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Addiction no be anyone mate sha. Once it sets in, it takes serious discipline and selfcontrol to breakfreee.

Next time borrow people money that you can afford to loose or don't borrow at all. Most Nigerians are terrible and wicked. As it stands now, the probability of getting the money is very slim. You may not get it back.. if you don't get it back, just count your loss and move on.

I believe you don learn the hard way.

A word is enough for the wise.

There's a saying that any man that can control his urge has already solved 99% Of his problem.. there is no gainsaying to that in my own opinion.

Nevertheless, Only few men and guys that's disciplined can be able to achieve such. The other ones are mostly simps that's heavily controlled by lust. When the konji comes, their encephalon shuts down while their d*cks and phallus starts doing the thinking. That being said, life is all about balance. It's not ideal to subject ones freedom to negative habits or allow it to control him all the time.

That soap fragrance nah one in town. High time flies...

My relative being patronize them often when e broke. Today e fit sell old tv to the iron condemn, tomorrow e fit sell decoder we em no dey use again, next- tomorrow could be other things. But these people negotiating prowess get as e be. Imagine something you purchase at 50k, aboki go wan carry am go for 4k... nah wetin brokeness dey cause sha. E bad like hunger

Since I left anything highness, my life don change for good. Nothing dey the thing.. nah just waste of time and money especially for the ones wey still dey struggle financially.

You've said it all. It all boils down to self-discipline and selfcontrol.

pansophist:
All the best my guy.

Try get responsibilities, it helps coordinate your steps and prevent you from falling back into the abyss.

Get a job or start a small scale business or learn a new skill. Observe the girls giving you green light and choose one, then forge ahead with her.

Don't go chase women that have not giving you green light, its a waste of time and every rejection feels like you have lost a part of yourself.

Most importantly, create structure. Structure is like a building plan that must be followed to get the desire result.

If data is not a problem, start listening to stoic podcast. It will make your mind very strong. Also join stoic groups on reddit and refresh yourself with its gospel.

If you are religious, sink yourself into the word. Protect your mind at all cost. The more you develop your mind, the more competent you are to live this life. Living is a skill.

People without living skills suffer unnecessary. Firstly, they become a slave to everyone. Slave to prostitutes/women (through sex), slave to capitalists (through gambling), slave to lust (soapy/womanizing) etc.

It is not only when you are in chains you are a slave. Slavery has evolved. You must train yourself to rise above all these things, and you will become unshakable.

Do not be like Samson where with all his power and grace, it took his weakness for lust for Delilah to destroy him. Sex with a woman that loves you is more fulfilling than the one you paid for.

Work on these things, and it shall be well with you.

Nah normal stuff for here. Some that hate the truth may not agree with you.

Prudoh:
I was thinking people may misinterpret what I said.

Guy you funny sha. Nah reasonable post you make cum delete am. Abi person threating you?

Prudoh:
Nothing to post

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It's really appalling. You just said the truth. If such behavior is left unchecked or attended to, will definitely be a stumbling block on ones way of success.

Low self-esteem or self hatred no be better thing aswear.

One of the ways to take care of your mental health is to stop thinking about what people would say. Prioritizing peoples negative opinion in your life. If you continue that way, you're gradually hurting yourself mentally. E no easy but try.

It seems the plantain trespasses to the other person's building thereby inconveniencing him and his house. The owner might have warned you to adjust your plantain from his roof and fence but you refused to do the needful, so he cut and took the bunch of your plantain.

Just count your loss and move on.

Common sense

E be like Woman don show you shege.. you don learn the hard way.. so you felt like enlightening some comrades..

Alright

franugo:
Here it is

https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=nxwKkMb7lG4?si=J94yNC2Gy5DtLWNA

Ok. I will check it out

franugo:
There's an exposé done on this pst tobi by bbc UK, exposing the scams he plays on his congregation., you can find it online, very informative.

I see. At least, one of these business men them don show say e fit survive without tithe and offering. But baba fit still dey collect something from members like contribution e.t.c

To whom it may concern: know God for yourself.

You just took my memory down the lane.

Well, during my time 2016 precisely, i didn't pair with anyhow kind of roommate. This was because I made sure i stayed with responsible and non-cultist individual to avoid serious gbeghe. Though my roomie as at that period womanized but it was just in moderation.

Mehn how time flies.. person don dey old gradually.. nah to try dey plan life.. old age dey come.

post long like SS1 agric note


Happy 65th independence

Discipline is all you need. Fight for your life.. nobody go do am for you.
Take your spiritual life serious, take action.. discipline yourself.

Stop wasting your money on them and make good use of your money to fix and manage your life. Nah serious battle o!

Fight!

Hope say you get money o.. no be by cho cho cho.. this your head nah one in town

This man thread dey dey funny sha.. some people no dey disappoint for here

Well said

damoobaba:
As soon as money enters your hand, the first thing anybody should do is load their house with food, remove money for transport to work and then pay debt. Food and transport to work should be number 1 and 2 respectively.

Honestly, being broke to the point where one can't even buy food and eat should be avoided like plaque. I mean that kind of brokeness where you don't even know where your next meal will come from. Then, you resort to borrowing money upandan of which you may not even get it. hunger cum show you shege..too bad.

Avoid getting broke.. if by chance it happens, make sure you have money to buy at least one cup of garri and 2h groundnut and quench hunger.

Hungerbad o

Some people don't like minding their business in this country. You should focus on your own life and allow the guy be.

The smoking, partying and womanizing go soon tire you. Is a just a phase...

I know say this guy must talk on this eazi matter too. Anyways, the eazi nah correct nigga. While some were busy flaunting their possessions to impress and perhaps trying to intimidate the common man, he was someone building and amassing wealth in silence.

People are different and chose to live life which ever way they want but I choose to be on Eazi category and replicate the same attitude.

Work in silence, let your success announce you to the world. Kudos to him

Una make me eat fufu Instead of eba. Nawa o.. It is well

The three best areas to educate oneself is financial literacy, emotional intelligence and entrepreneurship.

Baba.. you don kpai me with laugh.. the structure of the head dey questionable

ZaddyJ:
This guy with too much swallow by the side of him head must be stopped . He has too much swallow hidden there

Be like this one go need both of them. After casting out, you still flog am join.

Em must get sense by force

EmmyMaestro:
There are some madness that you cast out and there are some that you flog out