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carefreewannabe:
Who said it was a social problem?

Then tell me exactly your problem with her publicly taking pride in something that made her so successful in life (I wouldnt know if she's really successful but i'm taking her word for it).

carefreewannabe:
She has no power over PUBLICLY taking pride in the competition and envy among her father's wives?

And just how is that a social problem?

carefreewannabe:
You cannot choose your family but you can choose whether you proudly tell everyone, who cares to know, that envy is normal in your family.

Well-done. Really well-done.

Typical. Very typical of you. You just have to try your best possible to ridicule this woman by finding lapses in her life, finding fault in something she has no power over just to achieve your aim because she has a differing opinion to yours?, now that is very low of you. If doing this brings peace and serenity into your life, go on.

All the best.

exquisitelady02:
NO. Dnt scare my potential friends na, kilode?

Alright. All the best.

kweenkong:
Aisha I total disagree with ypu on this . it is not the place of the inlaw to complain and even say it out loud. He clothes you and feeds you and you there complaining about what?
Her issue the man is jobless and as such should not be loafing around in his own house . Abeg if it was her father will she complain such , and moreover did u ever meet a man that died from hardwork. Una sef can condone nonsense and foolish wife . She even said the wife was with her because they are family can u imagine such reasoning . I bet you there parens think like them . Awon alai leko omo kekere.

Ffs where is the love button when you need one?..Bless you.

crackhaus:
Hahahaha..... "Feminivores"
Has a nice ring to it

I swear down

Fxwarrior:
Hit her? I volunteer myself to defend her. Let the whole Nairaland come. Am ready.

Brotha, if you can, kindly help me delete the names I mentioned in that post. Thanks

edwife:
@Talon05 thanks for removing my name,this is NL.You don't just know.
As for me,i did not beg for any name dropping and i always say my mind without following the wagon;not looking for likes either.They pay me ni

PLease Talon05 delete my post in your mention,this is about to escalate to something else.
Not cut out for that.

Seriously I feel bad for dragging you into this. Dont ever stop being objective ma'am.

TribalEAST:
the feminists chipped it in so they can have a flimsy excuse to bash men.

I don't too subscribe to the washing his clothes part, but if he demands it, she should take whatever objection to her lazy sister.


They are internet feminists; more like a scary paper tiger.
don't mind the MAN-haters who won't mind having their husband as their houseboy.

Brotha, i'm one for live and let live but they trying to force their opinion on every lady is what annoys me. Let a lady have a differing opinion to theirs and they gang up making denigrating remarks towards such person. It's appalling and crippingly disheartening.

Oh my oh my, I think my comprehension skill is kinda rusty, can someone please highlight where in the post the husband demanded his clothes be washed by this lady?

You're 26 yet I house you, feed you, cloth you and i'm even responsible for paying your tuition and I helped u get a job, even now that I got no job, i'm still doing my own part and you think its too much for me to ask you to wash my clothes?, I swear this man is too generous.

And yeah this isnt about feminism but its a good topic for feminists to feast on and y'all never disappoints.

Why is nobody talking about this lady's sister who according to the post also does nothing in the house since this lady claim to do everything?, oh women always do no wrong. Keep bashing the man.

exquisitelady02:
I just love beauties. They make the world glow.

You gay? Yes/No

xynerise:
You need to improve in your sex fantasy

Like seriously dude needs to up his game.

OP, dont just go jacking off, there is what they call pre-intimacy, work on your woman's body then go on your kneels, say the Lord's prayer and then eat her cookie, eat that damn thing so well she begins to shiver, like convulsion sorta thing but be sure not to bite it, do this before ramming your co*k inside her. Sex is like a skill, like learning how to drive or playing a piano, it takes time to be a pro but I assure you if you work on doing those things, soon she will become a nymphomaniac.

All the best.

edwife:
So for this girl,the only person that was suppose to assist her with chores is the husband's sister,not even her sister?

So,because he lost his job though he is still fulfilling his responsibility as the man of the house,he should be forced to do some chores,while the wife should do nothing than to mind her business.ok o

I would have send that girl out of the office,she was not forced to live with them,she is 26 and not a baby.If only she felt like it was too much for her,all she needed to do is to approach her sister and let her know .

Something could have been arranged for her,if they can feed and provide for her,why won't they seek for an alternative.

Some people bring unnecessary stress to themselves.

That her sister,i have no word for her.

Thanks for being objective. I knew you wont disappoint me. God bless your home Ma'am.

Amelian:
@ talon, the lord will see me through, but I know am saying the truth, whether they like am or not!...am not backing down



aww fxwarrior, :Dthanks dear

Ma'am, ofcourse you did no wrong but these people being who they are, they will come in making denigrating remarks just to ridicule you for being "awesomely" different to them. Again, all the best.

Fxwarrior:
Hit her? I volunteer myself to defend her. Let the whole Nairaland come. Am ready.

All the best brotha.

I hope your prepared for whats about to hit you ma'am?. Be prepared. Be very prepared. I only know three decent women on here that will agree with you. The rest will tear you apart, and you might need the help of some "feminivores" like TV01, Coogar, Crackhaus and pickabeau.

All the best.

Fixed.

Chillisauce:
I rove you too

Awwwwwwwnn i'm flattered.

chaircover:
@poster have a seat, go and get your wedding photo album and look at the photos one by one.
Take a good look at your wedding ring
Take a good look at your son and look at the similarities between your son and your husband. Even if they dont have facial similariites I am sure that there are behavoural similiarites.

Now be brutally honest to yourself and say, this is my life now. The ex is the ex and this is the present and the future. There is no going back.

Begin to love your husband and begin to give him a chance. You chose him. No one forced you. Even if he does good, you cant see it now becasue you are always comparing. No 2 people are the same, talk less of 2 different relationships being the same.

As regards current issues with your hubby, table them, talk to him and let him know what you want. Men are not mindreaders and magicians and Rome was not built in a day. Some people are lucky, they marry a ready made soup and some people are not so lucky and they have to prepare their soup from scratch.
Teach him what you want him to do in the bedroom. If its technique, then tell him and explain to him what you want him to do in bed, if its size then use an extender, if its ED go see a doctor and if its PE google is your friend QED! There is nothing new under the sun.
There is another thread where a man has had ED since january. Work together! Its when you hear other peoples stories that you will know that you are not the only one going through challenging times.

Re emotion & romance, teach by example. Not all men are lovey lovey touchy touchy. . . so SHOW him what you want him to do by doing it. Dont just keep on saying that he doesnt do this or that. We all come from different backgrounds and have different life experiences and that is what moulds people and some people are not deliberatly being wicked . . its that they dont know any better, so you need to teach them.

You have said that he is a good man & has a good heart. . . .My dear that counts for a lot o! Sow and invest in this man and you will surely reap the rewards in the years to come.

I love you so much and really i'm in awe of you already. It's not hard to figure out that you are a sweet, matured and awesome wife to a certain man and I swear down that man is lucky to have you.

And really miss chillisauce really need to chill.

Airforce1:
I know
Tuface only refer the ones that are dark skinned to his unmarried friends and keep the light skinned girls for break fast

Trust me

I think all his baby mamas are dark-skin. His wife, Annie is dark-skin so I think he passes the light-skin ones to his friends.

Airforce1:
Why didn't you refer the banker you got pregnant to your unmarried friends ehn Mr father of all nation?

Bro, some pu***** are too sweet to pass around, u just have to have them to yourself so dont blame him.

carefreewannabe:
Nice list, for the most part.

You never completely agree to something, do you?

Now I am interested in knowing the "tiny" part of the list that is not "nice"

theLORDreigns:
That's Mandy Hales'. Mine is...coming up.

Dont take too long, I'll be waiting lool.

theLORDreigns:
E be like JAMB qweshion!

Are those the qualities you want in a man or Mandy Hale's?

Houseofglam7:
Okay, tell him I said hi right back.
Its been a while though.

NL got boring and now i'm home away from home so i decided to wander back to NL and do some catch-up.

Houseofglam7:
Yes sir.

Oh alright. CarterDee says Hi.

Houseofglam7:
300?
Serious buyer.

You into cars now?

diksucker:
many people wil come here claiming not to snore, when in actual sense, they do.

btw fat people snore a lot. y?

Eniola Badmus go de snore like madddd

Well not everybody snores, I dont. Someone would have joked about it or tell it to my face that I do if I actually do.

Brotha, these girls aint loyal, why give them your heart when all they want is a heavy purse?!?!?!

Houseofglam7: Damn attention seeking douche bag!

Well said

Soz by runz girl, do you mean a hooker?

Elantracey: another scapegoat .

Scapegoat indeed.

Tats are so not cool but I think I will draw one more to make it 4.