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Culture › Re: Spot This Outside Your Gate, What's Your Next Move? by syntekelite(m): 4:34pm On Oct 19, 2023
Easyincome24:
You spot this in front of your gate, what’s your next move?

Run

Dismantle it

Call boys

Pour anointing oil/water

Take the money

Eat everything
I get gee wey go chop am use the money drink palm wine..
Family › Re: Between Owning A Car Or House Which Would You Advise Someone In His 20's? by syntekelite(m): 4:32pm On Oct 19, 2023
BigIyanga:
Treasury bond roi is is 8-11% while inflation is above 20%… he will be still lose. Liquidity in Naija attracts so many beggars, families and friends needing help.
Nope treasury bill is diff from bond.. bond is 11.5% as at last 2months and its 2-3years duration treasury is 9% and its 1year...bond is better cos its a fixed roi no losing cos his interest will be paid quarterly, the interest is what he can use to sustain the beggars u worried about while his capital is intact till he makes more money to buy and build a house instantly when ready...
Family › Re: Between Owning A Car Or House Which Would You Advise Someone In His 20's? by syntekelite(m): 12:17pm On Oct 19, 2023
Easyincome24:
It's good one plans his/her life early enough to avoid story that touches.

Some of our parents never believed that the country will become what it is today.

My father told me how cheap lands were in the country when he was in his 20's. He regretted not investing enough due to shouldering many responsibilities especially bringing his siblings and extended families to the city. He nurtured them till they became of age. When he realized what's up, time has exceeded him as we the children have needs too.

Now, I'm asking the following question: between owning a car or house, which would you advice someone in his 20's to acquire first?

Both can yield returns as long as they can be used in the proper way for investment.

Can we have more people comment on this to help many who are still in their 20's and able to fund any of the assets?

Note: Some young folks are doing legit work earning in $$$. I have some techy guys in their 20's as software developers, Blockchain DAOs, Freelancers, Content creators, YouTube influencers, Social Media Marketers, 3D animators, AI engineer, Bitcoin minning. They evolve around tech working remotely. So, not all of these guys in their 20's are yahoo yahoo, at least these ones I can guarantee.

We engaged in a discussion where they raised the above question about which is best between owning a car or house at their ages.
Firstly your post aint complete enuf to help us help you with sage advice, so i will ask the pertinent question and reply them...
How much liquid cash is available if 50 to 100million dont buy a house yet invest it in treasury and bond fr 3-5years..
If the cash is less than 50mill depending on your location buying a land is better, in lagos mainlands you can buy 1plot for 30-40mill , in the rural areas like ikorodu ,epe and co its way cheaper like 6-10mill, the reason i said buy land is in the mainland or rural areas you can use the land fr car wash, catfish and cow/ram rearing e.t.c and still sell the land for twice the cost after 7years when you ready to buy a house or build on the land when u hve the funds...
If the cash is about 20-35 mill just come to mushin and buy a house for 15-18mill demolish it and lease it as warehouse in the future the land will still be yours when mushin begins to turn to lekki...
Never listen to people telling you to build house in one bush cos land cheap there land speculation is a serious thing which if you know nothing abt dont rush into it..
Business › Re: What You Need To Know About CBN’s Lifting Forex Restriction On 43 Items by syntekelite(m): 11:58am On Oct 19, 2023
gabbytabby:
Unfortunately it’s a Nigerian thing.

No matter the good intentions of the government, there will always be those who will fraudulently posture for every programme and collect money or goods that they divert.

After a while I got better at building 9ja properties by taking into consideration the Nigerian factor, entrances away from each other, limit interaction by where you put the veranda, safeguard the kitchen, 2 separate verandas for gen and gas cylinder, provide places for spreading clothes to avoid them turning your house to a baracks, try to separate the utilities as much as possible. All this just to limit your stress as a landlord.
Lol very smart... Naijas main and major probs is our civil servants they sabotage everything yet blame govt.. check govt hospitals, housing ministry, frsc , vio, land bureau, surveyor general's ministry e.t.c the corruption and level of incompetence in those ministries is the reason most good policies dont work and why the basic amenities are expensive..
Since you build houses am very certain you understand better..
Jobs/Vacancies › Re: From USA, is It Real Or Fake (photos) by syntekelite(m): 10:46am On Oct 18, 2023
lazkizz:
hello nairalanders

lemme just go straight to the point , my elder bro called me today and told me he just go a gig in the USA .
His an architect , so he applied for the gig online few weeks back. luckily for him they sent him this mail below.


* I recommend you read the mail carefully, am not an architect I don't even understand what's the job description , but my bro knows every details.

* is this legit or it's a scam ??

* and if it's Real ,we don't have and know anyone in the USA..... so pls I will need the help of a good samaritan in the USA to help us with the below requirement.

Thanks.
Easy to decipher just google name of company offering the job, google the senders name and any form of address, phone number in email then verify company name through customer reviews you will get your answer...
But if you want the short way out let me help you.. its an old format and the target is the person in the usa.. after payment by check the next format will come in while you and ur broda re celebrating your too good to be true windfall, human psychology shows that you will be too blinded by the windfall to notice the trap set in the next format..
They will use 2types of format either excess payment with the balance to be sent to the contractor on site(or any other story) to save transaction costs or phishing game to take control of the accounts of the person you hve in the usa...
Forget those saying do zoom call , men get proxies who will video call you legit.... Be wise.....
Business › Re: What You Need To Know About CBN’s Lifting Forex Restriction On 43 Items by syntekelite(m): 5:07pm On Oct 16, 2023
gabbytabby:
Maybe you are a diaspora cos a lot of Nigerian rice production and poultry for meat happened and I hope continues to happen.

Stay on focus all of Nigeria’s problems cannot be undone in 10 years or one statement. All of us need to keep asking ourselves what we do to contribute to the problems and how do I fix it.

Be a part of the solution.
Just found the article i wanted you to read and understand where am coming from...

Crime › Re: My Experience With One Chance Guys In Abuja by syntekelite(m): 5:02pm On Oct 16, 2023
One chance not hard to stop in abj cos they love some particular routes which are the expressways leading in and out of abuja city,kubwa is more like a satellite town which has very good road network they can use to manoeuvre their escape,same with abuja-kaduna road,area 1 to any satellite town,lugbe to zuba e.t.c
The solution is ban plain cabs and mandate every public cab to paint their cabs in abuja colour and also register their cabs with their NIN..once peeps see plain cabs they will avoid like plague esp in those secluded areas at least it will reduce it drastically till a more permanent solution can be found, even for europe cctv or police no dey expressway leading to another town..
Crime › Re: My Experience With One Chance Guys In Abuja by syntekelite(m): 4:53pm On Oct 16, 2023
thorpido:
That thing is so rampant in Abuja now.
E don tey in fact under bala mohammed it was worse,you see that lugbe/giri to zuba down to bwari axis every 2days one story after the other... Iyabanga catch them tire, men run them street tire during jonathan regime dem reduce small due to the fact that military checkpoints were on every outskirt/point of entry and exit at the expressway which is the main areas the one chance/ritualists people love using to perpetuate their evil
Business › Re: What You Need To Know About CBN’s Lifting Forex Restriction On 43 Items by syntekelite(m): 4:44pm On Oct 16, 2023
gabbytabby:
Maybe you are a diaspora cos a lot of Nigerian rice production and poultry for meat happened and I hope continues to happen.

Stay on focus all of Nigeria’s problems cannot be undone in 10 years or one statement. All of us need to keep asking ourselves what we do to contribute to the problems and how do I fix it.

Be a part of the solution.
Seems you arent following the cbn expose... Tinubus govt are still recovering the billions of funds emfiele/buhari loaned out which should have been for the main purpose of the same local production you are hyping but guess what it wasnt loaned to the right farmers/businesses but to stooges and friends who have no intention of paying back..as per the local production how many grants were given to the right smes?? Hw many rice farms that can produce what nigeria eats did buhari commission?? The poultry you talking about is still a private business and buhari did nothin to support them in fact under buhari the feeds became more expensive making it unsustainable, the few states who have hectares of rice farm cant plant cos of boko haram/bandits yet you lauding a fake restriction tht was meant to favour northerners and the likes of dangote...
Moreover just so you know we were still importing tonnes of rice under buhari's tenure..
Business › Re: What You Need To Know About CBN’s Lifting Forex Restriction On 43 Items by syntekelite(m): 4:43pm On Oct 16, 2023
gabbytabby:
Maybe you are a diaspora cos a lot of Nigerian rice production and poultry for meat happened and I hope continues to happen.

Stay on focus all of Nigeria’s problems cannot be undone in 10 years or one statement. All of us need to keep asking ourselves what we do to contribute to the problems and how do I fix it.

Be a part of the solution.

Seems you arent following the cbn expose... Tinubus govt are still recovering the billions of funds emfiele/buhari loaned out which should have been for the main purpose of the same local production you are hyping but guess what it wasnt loaned to the right farmers/businesses but to stooges and friends who have no intention of paying back..as per the local production how many grants were given to the right smes?? Hw many rice farms that can produce what nigeria eats did buhari commission?? The poultry you talking about is still a private business and buhari did nothin to support them in fact under buhari the feeds became more expensive making it unsustainable, the few states who have hectares of rice farm cant plant cos of boko haram/bandits yet you lauding a fake restriction tht was meant to favour northerners and the likes of dangote...
Moreover just so you know we were still importing tonnes of rice under buhari's tenure..
Celebrities › Re: Twins Video Leak: You Are Childish, Samklef Hits Back At Davido(pics, Video) by syntekelite(m): 1:54pm On Oct 16, 2023
I dey wait fr the day social media just like any man made invention will become obsolete... Una go leave real life relationships dey find social media validations up and down.. after news and informative articles i no dey fr any follow me back rubbish.. my sm's no pass 40following and all get real impact fr real world...
Properties › Re: Nigerians Are Very Wicked by syntekelite(m): 1:47pm On Oct 16, 2023
Ro rase ro rase ohhh fun eni body toba fe sore... Person with good intention na God dey save am from akoba adaba...
Thank God he didnt rape or kill in your room and abscond, my priceless advide- do good but never to the extent of potential harm to yourself...
Business › Re: What You Need To Know About CBN’s Lifting Forex Restriction On 43 Items by syntekelite(m): 1:40pm On Oct 16, 2023
Dogalmighty17:
Believe the rubbish above at your peril. What business does the cbn have with the parallel market? The parallel market exists simply as a result of the failure of the CBN to make dollars available so people have to source for dollars elsewhere. The simple truth is that Nigeria is not earning enough dollars. The profligacy and wastefulness of the Jonathan and Buhari government is beginning to catch up with us.

The billions of dollars being stolen from this country has brought Nigeria to its knees. Instead of addressing the thieves, the APC and PDP rather chose to embark on borrowing mindlessly. These loans have to be paid back and serviced in dollars. Presently 96% of Nigerias earnings are channeled into debt servicing. Which useless and stupid CBN governor has been in charge for the past 12 years? That fool Emiefele.

There is nothing the CBN can do now. The present CBN governor is very senseless with this poorly thought out policy. There are better ways to seek harmonization of both the parallel and official market. In the first place, it is even wrong that selling of currency is even a business. That is a very fundamental failure for any Central Bank.
If the CBN can't guarantee availability of dollars in the official market then this policy is as useless as it comes. The parallel market only responds to the official market. The dollar didn't cross 1000 naira until Tinubu came up with a supposed harmonization policy. We all see what a disaster that has become.

BUHARI WAS AN ILLITERATE WITH HIS IMPORT RESTRICTION POLICIES. HE KILLED NIGERIA.

Every economy has things it produces cheaper than other countries. So it is advisable to dwell on what you can cheaply produce and import what another country can produce cheaper. Import restriction policies are failed policies. Nigeria will never be able to produce rice cheaper than India and Thailand can. Restricting imports only forces the prices of inadequate local supply to rise. Just as we have seen local rice do. Multiply this scenario across a number of other sectors and then you understand what damage Buhari really did.

The ban on poultry importation pushed so many people into poultry business. This created a huge demand for poultry feed that the feed making companies in Nigeria still can't meet with. The result, high price of feeds, which leads to high price of birds and eggs at the point of sale. The present price of a crate of eggs is twice what it was at the end of Jonathans tenure.

Nigeria has too many built-in economic efficiencies. We do not have the knowledge base for tertiary industries and secondary even. We can't drive a 21st century economy primarily on subsistence industry. Government can't keep paying lip service to science and technology and expect things should change. It is far easier to steal and which is what our political class have done and keep doing. I have nothing but utter contempt for them.
You get many points until you mentioned jonathan.. abeg make una leave jona out of buhari's failure all buharis projects commissioned first four years were jonathans projects, the imaginary looting under jonathan you all keep rehashing were the propaganda used to vote him out and it worked..
Where is dasuki?? The only confirmed thief na for oil sector and buhari tenure worse pass, pls show me the weapons cache buhari bought apart from the recent choppers before he left, which weapons did the military use to liberate borno and environs 2014/15?? Go and google the interview of the head of the foreign mercenaries brought in to retrain and support nigerian army in guerrilla terrorist warfare,jonathan used both ukrainian and south african mercenaries yet buhari told you guys he didnt do sh*t and nigerians just believed instead of to fact find..
Make una continue the blame game...
Business › Re: What You Need To Know About CBN’s Lifting Forex Restriction On 43 Items by syntekelite(m): 1:28pm On Oct 16, 2023
gabbytabby:
He wanted to grow internal production so this is a good idea but it should not have lasted for so long.

Most countries who use this only use it for not more than 2 years to give a headstart to their industries but the right time to reverse is as soon as the FG stopped the essentially subsidising foreign exchange transactions and transfers.

Thank you PBAT Nigeria go better. On your mandate we stand.
Grow which internal productionhuh? What mechanism did he put in place to aid internal productions?? Ajaokuta steel- comatose, refineries- comatose, farms - controlled by terrorists..
Reason why nigerians keep voting the loudest politicians instead of the quiet silent achiever.. nigerians dont read or fact find utterances of politicians, for example before he was elected buhari said nothing like subsidy then removed subsidy twice as president nigerians kept mute, dasuki stole billions of arms money according to buhari yet throughout his 8years as presido dasuki was never arraigned while kanu cld be fished out from uk gestapo style..
Business › Re: What You Need To Know About CBN’s Lifting Forex Restriction On 43 Items by syntekelite(m): 1:22pm On Oct 16, 2023
Penguin2:
Placing FX restrictions on these products was well intentioned but I guess other variables made it become unattainable for now.

The CBN is therefore right to lift the restriction for now so that the importers of those items will not be putting pressure in the black market which adds pressure to the Naira.

It’s an intricate situation really.
Buharis intention were sinister and totally in favour of the northern oligarchs which in turn benefits the whole north... Buhari closed borders but the northern border was open, buhari banned 43 items yet which region locally produces most of the banned items - the north, the same buhari& emefiele then gave out loans they hve no intention of recovering to farmers and business men collateral free with low interests mostly to 95% of northerners at times multiple times to same individuals and companies, the same buhari/emefiele then banned crypto citing terrorism as an excuse so that bdc's which are owned by 90%northern elites jst like cows will continue to grow exponentially and become a force in the forex markets rise or fall..
Business › Re: What You Need To Know About CBN’s Lifting Forex Restriction On 43 Items by syntekelite(m): 1:15pm On Oct 16, 2023
dexmond:
Nigerians should ask the government the following questions:

1. What happened to all the dollars that come into the country via crude oil sales? How does CBN handle it for the government?

2. When the formost economist Mr Boyo was alive, he spoke about how activities in the parallel market gets very active during FAAC allocation. These spike in the parallel market activities were usually driven by wholesale demand for dollar by politicians. The question is, what do politicians do with the dollars if not to store in Septic tanks or send it to offshore account.There should be a complete ban on BDC operations.

Nigerians should be asking these lines of questions.
Bdc's are owned by the elites esp the northern oligarchs reason why its been hard to cancel them, emefiele worked for them reason why dollars was scarce throughout buhari's tenure and since emefiele worked for buhari your guess is as good as mine who stood to benefit from all buhari's forex policies.. why do you think emefiele and buhari banned crypto? The majority of citizens the bdc's depend on to trade in dollars have adopted crypto, bdc's were becoming obsolete and also dangerous to the citizens cos of the insecurity and police wahala involved..i personally hvent been to bdc in 8years unlike previously...
Business › Re: What You Need To Know About CBN’s Lifting Forex Restriction On 43 Items by syntekelite(m): 1:09pm On Oct 16, 2023
Seefinish:
The same party that banned those products is the same party that lift the ban.
APC has nothing good to offer the country.
The two presidents INEC forced on us from APC don't have traceable ancestry and educational qualifications.
And you are certain you werent part of those who believed jonathan didnt do a single project,dasuki chop arms money,who believed buhari when he said there is nothing like subsidy,are you certain you werent part of those who voted out jonathan...
80% of what buhari commissioned are Jonathan's projects e.g railways, tsa, bvn, fertiliser revolution, npower e.t.c in fact 90% of the arms still used by military today were bought by jonathan. Until nigerians begin to educate themselves on political shenanigans they will keep on voting in the wrong people...
Career › Re: House, I Am Confused by syntekelite(m): 5:46pm On Oct 13, 2023
For those telling you surulere they really love you, its a no brainer the road is straight and easy just be out of the house by 6am.. secondly when we say surulere their are two types the affluent and the comfortably ok..go for the comfortably ok areas based on your salary and side project you can get a self con or 1bed flat for 500 to 600k...
In all you do make sure the part of surulere you get house is the good part e.g itire road, randle environs, ishaga, ekololu, falolu this areas hve good roads/security and are straight road to vi, you may also try around area c/western avenue and environs.. no go shitta , ijesha ,ilasa, idiaraba ohhh...
Music/Radio › Re: THROWBACK: Nigerian Old School Music (Oldies) by syntekelite(m): 5:32pm On Oct 13, 2023
So so old...... Nostalgic .....
By the way guys anyone one remembers the remake of a yoruba adage/song which a guy sang back when music africa dey reign..lyrics i can remember ..
Eiye meta tolongo
Ikan dudu aro tolongo
Okan rere osun tolongo
One my sweet mother tolongo......
The guy remade the song in R&B to pay homage to his mother,wife and daughter..
Celebrities › Re: Mohbad: How Police Picked Up Sam Larry From Lagos Airport On Arrival From Kenya by syntekelite(m): 3:20pm On Oct 01, 2023
CilicMarin:
I am sure this guy is very innocent...Anyway lets wait for the full investigation..

I don't follow mob!
He might be innocent of mohbads death or not, but he had to be arrested for stalking, threat to mohbads life, assault and aggravated assault. Cases of which there re video proofs, as for mohbads death only Gods knows all..
Crime › Re: Keefe D Arrested Over Tupac's Murder by syntekelite(m): 3:14pm On Oct 01, 2023
Story.. diversion tactics so kefee kept the gun and evidences of the murder of 2pac for 27years abihuh So after confessing in a closed door meeting with feds he wasnt still arrested then so what changed?? USA govt i hail una....suge was involved in pacs death, wld hve done same to dre if not that dre left him all royalties and masters when leaving death row despite dre being part of the founders..
Moreover the time it took after 2pac beat the crip guy at the casino and the hit to go down on the street showed it was already premeditated.. i watched the cams back in 96 suge was actually encouraging pac to Bleep the crip guy up,same suge told pac where to seat while driving out of the casino alienating pac from his outlaw thugs & the bullets never touched suge (who by the way has done way more gang shit to the crips than pac)even though in the same car which shows it was a professional hit( hw did they know pac wld be in suges car or at the intersection he was shot? Why didnt they kill suge who also beat anderson and is a capone of bloods) biggy had to go to make it look like a routine gang war..
And guess who owns death row records now (snoop dogg-a high level crip who had to know abt the hit b4 it went down but he and pac had a falling out days b4 pacs death)
Family › Re: This Is Why Men Can Never Tolerate Their Wives Cheating On Them. by syntekelite(m): 5:20pm On Sep 19, 2023
A man can easily pull out and do what he wants without catching feelings, a woman needs cajoling, toasting, convincing for her to cheat. Reason i tell my homies once a woman cheats its over, her love for her man or husband is gone cos they are the receiver,moreover they will have to lie just to go to the hotel or wherever, take off like 3/4pieces of clothing then spread their legs and allow a total stranger ram into them continuously cos in the first place they have to be wet to cheat but for a man he can get hard anytime..
Its deeper than most people imagine,reason why any woman who cheats on me i jejely carry my kaya and leave her with her new man no need for drama or fight..
Properties › Re: Why Do Affluent Areas In Nigeria Do This? by syntekelite(m): 5:05pm On Sep 19, 2023
Camera doesnt do shit in a country without accurate data capture, naija police dont do plainclothes patrol, getting license fr gun is expensive&tedious reason fr such structures,if no one sees inside all the time fear no go gree make dem enter steal cos they dont even know the way or who's inside..
As for restaurant and boutiques, so you op want the thieves to have a clear view of the designers or customers using iphone 14 they will come back to steal in the future abi?? Every country makes do according to their circumstances as for naija security is at an all time low.. normal average areas thieves dey enter boutique and restaurant for afternoon dey obtain,if those establishments seal off their access it will be hard for the thieves,cos their m.o is to pass like 3-4 times on bike or marwa to scope such joints then hit like lightning b4 anyone can react.
Romance › Re: In A Dilemma Right Now, Please Advise by syntekelite(m):
For you to bring these to nl shows it will take years fr you to be over her but try you must or your soul will waste away with the constant nagging thought that whenever she is away she is cheating, it will eat away at your sanity till all thats left is violence and even if you restrain from violence, a time will come when she is done using your shine and she will be the one to break up with you, i sincerely hope it doesnt destroy you utterly..
My advice- RUN and make sure you forget her totally delete her numbers/chats/texts/pics/then begin blocking any no she calls with.. go get busy and hve fun where u can with time you will jst think of her as a lesson learnt in the ghetto school of life..
Health › Re: Lagos Community Turns Canal To Dumpsite, Battles Offensive Odour, Health Hazards by syntekelite(m): 12:38pm On Sep 10, 2023
iammolise:
This is not a function of failed govt, govt can only do so much, the problem bedeviling environmental sanitation is we the people of Lagos state, we are careless, reckless and negligent, not to mention stubborn too, we would cry govt this govt that but you as a lagosian what have you done personally to justify yourself and prove your environmental hygiene huh
If the past govts had done the right thing with the waterways such nonsense wont happen.. if our canals had been cleared and cleaned for commercial purposes like other water cities e.g france,italy e.t.c it will be hard for citizens to dump refuse there ..a canal that its waters flows freely will attract private investment cos there re a lot of benefits for a flowing canal,just so you know these same canal is interlinked up to surulere and iponri..
Health › Re: Lagos Community Turns Canal To Dumpsite, Battles Offensive Odour, Health Hazards by syntekelite(m): 12:34pm On Sep 10, 2023
kelvine:
This is the community they have LUTH one of the biggest teaching hospitals in Nigeria.

More money for the hospital.
Canal wey pass side of luth fence..very irresponsible hospital, armed robbers dey rob their students through the canal luth does nothing, canal and all the gutters around luth are blocked causing serious flood luth dont care.. imagine rushing someone to luth hospital when its raining or late night very very dangerous.. just metres outside their gate robbers have killed and gravely injured mostly visitors or students of the hospital yet they still havent done anything about the situation, campus area wey suppose safe for toasters, lovers, friends to stroll , have fun , mingle is now a dead zone from 9:50pm..
In fact luth has to be the most useless and corrupt hospital in the history of hospitals....
Family › Re: As A Newly Married Man How Much should he Give his Wife For A Good Pot Of Soup by syntekelite(m): 5:43pm On Sep 07, 2023
gentposh:
Pls married men in the house help him out here...

My friend just called men to as me . I am yet to reply him
Hw much dey hin account?? Hw much hin dey earn? How many kids? Hw many days do you want the soup to last? The answers to the above will determine how much fr soup cos its not set in stone, by the way if ur wife na igbo or calabar start from 10k upward depending on ur mood cos fish fit hungry you today make goat worry ur nose tomorrow...
Romance › Re: She Is A Lovable Person But Her Past Keeps Popping Up In My Head by syntekelite(m): 5:39pm On Sep 07, 2023
ebijimi7:
Good morning landers, its a beautiful thursday morning here in lagos,
Ok so straight down to the business without much hassle.

It goes like this, ok I have this girl I'm dating she has been a lovable soul a friend,partner,lover and mother.

She is caring also I have never met a girl like that in my life since I became an adult the only person that I know has those quality she possessed was my mum which is late now.

she is from kwale I think a town In delta state and I am from ondo so we have been together for couple of years now.

We had a heart to heart conversation she told me about her past and I also told her about mine.

Though I've dated some substantial amount of ladies sha, I don't want to mention before una call me (Ashewo or brostitute grin,

So in the long run while explaining she told me what transpired between she and some of her exes the ones that kept deceiving her and collecting money from her she mentioned about 10 of them which she actually supported to to travel out of the country but they neglected and dumped her after they got over sea, more of like she fell into the hand of bad guys.

What kept ringing in my head and making me scared was the fact she made out with some of them and I still get angry knowing that fact sometimes she would be crying that I'm using her past against her just because she was inlove and it didn't work out within she and any of her ex .

I love her but her past kept dragging me back and making me scared of taking the next step.

Not to mention all of what she has done for me but when I lost my mum she stood by me all through the difficult times she prays for me she was with me at the hospital for days until my mum passed out.

Looking at these are qualities I get confused the more because I dint know if I'm making the right decision by letting her go she rarely ask for anything

Please your candid advice I'd needed
Are you the father to the child born by her?? If yes then do the needful and marry your soul mate..what if she didn't tell u abt her past or she is in the category of its jst the guy that dis-virgin me that hve ever slept with you re the only one i hve opened up to ever since he broke my heart. @op if she wasnt doing runs/olosho/hookup i believe it shouldn't bother you after all you hve also dived into 40 something girls river to swim how come she isn't holding it against you??
Crime › Re: Missing FUOYE Student, Atanda Deborah Found Dead In Shallow Grave (Graphic) by syntekelite(m): 12:17pm On Sep 07, 2023
tivta:
The truth is, girls will always be the major causality cause of gullibility, greed, thirst for material things or just natural body weakness.
Most times its not even any of the listed you wrote.. serial killers abound everywhere the only diff with naija's own is the lack of forensic investigation reason why citizens term it all rituals..
Women are 90% targets of depraved serial killers due to the sexual and psychological nature of their persons coupled with their physical appearance which is feminine and delicate..
Majority of this killings re the work of deranged minds e.g violent rapists,straight sodomites,sexual sadists and psychotic minds.. the killing is usually an afterthought to protect their identity cos such people re rarely strangers to their victims.. and yes rituals might be involved as a means to earn money esp if they hve partners in the flesh business..

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