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kidco:
09032730510

Seen. Someone will reach out to you later today. Thanks.

kidco:
Sorry... pop ups wont be available till mid October. .. and somehow I will find a way to include it in subsequent shipping to ur area... as a gift...

Your number pls.

modath:
Shy, 2 things..

1. I ain't no feminist, i totally am on the side of clear definition of gender roles;..... A man not doing household chores is not a sacrilege in my book, neither do not i see anything wrong in buying a pack of boxer in exchange for an high end phone as anniversary gifts...

2. Most people are full of crap, they say lot of inane things & do the opposite.....

There is a difference between making a choice & settling,most settle for the available & still want to foist what they'd want from what is desirable,which they weren't fortunate enough to have....

The day i see a beauty queen with a laborer is the day i change my stance, till then, money makes the world go round..

Sensible. Very sensible post from a reasonable woman.

Postmann, less/darktroll, you guys are crazy. Whenever I want to be foolish to engage either or both of you in any intellectual discourse, please be kind enough to remind me of this thread to reset my brain.

Back to OP, everything you wrote back there is the truth but what saddens me is that Feminism seems to be winning. They've even successfully penetrated the academic world. Do you know the academic community has warned that in all academic writings, proformal reference to neuter nouns such as BABY must not be selective of the masculine gender, HE. Academics are advised to write, for instance:

THE BABY WANTED ITS FOOD
instead of

THE BABY WANTED HIS FOOD

Also in the case of indefinite pronouns - singular or plural - academics are advised to employ the plural proform paradigm, THEY. This means they should write, for instance:

EVERYONE KNOWS THEIR RIGHT
instead of

EVERYONE KNOWS HIS RIGHT

However, one issue that remains inadequately addressed is the preferred proform for neuter nouns like INDIA, COMPANY, etc. Academics are known to make a choice of the feminine gender in this case and they remain unquestioned. They write, for instance:

INDIA HAS ADDRESSED HER POLITICAL ISSUES
instead of

INDIA HAS ADDRESSED ITS POLITICAL ISSUES.


https://www.nairaland.com/2842406/sexism-fairness-gender-rights

Postmann and my brothers against feminism, a lot of work has to be done. Let's continue to open threads to enlighten the innocent ones who are yet to be initiated into the feminist movement. They need to know about the evil of feminism.

We need more "feminivores" like you Postmann.

Peace.

These Feminists obviously mean business and it seems they're winning.

ON SEXISM, FAIRNESS AND GENDER RIGHTS

For years now, the academic community has warned that in all academic writings, proformal reference to neuter nouns such as BABY must not be selective of the masculine gender, HE. Academics are advised to write, for instance:

THE BABY WANTED ITS FOOD
instead of

THE BABY WANTED HIS FOOD

The latter, it would be found, may be considered sexist, as it gives preference to one gender over the other.

Also in the case of indefinite pronouns - singular or plural - academics are advised to employ the plural proform paradigm, THEY. This means they should write, for instance:

EVERYONE KNOWS THEIR RIGHT
instead of

EVERYONE KNOWS HIS RIGHT

While the former may yet be grammatically and semantically controversial, it is clearly not sexist, as it favours both gender choices.

However, one issue that remains inadequately addressed is the preferred proform for neuter nouns like INDIA, COMPANY, etc. Academics are known to make a choice of the feminine gender in this case and they remain unquestioned. They write, for instance:

INDIA HAS ADDRESSED HER POLITICAL ISSUES
instead of

INDIA HAS ADDRESSED ITS POLITICAL ISSUES

While the choice of THEIR may give rise to unnecessary grammatical-number debate, one cannot deny the possibility of HIS. ITS too may not be appropriate, since in this case, INDIA is not the country as a geographical space but as a population and government. (In rare cases too - for native speakers of English - it may refer to the landscape).

The question then is "why HER and not HIS?"

delishpot:
How can he just divorce without letting her people know what she did? Just pack her home with no regard for her parents? It is clear they were not problematic in-laws. The least he should have done was to tell them what their daughter has been puting him through before kicking her out. Besides maybe they would have talked to her and helped fix his marriage looong before the mater went beyound repair. Abi did he not want to fix his marriage in the first place? Had he been waiting for the problem to accumulate so that he can find enough reason to kick her out?
He is enjoying sha, I hope this new woman meets his standards.

I'm not sure we read the same thing because it is clearly written in what I read that he told his inlaws what the wife did but he just couldn't disclose it to us (readers). They even think he's such a good man and they don't want to lose him so they had to give him another lady in that family.

A funny story anyways.

TooNoisy:
Which women need to be more assertive? The average Nigerian woman like you? People have personality traits. Some people will be assertive, some will not. Some will have a temper, some will not. Different people are born with personality traits. Why don't you preach that NIgerian women should be less materialistic and stop focusing on Channel and Prada bags, Telemundo and Nollywood, etc. Well I guess you wouldn't focus on that because it's their choice. But there are lots of Nigerian women who have decided to succeed.

You said we are all agreed that women can live their lives the way we want. Then you say society discriminates against how women make choices. Please tell me when someone held a gun to your head to demand you live your life a certain way.

I will suggest you get an education and a job for starters. You sound unintelligent and unemployable!

coogar:
it's obvious cococandy does not know what bumshorts are. the base of the bütt has to be exposed for it to be bümshorts!

Bumshorts on adults, yh but what's called bumshorts on little girls are completely different from the one in this pic, the base of the bütt are NEVER exposed.

Please, it's completely wrong to think a child is dressed provocatively. It is wrong in its entirety.

edwife:
I am used to them and i don't care.



Yeah look who we have here?

Been a while,trust you superb! Mou is just being naughty and mischievous as usual.My only beef with him is keeping Ivanovic ,
We will get it in no time,he is realising it now.We need new defenders,the centre back and full back is shit.

He's also been making shitty subs. Honestly, I can't believe Pedro completed the Newcastle game and as long as Ivanovic is in that defence, we will always be vulnerable at the back.

Someone needs to speak some senses into Mou's head.

edwife:

https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=nmzH9MHKC7s





I loved this,thanks trucky!

Edwife

Mourinho is chelsea's problem. He doesn't seem to be getting anything right at the moment. The only match he got it right was against Maccabi.


Feminism has never been about gender equality but female equality. I won't take feminists serious until I see a feminist campaign trying to reduce the sentencing gaps between genders for the same crime. Until I see them campaigning for the things the girl mentioned and some other things, they will remain noisemakers.

Feminists are just jokers anyways.

Moana:
so its fabricated because there are man out there secure and dont need to make themselves like they are superior to women to feel relevant in life? don't worry its something you can never understand when you know you have a lot of insecurity issues.

You didnt see Jay Z making noise when his wife sang songs like " who runs the world" thats a secure man right there, he knows Beyonce is not there to be under his feet but to compliment him.

I hear you loud and clear you online feminist.

Moana:
my mother believes in treating all her male and female children equally and she has been married for 32years.
Everything they own with my father is equally divided between irrespective of who acquired it.
They are millions of ordinary women out there who believe in equal treatment of all who are still married happily for decades. So i dont really see the point of this.
My father is proud of his wife and has never seen or treated her as a threat because she is equally as human as she is

Story.
Story.

When you're done fabricating stories just to suit your argument, please do tell Miss Moana.

5minsmadness:
He must have had a very terrifying experience...

Most def

crackhaus:
https://www.reactiongifs.com/r/oboy.gif

She's amazing innit. When I'm ready for marriage, I'm gonna ask edwife to recommend a girl for me. She's a good woman. I found another like her today though "lovely(something)"

VictoriaBee:
Chimamanda never told anyone when she got married.

Ekiti state first lady - Bisi Adeleye-fayemi.

https://en.m.wikipedia.org/wiki/Bisi_Adeleye-Fayemi

Oh okay.

dinachi:
@Moana stop moaning on this thread! Extreme feminism is bad for marriage business unless you want to be twisted, frustrated and divorced then welcome to feminism!
Women who truly love their men feel privileged to submit to him but all these feminists who see men as their sparring partner always gets it hot in their marriage. When the husband refuses to bulge, they divorce and become bitter for the rest of their lives. Those who can now comes to naira land to offload their venom here .
Next thing due to lack of adequate care and proper focus in life their puccy hygiene deteriorates and the puccy begins to stink terribly thereby driving men further from them. Next thing extremely mouth odour joins their extreme feminism. Then the stage is set for permanent loneliness and blaming of men for all the world troubles.

Bruv, I agree with you 100% but hey what's with you and puccy. Puccy this, puccy that. Lol chill mate.

VictoriaBee:
But Chimamanda practise extreme feminism and she hasn't divorced like celebrities that are not claiming feminism?

Chimamanda this, Chimamanda that. How long has Chimamanda been married? 4years? 5years?.

Give me a name of a feminist that's been married for over 20years and is still married.

edwife:
Because i am here smiling and reading through,nothing to add really.

If a feminist is getting confused by another feminist point of view imagine what mine will be?

Looooooool that's exactly what I've been doing too. Reading and smiling.

I actually want to engage some of these people but I think I'll pass this evening.

Let's keep reading edwife.

lolaredvelvet:
What kind of men have you had dealings with in life? So according to your logic only men do inhumane things? What then do you say about women who cheat and their husbands end up unknowingly raising children who aren't really theirs? Or haven't you seen women who verbally, emotionally and physically abuse men too? Pls be fair in your reasoning ok.

My previous comment strictly applies to decent people who are at least trying to live their lives in a way that pleases God.. If your have had bad experiences with men in life, I do hope you eventually find peace and realise there are PLENTY of handsome, loving and decent brothers out there.. That's all I have to say to you. Take care!

Go girl. I can tell you're an amazing woman. Your husband is a lucky man.

Edwife, why you silent?

Only a selfish man will take and not give back. I mean BJ is amazing, cunni is awesome but nothing beats 69, something I refer to as romantic dinner for two.

If you know how to eat a woman right, she will never leave you.

SAMBARRY:
crack head so you have changed your moniker again





Just because you want me to engage you in discussion

well like I said earlier and I repeat. I don't engage in discussions with African apes. Go to the zoo and you will see your mates to engage in discussion with

I plead with you to stop spewing nonsense. There is a difference between "stubborn" and "silly" but in you, both words have found a common ground.

Sambarry, that's an innocent kiss from a Father to his beautiful daughter. That's his muse and probably the most beautiful-est thing in this world to him. Not everyone has a warped mind like yours. I am highly disappointed in you.

And No, Talon is an entirely different person.

SAMBARRY:
African ape shut up when I'm talking to human beings. And for the records I only discuss with human beings not apes.



next

Woman, please do shut the hell up.

edwife:
Lol...that might take a very long time,love my privacy

Hello,been a longtime.

Oh all right. You look great from the back . Ed is lucky.

Very long time indeed. Hope you're good?

Up Chelsea. Pride of London.

edwife:

That bruddah up there just made me check your profile out . Please do mention me when you have your face displayed. I'm interested in seeing it. .

Hello.

babyosisi:
You are using style to join in eh kwa
Kai
And someone says women get bad mouth
See man o
You are a man abi

Even I knows
Hahahahaha
Why not even eye nose

Looool I give it to you, this is funny.

edwife:
Good thanks.

Yea you right,it could be terrible.

A slap is totally different from throwing blows.I will go for the slap just to redirect her brain.

I do understand there are beasts out there that beats their woman at the slightest provocation but hey, thank God there are still women like you that don't lump the good guys with the bad ones. Some of the ladies here can really learn from you but I've been here too long to know they won't listen to a good woman like you, they'd rather be led astray by people like Osisi. Nobody is perfect but you do a good job being objective all the time.

I'm in awe of your maturity, the way you deal and manage people on here is legendary.

coogar:
Y

a slap isn't a bad idea if the woman won't let you go out and cool off. the slap would release her grip on your shirt so you can take off from there.

a certain female made this post about her neighbours....


she was very happy about the treatment her fellow woman got.

She was happy cause she knows the man is a good man and must have been pushed to his limit before he decided "enough is enough" and give her the trashing of her life.

And coogar, don't take that osisi lady serious, even I know she's as fake as kim's buttt. Ignore her.

edwife:
Wow been a while i have read from you,hope you good.

I have seen women who did not want to let go,despite numerous pleading from passersby and ended up battered.

I think if she locks your shirt,push her away and leave the scene unless she follows you,then it's another thing altogether.

Ma'am, I have been good, you?

Honestly, I do not know how best to handle such a situation cause I have never witnessed one or ever being in such a situation but I have read and I have tried to analyse various scenarios in my head but I always come to this conclusion on this particular snecerio that bitch-slapping such a woman won't be a terrible idea. Come on, if my woman verbally abuse me, God forbid and won't let me go peacefully like the gentleman that I am, I think a slap or two ain't such a bad idea. She might end up with injury if I have to forcefully push her away from me, she could hit her head on a wall or any other thing or don't you think so?

Ewuro4:
Honestly dear, besides walking away I don't know another method of de-escalating an aggressive situation like what you just described up there.

Reterliation in anger considering the fact that men are stronger ; may lead to worse physical damage or even death. you don't want that do you?

Yea, I do not want that. I am against every form of abuse but I think you missed the part I wrote "the woman locks his shirt". In such a case, how do you think the man will get rid of the woman's grip on his shirt?

Today, I learnt, brothers and sisters, it's okay for a woman to verbally abuse her man but wrong for that man to physically abuse the woman in retaliation. Lot of jokers on here.

Quick question; what should be done when a woman verbally abuse her man, damages his phone and locks his shirt preventing him from "walking out like a perfect gentleman" just like some of you advised?