₦airaland Forum

PoliteActivist:
Because a 17 y.o. girl CAN'T perform forcible penetrative rape on a 14y.o. boy. It can only be statutory rape. Instead of wasting time writing "statutory rape", I just wrote "sexing"

Your choice of words speaks volume... Using the word sexing is a window into your thought process..
Now use your same arguments to analyse a 7year old boy being sexed according to your language by a 14year old girl.. you dont need to type it out just mull it over in your mind and reflect on what kind of psyche you really have..

Teymanhenry:
She could drug or threaten him first before mounting him

Psychological problem at play with the poster you quoted,if you read btw the lines of his argument you could deduct its actually a female or an apologist..
A boy of 10 will almost always get hard when forced by a girl cos of the age of curiosity and innocence, his organs will definitely act cos he knows nothing,and the female rapist who has experience as a child predator knows what to do to her prey to get him aroused, thats why girls of 4 to 8years who have been raped rarely speak out,most cant comprehend what the pedophile did to them cos there is no predisposition or foreknowledge of sexual acts in their psyche..
Pedophiles are always mostly gentle with their prey, only a few re violent, cos they want to make their victims feel what they do to them is normal and that they(the victims) want it in the first place.

koribobo:
You are too cynical

If you check the use of words used psychologically by the person you quoted you will sense a premeditated bias, Subtly substituting rape with sexing for the 17year old girl,while using rape for the 35year old male analogy shows a emotional bias towards the female species..

P***y addictive as f**k, adding that to the spiritual naivety of the boys and the probable usage of waist beads, kayamata, and sexual prowess you get many depressed and love sick boys roaming the streets.. it is what it is...
A boy who doesnt tame his urges and desires even though such urges are destructive will grow to be a man without self control..

Karlifate:
Why do we have so many simps in society today?

Why is the number growing?

👆👆 (Rhetorical questions)

It’s because of the lack of a father figure in a young man’s life.


The boy grows up watching his father get bossed around by his wife all day, completely losing his frame.

The young man, who could be as young as a few months, notes everything in his subconscious.

“Oh, this is how it must work here. Women rule men. Obey women”

As the young man grows up, he is further subjected to programming by the mainstream, where nowadays, women are shown to rule men.

He goes “Ok, women rule, men submit”

He then grows into a Man and watches all the oppression around him (2020 pandem!c) but he’s never been taught his role as a man is to fight against oppression so he goes “Man submit.” So he submits- and that’s exactly what has happened over the past 2 years.


If you have a boy, or you see young boys around you, remember to train them.

Remember to teach them masculine principles and values.


Selah! 😎

You should have just summarised thus..
There is something addictive about a womans p***y.. only the valiant and wisest of men conquer that pull and addiction,no boy is taught to be a simp just as no boy is taught to be a rapist or violent women beater cos his father beats his mother..
Case closed

JungleJustice01:
Both parents have passed no will was left. I basically leave the rents collected from the house rent to my only younger brother.

Now the house is deteriorating and I want to fix it, like give it a major facelift but the funds will be coming from me entirely. I don't have a personal house of mine but I believe an overhaul of this place can give leverage to increase the rent as it is in a good part of town.


My fear is after this investment, will I be able to recoup any funds? If I am to pass away, will my kids have any access to the property?

I love my brother but I've heard and read stories of human behavior especially in situations where there is no documentation.

What do I do?

Are you and your brother the only two siblings born by your parents? If yes then divide the house into two equal parts,since u said ur bro is ss and not buoyant enough you can renovate the whole house but make sure you divide it first.. then proceed to the process of getting the documents back e.g c/o, deed or search your parents belongings well it should be somewhere in the house..after getting the documents, get a lawyer to draw up an agreement/detailed plan of the house stating the sharing of the property and which belongs to whom, your brother should be aware and must sign it, after which the lawyer makes the documents official .. hence your part is yours in perpetuity which makes it fall to your children in the future..that doest stop you from allowing your brother collect the whole rent if thats what you want,sharing the house is just for future purposes both yours and your brothers..

Klass99:
Yeah right.... . Addictive my foot, it is nothing but pure greed. The ones who are honest with themselves and others will tell you it is greed. I get so sick and tired of hearing the excuses people make, from it is spiritual to an addiction, then a mental health issue. Like seriously?

It is always a matter of choice! We all have free will and the power of choice within us, but when people act like they have no power at all and external forces are controlling their behaviour, I know I am dealing with people who are not ready to take responsibility for their lives or actions, to make necessary changes.

@ MallamChukwudi, the username made me smile. While reading your story I thought to myself it would be so nice to report that guy and turn him in to the authorities (of course with more info on him) so he doesn't hurt any more people. You can't be happy by causing other people pain and misery na. I enjoyed reading your well written narrative.

yahoo is addictive but not the work itself..its the lifestyle small work plenty pay thats whats addictive, moreover it might surprise you that most gboys are actually intelligent and if the govt both state and federal are proactive and serious abt reducing it to the barest minimum this guys can be caught at their tender ages with scholarships and grants to tech schools,doesnt it surprise you that the govt doesnt have its own personal tech school i mean complete tech school like a uni, why wont this brains be wasted on the streets, i have been to a uni to study computer science with joy of using it for the greater good of my country,do you know i was taught in theory, while the lecturer only uses a projector once in a while.. we took notes no practicals, now compare that to when i applied to niit,took the scholarship exams and passed to study c++ ,it was one person to a system and we were only 12 in a class i learnt remote hacking in just a day in that environment,but niit then was abt 3million which i couldnt afford then so had to leave..thats the diff btw the govt and private.

4ward4:
It is on a halt as asummed my dear friend, this bois will get to a stage where they will go totally and financially bankrupt and Yahoo will no longer pay , at that age they might be in their late 30s or early 40s...Just imagine the number of men that will be forced into Street crime.
A successful live starts at late 30s, at that time responsibilities increases from health wise to financial wise. Majority of this boys are still in their 20s. Can this ill gotten wealth sustain them in their late 30s to 40?
I pity Benin & Delta , too much Crime can easily be predicted in future.

Criminal na criminal..they do yahoo doesn't mean they can carry gun and kill..its two diff things and psychologically a big leap except fr those who were ex robbers b4 yahoo.. how many killers have you known or studied?? How many men can kill cow or chicken and watch it suffer to death? Thats to show you it aint easy to snap..most yahoo guys will do it till they die cos the reason they go into it in the first place apart from the obvious reasons everyone knows is cos they cant commit violent crimes but want the proceeds of easy crimes,thats why they will do it till they get old,check most gboys being caught in europe and compare their age most are in the 50s...social psychology is at play here cos the gboy who gets caught or bankrupt will almost always result in two things, the former spends a long time in prison and changes or continues depending on mindset while the latter results to plus or total rituals.. reason g+ is on the rise..
Only a tiny percentage will result to violent crimes as you stated except it is in the aid of the rituals..

Thats why the bible said " give to those who can not repay you nor have any means to " that way you expect nothing back while they are too grateful to be entitled..

ZIMDRILL:
he doesnt own a house, he is newbee in US he crying over property tax, if u read again he said he is paying property tax when he is not owning the house, the guy doesnt understand the western system of property tax

here in UK its called council tax, when youe own the house or not u pay it, what differs only if you are a tenant and the property is registered to renting out, the sitting tenant will pay the council tax in their own name than the landlords, then some landlord the tax would be included on yout rent

if he owns the house, he wouldnt be crying over property tax as his mortagage was higher than that

So this guy is ranting allover property tax and child support

Thought as much just dont like calling people liars online as i dont know them..
Thanks for the response really enlightening

The shop girl doesnt love you oga move on... Smallies dey scale fence go meet who they love,sugar mummy dey close company go meet who dey totori her, get inside girls dey go collect gbola even though they go chop cane for house, house girl dey leave oga pikin with meguard to go receive..

RealSolution001:
The girl I truly love and want, always form busy busy for me. Although she has a shop that keeps her on duty morning till night, but after closing from the shop, you would have to beg her to come out to see you for once in one or two months before it happens. Even Sundays are no exception.

Meanwhile, this other girl I don't even love was giving me all the vibe including mind-blowing sex but look at it now, she's taken in for me and I am not in support of abortion.

How do I sort this thing out because I still genuinely love the other girl and I want to marry her. She's a good wife material and ticks most of my boxes. I also dont intend to birth children from different women.

No insult please.

The shop girl doesnt love you oga move on... Smallies dey scale fence go meet who they love,sugar mummy dey close company go meet who dey totori her, get inside girls dey go collect gbola even though they go chop cane for house, house girl dey leave oga pikin with meguard to go receive..

Uselessboy78:
Good afternoon nairalanders
I always felt i wasn't addicted to betting but mehn
these past few months ,I have been dealt with severely by betting companies
my entire salary for the month of April went straight into the coffers of 1xbet
my April salary came in May (2nd) AND I didnt hesitate to deposite the entire sum of (#78,000) because i was chasing my loss
I had lost #80,000 the previous month (march).

I picked about three games to win #170,000 ,Almost came through if not for man united

my fury knew no bounds ,it was just as if i woke up every day by 5am and return home 7pm just to hussle money for the bookies

I bet because i have lots of expectations to meet ,I am the first son of 5 , clocked 29 in april
my salary isnt enough and all the side hustles aint paying .(surveys and co)
upwork and fiverr arent easy for nigerians.
delving into fraud isnt part of the plan,i'd rather die poor

this afternoon ,the small 4k i was supposed to use and transport for the week ,sportybet collected it.
for a moment i had suicidal thoughts (not suicidal per say ) but i am tired of the world ...for months now ,death doesnt even scare me
i see it as an end to the suffering (we all are gonna die anyways).

if you know of any legit paying side hustles or something someone can do..
and how does one stop betting

i would like for the FG to ban betting ,it is a killer but youths wont know it
though some people are gaining from it ,but it is pffffff

You bet ur salary carry manutd away am certain its against westham or brighton.. you not a punter.. nobody sabi pass but there re ways to minimize loss and increase gain when u stake high.. its not a must to gamble every time or every game.. at times you do nothing..
Arnold rothschild was a billionaire who made his money from gambling he became famous for being accused of fixing the world series..his main advice to professional gamblers was when the game or odds arent in your favour do NOTHING just keep your money and wait for when the games will set.
For instance championship and league 1&2 ended this weekend,as a punter thats where you shld have seen your money by staking singles..20k each on games that cant be fixed..due to relegations or promotions..well enuf said...

You bet ur salary carry manutd away am certain its against westham or brighton.. you not a punter.. nobody sabi pass but there re ways to minimize loss and increase gain when u stake high.. its not a must to gamble every time or every game.. at times you do nothing..
Arnold rothschild was a billionaire who made his money from gambling he became famous for being accused of fixing the world series..his main advice to professional gamblers was when the game or odds arent in your favour do NOTHING just keep your money and wait for when the games will set.
For instance championship and league 1&2 ended this weekend,as a punter thats where you shld have seen your money by staking singles..20k each on games that cant be fixed..due to relegations or promotions..well enuf said...

ZIMDRILL:
i never disputed what you pay, my point was and still the same, we all pay council tax/property tax its normal bill in the western world

Like i said ifs its too high for you move to other areas of the city or the city its self

Eg in UK london is expensive when it comes to accomodation and many moved to cheaper cities

I dont understand..he said he is paying property tax meaning he owns a home there..you are telling him to move to another cheaper city..how is that correlated.. mind you we are both assuming the op is being truthful .. is he going to carry his home with osuka to the other city?? Maybe am missing something here..cos you dont pay property tax on rented homes..

MasterJayJay:
APC is a made of clowns. Goodluck Jonathan removed subsidy but APC ganged up with their benefactors to sabotage the economy of Nigeria. They held Nigeria under ransom till Goodluck brought sudsidy back.

Now same clowns are talking about subsidy removal. Even Buhari once said there is nothing like subsidy, but he has been spending trillions for 8 years on subsidy he believes does not exist.

8 years has been wasted. If they allowed Goodluck to remove subsidy, they won't be talking the babablu bulabu they are taiking now.

Na them be this👎 none of them is protesting nor on the streets shutting down the economy throughout buharis 8years ..in fact banky still went to join the same pdp to contest..

mysticwarrior:
No, Eze Arinze is the one who is criminally minded. Now talking about Gender and criminality didn't you read of how a 21 year old Nigeria girl conned a German man of $120,000? what about the female kidnapper who raped her male victims at gun point before killing them? The recent one is how a mother poisoned her own daughter to death, subjected her son to commit necrophilism with the corps and suck the dead girl's private part? What could be more terrible than what these female demoms have perpetuated?

You no tell her the latest.. russian mama send assassin to pai children so she go be the only one to inherit late papa estates..

Seriousness aside..as in you get mind enter water with strange girl for strange country.. ohh boy the risk una dey take on top puna ehhnn..

Op change the headline to comfortable house owner.. those plates/cutleries alone no show any richness at all, you sure na rich man as we know rich men. And what kind of sphag is that?? Notin rich about it.. even with 1k i no fit cook mke e appear like that.. and that your wife food wey u dey miss mehnn no comment..😁😁

I still dey wonder where dem go put atiku if even tinubu is disqualified, abi obi go still carry atiku wey carry 2nd go another court?? Mke obi dey use hin followers catch trips dey go..

This story no even full.. if u see the posted chat of these smallies with the victim who committed suicide una go shock..
The victim actually begged via chat in his last hours on earth, the evil scammer even tell am sey if hin no kill himself hin go make sure sey hin post all hin nudes to friends and family..the victim reply am sey well i will kill myself now, evil smallie dey use am laugh think sey na joke.. that was the last word of the us smallie..

Guyman01:
EFCC don assist these ones Japa to American prison.
Yahoo yahoo is blood money, when ordinary local 419 I met inside taxi deceived me that he needed money to buy Mercury that we will use to wash money hidden and covered with a chemical by his expatriate boss I gave them all my savings and even went on borrowing spree before my eyes opened to the scheme.

The worst part was the humiliation from people I borrowed money from some with promises of paying huge interest and I defaulted, they were insulting the hell out of me and anyone without strong mind will just go and commit suicide like this kid here

Sorry abt that.. those idiats full street... Na so dem wan run my manchi many tales ago.... he pretend sey their juju don hold am come follow them go their hideout where one fake pastor preach waka pass dey form sey hin see vision say all of them go be billionaire but dem need to pray cos witches no wan clear road,na so pastor begin give them prophesy one by one,hin tell one sey hin girlfriend na marine sey hin don cut the hair fr hin leg use am tie hin destiny still describe the girl ohh,omo the guy self form cry like sey na real,hin face my guy give am hin own prophesy..after which dem drop format sey hin old man hide money for house sey make hin go bring hin share fr the chemical..my man sey hin no get money fr taxi,dem ask where hin dey live hin drop fake base wey far wella, na so dem rush use chemical with omo add small water put the white paper wey be like jotter viola money wey wet appear like 5k,na so dem give my guy for transport sey mke hin go sharp sharp sey dem dey wait..my guy just buzz my talkie sey make i link with am fr mama chinedu yard,na on top rum and cowtail psoup wey hin use their money buy hin take give me the load down.. we thank God fr protection..

Hmm a lot of good advice here for the op especially from those who live in abj... But am surprised they arent telling you the real koko..
Abuja a effing expensive.. i mean very very expensive... The outskirts will be affordable fr you cos of ur large family and hw much u have but it isnt very safe... The main abuja the likes of wuse, jabi, garki, asokoro, maitaima,gwarimpa,central area and the zones which is where i feel you mean to stay are solid places to raise kids and live but they re expensive i mean housing,feeding and school..any other place you stay is still like staying in lagos and onitsha..so do your research well and decide what you wanna achieve before moving.. also work no plenty for there ohhhh.. if you get handiwork you re set for life cos abuja is so organised and appreciates good skills especially packaged skills.. abuja lifestyle na packaging be everything..
Las las gwarimpa and jabi is the best and affordable
place..
Good luck

flexyrule:
Nigerians are very wicked people. I repeat, Nigerians are very wicked people.

This was how loan sharks extorted a friend's cousin, till he committed suicide, after paying them over 400% of what he borrowed in less than one month.

This is exactly how they sounded on the extract of the chat the police obtained from his phone.

How can you conveniently tell someone to go and commit suicide?


In 2021, I borrowed one contractor 30 million to complete a project he was executing for the federal government.

Till date, the man is yet to finish paying up. He has executed contracts worth over 1 billion for the FG since I gave him that money, but baba has refused to pay me back my money. Last year alone, he received over 500m as payments for contracts he executed for the government.

Funny part is that, I am not the only one he is owing. He would keep face as if he wants to die, when he wants to borrow from you, once money hits his account, he turn to tiger. This is someone that rolls with the presidency ooooo. He has senators, top government officials as friends.

He blocked me, refused me entry into his office. Reported the case to the police, he went and bribed them, anywhere I take the case to, this man would rather churn out 5 to 10m to settle the authorities than pay me back my money.

I have lost over 2m while trying to recover this money. Everybody that hears my story, will just want to also eat his own part of the cake. 50k, 100k, 200k etc lawyers, so called human rights, police, etc.

When I say Nigerians are wicked, I know exactly what I'm saying.

Nigerians are wicked!

Forget.

30mil and you didnt collect collateral Mehn u sure say no be lip balm hin use ask u for the money?

ufotty2001:
I want to tell you a secret that I do when am having sex with girls.. you may see this like something stupid but I can assure you that it work's perfectly.
When you have inserted your penis into her Vir.gina and u have started having sex "try to force yourself to Urinate inside her Virgi.na as u are sexing her" urine will not come out because ur sperm has blocked urinary tract but keep forcing yourself while u are knacking immediately your penis gain oxygen u will not cum early that is what i do... It works for me.. I can stay 2hrs on top woman without Cumming..
Do this and thank me later

You dont need to urinate inside her...the secret is to be aroused with pre-intimacy, once fully hard the man should refrain from penetrating and go to the toilet to urinate..the urine will come easily.. your own method makes the urine forceful...
Remember the key is to be fully hard with pre-intimacy of like 15mins but never penetrate,just get up and go urinate then come back and start the koko..

Throwback:
This is the state one fellow wanted to govern without any serious work experience.

He is an influencer on twitter now, meaning an influencer of fake and bad news.😁

NOC1:
Some places in Lagos do have over 18hrs power supply.

Even 24hours dey self...moreover for people asking where to charge it.. it will be a specially built charging station which will definitely be solar/hydro/ipp powered no need to connect to the national grid..this stations will definitely be spread across diff transit points of whatever route the buses will be plying..

Said it earlier when some peeps dey shout sey hin get connect and even IG no fit touch am.. mehn ignorance na disease... Hin get luck sey no be ilesanmi girl hin wan touch hin breast.. olosan and ladipo for don close by now...
Person wey get skill for benzo reworking,hin no fit aspire to better pass exhibit na rape hin wan add to hin skill..

Otunbakayce:
I just hope Bebex won't get himself bleeped up because of this ugly street hoe.
Anyways bebex is a rugged Igbo OG with plenty of money and connect. He will settle it even if IGP is interested in the case.
Only people who don't stay in mushin or ladipo won't know who bebex is.

Until him try am with the wrong girl with the right connect na then you go know sey mushin na hell fire...the lady he tried it with na normal chick na why she go station.. mke hin try am with street.... Hin village no go far for am to use leg waka...

ChizzyBuna:
What do you expect??

What the hell do u expect??

A known Druglord will soon be delcared president.
And you expect thieves, armed robbers,tyrants to not come out in full colors??

If a Druglord can be president
That is enough motivation for tyrants to do anyhow. After all their man is presido

Vote wise people, una dey do tribalism
Make una suffer una stupidness
Una never see anything.
Agberoism will enter full drive
Expect more atrocities to come
Una must enjoy wetin una vote for
Nonesense..
Slap the woman more jare...
Next time she go vote Druglord again because na from her tribe.

Wooze her more slaps. Una never see anything

It was actually an igbo man who molested and assaulted her so ur post makes no sense except maybe to a bigot, Stop jumping to conclusions before getting the whole story..

gaby:
Since the week passed, my head and dreams has been farming, farming, and farming.

I hope to find a farm like yours and a mentor to take me through the ropes.

I just want to live a simple life surrounded by nature and all it has to offer.

I don tire for all these noisy fast-paced and tortuos rigmarole life in a rat-race style.

No be usa u dey ohhh.. security first .. insecurity is the major killer of nigeria's untapped forestry .. houses would be cheaper, transport cheaper cos of diversification, most peeps wld just buy large lands invest in agriculture and also build a home on the farm.. but insecurity has made a few states choked up in terms of accommodation&welfare while leaving the fertile states fallow and uninhabited due to insecurity..