My guy why not focus on your hustle and make some money then you can bleep as much girls as you want and dump them when you are done.

Do you think it's love that small girl saw in Bed Nwoko that made her marry him. Girls are moved by material things.

Forget the Africa Magic love movies, no true love anywhere. Love na scam cos when better opportunity arises they will switch.

princeiceberg:
We dated for good seven years, i have never seen her with anyone around, we both graduated school i was posted to serve my NYSC in kaltungo of Gombe state and she was sent to Ogun , since then we've not been making calls, we just chat on whatsapp and telegram, but nowadays she has not been online and her number has not been reachable, i decided to contact one of her friend, she told me that she has been with one Alhaji and he's gotten her a bank job. . . . i felt sick for that. . .and now i have moved on hustling hard, and i now realized that trusting women was a bad idea. . .

Bring your sister and you will be the judge if my reproductive system is intact or not.

Blessade:

How do you know your sperm cells are healthy?

Tramadol don dis-localize your reproductive system

Your siblings blood can get you that.

heartbraker:
is ur sperm healthy for pounds sterling? I need some to fertilize something.

Let me know when your father collects his pension and gratuity and want to build that his dream 1 bedroom bungalow. I can as well supply him clay cos he won't be able to afford cement.

Tony142:




#Rubbish, if u are so intelligent as u claim u should have come up with a better ideas and ways to solve your financial problem, also if u are truly healthy and fit as u claim u should have do some hard labour like carrying cement at building site to raise the money you need for your business

Guy wake up from your dream joor.....


Day don break

Hi,

I am presently facing some financial challenges to boost my business and I have reached out to seek help non is forth coming so I came to a conclusion that I will have to use what I have to get what I need.

I am AA and 6.1ft tall, intelligent and good looking. I have three kids already 2 boys and 1 girl and they are so healthy.

I am willing to donate my sperm or be a surrogate for any woman having challenges of conception due to infertile partner.

I am ready to sign a contract or agreement when payment terms are met and also any test needed am also ready to undergo it but at the person expense.

Write to me on my email and I will respond.

Thanks

Hi Nairalanders,

I will try to make this short as possible.

I just relocated to Abuja and not pretty settled and would love to join networks of positive and business oriented people as friends.

Lets network please so I can channel the few energy inside of me to the right course.

Thanks

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It is so unfortunate the high cost of maintaining vehicles in Nigeria especially Lagos due to bad roads and quack mechanics who use your car as practicals and trial and error.

Most car faults and unnecessary break down are caused as a result of lack of maintenance culture on the part of the drivers in possession of the car.

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Thanks for your intelligence and wisdom.

PhantomXcess:
What is it about doing domestic chores or helping your partner do laundry or clean that makes African men feel they're less human. If you don't plan to improve or help your significant other, why not break up with them and move out to a place where you can do only your chores and help only yourself.

But, a job won't automatically make you stop doing chores or helping your SO. It wont automatically make her start doing hers. You should actually discuss this with her and ask her to pick days she can help with chores while you make it clear that you will commit those days to intensifying your job search or learning extra relevant job skills. Nurture your partnership and grow together.

It's a WE thing not a YOU thing. See things differently man. Blessings

NYSC side in Kubwa and I am a Security Operative with first degree.

tunjijones:


Whats your educational qualifications and which part of Abuja do you reside.

You made a foolish mistake but that doesn't mean there is mo correction for this mistake.

Yeah thanks for the constructive criticism and now it's really understable and I will make use of those points has highlighted by all. Thanks.

BarristerAlarig:



I'm sorry if you can't take constructive criticism. I wasn't harsh, I said it the way it is and I understood your message. The facts remains that ;
1. You feel you shouldn't be doing house chores. You want her to go to work, get stressed and still do the chores while you lazy about.

2. You don't want to hustle. If after trying to secure a job and nothing was forthcoming, you could easily have had your car sent down to abj to hustle but selfish you wanted to "test" her.

3. You didn't consider how financially and emotionally draining it is for her to take care of two adults who aren't even related while you do practically nothing.

4. You don't "test" people with their finances. It is wrong


5. This economy is telling on everyone. No one wants a liability.

Honestly, I don't see the house chores as a big deal and as a matter of fact I don't need her to tell me to get that done cos it is a way of being responsible.

My issue and why I raised that point was I noticed she nags and complains more even when it isn't necessary.

She only behave normal and act loving again whenever she needs sex and I am honestly holding back on that cos with the little I have seen, getting her pregnant would complicate things for me and she gets more infuriated when I hold back on the sex.

I just pray God opens a way for me before it's too late for me cos it's really affecting me emotionally. I disgust nagging women who doesn't consider peaceful communication without raising there voice.

McSquishi:


You described doing house chores as “being reduced to house help”... reduced is not usually the word choice when you have no issues with the position.

I agree that belittling and degrading words are never ok. It even rises to the level of verbal abuse if it is consistently occurring... you can have a talk with her and let her know that you understand she’s disappointed in the fact that you haven’t lived up to her expectations yet but she should be patient with you and communicate with you in a way that doesn’t rise to the level of disrespect.

I will implore you to carefully read people's write up properly before commenting and understand the context well. Kindly quote me where I ever complained about asking her for money or being entitled to her money and as a matter of fact I still support with some expenses like fuelling, cooking gas, water and electricity bills.

I have some tokens I make online which is not coming regularly but still support when it drops.

Stop being sentimental or portraying your feminism out of anger or annoyance. All I asked for is not you judging me but how to right all wrongs and you are here playing the perfect one.

Please be calming down and learn to take a chill pill on people's issues and not complicate things for them abeg.

BarristerAlarig:




You are a very nasty person who feels entitled to other people's money. So you have a car, which could have been used for ehailing services to generate income pending when you get a job but you choose to leave it idle in Lagos while expecting a woman to shoulder your responsibilities in this harsh economy because you want to "test" her??


You deserve everything you are getting. I pray she throws you out.

Thanks for your words of advise. God bless.

Yusufisraelj:



You're entitled to your opinion no doubt, but a counsel was sort and you were not constructive in your depositions. Think about it.

@Switchman

Sincerely sorry for your situation, firstly you made mention on owning a vehicle, do Uber or Bolt you are guaranteed of 20K profit per week, I think I have someone to link you with, however just download the app and follow instructions, if you will need cash to Kickstart borrow from the lady with a payback time, but don't be too quick to give a deadline enter first and see how revenue comes.

Secondly I should suspect you have a skill, go somewhere where it's needed and probably work for small fee, the gist is this, you would want to build connections around that industry. You see money is largely a function of relationships, who you know and who likes you matters.

Thirdly go out and do conductor or something to get acquainted with abj and raise something for yourself. Don't stay at home 247.

But of Apex importance be a man with a regimented time of daily prayers minimum 30minutes if u re a Christian, blasting in tongues, you can't just come to a place and start succeeding, you must be helped and even more so you need divine ideas to succeed. Every money problem is an idea problem, you need to be inspired and work on connectivity. Cheers

Thanks so much for your words of encouragement. I will seek God's face in prayers for divine connection and favor.

AwesomeStormy00:


@Switchman keep strong depression is real, you arent happy because of you are unemploy at the minute, your girlfriend is not helping matter because of argument etc.

Question now is do you love her? If you do, then you can work things out i mean your fortune is going to change.... covid 19 causing havoc to businesses worldwide you need to be positive and apply law of attraction into your thinking.

Money issues do bring fight & argument into most relationship the only way out of it is not to give up. Please try pray if your believe in God. Midnight prayer do work wonders. Good luck sir

Thanks for the advise, honestly I think that is the exact strategy I will use to buy time for myself. I will have to play the fool and obedient child while I work on my plan B. I don't think it's worth being depressed cos if I die life goes on for her.

May God bless all the guys in the house financially cos without money love and respect vanishes.

McSquishi:


You described doing house chores as “being reduced to house help”... reduced is not usually the word choice when you have no issues with the position.

I agree that belittling and degrading words are never ok. It even rises to the level of verbal abuse if it is consistently occurring... you can have a talk with her and let her know that you understand she’s disappointed in the fact that you haven’t lived up to her expectations yet but she should be patient with you and communicate with you in a way that doesn’t rise to the level of disrespect.

Though you sounded harsh to me but the fact is that you are actually right cos that was the most stupid decision I took and I can't reverse that which is why am here to seek advise so I won't make a more worse one.

Like I said I had a back up plan which is my car I left in Lagos and intentionally don't want to bring it to Abuja to do side hustle cos I want to know her attitudes in worse case scenario and I never expected within 3 months she will turn boss lady on me.

aroundtheearth:
Abeg, shift. Depressed ko. He got himself into the mess he's in. It's nobody's fault he moved in with her with no job and no money saved either.

The same way you should've read my comment and passed. It's not your place to police anyone's comment here, so keep it moving.

Three months pass and am already feeling the heat, for now just wanna play the fool and double my hustle without letting her know my plans and at the slightest opportunity I move. Nothing as sickening as having a nagging wife

lefulefu:
bro if u not attracted to her dont involve urself oo cos if u do u will regret the marriage

I wasn't even thinking of becoming a parasite cos we both were doing fine when we met and she promised all the support she can give till I settle down fully but with the covid 19 lockdown and all the whole thing changed.

It was a genuine feelings I had for cos what she lacked in beauty and my taste she gave it back in being caring and love but the absence of money from end is not helping matters and the beast in her was so uncoverable no more.

mariahAngel:




With the words above, you'd know that the op had it all planned out from the start.
He deliberately sought out an older lady for his gain.
He brought the problem upon himself.

I don't even doubt if his ultimate plan was to leave the lady after achieving his aim.

Yes you are right I actually accepted her cos then I was seeing anyone and secondly am in my late 30s too and I felt this is a good opportunity to set my self up in the family way but the way she changed overnight due to the fact that the job search wasn't going the way we expected. Na money be man true true.

lefulefu:
notice op didn't mention he liked what he saw in her even though he mentioned she liked what she saw in him.my conclusion is that is just using her to step up on life and the girl in question is desperate to get a man since she feels age isn't on her side.nothin to advice here .

I actually don't have issues with the house chores as a way to assist her but the bad mouth is really killing me.

McSquishi:


Well, firstly why did you accept the interest of a woman who you perceived was only interested in you due to her “age and desperation”? Why would u want to be chosen based on desperation?

You should be mindful that because she is the breadwinner she is not treating you like the house help by expecting to you to manage the home, she is treating you like the other half. When one goes out and works the other stays home and gets things in order there.

You should want to be doing so well managing the home duties that she almost forgets to be disappointed in the fact that you’ve failed to earn an income. Have dinner waiting, keep the place spotless, fold her clothes...

But it’s nice to see a man recognizing that the duties of managing the home isn’t easy

[Thanks for being nice to me. Your advise is well received.

Normal me knows what to type but I got soft when he mentioned depression, let me not just add to it[/quote]

Please I Need Your Candid And Long Term Advise, I Am Presently Depressed And Out

This will be a lengthy one but I promise to summarize it as much as I can.

I met a lady in her late 30s 18months ago through an online friend. I was working in Lagos while she was based and working in Abuja.

We chatted for a while before she volunteered to come to Lagos for a visit over the weekend which doesn't seem a bad idea to me cos I believed seeing in person is better than 1 million pictures.

Due to her age and desperation, we met and she liked what she saw in me and intensive talks began on how I can relocate to Abuja and get better job. I actually haven't been to Abuja so I was excited to take that move with the hope of becoming a better person and getting a better job.

I resigned from my job due to some issues as at that time which could had been managed but so I can have more time to visit and see how things are in Abuja before making my final preparation to relocate. She supports financially during those time while I use my car for ehailing business pending when I will finally relocate.

Covid 19 lock down came and all plans were halted due to restrictions on vehicular movements. Fast forward to November last year I made final plans and I agreed to finally relocate but on the conditions that we will need to get a new apartment cos I don't want to move in with her to her former apartment which was a one room self contain, we got a 1 bedroom apartment and I moved in with her. She owns 90% stake on the expenses incurred but in the spirit of hope for a better job, I will upgrade the apartment to have an equal stake in the home.

It's been 3 months now I have fully relocated and we have been cohabiting but it's been hell for me and I just need help on how to get out of this mess I put myself. No job was forth coming and due to the fact that I am home always, I have been reduced to a house help cos I am the one doing the chores, cleaning the dishes and even my laundry though she pays for her own, so many other insults and atimes it's with exchanges of words before I can take a walk just to acclimatize myself with the terrains of the area.

It's really a bad experience for a man not to have a steady source of income cos in a twinkle of an eye the love will vanish.

I love the lifestyle of Abuja cos it is less stressful than Lagos and I will really like to get a good source of income so I can get my own apartment and be free from the shackles I put myself in the name of love.

I really need help now cos I know my days are numbered and it's a matter of time before she sends me packing cos I really don't have the right to the apartment. Please house, I need your candid advise on what to do and as always constructive criticism is allowed.

Thanks
Switchman