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Family / Update: Battle For Child Custody For A Deceased Friend by SyNnadi(m): 3:46pm On Jul 26, 2019 |
A meeting was lastly fixed for both families to iron out the issue for today but the in-laws deliberately refused to attend. Right from the day of d invitation deir dad's number was switched off after it rang once then the message was related to both the eldest brother and sister . they were called several times today but refused to take their calls. |
Family / Re: Vera Ogbebor: Battle For Child Custody by SyNnadi(m): 10:15am On Jul 19, 2019 |
phineas: |
Family / Re: Vera Ogbebor: Battle For Child Custody by SyNnadi(m): 11:21am On Jul 18, 2019 |
seanwilliam: Same thing that is baffling everyone that knows them. This is d same wife they were proud of and all of a,sudden its the opposite in a twinkle of an eye. Dose it mean they never liked her all along and were just pretending to love her? |
Family / Re: Vera Ogbebor: Battle For Child Custody by SyNnadi(m): 11:07am On Jul 18, 2019 |
[quote author=seborrhic post=80378599] Extremely and clearly one sided,but the most shocking thing is that 90% of posters here have already concluded and calling the husband's family all sorts of names. The truth about this case and all her wild allegations can only be known if she can provide further details,such as: -She claimed knowing her husband's death only during the burial,several weeks after his death. For a wife that was not in coma in hospital,you didn't hear from your husband and u didn't bother finding out why he hasn't called to find out how u are doing?She also didn't tell her own relations to tell them she hasn't heard from him? It's either she is outrightly lying here or her own family members were also aware of d husband's death and both sides agreed to keep the news away from her for her own health concerns,not a unilateral decision taken by d husband's family. -She also claimed d husband's death was caused by an overdose of a pain killing injection they were both to be given.Is she now saying after the husband was given,she wasn't given same injection?I find it hard to believe that bcoz d husband was still alive then and there is no way she would have known d dosage was too much to decline receiving same. I believe that she brought up this overdose theory because both of them were given same injection and in order to forcefully rope in the man's sister as d killer,she is using overdose,otherwise she would have simply said d sister killed d brother with a lethal drug. -She is also claiming she wants the custody of her child,all good and well,without providing reason the family gave for taking the child,asides her own wild theory of they feeling he used her as next of kin. Even if the speculation is true,it says a lot that a husband would use a then barely year old child as next of kin,not the wife and mother of the child. What I see here is appeal to emotions that the social media can weep up for people like this to get the child.But I can bet anything her tale of events used in weeping up these distressed and deprived mother sentiments,are not all what they seem. I hope for her sake this matter doesn't end in court and both sides can come to a mutual understanding and agreement because if it does,the lawyers on the husband's family side will reap her to pieces and put her in more emotional turmoil,if she still comes up with this kind of story.People with far more believable stories have found it distressing facing an opposing child custody lawyer,talkless of one with question marks everywhere.[/quote 1. She wasn't informed of her husband's death when it happened. Her parents could not tell her either bcs of the condition of her health . it was hidden from her... She keeps asking of him from the elder sister inlaw day by day. Her answer to the wife has always been "he is fyn , I just left d hospital now, he is responding to treatment" each time she request to at least hear his voice, excuses where given to her. She was been made to understand that he's responding to treatment... She came to know from the Lagos landlady who called to give her condolence greeting by saying "sorry for your loss" ur sister in law called to inform me for this sad news and has also requested to gain access to ur apartment to pack your belongings. If you have anything valuable come and get it because she said they will come for it after his burial ....... Another thing: this was how she and her family got to know a date has been fixed for the burial.. They were not carried along with anything even when the in-laws went to sapele to pack the husband's belongings n also went to his office to get support from them, the wife n family was not carried along. 2. Because of her multiple fractures, d wife was taken inside the house with a stretcher while d husband who had just a thigh fracture was sorted outside .... Then the younger sister came n was saying she delayed because they never wanted to sell d injection to her because she was without a doctor's prescription and was made to writ an undertaking. She came straight inside with syringe to give d wife but the traditional bone healer said he does not work with that , that was how she went outside to give the brother...(they were both not in the same room: one was inside d other outside) The next thing that was heard is shouts everywhere before he was quickly rushed to a hospital where it was,ascertained that he died out of that injection.... 3. The in-laws believed they were the only one that lost him thereby saying the baby is now their property...... I wish they can come out straight to let everyone know y dey are holding on to the baby it would be nice. Up till now nothing only for them to start telling people after the first post on the issue here on nairaland |
Family / Re: Vera Ogbebor: Battle For Child Custody by SyNnadi(m): 9:49am On Jul 18, 2019 |
Knowseek:Follow her handle @vera_ogbebor |
Family / Re: Vera Ogbebor: Battle For Child Custody by SyNnadi(m): 9:47am On Jul 18, 2019 |
Cantonese: The in-laws didn't inform her n her family that a date has been fixed for his burial. She got to know from their landlady in Lagos who called to give her condolence greeting to her and thereby told her that her sister in law called and is requesting access into their apartment to pack their belongings. That if d wife has anything valuable in the apartment that she should come and get them before on the 12th which is d burial....... That was how she n her family learnt that a date was fixed for his burial |
Family / Re: Vera Ogbebor: Battle For Child Custody by SyNnadi(m): 9:13am On Jul 18, 2019 |
ednut1:Is that your next plan? |
Family / Re: Vera Ogbebor: Battle For Child Custody by SyNnadi(m): 3:42pm On Jul 17, 2019 |
Update from the wife 4 Likes |
Family / Vera Ogbebor: Battle For Child Custody by SyNnadi(m): 3:41pm On Jul 17, 2019 |
Update: Battle For Child Custody For A Deceased Friend Earlier thread here https://www.nairaland.com/5293255/battle-child-custody-deceased-friend On the 15th of DEC 2018 I and my husband was involved in a motor car accident along kwale asaba road that left us with fractures ( I broke both of my tights a d my right arm while he broke just a thigh) .admitted at a hospital at kwale n discharged to go to benin to receive treatment from a traditional bone healer two days later he passed on after an injection was administered to him by his younger sister joy akhator Lawrence ( the injection was prepared for both of us but he was administered first). He was immediately rushed to a near by medical center where it was ascertained that he died because of the high dosage of d injection she(joy akhator Lawrence) said was a pain killer. His death by this time was not made known to me till few weeks later when I received a call from my landlord in Lagos saying she's sorry for my loss and that my sister in-law(loveth akhator) called her to tell her of the ordeal and also requested that access been given to her(loveth akhator) to pack my belongings in the apartment since my husband ( Emmanuel akhator) his brother was late. That she wanted to know weather its with my consent. That was where d battle started officially...... They never paid any visits to me or asked after my well being or asked how we r going about the surgeries I had to later go through ( because it got to a point I could no longer take the pains when the traditional bone man was treating me). Instead they went straight to my husband's office in sapele delta state to inform them of his demise and further demanded for what was due to him from the company. They even went on telling his friends and colleagues that am perfectly fine when they ask of my wellbeing not until d day of his funeral (January 12th,2019) when I was not seen on the ground. Then they stated asking many questions till they finally were able to get someone (a friend of mine) that showed them the hospital I was admitted Into...... MeanWhile they have been getting financial support from his office n friends without my knowledge....... On getting to the hospital his colleagues were shocked at the condition they found me it was then they now told me of the statement made by my in-laws stating I was fine...... That it was my absence at d funeral ground them insisted on seeing me..... All efforts for his friends to meet with me were thwarted by my in-laws since they were the ones they always go through .....d night before the funeral my siblings had called me from home ( I was still in the hospital) that my late husband's elder brother (Osazee akhator) and some of their relatives came to our hose to demand for my baby (Success Osose akhator) but they said its late that she will b present in the morning for the funeral but my inlaws said no that they must take her that night and was threatening to drop the corpse of my late husband in my fathers compound. After all the shoits here and there from both families they left that night without my baby...on the funeral day, right from the mortuary that was wen the fight for baby success started till date. According to witnesses around. Success was forcefully taken from my siblings and that was d end..... Few weeks later I demanded to see my baby at the hospital and asked my younger sister to help me go to my in-laws house (which was not far from the hospital I was) to help bring her for me to at less see but she came back saying the elder sister (loveth akhator) told her that I don't have business with success that success is now their property Several meetings have been held by both families in their house but it all proved abortive They became more angry wen they found out that my husband had no entitlement from his company after calling d company 3months after his burial........ Since he wasn't up to a year yet he was not added to d company's policy........ This I think made them hold on to my baby from the beginning thinking she was his next of kin� They demanded all sort of things and called me all sorts of names . went as far as tarnishing my image n levying all sort of false allegation on me.. With all these I wasn't moved so they decided to permanently hold on to my child . Those that later showed interest in the case asked them y they haven't returned my 2 year old baby yet to me, they started telling them that they are holding her pending when I fully recovers so as to trick them n make dem back off My baby they have been using to get financial support from his friends. Follow up on Twitter via her handle @vera_ogbebor https://mobile.twitter.com/vera_ogbebor/status/1151126290591866880 5 Likes 1 Share
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Family / Re: Battle For Child Custody For A Deceased Friend by SyNnadi(m): 2:13pm On Jul 17, 2019 |
SyNnadi:They demanded all sort of things and called me all sorts of names . went as far as tarnishing my image n levying all sort of false allegation on me.. With all these I wasn't moved so they decided to permanently hold on to my child . Those that later showed interest in the case asked them y they haven't returned my 2 year old baby yet to me, they started telling them that they are holding her pending when I fully recovers so as to trick them n make dem back off My baby they have been using to get financial support from his friends |
Family / Re: Battle For Child Custody For A Deceased Friend by SyNnadi(m): 2:13pm On Jul 17, 2019 |
SyNnadi:They became more angry wen they found out that my husband had no entitlement from his company after calling d company 3months after his burial........ Since he wasn't up to a year yet he was not added to d company's policy........ This I think made them hold on to my baby from the beginning thinking she was his next of kin� |
Family / Re: Battle For Child Custody For A Deceased Friend by SyNnadi(m): 2:11pm On Jul 17, 2019 |
SyNnadi:Few weeks later I demanded to see my baby at the hospital and asked my younger sister to help me go to my in-laws house (which was not far from the hospital I was) to help bring her for me to at less see but she came back saying the elder sister (loveth akhator) told her that I don't have business with success that success is now their property.....Several meetings have been held by both families in their house but it all proved abortive |
Family / Re: Battle For Child Custody For A Deceased Friend by SyNnadi(m): 2:10pm On Jul 17, 2019 |
SyNnadi:.....d night before the funeral my siblings had called me from home ( I was still in the hospital) that my late husband's elder brother (Osazee akhator) and some of their relatives came to our hose to demand for my baby (Success Osose akhator) but they said its late that she will b present in the morning for the funeral but my inlaws said no that they must take her that night and was threatening to drop the corpse of my late husband in my fathers compound. After all the shoits here and there from both families they left that night without my baby...on the funeral day, right from the mortuary that was wen the fight for baby success started till date. According to witnesses around. Success was forcefully taken from my siblings and that was d end..... 1 Like |
Family / Re: Battle For Child Custody For A Deceased Friend by SyNnadi(m): 2:10pm On Jul 17, 2019 |
SyNnadi:MeanWhile they have been getting financial support from his office n friends without my knowledge....... On getting to the hospital his colleagues were shocked at the condition they found me it was then they now told me of the statement made by my in-laws stating I was fine...... That it was my absence at d funeral ground them insisted on seeing me.....All efforts for his friends to meet with me were thwarted by my in-laws since they were the ones they always go through |
Family / Re: Battle For Child Custody For A Deceased Friend by SyNnadi(m): 2:09pm On Jul 17, 2019 |
SyNnadi:They never paid any visits to me or asked after my well being or asked how we r going about the surgeries I had to later go through ( because it got to a point I could no longer take the pains when the traditional bone man was treating me). Instead they went straight to my husband's office in sapele delta state to inform them of his demise and further demanded for what was due to him from the company. They even went on telling his friends and colleagues that am perfectly fine when they ask of my wellbeing not until d day of his funeral (January 12th,2019) when I was not seen on the ground. Then they stated asking many questions till they finally were able to get someone (a friend of mine) that showed them the hospital I was admitted Into...... |
Family / Re: Battle For Child Custody For A Deceased Friend by SyNnadi(m): 2:08pm On Jul 17, 2019 |
phineas:UPDATE FROM THE WIFE: On the 15th of DEC 2018 I and my husband was involved in a motor car accident along kwale asaba road that left us with fractures ( I broke both of my tights a d my right arm while he broke just a thigh) .admitted at a hospital at kwale n discharged to go to benin to receive treatment from a traditional bone healer two days later he passed on after an injection was administered to him by his younger sister joy akhator Lawrence ( the injection was prepared for both of us but he was administered first). He was immediately rushed to a near by medical center where it was ascertained that he died because of the high dosage of d injection she(joy akhator Lawrence) said was a pain killer. His death by this time was not made known to me till few weeks later when I received a call from my landlord in Lagos saying she's sorry for my loss and that my sister in-law(loveth akhator) called her to tell her of the ordeal and also requested that access been given to her(loveth akhator) to pack my belongings in the apartment since my husband ( Emmanuel akhator) his brother was late. That she wanted to know weather its with my consent. That was where d battle started officially...... |
Family / Re: Battle For Child Custody For A Deceased Friend by SyNnadi(m): 2:03pm On Jul 17, 2019 |
phineas:all necessary steps followed U can follow up again @vera_ogbebor Thanks. We look forward to getting positive results with God on our sides 1 Like |
Family / Re: Battle For Child Custody For A Deceased Friend by SyNnadi(m): 8:26pm On Jul 16, 2019 |
Graduateacher:benin city |
Family / Re: Battle For Child Custody For A Deceased Friend by SyNnadi(m): 2:27pm On Jul 16, 2019 |
deltateam:[quote author=phineas post=80305609]Does anyone have an update on this story? Is the child with her mother or not. Does FIDA know about this? [/quot They are going about telling the husbands friend that they are holding the baby till when she recovers fully. Where and when did they hold a meeting agreeing on such terms? They also said the wife's mother cannot take care of the child. How they came up with that is fearly. 1 Like |
Family / Re: Battle For Child Custody For A Deceased Friend by SyNnadi(m): 2:11pm On Jul 16, 2019 |
phineas:not yet. The child is still with the Akhators |
Family / Re: Battle For Child Custody For A Deceased Friend by SyNnadi(m): 2:09pm On Jul 16, 2019 |
And now.the wife is been threatened heavily to drop the matter. The in-laws are fighting back to making sure she doesn't get back her child. Dear friends your help is highly needed. Let's help this innocent young widow to get the justice she deserves. You can join make it louder by going so on twitter tagging @vera_ogbebor (the widow's I'd) |
Jokes Etc / Re: Nigeria Jokes Update With Ofego by SyNnadi(m): 10:03pm On Jul 12, 2019 |
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Family / Re: Battle For Child Custody For A Deceased Friend by SyNnadi(m): 11:48am On Jul 12, 2019 |
Firebrand1:can u pls give us the actual story? 2 Likes |
Family / Re: Battle For Child Custody For A Deceased Friend by SyNnadi(m): 9:17am On Jul 11, 2019 |
INDUSTRIALFAN:this the in-laws are aware of that's y they never wanted her to see the child . I also learnt they are using the child to get financial support from his friends and colleagues. |
Family / Re: Battle For Child Custody For A Deceased Friend by SyNnadi(m): 10:25pm On Jul 10, 2019 |
2mch:the couple is a very close friend of mine. The issues the family of the late husband claimed they are having with the wife can not even be made clear. She has been treated badly ( some one they once praised up and down even on the social media) suddenly this hatred just crept up even to the extent that non of the late husband's family even checked on her while in d hospital, even till now. All medical expenses right from the surgeries to the weekly dressing was all financed by the wife's family and some support from the late husband's friends not even a dine was brought by the in-laws either did they ask after her well being. Heaven is my witness. On the day of the funeral, January 12th 2019, the daughter was forcefully taken from the wife's younger siblings at the mortuary . sine then the mother has not set eyes on her 2year old daughter. Several meetings have been held where the wife's family had to go to the in-laws house to resolve the matter but it ended not productive. As the in-laws claimed that the baby is their property . sincerely that lady is trying holding up. 3 Likes |
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