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BananaBender:
I'm doing a darn good job at it!

Oh puh-lease keep entertaining yourself. ffs who cares?

okotv:
thank you friend

Nigga I'm not your friend. I make friends with real men not pu***es.

Your story is crippingly heartwrenching. I feel sorry for you and your kid. Why are you still married to that man?, you waiting for Jesus to turn him around?

Stop slaving yourself just because you want to stay married. I know something must of triggered this behaviour so I wont castigate him much but ma'am, no one deserves to be treated the way this man treats you. Run while you can.

All the best.

Sophyrocks:
Oh yes. I can adopt a child that's not my biological child. I can take him/her as my very own. I have that spirit in me.

Can you adopt a child that is biologically yours?.

carefreewannabe:
Boy, if I was a snobbish show off, envy wouldn't let you find sleep at night.

Take care of your life, there is no need to be worried about mine.

Hahahahahahahahahahahahahahahahahaha oh puh-lease.

Liking your own posts?, common on, who does that?

Ciao.

carefreewannabe:
It is not luck, it is collective backwardness.

To you it is collective backwardness, to me it is a collective "thoughtfulness" on their part to make sure a fellow NLer finds peace and comfort that has so eluded her.

carefreewannabe:
MOST PEOPLE HERE ARE RE*TARDS.
I am happy those re*tards think something is wrong with me and my life. It actually means that everything is ok.

It cant be luck all these "retards" think the same thing of you, maybe you should go sit somewhere quiet and do some re-evaluation about your life.

Think about it.

carefreewannabe:
I have a lot of peace.
My mama did not have to compete against other wives to get daddy's love.
Neither will I have to endure such stress.

Oh miss carefree, miss-i-have-a-perfectlife-and-a-perfectfamily. Now, clap for yourself.

I'm sure many people on here dont think you have peace, now thats something to worry about.

carefreewannabe:
Then call the police.

I will if that will help you find peace.

carefreewannabe:
Why, is it a crime?

If her post is disturbing you in anyway then YES its a crime.

carefreewannabe:
Or else?




Yeah, I really think it is ridiculous from someone from a polygamous family to come online and to tell everyone, who cares, how her mother was so much better than the mothers of her other siblings.

My family is a unity, not a war zone so I find her message quite disturbing.

Then call a police.

carefreewannabe:
I wasn't talking about you.



I am not acting like I know her story, I am only referring to what she chose to share with us.
Is it a crime?

YES

carefreewannabe:
And your point is?

Lay off her. Trying to ridicule her for some cheap browny point is very low of you. And to think you doing all that just cause she got a differing opinion to yours.

carefreewannabe:
I don't consider her a victim because she was born into a polygamous home.
I have a problem with this mindset "My mother was better than the other wives."
Either you marry into a polygamous home and consider the other wives your family or you better stay out of it.
And as a child from a polygamous home, you better learn to show more respect to the mothers of your half-siblings.

Are you a family or not? What now?



Maybe she turned out just fine, maybe not. I don't know.

Am I a family?, really carefree?

What if, just what if her mother was indeed a better wife to her father?, oh please stop acting like you know her story. You know nothing about her and her family so you have no right to condemn or chastise her on whatever it is she say about her family. And yes publicly or publicly.

carefreewannabe:
You are free to ignore me if you think that I am boring.

How would I when you find it difficult to ignore me, huh?

carefreewannabe:
I don't care whether she is successful or not, everyone is successful on NL

I just think that envy in a family is nothing to be proud of.
A family should be a supportive and not a competitive system.
If there is envy and competition in a family, then something is very wrong with it.

You are right on this but this lady is just a victim of circumstance and you trying to rub it in her face is not fair.

I am happy for her, despite all the competition and envy in her family, she turned out really fine and thats something only few people can achieve. She went from being a victim to a victrix so step back and stop what you trying to do to her. Again, its not fair.

carefreewannabe:
I will let it go when I get bored.

Actually, you are boring.