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Adekunlegold9ja:
She is a Christian actually

Instead of you to focus on your life and continue building yourself, you're troubled and worrying about someone that's probably sleeping around and collecting different gbola. Leave the 0losh0, she's for the street

Honestly, I don tire to advise people like you

In few days, we will launch into 2026. If you know what is good and will help your life, better do it. Nobody go do am for you.

Me too dey find big job like that.

Sirchiboy:
Na joblessness.
I dey find onshore or offshore work.
Connect me abeg

You no dey tire to ask questions?.. today alone your question don reach 10


Hope say no be joblessness dey cause am sha.

You wey go go back after 1 week to try 2odds again.


Anyways, Good luck


Just discipline yourself.

If God never fl0g or kpa some of these liars parading themselves as man of God others no go rest.

Who knows wether em don take wetin him head no fit Carry.. say no to drugs.

Good. Financial discipline is a must as far as success is concerned.

Your money obeys your habit of spending. You spend anyhow too, you see anyhow.

Myself. I disciplined myself. From taking charge of my financial life.. managing money.. tracking my expenses, exercising, avoiding junk food, abstaining from sugar/reducing it to the barest minimum expecially artificial sugar, not womanizing and chasing anything on skirt etc. and in turn the outcome payed well.

Discipline is painful and difficult but the result changes one life positively.

So if not for the her, you no fit hold or control yourself?.. then you're not disciplined and ready to shun betting.

When you're determined and ready to breakfreee, take a long break from betting, you will abstain even without the help of any lady or external factor. Discipline is all you need.

Nice one. Some people will squander their money. By January they will start looking for where to borrow money or begin to sell their properties to survive.

Life is humbling! Who no get sense, go get am by force. It's good that you posted this enlightening information herein for those that will hearken to it and do the needful.

A word is enough for the wise!!

Me too don't fancy or subscribe to it.. but when someone wish me, I respond to the person accordingly. You should have replied em.. ignoring someone in that reegard even a teenager is somehow and doesn't make sense.

When aggressive konji takes over you.. you may not even consider the shape.. but you have a point

Self investment.. pays forever

I dey avoid loan apps like plague..

Unwavering focus in my own opinion. It remained focus despite the distractions. Em developed a zero bl££p giving attitude.. e no send them as long as it's taking a calculated risk.

Those guys and ladies with fair skin complexion. If them com put earpod, then it's finished...

Though no be everybody with such skin color fine sha. Some still ugly

Nawa o. To grow old now nah also by grace. Some Young people just dey die upandan.. some don run mental for street due to drugs or other circumstances wey I no know.


I know that when ones time has come, the person must go but try to live better life, make good and healthy choices. Exercise, shun alcohol or take it moderately. Drink enough water.. Pay attention to your diet.. know what you're putting inside your body, be mindful of the kind friends you keep.. pray too! Spiritual force is real.


Rip.

Chairman. Nothing concern devil for this kind scenero. Devil fit even sue you for accusing em wrongly. No be everything devil hand dey inside but just the person's gradual choice and discision wey compound then afterwards comes consequence.

Lalami3232:
Are you saying it's not the devil's work that we have more non-virgins (fairly used) than virgins(pure and undefiled)?
Are you saying that the high rate of paternity fraud by non-virgins isn't from the workshop of the devil?
Are you saying that the rate at which non-virgins commit abortions isn't a craft of the devil? Oga, devil hand dey inside

What do I really know sef aside enlightening my fellow men nationwide with the good news of DNA test

Nah STI or STD fit humble promiscuous people and reset their encephalon.. no amount of advice fit do the trick..

Nothing concern me with church.. I know God for myself and by myself

Addiction no be anyone mate sha. Once it sets in, it takes serious discipline and selfcontrol to breakfreee.

Next time borrow people money that you can afford to loose or don't borrow at all. Most Nigerians are terrible and wicked. As it stands now, the probability of getting the money is very slim. You may not get it back.. if you don't get it back, just count your loss and move on.

I believe you don learn the hard way.

A word is enough for the wise.

There's a saying that any man that can control his urge has already solved 99% Of his problem.. there is no gainsaying to that in my own opinion.

Nevertheless, Only few men and guys that's disciplined can be able to achieve such. The other ones are mostly simps that's heavily controlled by lust. When the konji comes, their encephalon shuts down while their d*cks and phallus starts doing the thinking. That being said, life is all about balance. It's not ideal to subject ones freedom to negative habits or allow it to control him all the time.

That soap fragrance nah one in town. High time flies...

My relative being patronize them often when e broke. Today e fit sell old tv to the iron condemn, tomorrow e fit sell decoder we em no dey use again, next- tomorrow could be other things. But these people negotiating prowess get as e be. Imagine something you purchase at 50k, aboki go wan carry am go for 4k... nah wetin brokeness dey cause sha. E bad like hunger

Since I left anything highness, my life don change for good. Nothing dey the thing.. nah just waste of time and money especially for the ones wey still dey struggle financially.

You've said it all. It all boils down to self-discipline and selfcontrol.

pansophist:
All the best my guy.

Try get responsibilities, it helps coordinate your steps and prevent you from falling back into the abyss.

Get a job or start a small scale business or learn a new skill. Observe the girls giving you green light and choose one, then forge ahead with her.

Don't go chase women that have not giving you green light, its a waste of time and every rejection feels like you have lost a part of yourself.

Most importantly, create structure. Structure is like a building plan that must be followed to get the desire result.

If data is not a problem, start listening to stoic podcast. It will make your mind very strong. Also join stoic groups on reddit and refresh yourself with its gospel.

If you are religious, sink yourself into the word. Protect your mind at all cost. The more you develop your mind, the more competent you are to live this life. Living is a skill.

People without living skills suffer unnecessary. Firstly, they become a slave to everyone. Slave to prostitutes/women (through sex), slave to capitalists (through gambling), slave to lust (soapy/womanizing) etc.

It is not only when you are in chains you are a slave. Slavery has evolved. You must train yourself to rise above all these things, and you will become unshakable.

Do not be like Samson where with all his power and grace, it took his weakness for lust for Delilah to destroy him. Sex with a woman that loves you is more fulfilling than the one you paid for.

Work on these things, and it shall be well with you.

Nah normal stuff for here. Some that hate the truth may not agree with you.

Prudoh:
I was thinking people may misinterpret what I said.

Guy you funny sha. Nah reasonable post you make cum delete am. Abi person threating you?

Prudoh:
Nothing to post

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It's really appalling. You just said the truth. If such behavior is left unchecked or attended to, will definitely be a stumbling block on ones way of success.

Low self-esteem or self hatred no be better thing aswear.