₦airaland Forum

a new relationship can not be compared to a longlasting relationship.

but both have their advantages.

a new romance is always heart-bumping, interesting, enthralling, fascinating. everything is new, you feel so confident, wanted, desired,

in a longlasting relationship you have a kind of securitiy, you know each other well, you know what the other one likes and what he doesn't like, it's maybe not so enthralling anymore, but comforting.

but after some months or years even your fling will get common, and you start chasing the next one, instead of being happy with what you have.

A friend of mine - very pretty and nice girl - has two children from a black man (she's German) and now fell in love with a Nigerian, living in Nigeria.
I don't know if they have any chance, what will the guy tell his parents? that his woman has already children?

what do you think?

but when I look at some 'brothers' here in Europe, I really get the impression that they like very big and fat white ladies.


how do you explain this phenomenon?

well, as long as all of you play with open cards, there's no problem.
but does your wife know about your gf?
does your gf's hubby know about you?

no? you keep it a secret? but why, if there is 'not bad idea' about it?

hi, your gilfriend is really really lucky to have somebody like you by your side!
what does she need more in such a difficult moment than sb who really loves her!

you should not sleep with her anymore unprotected. if you want her to get pregnant, use IVF, she can give birth to healthy children, but she must not breastfeed them. and she will have to go for a cesarian birth (not natural birth).

if she starts treatment as soon as possible and takes her medicaments, she can live on for decades without getting Aids.

best of luck!

guys, this is a very interesting discussion!

I tried to find out more about the circumcision practice among Igbos but it is so difficult. you cannot just walk towards a woman and ask her about such a private matter.
furthermore the men I asked did not know much about it. not even if their sisters are circum. or not,

one girl told me about this: when a girl is born, we take hot water and a rug and press it on the clit. that helps the clit to go inside and not get too long.

has anybody heard of that?

I am very much against female circumsision, but my son is circumsised. one because of his father who could not have done without it. two because I think that the effect on his life is not as heavy as it would be on a girl,

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very interesting topic!

long before I was pregnant I discussed the matter with my husband and one of his close friends (a father of four).
they just laughed at me and said both that a man hasn't lost anything in a ward and that it's a woman's thing.
I was very upset that day and cried because I couldn't believe that my husband would leave me alone in such a difficult moment!

later I decided to leave it up to him. because I think you cannot force a man to go through this if he's not ready to. I've heard of men who could not sleep with their wife anymore after seeing them giving birth,

when I actually gave birth, my husband was abroad and missed the whole thing. my mother and a very close friend of mine were there. and two midwives. it was just the perfect setting, only women, very peacefull, I liked it that way and I think if I ever give birth again, I don't need any man there. although I would like him to be around during labour because it takes very long at times. but as soon as the bloody part starts he can go out and have a beer.

annoyed, have you ever discussed any of these things with your wife?

sex is not just a matter of a couple of minutes at night in the bed.
do you give her enough attention during day time? do you make her feel wanted, attractive and desired?

I cannot have fun in bed with a man who does not care about me all day long and then wants me to be a tiger as soon as he turns the lights of.

romance and erotic must be built up slowly.

or do you just want to get rid of her now that you have your residence permit?

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hi everybody

no, there's no trap! and they even pay for your flight ticket back home!
but they must definitely register your biometric data. or do you think you can just come and collect as many times as you want? no way!
but let me tell you: most Nigerians don't need that money. they have made faaaar more than that during their stay in Switzerland. so they just go home without those alms and without being registered.

Swissess