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Jobs/Vacancies / Re: Customer Service @ Heritage Bank Via Workforce by SwiitBerry09: 9:53am On Mar 07, 2016
dint get any response too...since last year.
Religion / Re: God Doesn't Exist, If Its A Lie Can U Proof His Existence?? by SwiitBerry09: 11:50pm On Oct 06, 2014
GOD above al gods do exist.
Travel / Re: Free Working Visa To Qatar by SwiitBerry09: 11:39pm On Oct 06, 2014
Please don't fall for it.My cousin fell into same scam last year december.till now he is still in nigeria and d initial deposit he paid hs not been refunded till now.it ws advertised on radio too &he went for the seminar.Be Wise.
Family / 10 Things That Will Make Your Husband Love You More by SwiitBerry09: 9:38pm On Oct 29, 2013
To get Married is the starting point but building it to greatness is the most important. Here I will be sharing sure top 10 key to building successful marriage.

1. Be patient to your partner: Every husband loves patient wife more, do not put him into tension to do something. Allow everything to flow, don’t push it. If he promise to do something, and all of a sudden he did not, instead of pushing him, the best thing to do is talk to him, encourage and appreciate his effort and you will see how much he will continue to fight just to satisfy you.

2. Always spare time for your lover Always make out time for your spouse. Some ladies always tell their partner they are busy. Well I think you have to cease that, as that word busy can kill your marriage. When will you have time for him or her? Remember when you guys were staring, you have time to call or text him but why can’t you now? Come on try to fix some time for your man, have fun.

3. Be an understanding partner: Always believe and trust your husband, when he say, “I don’t have money to buy the cloth for you” don’t start to doubt. Just understand and appreciate him for his effort. During bed time , if your husband is tired, allow him to rest. And leave the sex for another time.

4. Always forgive and forget: This can destroy as well make marriage strong. Forgive. Don’t bring back old things that happen between you too. Even if he wrongs you, learn how to forgive and forget, because marriage is a forever game.

5. Be caring: In this case, caring does not mean you go borrow money from the bank/ friends and buy for your partner costly things, to take him in expensive hotels. It means doing the little things that suit in your wallet. Trust me if your Husband is well raised and understanding he will appreciate and love you that way. Good Food is another way to take good care of a Man.

6. Communication: keep in touch with your partner, call or text him. If he is traveling for business, call him always to know what’s up with his journey. It will show him how much you are already missing him. So he will work very hard to come back home to you. Be closer in any possible way.

7. Be faithful and trustworthy If you don’t trust your husband, Go and learn how to. Even if is obvious that he is cheating, you are the only one that can call her back, by trusting him. Let him know how you feel.

8. Avoid listening to rumors; Rumors can kill your marriage if you allow it. they keep gathering false info and then they spread it to you. the majority of them have intentions which aren’t good. Some are interested in destroying your home. they admire the way he cares and loves you. So the only thing to do is to build up fake stories just to make you hate and dump your partner. Watch out for them.

9. Nagging ; This is another marriage killer if not corrected. Don’t always accuse your Husband falsely all the time just because you want him to be guilty. Reduce the rate at which you are complaining all the time over small things just because you want your husband’s attention and to be the controller. Such acts may make your husband start losing the love they made him marry you.

10. Dependent on your partner; Always work hard to contributing in some things, seriously stop being a parasite to your husband. If you don’t have Job, you can start a trade/business. Men love seeing industrious women. Even if you don’t have money to start, ask your husband, he will be very fast in providing every requirements, because he knows that will contribute in paying the bills.
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Romance / Top 7 Things Men Find Irresistible In A Woman by SwiitBerry09: 9:29pm On Oct 29, 2013
Every lady should be aware of those things men find irresistible in a woman, what they appreciate and what they don’t like. Thou is very difficult to find out what men think and wants because each individuals has its own understanding of how thing work. We have done series of research to find out those thing men find irresistible in a woman. They are:

Independent Woman: Men don’t like seeing women depend on them, they like those know what they want in life, have their own carriers and hobbies, as the family will be build by both efforts. This as well gives the man hope that even in his absent that his  (children) is safe and can be taken care of. This makes marriage very strong..

Best Friend: Men want their wife to be their best friend, some one they can trust, complain to and share concerns with. Any marriage where couples don’t share issue together is always compromise and always have problem in the short run.

Sweet and Beauty: Yes, This one is general with every man, they always want their wife to look beautiful, but in some extent they want sweet caring wife that can love and take good care of them, they also love a good sense of humor. If you don’t know how to handle problem with a bif smile, go and learn it.

Pressure Lady: Men don’t want to be pressured to do anything, they love pressure free woman, who will not always nag them, Every w=man should give the husband some privacy, so it will be great if don’t call or regularly send him message, chats, pings or call every minute and hour, its so bored.

Sexy: Men love their women to be sexy not trashy. This is one of the main thing that attract them to women. Every women have their best part of the body that they like and love most.. so highlight your best physical asset because that your selling point and also learn how to dress like a lady.

Well mannered woman: Nothing embarrasses men the most than that of their wife… go learn some simple ethics. Appreciate you man, encourage him to do more, show him unconditional love and support.

Your Reasoning: The most thing a man can appreciate from the wife is her reasoning, Try as much as possible to contribute ideas..Ask your husband questions and contribute your idea, as your idea may be the upliftment you are looking for.

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