Family › Re: My Wife To Be Is Too Reserved by Swinger60(f): 4:20pm On Oct 14, 2019 |
GrossPrice: Your the problem at this point and not your future bride.
As men we must not forget our duties are not only to provide financially, but as men and leaders we must constantly remind ourselves that our wives or wives-to-be need other things from men apart from money and the occasional "I love you's" plus the activities that come with it.
Emotional security, Stability, Congruence and Support (not financial) are important virtues. As men it is in our benefit that we nurture or at least attempt to attain all or many of these virtues.
If a child is scared of the dark, and still must pass through a dark room or corner to reach a destination; how would you encourage this child to do so? If a woman you love, has mediocre culinary skills, how do you ensure the woman you love develops exceptional culinary skills?
Men should not recoil at a challenge because it has to many sharp bends, or because it seems like an insurmountable hurdle. For, is it not through our dogged determination we went from walking to flying, from huts to skyscrapers and from the cold hands of death to chloroquine.
I dare not say women have achieved nothing, because they have. However, I am talking to you - man to man, as such I must speak as a man!
When you go to family events do you stay close to her and hold her hands as you speak to people. You know when she is accustomed to your family members her phobia will subside.
And, when you go out with friends, do your friends come along with their wives or wives-to-be; if they do, why don't you find a way to get her well acquainted with these ladies?
You cannot plant corn and yet hope to harvest wheat. If you want corn, you plant corn, and if you want a more social wife you must plant that seed and nurture it until it grows. Whatever you desire in your soul, being or spirit (in the spiritual), you must use your hands to work for ; before it manifests in the physical. wow. Just wow. Words of wisdom. |
Family › Re: What Or Who Influences Your Critical Decisions? by Swinger60(f): 1:01pm On Sep 26, 2019 |
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Family › Re: What Or Who Influences Your Critical Decisions? by Swinger60(f): 10:14pm On Sep 25, 2019 |
Mine is my mummy.
For every positive decision I have taken towards success .., is because of her to make her happy and comfortable.
For every negative decision I have avoided.., still because of her. I can't bear to make her sad. Or bring Shame to her.
When I'm too stubborn and mad over something.., she is the only one who calms me and make me go back on my words. |
Car Talk › Re: Camry Sport... 2008 Model For Sale In Abuja. 1.6million Naira. by Swinger60(op): 5:28pm On Sep 18, 2019 |
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Autos › Re: Camry Sport... 2008 Model For Sale In Abuja. 1.6million Naira. by Swinger60(op): 5:28pm On Sep 18, 2019 |
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Car Talk › Re: Camry Sport... 2008 Model For Sale In Abuja. 1.6million Naira. by Swinger60(op): 12:42pm On Sep 14, 2019 |
Hello people |
Autos › Re: Camry Sport... 2008 Model For Sale In Abuja. 1.6million Naira. by Swinger60(op): 12:42pm On Sep 14, 2019 |
Happy weekend |
Autos › Re: Camry Sport... 2008 Model For Sale In Abuja. 1.6million Naira. by Swinger60(op): 10:37am On Sep 13, 2019 |
Good morning darlings.
Still available. |
Business › Re: Where Can I Buy Cosmetic Bottles In Abuja by Swinger60(f): 3:25pm On Sep 12, 2019 |
Post a pics if what you want, so we can have an idea of what you are looking for |
Car Talk › Re: Camry Sport... 2008 Model For Sale In Abuja. 1.6million Naira. by Swinger60(op): 10:37am On Sep 12, 2019 |
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Autos › Re: Camry Sport... 2008 Model For Sale In Abuja. 1.6million Naira. by Swinger60(op): 4:33pm On Sep 11, 2019 |
Still on |
Car Talk › Re: Camry Sport... 2008 Model For Sale In Abuja. 1.6million Naira. by Swinger60(op): 4:31pm On Sep 11, 2019 |
kingreign: Buy the car, we'll tell you her status after.   . My boss has spoken.!! |
Car Talk › Re: Camry Sport... 2008 Model For Sale In Abuja. 1.6million Naira. by Swinger60(op): 4:30pm On Sep 11, 2019 |
nurey: Is swinger60 married or engaged or in a relationship?   . What has my status got to do with the car? The car is still available sha |
Autos › Camry Sport... 2008 Model For Sale In Abuja. 1.6million Naira. by Swinger60(op): 2:50pm On Sep 10, 2019 |
The owner wants to travel out, hence why he is selling. If you are interested, I will link you up to go and check it out.
I can be reached on 08020837082 for inquiries.
Please, only serious buyers.
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Celebrities › Re: Maureen Esisi Speaks On Crashed Marriage To Blossom Chukwujekwu by Swinger60(f): 2:35pm On Sep 10, 2019 |
All this dramas are not necessary .
Rather, you need time alone to evaluate the relationship, where you got it wrong and make sure to avoid making such mistakes again.
You also need time to heal well and move on strong.
You don't need all this drama you want to create. |
Car Talk › Re: Camry Sport... 2008 Model For Sale In Abuja. 1.6million Naira. by Swinger60(op): 2:34pm On Sep 10, 2019 |
Good afternoon my people |
Car Talk › Re: Camry Sport... 2008 Model For Sale In Abuja. 1.6million Naira. by Swinger60(op): 12:18pm On Sep 09, 2019 |
Still on. |
Romance › Re: Ladies, What Is The Most Annoying Question A Guy Has Ever Asked You? by Swinger60(f): 12:10am On Sep 08, 2019 |
LINTUNE: lol stop whining yourself, how can a guy ask such question  I am not lying, guys do. A guy I met online, have not even seen him in person, asked me for card for his monthly subscription. And that's not even the first time I have experienced such. |
Car Talk › Re: Camry Sport... 2008 Model For Sale In Abuja. 1.6million Naira. by Swinger60(op): 7:13pm On Sep 06, 2019 |
Badb0y4lyf: 1.450 where in Abuja I’m in Lagos I can make arrangement for some one to check or I fly down and buy possibly. the car is in lokogoma. You can send someone to come check it, or, you come yourself. But, it can't fly for 1.450. |
Car Talk › Camry Sport... 2008 Model For Sale In Abuja. 1.6million Naira. by Swinger60(op): 4:19pm On Sep 06, 2019 |
The owner wants to travel out, hence why he is selling. If you are interested, I will link you up to go and check it out. I can be reached on 08020837082 for inquiries. Please, only serious buyers. Admin, I don't know why you keep hiding my post. Please, allow me to hustle legitimatly.  and stop hiding my post.
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Celebrities › Re: Zlatan Ibile To Mr Eazi: Nigerian Graduates Begging For Giveaway On Instagram” by Swinger60(f): 5:40pm On Sep 04, 2019 |
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Dating And Meet-up Zone › Re: Post deleted...shutdown anyone who took advantage of this post by Swinger60(f): 8:52pm On Aug 04, 2019 |
Zillion and Ayo84.  |
Family › Re: My Wife Changed 2 Weeks After Wedding!! by Swinger60(f): 3:58pm On Aug 01, 2019*. Modified: 8:53pm On Aug 03, 2019 |
genq: Dude don't try it. Being a simp apologist will always backfire. Those who see evil and sit back without speaking up are just as evil as the perpetrators.
Yes, I know I may come off harsh in my tone but it's because of how deeply passionate I am about this matter.
Society has programmed men to be weak and subject to the fluctuating emotions of women. Don't get me wrong, I love and respect beautiful women who are smart and hardworking (and there are still lots of them around)
But most women we see in this generation lack grace and true inner beauty. Men are getting weaker by the day. The true essence of masculinity is lost and if we continue like this, society will plummet into ... only God knows. You are turning all this into a gender thing. Just as some women are bad, some men are bad too. Now, don't be hard on those asking poster to take it easy or work on trying to change her. You know why? A child is already involved in the marriage. Marriage is not what you throw away like a used tissue especially when kids are involved. The effects of broken home on children is usually not good. I agree with you that it's time poster become firm and man up to his wife as a man in the house. |
Romance › Re: Boyfriend Sends Money And Food To Girlfriend In Her Office (Photos) by Swinger60(f): 3:23pm On Aug 01, 2019 |
When a man loves a woman.
He do just anything to make her smile. |
Food › Re: Cook In Your Kitchen, Take Pictures And Post It Here. SIMPLE! by Swinger60(f): 2:19pm On Aug 01, 2019 |
kenkel: Egusi with fresh fish and chicken The Egusi looks inviting.  |
Food › Re: Cook In Your Kitchen, Take Pictures And Post It Here. SIMPLE! by Swinger60(f): 2:13pm On Aug 01, 2019 |
funlord: Breakfast of champions! Is that a stew? I mean the one in the plate at the right, stew made with palm oil? |
Travel › Re: Abuja Or Lagos: Which Is More Conducive For Living And Business? by Swinger60(f): 8:07pm On Jul 31, 2019 |
austyne22ex: well, it depends, I live in Karu site (just before Nyanyan) and there are alot of agents around here with houses that are readily available but mind u, u wont be able to get a self con for 100K in Karu, so u should be looking at 150k-300k depending on the standard of the house. As for Nyanyan and Mararaba, u should be able to get that of 100K but it might be below standard so I would suggest u put ur mind on 150k. And for Lugbe and Airport Road, I don't know much about the cost of rent and the security in the area Feel free to ask me any other question
And remember it is okay to start small in Abuja I never knew selfcons are that expensive in Karu. I have a friend who pays 150k for one bedroom in Maraba. |