I met a guy few months ago and he was instantly attracted me, he was very nice kind and very overprotective over me, I'm 20 and he's 30, we've had our ups and downs but the problem is I'm a virgin and now he wants to have sex with me, personally I plan on giving it to someone I'm going to marry only but everytime we meet he tries to have sex and I always have to push him off. I haven't seen him in over a month now and he says next time I come round he doesn't want excuses, he promised not to ever leave and he said that he's ready for marriage next year. But I'm scared I don't know if to lose it to him, he's made endless promises never to leave, but I'm still having doubts because people change eventually.

Dont giv him nything if he can say he wanna marry nextyr dis yr is kukuma over lerrhim wait till next yr too for sex guys b using marriage to decieve girls nd use nd waste them.

Guys using marriage to deceive girls since 1909.

y r you running?

halfricanadian:
Dont giv him nything if he can say he wanna marry nextyr dis yr is kukuma over lerrhim wait till next yr too for sex guys b using marriage to decieve girls nd use nd waste them.

shyling:
y r you running?

Running how?
From who?
Why?
I dont understand why?

what is the big deal....attraction getting u scared?

halfricanadian:


Running how?
From who?
Why?
I dont understand why?

shyling:
what is the big deal....attraction getting u scared?

Wat are u saying?

am asking you out to dinner as my gal

halfricanadian:

Wat are u saying?

shyling:
am asking you out to dinner as my gal

Ok

tanyah001:
I met a guy few months ago and he was instantly attracted me, he was very nice kind and very overprotective over me, I'm 20 and he's 30, we've had our ups and downs but the problem is I'm a virgin and now he wants to have sex with me, personally I plan on giving it to someone I'm going to marry only but everytime we meet he tries to have sex and I always have to push him off. I haven't seen him in over a month now and he says next time I come round he doesn't want excuses, he promised not to ever leave and he said that he's ready for marriage next year. But I'm scared I don't know if to lose it to him, he's made endless promises never to leave, but I'm still having doubts because people change eventually.

Babe, I av several nieces as ur age mate and I will advise u d way am gonna advise them. Pls take my sincere advice.

First, I think u shud know that this man is mainly after your body, ur virginity, hw on earth will he give u a time nw dat he's going to av sex with u the next time you guys meet? He's trying to ride on ur innocence and probabbly ur so called 'love' for him. He is here to ruin ur destiny.

If I may ask, ar u done wit school? Wat are u career aspirations? And hw do u tend to achieve them? Do this 'agbaya' ever discuss ur career, ur life with you? What plans does he actually have for u? My dear, any one who wants to marry u won't wanna av sex with u in just few months of meeting....pls! Av atalk wit him probably on fone without physically meeting and talk to him and u not ready to loose ur virginity. Pls, don't lose now....at least not to this man. he's evil! He's devlish. Preserve ur sef.

halfricanadian:


Ok

Go n sleep na

halfricanadian:
Dont giv him nything if he can say he wanna marry nextyr dis yr is kukuma over lerrhim wait till next yr too for sex guys b using marriage to decieve girls nd use nd waste them.

what if he want to marry the OP why not?

hope you're open minded...

halfricanadian:


Ok

Niyinficient:


Go n sleep na

Come nd put sleep in my eye na

abbeyboy2o15:
what if he want to marry the OP why not?

Na so he wanna marry let him marry

Dont use empty promise decieve person pikin

shyling:
hope you're open minded...

No bulky minded

halfricanadian:


Na so he wanna marry let him marry

Dont use empty promise decieve person pikin

why would you say empty do you live with them or read there minds or you dont no there are some families the wife must get pregnancy before weeding.

At your age you are talking of marriage I hope you don graduate sef If not you better face your study and forget relationship now

abbeyboy2o15:
why would you say empty do you live with them or read there minds or you dont no there are some families the wife must get pregnancy before weeding.

To those families congrats

I just dont follow traditions

tanyah001:
I met a guy few months ago and he was instantly attracted me, he was very nice kind and very overprotective over me, I'm 20 and he's 30, we've had our ups and downs but the problem is I'm a virgin and now he wants to have sex with me, personally I plan on giving it to someone I'm going to marry only but everytime we meet he tries to have sex and I always have to push him off. I haven't seen him in over a month now and he says next time I come round he doesn't want excuses, he promised not to ever leave and he said that he's ready for marriage next year. But I'm scared I don't know if to lose it to him, he's made endless promises never to leave, but I'm still having doubts because people change eventually.

follow your mind and thinking of the situation dont reckon with trashes her you know what is best for yourself dont take advise you will regret for life . A word is enought for the wise one.

halfricanadian:


To those families congrats

I just dont follow traditions

okay oh dont follow who want to marry a person who wont born a baby go to try before commiting or you thing is easy not to have a child kojo ka mari wahala.

halfricanadian:


Come nd put sleep in my eye na

Lol! U like trouble pass fight! Hw I wish I knw ur name tho....it must be 'troublesome'

abbeyboy2o15:
okay oh dont follow who want to marry a person who wont born a baby go to try before commiting or you thing is easy not to have a child kojo ka mari wahala.

Dont know wat to say bt she shd do wat she feels like biko im out of it

tanyah001:
I met a guy few months ago and he was instantly attracted me, he was very nice kind and very overprotective over me, I'm 20 and he's 30, we've had our ups and downs but the problem is I'm a virgin and now he wants to have sex with me, personally I plan on giving it to someone I'm going to marry only but everytime we meet he tries to have sex and I always have to push him off. I haven't seen him in over a month now and he says next time I come round he doesn't want excuses, he promised not to ever leave and he said that he's ready for marriage next year. But I'm scared I don't know if to lose it to him, he's made endless promises never to leave, but I'm still having doubts because people change eventually.

This is 2016,you shouldnt be in a relationship if you are not ready for sex.i'll advice you to get out of the relationship now if you dont want sex otherwise you will lose your virginity the next time you visit him

Niyinficient:


Lol! U like trouble pass fight! Hw I wish I knw ur name tho....it must be 'troublesome'

abeg leave her alone bro.

Niyinficient:


Lol! U like trouble pass fight! Hw I wish I knw ur name tho....it must be 'troublesome'

halfricanadian:


Dont know wat to say bt she shd do wat she feels like biko im out of it

yeah that would be better because i dont like stories that touch the heart dont want to hear them.

abbeyboy2o15:
yeah that would be better because i dont like stories that touch the heart dont want to hear them.

Ok happy for her

Have sex with him only if you want to.

If you don't want to do it, there's no point because you'll regret it.

Do it only when you are ready, don't let anyone barge you into sex.

halfricanadian:


Ok happy for her

same her oh

abbeyboy2o15:
abeg leave her alone bro.

Who is this?

halfricanadian:

See ur face

abbeyboy2o15:
same her oh

Na so from d defense op is ur