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dingbang:
no o..

rame18:
You think so

dingbang:
why?

dingbang:
oya na.

rame18:
What's funny











LMAO

rame18:
Hahahahahahaha









Bomb go soon explode for your head. Face your front.

rame18:
Ahhh! Which one do I fall under self?? Alhaji dingbang have you joined relationship experts I need relationship advice as I just started dating again.

dingbang:
okay.. I hear you.

dingbang:
i'm a foodie .

dingbang:
na so.

dingbang:
na so.

dingbang:
thats true .. But at this point for me, its best we leave.

dingbang:
smiles. You know nothing

dingbang:
we werent compatible at the end..

dingbang:
smiles. You know nothing

dingbang:
no. Officially I am single , I just broke up with my girlfriend.

dingbang:
yes he is a manipulator. He knows your weaknesses and uses that against you. Please stay away from him, date someone who understands how to run a relationship like a company

dingbang:
yes he is a manipulator. He knows your weaknesses and uses that against you. Please stay away from him, date someone who understands how to run a relationship like a company

dingbang:
7. Gaslighting


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Gaslighting is the form of manipulation most likely to make you feel like you're losing your dang mind. Your partner does shady things on a consistent basis, like pretend they didn't say things, pretend you didn't say things, leave out information, twist the truth, re-invent the past, make you think your forgot things, and make you feel like you're losing it in general. When it's done enough, you'll feel like you can't trust your own brain, so you must need your partner to keep you in check.

What to do

Get away. Gaslighting is a serious form of abuse, plain and simple.

dingbang:
6. Playing the victim


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Let me paint a scenario for you. You and your partner get into a fight. no matter who was in the wrong, what was said, or what actually went down, your partner is just heartbroken and can't believe you'd hurt them like that. Even if your partner is actually the one who did something wrong, and no matter how you reacted. You're always apologizing Your partner is always hurt and helpless and in need of attention and extra love. It's a way to make you feel like you're a bad, unworthy partner and for them to avoid taking responsibility for their own actions.

What to do

Apologize for what you feel you need to apologize for. Don't give in to your partner's constant attempts to shame you into falling on your sword. Say things like, "I am really sorry I got upset and raised my voice. That was uncalled for. but I won't apologize for being upset about what you did. Here's how that made me feel."

Richdad50:
Dear Men,
A woman is fully capable of being faithful. Temptation is not her weakness, all she wants is love, attention, honesty and loyalty. Before she cheats, she will wine, cry, and complain about all the things that makes her unhappy. Pay attention to your woman and never make her feel single or she will act as such.

Dear Ladies,
Don’t marry that Man who singles you out from the world. Marry the one to whom you are the world. Such a person is hard to find but easy to love. Such a spouse will stand by your side when the whole world is against you. Why? Because you are their whole world.

#Richdad

Rextizzle:
They are thieves, hungry and shameless. not all though. but the bad outweight the good.

Rextizzle:
Damn! they are the most sweetest on earth, I still don't know why some guys still waste their time for these worthless naija girls that have nothing to offer.


Get a foreign chic, but don't scam them o. make your love genuine.

pacificman:
but its ok for women to beg for money abi..run away

Pathosky182:
Good evening nairalanders this is my first post here,
I love this site and everyone in here.
The reason for this write up is for me to get advice on what to do before I go the wrong way, my girlfriend is behaving childish and strange because I showed her all the love I can show. She has being hurting my feelings so many times and she said she loves me and dont want to loose me, when I confronted her she complain that she is too busy that is why even on Saturday too, She always pick up quarrel with me and also starve me of s*x. I really need advice on what to do.
Thanks alot I hope to get solution from here because we gat alot of professor here.