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Land speculation is good business in cities like lagos and abuja...buy land u will never regret it.

Paternity leave had been approved into the Nigerian civil service rules...

IT MUST BE A BIBLE BELIEVING CHURCH.

Prayin for them in my quiet moments will make more sense to me rather than drawin attention to my self with a profile pix design...

The tin tire me sef...

victor2008:
make no sense to me though

what planet are u from?

Communication is key in a relationship...let him walk away from from her,plenty women are out there joor

Smart phones has made a lot of us lazy of even making a fone call, watsapp, bbm etc...

aaronson:
First off, ignore every persons who be telling you talk to God because, that's their way of not helping but think they helping. No God needed here, this is human behaviour and social psychology.


Human has this tendency to act childish and its called FIXATION in psychology, what this means in essence is before your hubby got married to you, he's been having sex with random girls and you married to him isn't an excuse not to continue.

Now, bare this in mind, He doesn't hate you but the love is hidden and shrouded by his fixated habit of extra marital affair. This happens because a man's brain only focuses on only one task at time unlike the women's brain which is capable of multitasking. This is the reason, Women are good at keeping multiple partners in secret than men.

Enough of education, How can you remedy this situation at hand?

Run a psychological test on him and see if he still care for you, Since you pregnant, its a lot easier, when he's in the house, just pretend, break down in pain and ensure you continue in the pretence of pain till he takes you to the clinic so the doctor would really ascertain you fine and need rest. So when you get home, make him understand he's the reason you broke down earlier and it was a post traumatic stress he's been putting you through, let him see your tears again at that point in time and watch his reaction and response after then.

Note- He might not quit that fixated habit of extra marital affair but I bet he would up the affection and care he has towards you which was hidden.

very pragmatic response! I like...

Mznaett:
Men?? Fear them

then what should we do about the women...lool

To be honest I am afraid of ladies with this kind of sexy bodies becos I feel that they engage more in unprotected sex and are exposed to all kinds of STI's.I am of the opinion that most guys that will want to have her will definately skin dive.

It all boils down to street credibility which fayose has it and there is nothing more appealin to the downtrodden in the nigerian society to feel a level of acceptance and also that the number one citizen in the state breaths the same air and eats the same food as them too...A sense of belongin goes a longway...

DOMITILA

And soo any problem?

Wife: sweetheart smile naah shey the have confam u as minister
Amaechi::hmmm you wont undstnd my dear! I hv bigger fishes to fry like wike in rivers oil wells

Babe2sure:
Now that's deep! Probably, you've had an humbling experience.

life is soo full of humblin experiences but I guess only a few get to learn from it...

Adesewa josh! I like!

I don tell my friends say my weddin na on a monday mornin! Who no dey nodey!

I really understand your plight my brother which has compelled me to say a word or two just to inspire your sad countenance.
The poor educational institutions are the cause of this current orientation that bewilders the mind of graduates on the streets searching for jobs and soo these ivory towers have failed to instill the value of community service to the undergraduates thereby disallowing the graduates to appreciate the privilege of acquiring knowledge from these various institutions
I also graduated from a public tertiary institution 9yrs ago, served in a secondary school as a literature teacher in a remote village in the southeast that had no water or light.As a batch B corp member I was welcomed with a heavy thunder storm that blew off the metal zinc roof of the j.s.s 1-3 block and saddled with the mindset of serving the community I saw to it that I assisted the school in replacing the zinc roof with help from State Universal basic Education.Coupled with this project I also organised a capacity building in collaboration with Small and medium enterprise developement agency to train women within the community in soap makin, palm kernel extraction, insecticide making, airfreshners and the enterpreneural skills to manage these small scale businesses.Registering them as a cooperative society to secure a loan to start the business was another diificult task which I accomplished 2days after my P.O.P.Eventhough the money the women received was not much,what mattered the most was their level of gratitude and appreciation and the point that I had the priviledge of attending an ivory tower that instilled some form of value inside of me.
This story is not to make you feel like you have not done enough or you must serve in one jungle to make your inpression felt but all it intends to do is to ingnite a passion to serve and the humility to start small no matter the circumstance you find your self.Yes I got a recommendation by the state govt, a merit award by the presidency and eventhough I was denied the privledge of workin with one of the most prestigious NGO's due to the politiking that evolved but that did not deter me, i changed 3 jobs after my youth service and I am currently studying LAW in one of the Federal institutions.
Finally, the legal profession is an enviable and noble one at that please search your inner self to serve your society with your creative passion, challenges here and there may abound regarding how much you will be paid and all but I want you to look at every disadvantaged point and challenge as an opportunity to build character.I will leave you with quotes from the most perfect book ever written 'The Bible' "...God causes rain to fall on the good and evil..." "Whatever your hands findeth to do, do it well...'"God will reward the works of ur hands and always remember that where knowledge and education cannot take you character will elevate you....

2yrs unemployed status and ur complainin, you are a common private soldiet in field of unemployment.What do u want some of us that have spent 9yrs unemployed.bros nah one star General I don become oh!

2yrs unemployed status and ur complainin, you are a common private soldier in the field of unemployment.What do u want some of us that have spent 9yrs unemployed.bros nah one star General I don become oh!

Stupid indeed

What can you say about this? Is the PMB economy that bad

Only in nigerian films

Eyaah so the wifey toke has now become a side chick.cos from d last time I checked married women were the ones that get pregnant for their hubands....