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Yinabim:
Hello Everyone,

I am writing here for the first time, i don't know how to feel about this because i a very private person but since the death of my husband i had to wake up everyday to sadness. I never knew the extent of pain people feel when they lose their loved ones until now. I cant even concentrate on anything else and his family are making things difficult for themselves already.

I'm so young and with a 2 year old daughter, i just hope God help me scale through this storm. I'll come here to update this page as things unfold.

The story
My husband is a very kind man, he is way older than I am because he was a divorcee , ultimately he loved God and was very prayerful, I’ve known him for over seven years but we got married 4years ago and legalized the marriage in 2022.

Glad you are in canada, well to do, have a beautiful daughter and still young, my candid advice to you coming from someone born into wealth and a polygamous home is to let it all go i repeat DONT FIGHT HER OR THEM JUST FOCUS ON YOUR LIFE ABROAD, MAKE YOURSELF AND YOUR DAUGHTER HAPPY AND MAYBE FIND LOVE AGAIN IF YOU SO DESIRE. It might be hard cos its you and your husbands sweat but its easy if you think of it this way what if your husband had nothing or he had left you for another woman before his demise?
[b][/b] i repeat dont fight over property.
God bless you with wisdom.

Cho cho cho cho, why cant people just stay quiet and enjoy their success whether by hard work or soft work, how can someone be successful and still be online shouting he is successful thats some weird inferiority complex s**t.

CrownedPhoenix:
Except I am wrong, I thought there was a bill passed into law to protect whistleblowers?

He aint no whistle blower and except for those being sentimental every country in the world treats leaking of classified & sensitive documents seriously google assange e.t.c add that to the people he has also defamed for years, in his quest for glory he revealed lil truths and mostly many falsehoods at the end he was no hero.
Unless govt just decide to comot face the kaw isnt sentimental...

ShoeGetSize:
Polygamy is such a mess, yuck. See the trouble that one man left behind which has been plaguing his family for years after his death. Just because he could not control his libido.

No its not, abiola just didnt have the time or maybe inspiration to do things the right way, there are a lot of polygamous billionaire old money families who you dont hear about cos there was not one single fight or court case, one of my relations polygamous father shared his properties right b4 he died as in only some cash & the house he was living in ikoyi was willed after his death, about 15plus properties and businesses he shared it all while alive amongst abt 30 siblings and handed all biz over to them according to their education or expertise majority of billionaire names popular in lagos in the 50's to 90's were all polygamous homes but no single wahala cos of wisdom.

BlueRayDick:
Then it means the other children are not ready to fight for what they think is theirs.

If u have a will that says NATIONAL WESTMINISTER BANK PLC, UK is the executor of the will and u are a listed beneficiary, is it not common sense to approach the bank for ur share of the estate?

Have the other children approached the bank and they were refused their share?

If u are bringing such family issues to the public, then u should be ready to answer logical questions so people can really understand what exactly the issue is. No be everything be emotions.

Its even the job of the bank and its lawyers to notify all those mentioned in the will and the doctor mentioned to appoint those to conduct dna test.. you have a valid point cos if kola has another will then the bank has a duty to challenge kolas will as they are the administrators/trustees and executors.
Something smells fishy somewhere..

starbuck:
Where were the dude's parents?

Read they knew about it bt decided to cover up the first murder, also it was a cousin that told the military squad that he is the killer and all other details seems they got tired of covering fr him..

awumen:
Exactly my question. Where are the parents while all these was happening since it was at the family house?

Read they knew about it bt decided to cover up the first murder, also it was a cousin that told the military squad that he is the killer and all other details seems they got tired of covering fr him..

Barrywilly:
I still can't fathom the devil that came upon this guy to commit this heinous crime.

Def a serial rapist and killer, i have been talking abt their presence in nigeria a lot both on here and other forums and the need for law enforcement to up their game bt they dont seem to care they just term everything rituals or hook up gone wrong.
Very painful thing to happen to anyone..

noobody:
Kindly come to WhatsApp,we can help you order it

Ok pls the whatsapp number and also i need idea of the costs of both the battery and repair so as to better prepare.. thanks.

noobody:
Sw

Morning, trust biz is going good.. want to inquire if you sell xiaomi parts or you know where they sell and preferably repair in lagos. Need a poco f3 battery mine is swollen up so wld like to know the cost..
Thanks.

omooba969:
Make una dey show respect, una no go hear. 😊

You don see am now! 🤷

Lol . Its obvious you didnt u.stand my comments, summary of it all is manutd coach is clueless i wasnt expecting manutd to win reason i said brighton actually arent that good tactically a better coach will hve won that match in the 1st half.
Amad was left on the pitch why?? He actually killed off all counters & attacks when manutd was 3 vs 1 and 4 vs 2 not once not twice... He removed bruno why?? The only holding midfielder you have who can pass, cross & take shots when necessary yet he was used in a false 9 to be part of a high press which actually left him exhausted its like asking kanu to do the same job😁 bruno substitution left manutd's midfield open as you could see if you watched the game brighton took control of the midfield won every 2nd ball forced manutd out wide as there was no outlet in the middle which eventually led to their goal.
All am saying is if manutd dont sack ten hag their fans who are dreaming of a solid season are in for a long ride of disappointment. The guy is clueless .
Also keep an eye out on brighton as the season goes as per my analysis if the coach doesnt change tactics it will soon show and they will be exploited cos their are more astute coaches in the prem than the clueless ten hag.

omooba969:
Brighton are also a premier league side so show some respect abeg.

Respect fr what reason i watch ball based on tactics and analysis not sentiment, if manutd pass sharper and move their counter faster brighton is dead.. simple.. its only manutds coach thats still allowing brighton hve hope , i would just bring in garnacho fr amad & tominay fr mainoo..

Angelfrost:
Good point... Sadly, while Ole had great coaching instincts, he lacked the will and balls to be decisive!

...Or maybe he simply lacked vision.

If he had taken the decision ten Hag did by letting players like de Gea, Rashford, and Ronaldo go, things would have been better for him.

I will always agree that Man United played the best football post-Ferguson under Ole Gunnar Soljskaer.


Unfortunately, football doesn't begin and end with sweet football... There will always be a question of titles! You have to match up your good game with trophies.

And Big clubs don't have that patience.


Maybe if Ineos had stepped in back then, things would have been different, and Ole would have retained his job.

Now i believe you know football.. i doff my hat to you. You hammered the nail on the head..

omooba969:
Did you actually say Brighton are playing trash??

Well, the result speaks for itself.

Yes they are you wont notice cos manutd coach is clueless.. a better team wld hve destroyed brighton by now..

Adesina18111:
I don't even understand this bastard we called our coach!!!...why did we buy striker when we won't use him?...and Rashford does not deserve first team...why not play Amad and Garnacho in the front wings and put zirkzee in middle as a striker then Bruno behind Zirkzee...abi which kind useless coach b Ds t'ori oloun

Amad is actually the only change needed.. the rest are fine the coach just needs to talk tactics with then like they need to be sharper in their counters and passing and stop holding up play too much like there is points in possession ..

Angelfrost:
I still dey ask you which top coach has come to Man United and didn't leave looking average?!!

Since Ferguson, only Mourinho is the closest you guys have come to success, yet he finished very badly.

In fact, only ten Hag has won silverware twice in a row.


Your club is cursed!

I pity the next coach after ten Hag gets sacked this season.

No top coach will need anything less than 4 to 5 years of building, hits and misses, experimentation, and clear out of bad legs before the club starts being seriously competitive... None!!!


There can be no magic to it!

A new coach will simply start all over, and take the club several steps backwards even profit-wise.

Solksjaer wasnt average the players ganged up against him, if he had been given time to continue his rebuild manutd will hve been better off. A coach who was using james, cavani hannibal and mostly academy squad yet was better than ten hagg even maguire as terrible as he is performed under ole..

HeraldAgric01:
Selling wanbissaka is a decision that will haunt man united for a while. Casimiro and Ahmad has been below par. Lukewarm performance. This my team is not ready

Half of the players on that pitch are just strolling about, as in brighton is playing shitty ball leaving so much space fr manutd to attack, playing from the back but not too good at it yet manutd coach is so blind to this loopholes that he cant bring in more high intensive players that will high press brighton into mistakes,bruno isnt that fast so as a 9 he cant harass yet ten hagg has zirkee, tominay, garnacho on the bench our coach has been clueless since last season and i was disappointed they gave him a new deal but what can i do no be me get manutd..

Manutd is playing like high school kids, too much holding of ball, back passing all the time, no urgency and their coach is just clueless has zero tactics to counter diff teams cos what is diallo doing on the pitch when ganarcho is on bench,brighton is actually playin trash but manutd is shittier.

ruggedtimi:
NURTW Kunle poly or just another guy answering same name.

Another guy...

In europe its a companion, in nigeria its a diff thing entirely, they take away ur sickness, no rat dares enter your home unless u have a useless breed of cat, they forsee danger for the owner they love but they can also be easily possessed( cant say much abt this) and are prone to weird acts that can cause bodily harm or mental stress to the owner if not careful.

Jorussia:
Abeg leave the ignorant guy abeg.Me i nor tall,but every where i went for work or higher institution for the past 18years,the prettiest women always flock around me.I remember in my department then for school,I dated the prettiest girl.Even the finest girl for computer science then wanted me,na fear come dey catch me,because every senior confra man wanted her.I have never ran after any woman in my life,because i generally nor dey send woman.

You have an aura but unfortunately maybe back then you had no one to tell you the meaning of the energy following you around, its what makes those girls fall for you, tidy looks might help but its your aura thats the main attractor peeps who have ur kind of aura transmute it into being actors, singers or any showbiz occupation or businesses where women are the highest customers like fashion design,marriage counsellor or therapist,showbiz makeup artist e.t.c

The poster got it all twisted, it aint ghosting that makes women chase after men its the timing and impact of the ghosting moreover both sex can use the tactic so it doesnt necessarily pertain to only men. You need to have made an impression, captured her imagination and made sure your presence is larger than life in a seductively suffocating yet fantasy fulfilling way only then will you withdraw your presence. Thats how it works not the fallacy someone somewhere told the op.

Babalegba:
Fact of the matter is that traders are increasing prices arbitrarily and causing relentless inflation due to ignorance. Yes transport and labor costs has increased but production and transportation is being done in bulk so economy of scale should kick in as the cost is spread over multiple units of the products.
People are just too greedy.

Well said the person you replied obviously doesnt know how unions work. There is union for agbo sellers imagine the audacity they tell those selling agbo when to increase price as it is synonymous with increase in union dues which is the same with every other commodity and the ones who dare sell at cheaper prices cos they arent greedy will be arrested and fined by the union.

budaatum:
Can someone please kindly inform kabiyesi that while its good that he has banned middle men who inflate prices, he has not exactly ordered that fertiliser be sold at uninflated prices, nor has he placed any control on land prices and labour and transport costs that contribute to the price of food in the market. And that if the prices he has ordered mean I sell at a loss, there are other markets where i can take my food to sell at a profit.

While the government from the central is subsidising the above you mentioned( fertilizer), giving grants in land & money and trying to implement cng buses for cheaper transport the state should also curtail the unions cos all these govt policies will amount to nothing as it will only benefit the same unions so this is a massive step in making commodities cheaper. E.g do you know vulcanizers have a union and they make sure no one pumps or repairs tyres cheaper whereas the average vulcanizer can pump fr 100 naira so as to get more customers which equals more profits but union no go gree same way it applies to all other commodities.

dimgbajwe:
Can someone explain how this will be effective to us

Most peeps on here commenting dont know how unions operate, if you get your produce as a business man from sources directly after including transport and other logistics by the time you as a God fearing person decide to sell at the best possible price ( which will be cheaper than others at the same market) putting in mind your profit ( which you feel you are ok by ) and the interest of the buyers ( which you feel they can afford ) its these unions and associations that will sabotage your efforts and make sure they run you out of town. E.g do you know vulcanizers have a union and they make sure no one pumps or repairs tyres cheaper whereas the average vulcanizer can pump fr 100 naira so as to get more customers which equals more profits but union no go gree..

Olamila:
Does he have such power to ban a lawful organisation, the sellers have organisation, the motorist have organisation narrowing down to the last resort in the market. Banning just one isn't gonna be the best option it will lead to new problem

Most peeps on here commenting dont know how unions operate, if you get your produce as a business man from sources directly after including transport and other logistics by the time you as a God fearing person decide to sell at the best possible price ( which will be cheaper than others at the same market) putting in mind your profit ( which you feel you are ok by ) and the interest of the buyers ( which you feel they can afford ) its these unions and associations that will sabotage your efforts and make sure they run you out of town. E.g do you know vulcanizers have a union and they make sure no one pumps or repairs tyres cheaper whereas the average vulcanizer can pump fr 100 naira so as to get more customers which equals more profits but union no go gree..

This one wey no fit condemn those wey murder deborah dey talk.. we will never forget...

Rubbish photo of the day, action bitters ₦200 for 1, also that one dey back dey drink pepsi ₦350 for 1 and hunger dey, hunger is when someone buys u pepsi you go fr back use am collect garri & groundnut wey go last 2 meals, hunger is when u see ₦100 u go use am buy garri do feshelu chop. Make God no let us see real hunger..

After decades of hits and massive international collabas and awards this selfish dudes never produced one single star comfortably, used and dumped mayd, cynthia morgan, singah e.t c i guess its karma paying them back reason i love the likes of don jazzy, olamido baddo, davido and co massive artists with a colossal brand that burna boy also is beginning to seem like he has that psquare character.. rubbish..

superCleanworks:
We link NIN every 3 months with MTN

instead of MTN to come out and tell us that they had a data breach or data loss, they just disconnect people with thinking of the ripple effect of such.

Imagine going somewhere and you need to keep calling for directions then in the middle of the journey, MTN disconnect you for the same SIM card you have linked before.

Same i have been telling peeps everywhere boycott that useless network they have no iota of respect for the citizens who actually fuel their lifestyle both here and in south africa, its obvious they hve a poor online security architecture reason they re always hacked cos i linked my sim twice the moment they told me to link it the third time i broke the sim and am fine with my other lines though challenging at first everyone important knows my new lines right now. Boycotting them in the millions is the only way esp mtn and dstv.

9mobile wey no signal for 3days straight till the moment of this post. 😁😁😁 Even though its been sold no statement, no apology in other words the customers dont matter if only nigerians know the power of boycotting this companies wont dare all this insults.

capricornlady:
9MOBILE oo ,Emergency calls only on 9mobile since yesterday. What's happening? Please who is also experiencing this? Are all this happening because of the planned protest? This is really sad. People can't be reached again

Almost all of 9mobile was blocked mine 2nd day running their excuse is nin mismatch for a sim linked at their head office 4 years ago🤔🤔🤔 if only people are like me and just practise boycotting its way better than protest, cos boycotting private companies in large numbers will mke them fear the people thereby forcing them( companies) to tackle the govt on your behalf if the govt wants to use them against the people as they are losing millions. Imagine no one went to mtn office instead start telling others to switch off their sim and stop buying cards or start using glo Same with dstv, dangote cement e.t.c they will all sit up reason americans and the british are feared by their cabals do nonsense and they will just send the company into oblivion.