I swear... It's a lot compared to what you get here in Abuja.

mariahAngel:
E plenty sef.

You are a very big fool for justifying what this demon did.

Coconunu:
Everybody is calling the man wicked man
Nobody bother to ask the reason y the man carry such act ....
Omoh currently if u try to kill me and u miss i will kill u without thinking twice

BIG SIMP like you. Why ask for advice if you not ready to entertain insults for been a SIMP.

You accepting to marry a single mum that sees no problem communicating with her Ex's is the biggest mistake you will ever make in your life.

Fmartin:
I am dating a lady, and we are about to get married. She's already carrying my baby.
I have taken her to my parents. I have never taken a lady to my parents before. I have seen her parents too, and have communicated my intention to marry their daughter.

The only thing holding me now is to get things in order before paying her dowry.

The main problem now is that we keep having issues, coz, she's always making calls with her exs. i have confronted her on Several occasions, we have had fights, physical fights as well.

She told me she dont have the guts to tell them to stop calling her. She can only keep playing them till they walk away.
I told her i dont have that Luxury of patience. She has to choose between me and her exs.

Now, the issue is that she's pregnant and I have already taken her to my parents, they all like her.

I would have broken up if not because of the pregnancy. Coz, I wouldn't want to leave her with the pregnancy like that. To make matters worse, She have a kid out of wedlock. Though the father of the baby and her are not in good terms.

I hhave told her to stop making calls with her ex, but she seems sturbon.
She's ready for me to Change her sim card but I want her to use her sanity and end things with her ex in a boldly manner rather than hiding under the guise of changing sim. I have registered a new sim, but It's still with me, I have not given her.

Am confused, I need you guys advices for way forward.
No think insult, coz I gaht over dose.
Peace.....

Oga welfare officer for women affairs, please stop been a SIMP.

buygala:

If she isn't in pain, go and give her the pain na


I don't know what gives you people the feeling that a woman's happiness must be tied to a man

Oga stop been a SIMP. How can a lady with a child give you rules of no sex before marriage and still ask you to cater for her needs and that of her child... Oga stop using your heart to think and start using your head.

LivelyMandem:
Guys in the house, what is your experience like dating single mothers.

I recently met a beautiful young lady who has never been married but has a daughter with a guy who isn't taking up much of the responsibility.

I have a good job and can obviously take care of the basics. The issue started from when I started giving her some money randomly not for any particular purpose. She called me recently and said her daughter's school fee is due and how much am I bringing.

In my head, she is not my child so why do you want to push the responsibility on me so fast. If I ask about the dad, she'll say I shouldn't worry because he's irresponsible.

We're not intimate yet because she said no sex before marriage, na that one we still dey fight about.

My question is, is it ok for her to ask me for her child fees just because we're dating or am I supposed to automatically take up the girls upkeep because I'm dating her mother?

Very stupid write up �... Why involve God in this.

Melodydoctor:
It was a painful exit, talking about the death of Ifeanyi Adeleke. My condolences to his parents and family members, but this headline by PM NEWS is something else. I believe it will appear offensive to the faithfuls of the two major religious group. What do you think?



https://www.google.com/amp/s/pmnewsnigeria.com/2022/11/01/ifeanyi-adeleke-how-god-disappointed-davido/%3famp=1

Good day Servant of God. God bless and reward you for all your good works. Please Sir, I sent you an email in regards to my situation.

servantofGod22:
For you, who need deliverance or healing but the powers are saying over their dead body ?

Isaiah 59 V1
Worry no more, because the hour has come, for all children of God to be delivered from the hands of the devil and his agents.

All you need to do is to type your name, location, sex, type of dream, Foundation, what you want God to do for you and send same to the email for my WhatsApp number to be given to you for your deliverance.

Chummynoni:
Take yur time bro. If she is meant for you,she will stay wit u no matter what. If i share my story, you wud know that what is yours wud always be yurs no matter the circumstance.

pls share

derrick015:
Good morning.

Please I need suggestions.

What kind of prayers should I pray when the temptation arises, which Bible verse should I read?

Please know this is someone who's been addicted to porn for more than 7 years.

you can start by fasting and prayers...

EternalBeing:
Traders' Proceeds that Used To Pay Zakat and Tithes from Here Can't Anymore.
Tithing your income is good, but tithing your Time is more important. The devil will try to continue to deceive us that we don't have enough time to do the Will of our CREATOR even while we have now being kept at home. Yet, he subtly pushes us to daily waste away time (Life) on WhatsApp, Facebook, NairaLand, tittle-tattling with friends, etc. Time lost can never be regained, so time is more expensive that money. Please, let's be wise and spending our time on things that will help ensure we receive the reward of Eternal Life that awaits us.
"When you win the Battle at the thought level, you win the Battle on all levels." Over several generations, the demons have mastered the act of bringing evil/dirty thoughts, you have the CHOICE to shot it out and start meditating on What GOD said about you as Holy Vessel, or you welcome it and entertain it as an August Visitor to dominate your thought and life.

What you intentionally watch and/or listen to determines who you become. Galatians 6:7-8 "Be not deceived; God is not mocked: for whatsoever a man soweth, that shall he also reap. For he that soweth to his flesh shall of the flesh reap corruption; but he that soweth unto the Spirit shall of the Spirit reap everlasting Life." Build your Faith in HIM. The beauty of totally submitting one's Life to the HOLY SPIRIT is that HE would use you to affect your generation in a positive unprecedented way. Feed your mind with Godly food. What you hear and what you see either grow or decrease your Faith and Spiritual Power!

We should all know that paying Tithe of our Time is more important than paying tithe of our money. Not all of us have money, but we all have 24 hours a day. Tithe (10%) of 24 Hours is 2.4 hours. daily ensure you spend, at least, 2.4 hours for God that gave you Life.

By the time you focus on strictly integrating the following activities into your daily routine, you would soon discover that you've getten used to spending at least 2.4 hours of your daily time for the giver of Life, and you would start living in Truth and in Spirit faster than you thought you could:

*Start your day with your CREATOR by reading Daily Devotionals. Most Churches have very good ones that you can get: Deeper Life Daily Manna, MFM Mountain Top Life, Redeemed Church Open Heavens, etc.

*Download and listen to deep preaching and messages about Holiness. Apostle Joshua Selman, Pastor W.F Kumuyi, Pastor Olukoya, J.A Allen's books, Watchman Nee's Books, etc. would do wonders in helping to push you into becoming a real holy Christian in just 40 days if you concentrate fully.

*Be very selective in entertainment material and movies you consume. For example, you can buy full movies like War Room, download short godly videos on Holiness and Purity, faith documentaries that shows the real archaeological discoveries that validates and support the Christianity Histories and events in the Bible.

*Download and daily listen (listen with a full concentrating, with worshiping mind) to deep real Gospel songs like So Will I, Seasons, etc putting them on repeat on your phone.

*Preach the Gospel! Preach the Gospel!! Preach the Gospel!!! Do everything you can to win Souls for your CREATOR. The day you get permanently committed to winning Souls for GOD, preaching the Gospel, that day you'll see your Spiritual Life starts soaring in all ramifications. GOD has vowed to make you shine former like Stars if you win Souls into HIS Kingdom. " Those that turn many to righteousness shall shine like Stars FOREVER AND EVER" Daniel 12:3

Proverbs 27:17 "Iron sharpeneth Iron" Let's contribute by suggesting other godly ways, movies, songs and things that has helped us to become better real Christians, so that upcoming Christians can benefit too. GOD Bless and Preserve us all unto HIS Eternal Kingdom in JESUS' Name. Pls Sirs and Mas, this is not the time to joke with your Holiness, only a self-deceiving person would still keep pretending like we are not in the very End Time. If you have not accept JESUS Christ, do that without delay right now. Stay Holy, Stay Blessed, and Stay Rapture-ready. We shall not be left behind by the so obviously imminent Rapture in JESUS' Name.
https://www.nairaland.com/5208838/most-important-type-tithe

Love your write up sir..will love to get more of teaching's

Most of you saying that he should look the other way and love the child as his own are just the biggest hypocrite's... When someone seeks for advise or opinion...the least you can do is put your self in that persons shoe before giving your advise...