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Romance / Re: Most Annoying Things Many Guys Does On Social Website. by swtesther(f): 7:08pm On Sep 20, 2014
snakebeat: No dey hype yourself jor.....who get your time, na fine u too fine abi na money u get....get lost jare.....cum here con dey hype herself, who knw u....*hiss*


hmmmm..where are you from...you sure you are ok?
Romance / Re: Most Annoying Things Many Guys Does On Social Website. by swtesther(f): 12:07am On Sep 20, 2014
Hi, i want to use this opportunity to warn nairaland guys to stop disturbing me with emails!!! I jx registered, and lots of guys are sending me emails. D one dat made me loose my mind was wen i logged in, nd i saw dat abt 35guys sent me emails, i had to do sumtin to stp dis madness! It is making my mail box crowded wit useless mails, nd i hate letting my email get crowded! Its tooo much, and it gives me headache. I try to be nice nd answer 'em all, bt thrz jx too much a girl can take okay? embarassed pls stop sending too much mails. Am sure thr ar some gals who ar facing the same thing im complainin of. Ask bfor u send, nd if i say no. Pls dnt try to send! Iv tried to make u guys stop, bt it seems impossible, so i had no other choice but to post lt here as a topic. And pls does anyone knw hw to ban someone frm sending u prvt msgs or emails on nairaland? If u knw, pls share wit me. I rly need it to tame these nairaland guys angry Sorry if i sounded rude, but like i said, i had no choice. No insults pls. angry



this is exact example of wat the op is insinuating.....guys dey fall hand on social mobi as if they ve nt seen ladies undies before.gosh

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Romance / Re: Most Annoying Things Many Guys Does On Social Website. by swtesther(f): 11:50pm On Sep 19, 2014
valkaka: THIS IS MADNESS.......... A guy will make an update, full of Wisdom,Educative, Inspirational, laced with polished grammars on his update and gets 3 likes and 1 comment!! A girl will post "My back is paining Me "All guys will turn to stupid doctors overnight!! for my back is paining me and she will get 209 likes and 456 quack doctors giving out therapy and prescription comment on how to cure back ache!! A girl will post "am making Wheat and Okro" lunch which am sure will be tasteless!! You will see 506 hungry guys indicating interest on comment and 356 others liking it!! This attitude or rather addiction have to stop!! Abeg what is likeable in that?? A girl will post a blank picture on Facebook!! you will see some stupid, jobless nonsense guys saying "you look dark and lovely" loll this is crazy GUYS, PLEASE WAKE UP, stop wasting likes on useless posts.

the whole thing is becoming an eye- sore.


infact val i owe you one...****.
Romance / Re: Most Annoying Things Many Guys Does On Social Website. by swtesther(f): 11:49pm On Sep 19, 2014
op you mother the post abeg...95 percent guys on the planet are damm guilty of this.very gross...most guys needs to grow up and stop rushing after evrytin on skirt.
Romance / Why Men Want Love And Women Want Money. by swtesther(f): 12:18am On Sep 02, 2014
Call me old fashioned, but I’ve always been of the mindset that, yes, money can buy love. You know, because it can. Do you really think rich 75-year-old men would be able to land the beautiful young women that they do, if they didn’t have all that extra cash to share? I may want to be financially independent, but I’m not above having my partner share his wealth with me, so yeah, I’d sign up for the old dude. Maybe. Possibly. OK, only if he looked like Patrick Stewart. Everyone loves Patrick Stewart.

Since money and love go hand-in-hand for many people, EliteSingles surveyed 500 singles to see just how significant money is in their relationships. What they found is that, overall, when it comes to bucks, women are more concerned about it than men. This isn’t to suggest that we’re all a bunch of gold-diggers, of course, it just means that maybe we like to live within a certain standard. You can’t blame a woman for preferring crème brulee to pudding!

The good news to come out of this study was that the majority of men and women wouldn’t date someone just because they had money. Phew! A paltry 4 percent of men and 8 percent of women, however, are content to dig for someone else’s gold, but these are probably the same type of people who hate bunnies and pizza. So, basically, they’re no good in more ways than one. I might be reaching here, but let’s just go with it.

When it came to feelings about who makes more in the relationship, a lot of women seem to think we’re living in 1950. As the survey found, “Women also seem uncertain about marrying a man earning less than them — just 25 percent said they’d do so, while 29 percent would if their man had possessions to balance things up.” What the wha–?! I guess it’s a good thing that 92 percent of men would marry someone who made less than them, because, you know, the pay gap is still out there plaguing us, so it would be weird if men had a hard time with that.

The part of the survey involving lending money to partners also revealed some big differences between the genders. While 81 percent of men would “unconditionally” lend money to their partner, only 44 percent of women would do so. Also, the number one money pet peeve is when a partner borrows money, but doesn’t pay it back. According to the participants of the study, that’s even worse than telling your partner how to spend their money or lying about the price of things. Although there’s some common ground in terms of pet peeves, it doesn’t change the fact that men and women think VERY differently when it comes to money.

EliteSingles’ psychologist, Dr. Wiebke Neberich, blames women’s “evolutionary character and their desire for independence,” on some of these old-school thoughts, like only dating men who make more money than us. As he explains, “Women today have long fought for social and financial independence from men, and rightly treasure this achievement. The female desire for security and a resource-rich partner may, at first glance, appear to be a contradiction. But this can be explained by women’s natural role as the more dependent person during the phase of starting a family — even in today’s more equal society. Considered from an evolutionary perspective, it makes sense that women look for a well-off partner.”

I thought I was looking for a well-off partner because I want that vintage Chanel handbag that I can’t afford to buy for myself, but maybe I’m wrong. Maybe it is all about evolution, I mean, isn’t it usually?

One thing’s for sure, is that this study proves that men and women have yet to get on the same page when it comes to money. It’s not an easy subject to tackle, but one worth having to save our relationships from demise further down the road. In opening the lines of communication about how much we make, how much we’re willing to contribute to the household, and how much can be set aside for retirement, we can avoid drama. The number one thing that couples fight over is money; so nipping that in the bud now is the way to go. - See more at: http://www.cedisarena.com/gh/forum/8719/must-read-why-men-want-love-and-women-want-money#sthash.1XjCodIZ.dpuf
Romance / Re: Real Reasons Why Men Cheat On Beautiful Women by swtesther(f): 12:02am On Sep 02, 2014
valkaka: Trying to understand men when it comes to cheating is like trying to solve a Chinese puzzle when you cannot read Chinese.

It is always difficult to understand why a man will cheat, especially on a very beautiful woman he has. But it happens all the time.

After speaking to several of my male friends one this topic, I have decided to share some of the reasons they gave as to why most men cheat on their beautiful partners.

If you think you are beautiful and that means your man will be faithful and glued to you alone, then you are up for the big shock. Being exceptionally beautiful does not guarantee faithfulness in the world of men.

This is why so many beautiful women such as Halle Berry have been cheated on and are so insecure in life. These women know that being physically beautiful will attract the men but then it takes more than that to keep them for yourself only.



nice one valentine

If a man is cheating on his beautiful woman, then it is one or more of these;

She knows nothing more than looking beautiful

It is true that men love to be with beautiful women, especially those who know how to project glamour and prettiness all the time. However, men quickly get bored with looks and begin to look beyond the physical appearance.

Faithfulness hardly comes from physical attraction, emotional connection is needed to seal a deal on faithfulness.

When a woman is only good to be showcased around in beauty, men begin to look out for the important things that make up a loving relationship. For instance, a man wants to be taken care of and if a beautiful woman won’t bend over to get that done, he will surely look around for where he can find that.

Also, no matter how rich a man is, he will love to see his woman do something with her life. So if a beautiful woman has nothing important going on in her, apart from watching reality TV shows and painting nails, the man is set to look for the ‘woman inspiration’ somewhere…

She is ugly inside

There are several beautiful women out there who will give you a heart attack when they walk pass your man. Despite their beauty, these women are not able to get a man to stay faithful.

Have you ever wondered why that man who has such a beautiful partner won’t stop bothering you? You may think she is far beautiful than you and that is probably a fact. But she is ugly like hell inside.

When it comes to beauty, men are confused…One minute they want the woman who looks like a model. The one they can show around to friends and walk around holding her hands whiles every other man gets jealous. The next minute they are looking for the inside beauty, which is the calmness, kindness, support, understanding, softness and love that the not so beautiful girl they know possesses.

At this stage, they start to move back and forth between the not so beautiful woman and their beautiful partner.

The sex is not good

There are some of us women out there that know how to really rock a man’s boat. Being beautiful does not in any way mean you are a boat rocker in bed. For a woman to be able to blow the mind of a man, she must be a person who pays attention to details and responses.

If the woman is good in bed, then the man will keep coming back. No matter how beautiful a woman is, if the man is not getting the satisfaction he thinks he deserves and she is not ready to make improvements, time will catch up on her and he will sneak to get what he is missing from somewhere.

Anytime you meet a couple with one beautiful so cute and the another being just normal, do not ask how it happened, because it all happens when they enter the bedroom.

Why do you think men cheat on their beautiful women?
Romance / Re: Stop Trying So Hard To Impress Women! by swtesther(f): 10:15pm On Aug 10, 2014
i somuch hate pretenders....so if you try to be one around me,i will run you dry.period!!

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Romance / Re: Stop Trying So Hard To Impress Women! by swtesther(f): 10:13pm On Aug 10, 2014
valkaka: Whether you impress a lady or not...if she dosnt like you...she will never do..it dosnt matter if you break d banks for her.so why nt be ur real self and attract ladies instead of impressing them.


thats nice op...gud write up.
Romance / Re: Stop Trying So Hard To Impress Women! by swtesther(f): 10:12pm On Aug 10, 2014
Plexus: Fu@ck off and stop ruining relationships with your incessant 750 paragraph rant essays on how to and how not to treat a woman...embarrassing tw@

guess you are the only one complaining...it shows how guilty you are!...very annoying!...sorry dude.
Food / Re: What Do You Know About Cucumber? by swtesther(f): 12:09pm On Aug 05, 2014
i use it on my eyes and skin and it is giving me a good feeling.cucumber is awesome for me.
Nairaland / General / Re: 24 Rule Of Classiness by swtesther(f): 12:07pm On Aug 05, 2014
dats nice!...keep it up.
Nairaland / General / Re: List Of Nairalanders I Have Seen Real Life But Have Not Seen Me. by swtesther(f): 12:04pm On Aug 05, 2014
missberrypop5: space goat? grin


keep wanting!!!
Romance / Re: Who Are The Pretty Girls/cute Guys On Nairaland by swtesther(f): 4:51pm On Jul 31, 2014
valkaka: Smh!!!...i will only luk handsome infront of my future galfriend...hope she is reading diz??


da@s lovely...sure she is!
Romance / Re: What Kick Start A Relationship - Beauty Or Good Traits? by swtesther(f): 12:58am On Jul 26, 2014
and for the question....for me,i think it all starts with looks,if it dosent please the eye,wats d point?...then i think personality n character add the cement to the physical attraction.
Romance / Re: What Kick Start A Relationship - Beauty Or Good Traits? by swtesther(f): 12:55am On Jul 26, 2014
hmmm,the more i read,the more i ve come to realize dat wen a woman says luks do not matter,dat she more than likely is just being nice.
LOOKS ALWAYS MATTER.if a person does not have sontin to draw you to dem,whether it,be a nice smile,sparkling eyes,big arms,nice build etc,you will never get to see the person's character or personality.

So please be real and admit that looks matter to a point.

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Romance / Re: What Kick Start A Relationship - Beauty Or Good Traits? by swtesther(f): 12:45am On Jul 26, 2014
valkaka:


beauty + personality + good character = perfect relationship.....i wish my future galfriend is reading diz.


funny!...dont worry am here.

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Romance / Re: Y Do Ladies Make It Seem Hard To Tlk To Them? by swtesther(f): 12:46pm On Jul 24, 2014
valkaka:

so yu re@actually saying d@ ugly guys like uz dnt stand any chance wen approaching pretty ladies right??


and who says you re ugly?...hmmm,stop deceiving people abeg!

Well its quite unfortunate for a guy to be damm ugly,atleast you ve got to be gudluking and presentable,nt necessary bein ugly..very gross!
Romance / Re: Y Do Ladies Make It Seem Hard To Tlk To Them? by swtesther(f): 12:34pm On Jul 24, 2014
youngds:

lol... bros na competition? huh!! which 1 u serious has if you won carry 1st on top

wat competition re we toking abt here val?
Romance / Re: Y Do Ladies Make It Seem Hard To Tlk To Them? by swtesther(f): 4:52pm On Jul 23, 2014
LaurelP:

So why are u still fu**ckin single
Why is dat swt body of urs still wasting undecided
Haven't u seen 'neat and confident' guys already?

hahaha...funny!!..ur plan fail joor..an atempt to find out my relationship statuz!!...sorry..try again.
Fashion / Re: Ladies: What Makeup Reveals About You by swtesther(f): 4:42pm On Jul 23, 2014
If yu aint cool with ladies make upz!!...go and die period..no time to listen to u guys gibderish comments and updates.

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Fashion / Re: Ladies: What Makeup Reveals About You by swtesther(f): 4:40pm On Jul 23, 2014
Kids will always be kids....gossiperz!!!
Romance / Re: Y Do Ladies Make It Seem Hard To Tlk To Them? by swtesther(f): 4:32pm On Jul 23, 2014
xp17: ...and the cute and confident fella seldom have time for one lady, they are like a free bird moving from nest to nest. do not you think there are other appealing qualities you could get other than "confidence and fine boy" . yes, it's good to mingle with a confident and a fine fella, but remember, you can not eat your cake and have it .

I would go for confidence + cute + something else
or
something else + something else - confidence -cute.
confidence and cute standing alone without other attributes is zero, incase you are unbeknownst prior.


do ladies really know what they want?


i guess ur physical appearance attracts me to d rest of ur qualities...yu ve got to luk neat n confident in oda for me to get closer to inner qualities of urz.
Romance / Re: Nairaland's Most Beautiful Ladies by swtesther(f): 1:37am On Jul 23, 2014
this for my nairaland crush...he knows himself.

Romance / Re: Who's your Nairaland Crush? by swtesther(f): 1:33am On Jul 23, 2014
i love those cute eyes of urs valentine.
Romance / Re: Nairaland's Most Beautiful Ladies by swtesther(f): 1:29am On Jul 23, 2014
daaaaaaaaaasss moi

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Romance / Re: Nairaland's Most Beautiful Ladies by swtesther(f): 1:26am On Jul 23, 2014
beauty be what

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Romance / Re: Nairaland's Most Beautiful Ladies by swtesther(f): 1:22am On Jul 23, 2014
kiss me if you can

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Romance / Re: Y Do Ladies Make It Seem Hard To Tlk To Them? by swtesther(f): 1:02am On Jul 23, 2014
angel866:

tell that to blind ladies


val i love your eyes sha,you re very cute.stop denying.
Romance / Re: Y Do Ladies Make It Seem Hard To Tlk To Them? by swtesther(f): 1:01am On Jul 23, 2014
i fancy cute and confident guys,so if you aint confident,i wont allow you get close to me talkles of talking to me.
Romance / Re: the beauty of nairaland women (reloaded) by swtesther(f): 2:35pm On Nov 12, 2013
still meeeeeeeeeeeeee

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Romance / Re: the beauty of nairaland women (reloaded) by swtesther(f): 2:34pm On Nov 12, 2013
dats meeeeeeeeeeeeeee

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Adverts / Re: Study In Ghana With With Your Waec And Neco Results..no Jamb. by swtesther(f): 2:42am On Nov 14, 2012
please my cousin wantx to study medicine an surgery.

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