Of course I asked for more explanations and he said that they gave them free on his workplace and he had just put them there. The last couple of months he had to stay in London occasionaly because of his work (in a relative's house). I haven't believed his story about the condoms and we argued over this. The reason I haven't believed him is 1: I've worked in NHS before and I've never received free condoms, 2nd they were in a box, usually when you get condoms from a GP/clinic are not in a condoms box but they just put them in a paper bag for you and 3rd they were skin condoms which are more expensive and I would be suprised if NHS give out this kind of condoms.

What do you think? Thanks for your replies.