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Romance / Re: Things Got Complicated, Please I Need Advice (a Guys Perspective Would Be Nice) by tanyah001: 1:42pm On Jan 03 |
NemoDatQuod:Thank you for your advice. Your right, I’ll definitely take it on board |
Romance / Re: Things Got Complicated, Please I Need Advice (a Guys Perspective Would Be Nice) by tanyah001: 1:36pm On Jan 03 |
Uyi168: Did you read what I wrote? Nobody is trying to take anything to the next level |
Romance / Re: Things Got Complicated, Please I Need Advice (a Guys Perspective Would Be Nice) by tanyah001: 12:38pm On Jan 03 |
GreatAchiever1: I understand what you mean but that’s just what works for me at the moment, we do everything people do in relationships just without the title I guess. It’s just at agreement but I do agree about the theories part, I just don’t think it’s fair to be judge based of things like that but that’s just the reality I find myself in |
Romance / Re: Things Got Complicated, Please I Need Advice (a Guys Perspective Would Be Nice) by tanyah001: 12:18pm On Jan 03 |
Exceed15: 25 and 26 |
Romance / Re: Things Got Complicated, Please I Need Advice (a Guys Perspective Would Be Nice) by tanyah001: 12:09pm On Jan 03 |
SharingIsLife: That would be very helpful, I’m open to your advice |
Romance / Things Got Complicated, Please I Need Advice (a Guys Perspective Would Be Nice) by tanyah001: 11:43am On Jan 03 |
I’ve been dating a guy for 2 months, we both agreed on not wanting a relationship as (I had just gotten out of a 5 year relationship and he said he had things he needed to work on himself) but I agreed to date him as he said he would be open minded. It’s been very lovely dating him but he suddenly wanted to call it quits because he thinks I might want more in the future and he’s not willing to give me that. He’s based things off the 5 personality traits (psychological theories- check online) lol, he said I’m not an “agreeable person” and that’s not what he looks for in a woman. I’m so angry cause at no point have I mentioned wanting a relationship with this man but everyweek he feels the need to remind me that it’s not going to happen. We got drunk few weeks ago and he was professing how much he wanted me to his girl but I didn’t take it seriously, we both got drunk again together and I was the one saying how much I liked him, although again I didn’t take it too seriously. I told him in the “future” if it does turn into something serious then I don’t mind and he just said “let’s end things now” (God he was so cold when he said this). This is someone I’ve literally spent every week with, I’m not in love him but yeah I do like him but he was just so cold about it, almost like he didn’t even value me as an individual in that moment. I’m so angry and hurt by this cause it’s just shown he didn’t plan to be open minded about anything at all. I regret getting drunk with him and saying the things I said. He said to me he was doing me a favour and he feels like he’s holding me back from dating other people. He said he would call back during the week as he felt bad about the whole thing but honestly I am so shocked and distraught. I don’t really ask him if he’s seeing other girls or doing things with other people cause I don’t care, the same person is the person that would be asking me if I miss him etc so I’m just so shocked, how do I deal with this when he does call back this week? This is someone I get along with very well and we don’t impose anything on each other. |
Family / Advice Needed. by tanyah001: 12:06pm On Jun 22, 2017 |
Hi guys Please could you follow my upcoming page on Instagram. @letstalkaboutit01 It's dedicated to Sex and Relationships Lifestyle Education And many more. Send your stories and dilemmas to letstalkaboutit01@gmail.com Please support the page thank you. I am also opened to suggestions on how to make my page grow. I'm an upcoming psychologist and would love to help people |
Romance / Advice Needed by tanyah001: 12:00pm On Jun 22, 2017 |
Hi guys Please could you follow my upcoming page on Instagram. @letstalkaboutit01 It's dedicated to Sex ex and Relationships Lifestyle Education And many more. Send your stories and dilemmas to letstalkaboutit01@gmail.com Please support the page thank you. I am also opened to suggestions on how to make my page grow. I'm an upcoming psychologist and would love to help people. This has been a passion of mine. |
Romance / Re: Relationship Advice Needed. Mature Audience Only. I'm 20 And He's 28. by tanyah001: 10:45am On Jun 06, 2017 |
[quote author=BabaDem post=57242018]Mayb he is tired of u. Guys get tired of a r/ship in many ways of some wch are: he didn't really love u, and wz after sex wch he hz gotten.. I am in dis position..bt if i want to leave her, on seeing her mood i'll pity her again and we continue fvcking again.. I want her to leave me wen she's tired U ain't encouraging him, u always demand stuffs frm him etc... But remember most r/ship goals are nothing compared to mandzukic goal against madrid.[/quote I don't want to be pitied. He messaged me this morning saying he missed me but I just had to tell him I don't have anything to say. I actually don't feel the same way. There's just too many red flags. I need to thinking carefully of what I want to to do. |
Romance / Re: Relationship Advice Needed. Mature Audience Only. I'm 20 And He's 28. by tanyah001: 10:21am On Jun 06, 2017 |
Raine80: Harsh way you put it but you do have a point. |
Romance / Re: Relationship Advice Needed. Mature Audience Only. I'm 20 And He's 28. by tanyah001: 9:34am On Jun 06, 2017 |
kokoA: It's Ramadan. Have some shame please. A guy who acts like that because of sexual act is dumb lol how immature can you get because of BJ |
Romance / Re: Relationship Advice Needed. Mature Audience Only. I'm 20 And He's 28. by tanyah001: 9:33am On Jun 06, 2017 |
chenzen: You had the chance to read and move on to the next page. I said mature advice needed. Clearly your the child that needs growing up because you feel the need to say something. Keep it moving. |
Romance / Re: Relationship Advice Needed. Mature Audience Only. I'm 20 And He's 28. by tanyah001: 9:32am On Jun 06, 2017 |
Raine80: lol he's emotionally immature. Not me mate. |
Romance / Re: Relationship Advice Needed. Mature Audience Only. I'm 20 And He's 28. by tanyah001: 10:36pm On Jun 05, 2017 |
westlius: For somebody who can't even text me that he will be late home, I'll be the one to be reminding him that he needs to be communicating these little things so it won't turn into an argument or misunderstanding. Is that one good? Later he will say I should ask but I'm tired of asking. Just do the right thing |
Romance / Relationship Advice Needed. Mature Audience Only. I'm 20 And He's 28. by tanyah001: 9:16pm On Jun 05, 2017 |
Untanglee I haff come back again ooo I'm 20 and my bf is 28 but he acts ever so immature. If I make a mistake he makes sure that he must do his own back. He was to travel to Nigeria recently but we had an argument before he left. Even whilst angry I still texted that he should have a safe flight. I also called before he left but it was going to voicemail. He landed in Nigeria and never even called me not until I saw on snapchat the following day. I was so angry. Am I that little in his eyes. No matter what he should have at least said he landed. Every time we argue and the conversation is not going how he wants he just says he doesn't want to talk about it or he will call me ask me a question, expects me to answer it and when I do he will say he wants to get off the phone. Honestly I just count this as disrespect. We can't even communicate effectively as adults and he's older than me. Honestly I'm so angry. His last text to me was "Please I have a lot going through my mind right now and the last thing I want is for you to add to it again. Please and please. " Can you imagine no call or text since then. Do I even mean anything to him. I'm thinking of calling the whole thing off. I'm tired. Could the age gap be causing problems? |
Romance / Re: Constructive Advice Would Be Appreciated. Please Read by tanyah001: 10:10pm On Jul 11, 2016 |
halfricanadian: Thank you ☺️ |
Romance / Constructive Advice Would Be Appreciated. Please Read by tanyah001: 11:46pm On Jul 10, 2016 |
I met a guy few months ago and he was instantly attracted me, he was very nice kind and very overprotective over me, I'm 20 and he's 30, we've had our ups and downs but the problem is I'm a virgin and now he wants to have sex with me, personally I plan on giving it to someone I'm going to marry only but everytime we meet he tries to have sex and I always have to push him off. I haven't seen him in over a month now and he says next time I come round he doesn't want excuses, he promised not to ever leave and he said that he's ready for marriage next year. But I'm scared I don't know if to lose it to him, he's made endless promises never to leave, but I'm still having doubts because people change eventually. |
Romance / Re: New Post (relationship Dilema) by tanyah001: 9:58am On Jun 29, 2016 |
foolinlove: Thank you for the advice. |
Romance / New Post (relationship Dilema) by tanyah001: 11:11pm On Jun 28, 2016 |
Please bear in mind he has called me several times but it is not to apologise and he refuses to apologise. The guy does care about me a lot but it's so hard to over look what he did that night.
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Romance / Relationship Advice by tanyah001: 10:53pm On Jun 28, 2016 |
Hey guys I'll just send screenshots of what I wanted to say because it's quite long, please read |
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