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end time man

I pity all those who are in support of Kemi's arrest that was how lord chosen arrested one comedian like that because of a joke he made. Pastors these days don't follow the gospel, a member of your church sent an email to Kemi asked her to publish it and u get her arrested for what? because you're trying to prove a point "Mr Untouchable" now if y'all dunno Kemi's case is now political that's how they will continue postponing her bail for years unless something revolutionary is done

we all have our faults but none of us will deny the fact that Kemi is an awesome and investigative journalist she ought to be with the sahara crew that woman can unearth secrets geeeez

Slowly freedom of speech will become a thing of the past in Nigeria

We have an Idi Amin case on our hands

mikolo80:
after you don use mouth skata long distance relationship. now na word

loool

skata ke

sirusX:
It goes beyond sex...it's more about how much you care about the person and willing to make things work...recognising that you want a future with your partner

Also, do they want the same thing too...and how committed are they to the relationship

People who would cheat would cheat despite the distance...even when you have your partner living in the same place as you, there would be someone out there that would catch your attention...but the issue remains; would you act on impulse or principle?

Word

Mimzyy:
What rocks my boat...

sinks another's

prettythicksme:
Lol,distance relationship is for mature peeps who understand,trust and love each other.If u cant hold body dont go into a long distance relationship cos e no easy. Shikena.



98% of guys cheats wen it comes to long distance relationship,so ladies if u cant handle a cheat dont go into a long distance relationship.

looool

I don't think 90% cheat

smackimorn:
Interesting but...

Depends on the individuals, if they truly love themselves it will always workout. Not everyone dating are in 'love'

my longest relationship was long distance for two years at the end of the day he couldn't come back so I moved on

ZirdoRoray:
I know a lady who restrained herself from sex for three years. And another who couldnt go a week without sex. It is up to the personality. Promiscuity or Self-control is not particular to any gender.

thank you

paybak:
Talk2bella why now

lol
what I do

TheSlyone2:
Oh, I forget women can't do a week or two without sex. So it justified to say long distance thingy is a time waster

looool

women sabi hold body pass men

I believe in love, I believe in everything that has to do with genuine sacrifice and patience; I am an advocate for true love no matter where we find ourselves when love is true distance is not a barrier but rather a motivation to love someone fiercely with each passing day.

I have seen a lot of relationships crumble, my longest relationship then was an online relationship, for almost two years I was celibate and faithful, ever hopeful my prince was going to come back home to make me his princess, what did I get for my wait, a block button and a I don’t trust you anymore excuse. Being an introvert makes it hard for me to meet people and when I do meet someone my nose of suspicion keeps perceiving lies emitting out of someone even before their intentions are said.

I want to pour out my heart, I want someone out there to read this and say I am awakened, long distance relationship is fun when you’re young and rapid growth and old age hasn’t become your enemy, it’s fun and hopeful if the person you’re waiting for is a regular visitor to the country you’re residing in, you can’t be 25 and date someone who’s 23 just because they’re in the STATES, father TIME has a strong hold over love, no matter what TIME always wins and most times things out of our control makes waiting a TIME waster.

Most girls in Nigeria are single, not because there are no men here; they are single because they have someone they are waiting for, 40% of Nigerian women have an “ABROAD” boyfriend who has promised to come back in no time to marry them but its only 1% of these relationships that work out.


A Nigerian man abroad who’s in his late 30’s wants to marry a girl in her early 20’s he picks out his speck online, when he finds you compatible sometimes he sends his family to go carry out an investigation on you and see if you’re what you portray yourself to be, he wastes no time in coming back to marry you, these ones aren’t time wasters they know what they want, this is the half of the 1% I was talking about.


The other half of the 1% is sheer luck, love, perseverance and God’s grace; when you wait on a young man for years, he finishes his studies, and sometimes both of you might even date other people along the line but when it’s time for him to come back home it just works out for both of you.


Dear women, before you decide to wait on someone have it in mind that things might not work the way you want it, men who are in Nigeria rarely date or wait on women who are abroad, I have heard of cases where the girl sends for the boy, rare cases where the boy sends for the girl but these are rare cases, what works for Ada might not work for Adaeze.


You’re 25 and you’re dating someone abroad who doesn’t know when he’s coming back, who’s struggling over there, who hasn’t gotten his citizenship, many of my readers know my stance on cheating, dear sister you’re going to break that man’s heart because of Father TIME, you’re going to bow down to the pressures of society and look for someone who’s ready to get married, you have wasted that man’s time and efforts over you.


Long distance relationships works when there’s constant visiting, it can work in Nigeria, all you need is a 45 minutes flight or an hour or several hours by bus to go see the love of your life, but when you’re dating someone abroad who’s thousands of miles away, he can’t afford to invite you over and you can’t afford to invite yourself over, let truth be told, that relationship is going to die a natural death.


I know you have seen the signs, unless you’re in it for something else, I know you know it’s a TIME WASTER, I want to wish you luck and pray you’re amongst the 1% it will work out for but I can’t guarantee happiness all through the journey, you will cry, wail, curse, regret, and ask the WHY question but at the end of the day if it works out you SMILE will be the brightest and the wildest Mankind has seen in a long TIME.



https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=yEqZiNLXREQ


Isabella Ibeji


http://www.talk2bella.com/2017/03/long-distance-relationship-is-time.html

Lord what's happening

keep soaring dear

so he's now a common thief
mtchew

maysimsimple:
I think I need to go n read ur article on d issue of depression. Just over a year ago, was so depressed when I was separated with my wife, contemplated suicide, even had a dream one night that I jumped from d molete bridge to a front of a moving car. When I woke up, all part of my body was aching me.. Thank God I know Jesus now.. After the dream d thought always flashed in my eye, d thought of my mother, I'm d only son I already lost my egg elder sister few years ago to childbirth. All praise be to Jehovah




e author=Talk2Bella post=54898561]I wrote an article once "Is your depression becoming suicidal" I have been there dear contemplated suicide my life wasn't this rosy still isn't but I thought about my mum I'm her only daughter how would she feel my mum was so scared when I called her wailing she said since she knew me I had never cried in her presence she said I was the strongest person she knew and for me to cry over the phone she had to send my only brother down to the east to come stay with me and we all got thru it as a family I am happy u didn't take your life suicide is never an option

it is well

I wrote an article once "Is your depression becoming suicidal" I have been there dear contemplated suicide my life wasn't this rosy still isn't but I thought about my mum I'm her only daughter how would she feel my mum was so scared when I called her wailing she said since she knew me I had never cried in her presence she said I was the strongest person she knew and for me to cry over the phone she had to send my only brother down to the east to come stay with me and we all got thru it as a family I am happy u didn't take your life suicide is never an option

all culprits should be apprehended

Sebastine1994:
The short of it is that I lost consciousness and found my self washed up in an italian beach. I thought I was in heaven, but I pinched my self to confirm my doubt. I dont know about my fellow passengers in the journey to italy. I was totally soaked and needed a change. Then I heard siren and instinctively ducked behind a palm trees. I read a sign post written in english which told me my location as Napoli.

when was this? send me an email I'd love to hear your story been following it hope you don't mind

awwwwn sorry

Rita Dominic is bae

Kate Henshaw messy divorce

husband shagged secretary

we all have secrets most of these celebrities pay off bloggers and news paper houses to keep their ish private you won't know what these celebrities go thru we all forget they are human

decent folks

flee

izzou:
Good geh
No copy joro type oh
Happy service year

hehehehehe
I hear
thanks dear

izzou:
So when are your next stories coming up?

very soon

wish them many more happy years together

cute kid

izzou:

Someone serving in Ibadan, is that one serving?

looool
yes ke

email me

izzou:
Where you serving??

Ibadan

not another religious quarrel please

very nice

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