₦airaland Forum

Brightgem:
Hello Mr Syras. How are u doing, I recieved ur message. I have tried to reply but I dnt seem to get how that forum works, so u may try communicating through some other means.

On the other hand, I don't know how Nairaland works! Pathetic? Yeah, I know.

Let me not derail, I will contact you through either of the two ways once highlighted. Quick question, though: are they still open?

Just asking, you know?



PS: I forgot to answer your question, sorry about that. I am doing great, anyways.

Please, talk to a general practitioner on this. You are depressed and you shouldn't be bashful about it. It is absolutely normal to be depressed but leaving it unattended to is chaotic.

So, please, talk to a practitioner.

Good luck, friend.

As a man, I am captivated by how beautiful or gorgeous a lady is. However, what keeps me will only be her character. So, I agree with your guy on that. And, I think most men will concur either.

PS: I am not talking for a cheater here because a cheater will always be a cheater.

Well, I personally think it means nothing.

I advise you not to make anything out of it.

As for me, I shall want someone who's muslimah (and understands Islam). She has to be beautiful both inside (i.e. character-wise) and out (i.e. gorgeous ).

A real person who never pretends and mature (i.e. she knows what marriage is about). She should be real as she could. The complexion of the lady should be light skin, and she should know how to make a very wonderful conversation.

By the way, I hope I am right on time.

geesampower:
This question can't be answered accurately by anyone. What I can just say is, the solar power setup you will need is dependent on the actual appliances you use daily and duration of use. Avrage of 1.5m will do for an average nigerian home.

You just answered the question. That was all I wanted. Thank you, Geesampower.

Geesampower, how much is the rough estimate of using solar power to generate power for duplex house while cutting off PHCN totally? Thank you as I anticipate your reply.

To apply for a Malaysian student visa, you gotta apply to a school of your choice. After the application, the institution will offer you an admission based on their evaluation. If the admission is offered, you gotta send your medical report alongside some important documents required of you to the institution. It is after these documents are received that the institution will apply for visa approval on your behalf. The key thing to note about Malaysian student visa is that, the college that offered you admission applies for your visa approval. You need to worry less about the visa now. Apply and get yourself and admission offer. That is the first thing. I wish you good luck in the journey ahead, Cash4real.

Adamo84:
Did the Hadith say "Lineage" The correct wording is Deenih Wa I'rdih meaning His Religion(Islam) and Character not Lineage. Please edit because some parents would refuse to give their daughters hand in marriage because the Tribe is not theirs.

Adamo84, that was a very great observation, but, lineage as used in this context doesn't have to do with the tribe such a person hails from, but rather, the person's and parent's character just like you've pointed out. Jazakumullahu khaeran for the observation, though.

Truth234:
You don't have much to be worried about, just face your studies and don't dabble into shady business. Like every other country, there is racism but its nothing too serious.

Thank you very much for your candid advice. I am sure I ain't gonna venture into unnecessary business. That I am sure of. Once again, thank you, brother.

Truth234:
What do you want to know?

I really wanna know the do's and don'ts as a student in Malaysia as I don't wanna break any of there set principles. Also, is there discrimination (racism) there? Thank you very much, Truth234.

Is there anybody out there who can sincerely unveil to me what I gotta know about Malaysia? If there is, please, I need your help as I am gonna go there to Masters career. Thank you in advance.

Orijin101:
Op, please go and do more research and come back to modify this list of urz coz itz zero!

I couldn't agree with you more.

All I can do is advice my sister against any obnoxious act I know about my friend or guy. I got no decision to make for her. She possesses that. I think!!!

Ganoderma:
I've sent you a mail. I'm posting on behalf of princefunmi.
It is titled "The opportunity from Adeoye"

Thank you.

I love businesses, seriously, who don't? Below is my address: abdurrasheedsirajudeen@gmail.com

Thank you in advance.

Well, I can't allow any of those - as I won't get involved in it too.

I shall be grateful if the "op" distinguishes Nigerian ladies from American/Canadian/any other country. Why?! Simply because none of those qualities shall get a woman from Nigeria. All that matters to them is MONEY. If you got no cash, you are surely doomed men!!! Ain't any of those aforementioned shit get them. Well, not all Nigerian ladies, though.

;DI do agree with most of the points, though. But, I see lesbianism as insanity - as I wonder how two same polarities attract. Lesbianism seriously violates the law of magnetism.

Newkidoo:
Can a Christian marry a muslim
Pls I need answers..

Greetings,

In Islam, certain criteria are looked into when one wants to marry. These are:

*Beauty.
*Family lineage.
*Financial status of the person in question.
*Deen (religion).

I must stress at this point that, the financial status of the person plays less importance in choosing a responsible and dependable spouse - as the last prophet Muhammad (saw) says: " if a man approaches you (father) to seek your daughter's hand in marriage, with whom you are contented with his religion and his lineage, then, you should rightly give him your daughter because, if you don't, "fitnah (oppression)" shall spread there-in on earth" (chain of hadith narrated by Bukhari and Muslim). From the prophetic saying aforementioned, the last prophet Muhammad (saw) did not hammer so much on the fortune of the person, but, rather on the RELIGION and LINEAGE. These two qualities are most important when searching for a spouse. However, beauty and fortune are equally essential but, should not be major yardsticks for spouse's selection.

Some islamic scholars do argue that, there isn't harm in marrying a person with opposite believe. This argument has an elucidation, though. ONLY A MUSLIM MAN CAN GO AHEAD TO MARRY A WOMAN OR LADY WITH OPPOSITE BELIEVE. IT DOESN'T WORK THE OTHER WAY ROUND. But, I ask this question: why marry a person with reverse believe when those people with exactly your believe are bountiful on ground?!

In brevity, a christian can marry a muslim, but, only if the christian is a lady or woman wishing to get hooked up with a muslim man.

Jazakallahu khaeran (amin)

Good to know!!!

I concur with most of the points, though.

First, I can't cook. So, I wonder how I shall be able to put my lady through on that. However, I can go extra mile to ascertain that she turns one of the greatest cook the world has ever known - as I can put her in school that does that. Besides, I cherish nice scrumptious meal. That's the major love language I have. So, for me, it is compulsory my lady to know how to make one.

Life is too short to die with one's feeling.

I surely agree.

Just like Bisous had written above, "love does matter" but, a lot of things come into play if one wanna veneer towards marriage. It is on that I part my way with Bisous - as I do not agree with what she had offered on that but, I concur with the listed below:

*Lineage.
*Beauty/handsomeness.
*Religion.
*Money.

I stand to be corrected, though.

I think he is still angry. Though, he sent you the airtime because he cared. I shall advice you to have heart to heart talk to clear up the anger and set things right. Try call him and stamp the matter out. I hope this is gonna work.