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Career / Re: Some People Kill With Words by Swinger60(f): 7:20pm On May 03, 2022
Kisico:
Three days ago I received an sms from a company where I dropped my C.V close to two years ago. I went through it and low and behold, it was an invitation for an interview yesterday being Saturday. I was happy really. I prepared well for it, cancelled my supplying business appointment. I do a supplying business while looking forward to a good job opportunity. So, I woke up quite early dressed up and left for the venue. I got there around 8:10am while the interview was scheduled to hold by 9:00am.

I got to the venue and met two persons who was there for the same reason. Before it was 8:50am the whole place was filled up with others who also came for the same interview.

Finally, the interview that was scheduled to hold by 9:00am started around 11:30am. It then got to my turn, I went in and met three persons in there, one man and two young ladies. Then the man started the interviewing questions and I was giving out an impressive answers, while one of the ladies tried asking me a question, the man now cut in and ask, ' by the way, are you married'? I answered, 'no, I'm single sir'. He then asked again, ' were you married before'? I paused for a while and was wondering if it will be proper to let it out exactly the way it is. Then I decided to come out plain and answered that I was married, and I tried adding to it that I left because of a case of domestic violence, but he didn't want to hear that at all, so, he immediately cut in and said, 'young lady there's no need going ahead with anything else again since you couldn't manage to stay back and remain married, is it the company that you can be able to manage'. At this point, even the two ladies were more than astonished at him than I was. He ended it and said, 'Just forget about the job'. I just left feeling so devastated.

I managed to hold back tears till I got home and nearly cried my eyes out, recalling all that I went through. It's really sad that some people feel they can throw words anyhow at others not minding what those words are doing to their emotions.


sorry about your experience. we have mean people in this world.


I had an issue with a colleague in my place of work over a fan, I was shocked how she switched from the fan issue to telling me to go and have children. even though I gave her my own answer back. I still died inside me.

I went to the car park, called my mother on phone and cried my heart out.

Till I die, that girl will be my enemy for life.

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Celebrities / Re: Onyeka Onwenu Recounts The Difficulties Faced In Her Marriage by Swinger60(f): 11:21pm On Feb 05, 2022
Fiscus105:


This is enough to tell that, she has 60/70% fault, she is trying to portray herself perfect and put all blames on hubby. Ego from wife can destroy marriage as fast as lightning of light


So many women divorced in the past and never went public about what caused the crash.
And, Ego from men can do what to marriage?
Education / Re: MAPOLY Student Arrested For Buying Contraceptives (Photo) by Swinger60(f): 5:55pm On Feb 05, 2022
mike404:
EVEN THE TRADITIONAL WORSHIPPERS ARE AGAINST SEX BEFORE MARRIAGE, SO WOULD YOU LIKE TO TELL ME WHY A SINGLE FEMALE STUDENT SHOULD BE SEXUALLY ACTIVE WHEN WE ARE NOT IN THE WESTERN WORLD

BIBLE, QURAN AND AFRICAN TRADITIONAL RELIGION (ATR) FORBIDS SEX BEFORE MARRIAGE
Your level of hypocrisy sucks. tueh.!!

shey na only sex be the sin all religions forbids ni?

cast the first stone you who is without a sin.

sinner judging another sinner for sinning differently.

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Religion / Re: My Testimony: What GOD Cannot Do, Does Not Exist by Swinger60(f): 5:07pm On Jan 23, 2022
Righteousness2:
Congrats.

And, I will be the next to give this testimony here by God's Grace.

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Family / Re: Nigerian Couple Welcome Triplets After Years Of Waiting (Photos) by Swinger60(f): 12:58pm On Jan 18, 2022
Congrats to them.

God is too faithful.
Celebrities / Re: Yul Edochie Gifts Visually-impaired Fan N100,000 For Mimicking Him by Swinger60(f): 12:55pm On Jan 18, 2022
Just watch how some Nigerians will jump on this and start mimicking him for money too.


@Yul, you have done well.
May your pocket never run dry
Celebrities / Re: Photos Of Alaafin Of Oyo And His Oloris At His 51st Coronation Anniversary Party by Swinger60(f): 9:23pm On Jan 17, 2022
undecided

Silly women with no self worth deceiving themselves in the name of marriage.

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Family / Re: My Father Always Swears For Us His Children by Swinger60(f): 2:38pm On Dec 30, 2021
NwaAmaikpe:
shocked



I don't know which is easier to spot; a cum soaked panty, a person with a body odour or a child who has been brought up by an evil mom not to see any good in their father.

The fact that the first paragraph of your woe tale defends your mom and aims to minimize her influence on you betrays her.

I have seen plenty of your kind, fortunately for me, some of these scums are in my family, so that affords me the privilege of sniffing out the influence of long-time, manipulations momipulations once they start to complain.

The truth is,
No father is totally good, neither is there any who is totally bad. Some dads are write-offs no doubt, but it only takes a write-off of a child to write to the world of their own dad as a write-off even when pointers tell otherwise.

Some of our moms are horrible cooks, but how many times do we tell our friends that our mom's cooking was the reason most of us spent our growing years in hospitals?

It's one thing to have a brain and another to have a discerning brain.

From what I deduce,
Your dad is apparently an upright man, who would not side evil irrespective of who commits it so it's strange to your mom that he'd take sides with strangers rather than support the wrongs of his kids.

I also see you expect your dad to pick fights with people because your quarrelsome mom isn't cool with them. That's whack, infantile and shows how much you think like your mom.

The fact that he appreciates very little gifts from strangers shows he is appreciative too.

In my early twenties, I wasn't living in the family house playing referee while my parents fought, I already had a good job, a decent car and getting my preek wet most of the time in preparation for marriage.
So I relate to your dad's disappointment.

It is only unfortunate that his kids are not living up to his expectations and he is reminded of this each time he sees other kids who are and ends up voicing out his unfulfillment.

That's one of his flaws but the fact that you are alive is a testament that he was good enough to ejaculate into your mom's hollow chamber rather than allow her die childless.

I have now come to learn that the worst thing that can happen to a man is not to have a wife who spreads her legs for any Thumb, Preek and Harry but the worst thing that can happen to a man is to have a wife who spreads his flaws to not just any Tom, Dick and Harry but also to his kids.

But if you've concluded that your father is as useless as your mom has made you believe he is. Help her become a widow so you can marry her and make her taste what true love is or you can continue to hate him with every blood in your vein; but that won't stop him from being your father. Would it?

Till then, wait till you become a father with bunch of useless kids who have been completely turned against you by their troublesome mom and let's see if you won't make your dad look like a learner at cursing.

Mkpi Awada.
There is really time for everything, time to be serious and put yourself in the poster's place.

this is not time to be stupid.

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Health / Re: Trying To Conceive A Child? TTC by Swinger60(f): 5:16pm On Dec 27, 2021
Compliments of the season to everyone.

Please, who knows how much it costs to do laposcropy in Asokoro hospital?
Foreign Affairs / Re: Burned Bodies Of Women, Children Found In Myanmar. 38 Killed (Graphic Pics) by Swinger60(f): 8:46pm On Dec 25, 2021
Jesu.. cry

Man's inhumanity to man.

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Celebrities / Re: Dija Shares Photos Of Her Father And Mother by Swinger60(f): 1:58pm On Dec 07, 2021
eguarojeona:
Form association marry unaselves
Hahahahahahaha. YOU ARE MEAN..!!
Celebrities / Re: Dija Shares Photos Of Her Father And Mother by Swinger60(f): 10:17am On Dec 07, 2021
mayklef:
4 d sake of ur children, try marry who fine
so, who go come marry us wey no fine? undecided

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Celebrities / Re: BBNaija's Whitemoney Performs His Song, 'Selense' On Stage (Photos, Video) by Swinger60(f): 8:56am On Dec 04, 2021
This thread reminds me of when Tonto Dike released her song. cheesy cheesy

To make it worst, she fell on stage when performing. That incident showed me that Nairaland is another yabaleft cheesy cheesy

Someone even said if he dies and they play Tonto's song in his funeral, that he will wake up and kill everybody there. cheesy cheesy

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Politics / Re: Maria Oredola Igbinedion Is Dead by Swinger60(f): 9:59am On Dec 03, 2021
princewarri1985:
NICE ONE! BORN RICH DIED RICH. I STILL REMEMBERED WHEN MY FATHER DIED 25 YEARS BACK, WE STRUGGLED TO RAISE MONEY FOR THE FUNERAL, 2 DAYS AFTER THE BURIAL ALOT OF DEBTORS HE OWED MONEY BEFORE HE DIED STARTED LINING UP IN OUR HOUSE TO CLAIM THEIR DEBT, AND THE MOST USELESS AMONG THEM ALL WAS THE WOMAN WHO ALSO CAME TO COLLECT THE MONEY FOR 2 BASKET OF GARRI MY LATE FATHER BOUGHT, POVERTY IS A BASTARD AND ANYBODY WEY GO TELL YOU SAY MONEY NON GOOD SLAP THE PERSON MOUTH
I want to ask, did you people pay them?

how can I pay debt of someone that's dead?

what's the proof that the person was actually owing?
Celebrities / Re: Pero Adeniyi Blasts Linda Ikeji For Cropping Her First Child Out (Photos) by Swinger60(f): 9:39am On Dec 03, 2021
ugotaya:


Don't blame her joor. when her brain refused to work nko? 1, 2,3,4 and no wedding haba shocked
Linda is even trying to keep it under the carpet. Pero will not fight the men that put her in this position but na women like her she go verge her anger on shiooo.
Her brain is working that's why she decide to have those children, raise them and didn't choose to abort them.

Not everybody will get married in this life abeg. so, if marriage didn't come, the people should not have children? they should die lonely?

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Celebrities / Re: Pero Adeniyi Blasts Linda Ikeji For Cropping Her First Child Out (Photos) by Swinger60(f): 9:33am On Dec 03, 2021
Lionnation:
Four kids gotten from an illicit sex, no shame anymore old hag
so, what should she have done? remain an oldhag with no children to take care of her at old age?

see ehen, there are things I subscribe to in this world, if you didn't see husband or wife to marry, then, try to have children who will be there for you at old age abeg.

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Romance / Re: Apart From Sex What Else Do You Do With Your Partner? by Swinger60(f): 9:41pm On Nov 28, 2021
Alot.

I can spend all day with my hubby without getting bored, even when we were dating it was still same.

we tease each other. We have pillow fights. we play indoor games like ludo and even play cards betting with money. (when I see he is winning me, I start cheating) grin.

we also go out too. (I'm married to an oringo/flexing guy).

Ehen, there are some times we have fun on low key too without breaking bank. all we do is take an evening stroll, buy corn, stroll to his snooker place, I sit and munch my corn while watching him play snooker with his friends and listen and laugh to their jokes and jabs at each other.


see ehen.., in choosing a partner, choose a friend who you can be silly, unserious, shameless, witty, crazy and in their presence, e get Maka why..!!

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Business / Re: Customers Outraged Over Excessive Bank Charges by Swinger60(f): 9:18pm On Nov 28, 2021
Titaniumental:
Na una wey dey put money for all this yeye banks.

Ever since i switched to KUDA, Opay and piggyvest i no dey geh all this kind headache again
My dear, Aceess bank and UBA have finished my money, I have kuda account ooo, but, the stories I read about how it's easy to get defrauded of your money from kuda is scaring me from moving to them permanently.
Romance / Re: If Your Girlfriend Can't Prepare This - Change Her!! by Swinger60(f): 8:23pm On Nov 25, 2021
Romanoff:
Rotfl.

If you're dating Cuppy, you'd change her cause she can't cook the Ebo you put on fire.

Women done suffer o.
cheesy cheesy cheesy.

You be werey girl
Events / Re: How Did You Manage Marriage Preparations Pressure? by Swinger60(f): 8:54am On Nov 24, 2021
bbride484:
I just can't sleep. It's been like this for a while now.
Had to create this account to post this.

My wedding is few weeks from now and it's been very difficult for me to manage the pressure.
Too many things to be done.
And many, still undone.

Pls, share..
How did you handle the pressure? Especially, when you both are trying to make it low key, but family members (bride's family in particular) aren't letting you, Yet, all the expenses is on you.


Is like we're going to do something too big in our lives and we're too under pressure not to disappoint people.







First most important thing, you and hubby should make a budget/List of what you intend to spend and resolve that no matter what comes you both will never go above your budget.

second, list down all that needs to be done, and, start taking it one after the other, making payments and bookings for your day. Shikena.!!

Don't worry, that day is already blessed..

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Business / Re: Traders Lament Low Sales As Food Prices Soar In Lagos by Swinger60(f): 10:00am On Nov 23, 2021
updatechange:
No offense, buhari is a nincompoop. He kept making policies that are miserable to logical human beings...
How can you close the southern border while insurgency in the north will not allow farmers to farm and cultivate to the market at the same time hiked the dollars for importers.
Now he is committed to end importation of wheat mind you insurgency is growing rapidly under this government.
Which means there will be no more #100 bread, and the cheapest will be #200, thesame with the likes of noodles, pastas, spaghetti will all rise astronomically.
what you summed up is just the problem. I wonder what kind of people are in his cabinet sef.
Politics / Re: David Hundeyin And Bashir El-Rufai Fight On Twitter by Swinger60(f): 9:15am On Nov 20, 2021
Hashabiah:
David shouldn't stoop to this level
Uncle, once in a while,, Let ment jam ment.

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Family / Re: Will You Allow Her To Stay With Her Parents, After Trad Without Church Wedding? by Swinger60(f): 10:45pm On Nov 13, 2021
shantti:


Mama wey Sabi na im u be, I like that. But what if you parent had had contrary views,what would you have done
Lol, I for ask them "why are they holding a man's wife hostage"?

but, my parents cant have contrary view because (1). I have liberal minded parents.
(2). in my village, once your dowry is paid, you are married and must follow your husband and his people to their village that day. if you reach there, you can choose to sleep on different rooms cause of your religions, that one no cause your parents. your parents own is that your leg must touch your husband's village once your dowry is paid.

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Family / Re: Will You Allow Her To Stay With Her Parents, After Trad Without Church Wedding? by Swinger60(f): 3:10pm On Nov 13, 2021
Whatever works for the couple ooo.


for me, I have never been a fan of church wedding, I only wanted to trad wedding, do court and go home and rest.

So, after trad wedding, I told my hubby "Oya oooo Let's go". my sister brought my bags, I entered car, and off to my husband's house and village.

The thing is Couples should always do what works for them.

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Politics / Re: Ugwuanyi Assures Woman Whose Husband Killed Her Son For Rituals Of Support by Swinger60(f): 2:03pm On Nov 13, 2021
thatsleepboy1:
Political strategy and come to think of it, it might be the constant nagging and insults from the woman that pushed this man to this but she won't talk.


What the fvck did you write?

constant nagging will push a grown man to kill his own son? His own blood?

Did you even understand the level of evil this man did?


How do you sleep at night with this mindset of making excuses for evil?

Gosh!!!






https://www.nairaland.com/6843958/islam-full-fables-not-g-d#107556223

Health / Re: How Do You Take Your Pills? (Pictures) by Swinger60(f): 1:29pm On Nov 13, 2021
mine is not in the list biko.

what happens to pills and tea?

pills and soft drinks?
Celebrities / Re: Who Are The Public Figures You Look Up To ? by Swinger60(f): 8:52pm On Oct 28, 2021
undecided
Family / Re: If Not For Your Wife, Would You Have Married The Time You Did? by Swinger60(f): 6:49pm On Oct 28, 2021
ifytrik:
Well the truth is that 60 to 70 percent of married guys bellow thirty years of age would have being single if not that love blinded them and made them make the wrong decision, The fact is 90 percent of married guys bellow the age of thirty years are in deep regret today either because they are not able to achieve their goals in life or that they are now counting children instead of millions, my advice to every youth out there is, don't let a woman change your plans in life, this is because most women(especially Nigeria women) have nothing else to offer in marriage aside sex and babies, set goals for yourselfs, achieve it all or atleast achieve 70 to 80 percent of your goals before getting married, make sure you are financially okay to avoid living a life of regrets.
OK, we have heard.

Aside money, what else do Nigerian men have to offer?

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Fashion / Re: Sister Sizes: When The Wrong Bra Size Is The Right Size by Swinger60(f): 4:55pm On Oct 27, 2021
pocohantas:
By the way, what is your favourite bra colour?

There is a misconception that women hate white bras/panties because they can’t maintain them. I don’t think that is the case with most women. They are just boring and look like old mama something. Red, pink, blue, floral… anything but white please. undecided
I call "white in undies" a grandma color.

I prefer red, peach, pink, etc.

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Celebrities / Re: Maria Refrains From Comment On Husband-Snatching Palaver by Swinger60(f): 3:28pm On Oct 27, 2021
very matured reply.

All this bloggers faking love.

all they want is news to draw traffic to their site.

I love her response jare

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Business / Re: Why I Will No Longer Be Saving Money In Naira and what I will do instead by Swinger60(f): 12:28pm On Oct 24, 2021
Following.
Politics / Re: Snubbed By Tinubu In London, Osinbajo Ready For Presidential Fight Of His Life by Swinger60(f): 10:32am On Oct 24, 2021
Aufbauh:
All I want to advice is that Prof. Osinbajo shouldn't be underrated by any political actor for the 2023 presidential election.

He's no longer the' mere commissioner' they knew way back. He stands a better chance than anyone else.
Tinubu might outwit him within the party structure, but before the masses that matters in election Osinbajo will dust him.
Uncle, you said it all.

I personally will vote for him.

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