Hello everyone

I found a box of condoms in my boyfriend's car yesterday but we don't use condoms, only occasionaly but we had other condoms in the house (we are many years together). It was a box of 3 skin condoms and all the three were in the box. They were not hidden but on the side of the driver's seat, he asked me to get something from his car and that's how I found them. We live in UK and he is working for NHS, so when I asked him why he has condoms in the car his answer was for no reason. Of course I asked for more explanations and he said that they gave them free on his workplace and he had just put them there. The last couple of months he had to stay in London occasionaly because of his work (in a relative's house). I haven't believed his story about the condoms and we argued over this. The reason I haven't believed him is 1: I've worked in NHS before and I've never received free condoms, 2nd they were in a box, usually when you get condoms from a GP/clinic are not in a condoms box but they just put them in a paper bag for you and 3rd they were skin condoms which are more expensive and I would be suprised if NHS give out this kind of condoms.

What do you think? Thanks for your replies.

what exactly is your beef, you two are not married are you? He is merely doing what single guys do, if and when you decide to get married then you can moan about such things

He's sure playing away match,but at least he's protecting himself,and by so doing,he is protecting you.

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SING PRAISES TO HIM BECAUSE HIS PROTECTING YOU AND HIMSELF>>>

IT WILL BE A DIFFERENT STORY IF YOU GET AN STD. . .


SO< Be happy for him!,

Thank you all for the replies. We are not married but doesn't mean that he is allowed to cheat, this is not something I can accept. I haven't cheat on him so many years we are together and I expect the same from him. If he wants to play around he can do it but I am not going to be in his life. He should be honest if for whatever reason he doesn't love me anymore. I was shocked because I trusted him and we have a very nice relationship. It is not only the cheating (hopefully he hasn't cheated as all the condoms were in the box) but the fact that he's lying as well.

Inked_Nerd:

Ok, did you not read the part where she specifically stated that he is her boyfriend? That's a clear inication that he's not single.[/size][/font]

of course I did, so what, bf means what? are they married? The guy is merely enjoying bachelorhood until he gets married, the poster should have married him to ensure exclusivity

Since you'v worked @ NHS before, I guess you should still have contacts there. Ask multiple people if they've recently handed out stuff like what you saw.

If you really want to clear this up.

  , but what will you do if you find out he lied?

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It is not easy to find out if they got free condoms as he visits many sites of national health service because of his job. I'll speak with him again tonight. If he had the intention to cheat for whatever reason hopefully we can try to sort things out, if he had cheated already I have to be strong and finish the relationship.

Inked_Nerd:


You know what it means. You know they are dating. If they're dating one another then he's ovbiously not single.

isnt that a tad hypocritical? its ok for the guy to knock her but anyone else is a no-no, This level of exclusivity is reserved only for married couples these pair are not

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Inked_Nerd:

I guess she may never know

sweet (f):

It is not easy to find out if they got free condoms as he visits many sites of national health service because of his job. I'll speak with him again tonight. If he had the intention to cheat for whatever reason hopefully we can try to sort things out, if he had cheated already I have to be strong and finish the relationship.

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Its u of course.
@op
I dont think his lying, condoms are even given during health rallies. [s]Moreover he's playing safe even if his cheating[/s] So u dont have 2 worry

@poster,

our man is innocent until proven guilty by a court of competence jurisdiction.

Thats Final.

Yes i concur wit kelvinj and specialist.

You should be thanking him for using condom, SO you both are safe to do your thang un-protected.

REALITY101:

You should be thanking him for using condom, SO you both are safe to do your thang un-protected.

thats the B part of HIV prevention which is 'being faithful to ones partner' which gives you the license to go in unprotected.

u should be happy he is playing safe

Inked_Nerd:

I guess she may never know

True. And now that he's almost been caught, he'l be much more careful in the future.
If it was for use with the poster, why leave it in his car?

seeing a condom with a guy doesnt mean he is cheating on you. moreover dont u guys do it with condom

oh didnt see dat

Inked_Nerd:Yo u are meticulous and sensible. You are[b] very objective.

lol