₦airaland Forum

chai see persin papa, Uncle, brother, fiance, boyfriend, pikin as e lie down

Africans with the Abeg Abeg syndrome

Cutehector:
how is talk2bella.com faring

awesome love
business will be back as soon as I'm settled

Cutehector:
hope u are not travelling upandan....

you know how much I love the comfort of my room na

oh lord

sometimes you don't just know what to say or type

so many corps members have lost their lives

government should please make our safety tantamount

provide us special buses with well trained drivers

security

accommodation

and make this service voluntary

just this year alone how many corps members not to talk of last year

honestly I am tired

RIP to the faithful departed and may the almighty in heaven grant there families the strength and courage to bear this painful loss

if anyone should die while serving this country something should please be donated to them by the government maybe free education for the rest of the siblings or money whatever seems right

I have a lot of things to say but what's the point the government won't do nothing

Don Baba J

this is almost the same partnership few nairalanders have with Afmobi #Palmchat

Bruce Lee

bubu will not like this

tensazangetsu20:
Compensated? How much do you think will measure go someone's life?

referring to the man who's Auto shop was burnt down

they should be compensated simple
apologies won't do squat

don't be a Religious fanatic

be a spiritual fanatic

they do it in Lagos all the time
that's how my step dad became a stay at home dad because of these customs
I feel for the man day and night
thank God for farming

Handsomecole:
When will she marry?? When will she born??

when the time is right

besides not everyone will get married

http://www.talk2bella.com/2017/01/not-everyone-is-destined-to-get-married.html?m=1

Keneking:
Is she married now?

not everyone is destined to get married bro

http://www.talk2bella.com/2017/01/not-everyone-is-destined-to-get-married.html?m=1

I love the sincere and serenity of this lady

Ageless beauty

I don't need to watch this bbn again sef
gotten all the updates on nairaland

the smile tho

TheSlyone2:
A baby factory or baby farm is a location where women are encouraged or forced to become pregnant and give up their newborns for sale. Some poverty-stricken women have stated they voluntarily worked at baby factories , motivated by the prospect of monetary gain.

So instead of raising a sword on that kid whose destiny you know not, why not give birth to he/her and make a reasonable gains from the sale..

Though, both look like a difficult situation but baby factories won't make you a murderer

I get your point

TheSlyone2:
endorsing legalization of baby factories look more promising than abortion...

Just saying...

why do u say or think so please?

jmoore:
In summary, can you endorse killing of an innocent person?

Abortionists are terrorists.

really?

This is Nigeria, most people think we are backward, sometimes senile and developing; we are looked upon by other African countries for guidance and peace talks while we look up to other countries for weapons and loans in billions.


We are a hypocritical and very religious nation, we endorse polygamy but frown on adultery, what breeds polygamy? We legalize cigarettes and make Marijuana illegal, haven’t you heard how medicinal marijuana is? We patronize pharmacies and forget our Agbo sellers whose prescription sometimes is more effective than those tablets, we kill the common man who steals 100 naira but hails a politician who was jailed in London for stealing billions, this is my Nigeria and I love her, even with all her flaws.


I see many things wrong with this country but I am also one of those trying to make many things right with her, are you one of those? If you are then this post should garner you sincere opinion.

Abortion is the cessation of pregnancy or fetal development from its early stage; everyone has a legal right to this. When I was a kid I witnessed someone almost bleed to death, she had gone to a chemist to terminate a pregnancy, she wasn’t bold enough to go to a good hospital because it wasn’t and still isn’t legal for an adult to walk into any hospital and demand an abortion with a straight face, getting pregnant outside wedlock is a big shame on its own, heck having sex and letting people know is a mighty shame yet we all indulge, the rule is even if you’re going to get pregnant let it be a joint agreement between you and you’re partner, a pregnancy between unmarried couples cannot be unwanted if both of them want it.


There are so many cases which might lead to an abortion, please note I am against the abuse of abortion, but for cases like rape or health related issues I am all for it, people shouldn’t be forced to carry an unwanted pregnancy, sometimes doctors’ advice an evacuation of fetus in the womb, this is still an abortion but by doctor’s prescription.


I have read a lot of cases where young girls die due to drugs taken to induce labor in order to abort pregnancies, I have heard and read stories of quack doctors and chemists who these girls patronize because it is still illegal to have an abortion in a government hospital, we have all read stories of women who carry pregnancies to full term and then smolder those babies and dump their lifeless bodies in a sewage, if only she had aborted it at an early stage you would say right?


Someone wanted me to write about this, she said “Isabella, the abortion rate in this country is getting too much” I have told a lot of people that sex is the cheapest commodity in Nigeria if not the whole world, with all the awareness on safe sex and use of preventives most people still like it raw or mistakes are bound to happen, we all know you can’t kill a HYDRA by cutting off one of its heads, two more will grow back.


We see people who commit abortions as murderers, we judge them without giving them a chance, mistakes are bound to happen, we shouldn’t pay with our lives, married couples have been advised to abort an unwanted child either due to health reasons or finance, young women who were raped by criminals get an abortion for fear of giving birth to a criminal or hating that child when it is born, in such cases would you advise them to keep such a child?


These days technology has made things easier, sometimes we know the health status of a child before it is even born, when a child has a rare medical disorder doctors ask such couples to terminate such pregnancies, do you still judge them?


I know most people will say there’s nothing like an unwanted child and all kids are gifts from the lord, well the same things were said about serial killers, rapists, pedophile, child traffickers, murderers, armed robbers, ritualists and so on, but that’s not what I am here to argue, should abortion be legalized for those who truly need it? Let’s forget morality here for a second and think about what is right, so many people have died because they were trying to do it the wrong way, sometimes a condom might burst, a preventive pill might not work, and a sister might not be ready to be a mama, do you advice she gives birth and smolders the child? Do you suggest she gives birth and abandons the child? Do you suggest she aborts it the right way? What do you suggest if she was gang raped?


Like I said, we are a very religious and hypocritical nation, yet we are the greatest and trend setters in Africa, we aren’t called the “Giant Of Africa” for no reason, when we begin something in “UNISON” the whole African nation follows suit, Abortion should be made legal for those who really need it and proper facilities provided for this cause, I have seen enough deaths to know that sometimes I am not in a position to judge rather I can lend a voice to make things happen or stop things from happening.



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Isabella Ibeji

so soon

chai

I just de pity dat fountain the day wey water go finish for school

some like it older

cases like these confuse me

some times the love might just be genuine
sometimes it wasn't love at first before you know u find yourself loving that person

women marry older men we scream gold digger
men marry older women we scream bad sharp guy

it takes a daaamn lot to keep up pretence and that's another hustle on its own you gotta admire our Nigerian spirit and zeal for hustle

whatever feels right is right and whatever feels wrong is wrong

y'all might think this dude is scamming this woman but what matters to this woman is she's happy and has found love when her life is almost ending

young women don't be jealous your own will come

I love simple gifts

this one will soon carry gun

everyone looks happy on the internet

nabegibeg:
see as dem be like people wey dey work for supermarket

guy you bad I'm still coughing and laughing

epic response

for real?

is he still alive!

so not watching this