₦airaland Forum

HolyTitus:
The best way one can avoid every future events of possibility like cracks on the wall or collapse of the buildings itself especially the necessary steps to starting a construction on a swampy or waterlogged land is neglected- is to introduce the use of coal-tar to fill the entire piece of land to the maximum level where the presence of water cannot be felt on the uppermost surface anymore; which helps to compact the whole area of land and stabilizes the water table to the maximum bearing bearing. After that, your choice of foundation, either raft or pile foundation can be introduced for proper building construction to commence.

dominic17:
Hello Op, how did your project go? Kindly update the house so that others can learn from your experience.

Empiree:
clear throat....

dont know why i feel reluctant to comment here

Empiree:

deols:
oya start nahh.

maclatunji:
So, is there a shy girl here? Or you have just decided to share this with us?

deols:
where are all d oda singles nawwwwwwwww. lets talk more plsssssss.

I really want to know how important the ffg are to every one here when considering a suitor for marriage.

a. level of education

b. finance/ employment/ type of job

c. social strata( upper, upper-middle, lower-middle, lower)

d. family heritage/ nobility.

luqken:
JAZAKALLAHU KHAIRAN 4 THE POST AND ALL THE CONTRIBUTIONS.

HENCEFORTH THIS RELIGIOUS SECTION WILL BE MY FIRST POINT OF CALL WHENEVER I GET THE CHANCE TO VISIT NAIRALAND.

SOMEBODY WAS ASKING FOR THE BOOK ON MARRIAGE ISSUES.

ITS CALLED THE MUSLIM FAMILY (4 SERIES) BY MUHAMMAD AL-JIBALY

SR.1- The Quest for Love and Mercy (talks about Regulations for Marriage & Wedding in Islam )
SR.2- Closer than Garment (talks about Marital Intimacy According to the Pure Sunnah Covers the proper etiquettes of marital intimacy)
SR.3- The Fragile Vessels(talks about Rights & Obligations between the Spouses in Islam & Contains biographies of the Mothers of the Believers)
SR.4- Our Precious Sprouts(talks about Islamic Regulations 4 newborns).

THE BOOKS ARE INVALUABLE AND IT NEEDS TO BE READ OVER AND OVER.

I AM MARRIED AND I WISH I CAN SHARE ONE OR TWO AS CONTRIBUTION TO DEOLS CURIOSITY AS TO HOW TO COPE WITH RGDS TO COURTSHIP ISSUE(ITS NOT ROSY THOUGH)

deols:
now, how can i take dat grandmama view off my head 

actually, honestly am only all mouth concerning ds courtship thing. av neva bn in a relationship evn though i always wish dr is some1. My own point has always been dat I cant waste my time wv some1 i dont thnk i'll marry nd so wen a guy comes, doesnt meet my criteria nd I dont feel like I cld work it out, I just let go. Now, dats just like d point u make of dem not being the right persons. So, i can sit back nd hope dat He'll surface d day am ready.

hmmn! my real grandma must not hear dat ! lol she thinks I shld b married already 

maclatunji:
Unfortunately these services are scarce for Muslim youths in Nigeria. The best you can do is read relevant books. There is this great one that I always pack as a gift to some newly-weds. I have forgotten the name embarrassingly though.

maclatunji:
Okay bros. I will keep you in mind and should contact you soon. Thank you for the info.

@topic. I know we have a lot of quality people here (male/female) and there is really no need for some people to miss-out on each other as husband and wife (Remember to invite me for the wedding). There has to be a way for them to get introduced to each other and see what good may come out of it.

We all have to understand that this is not the romance section, if you are not ready to settle down and make headway in terms of marriage just read the posts and learn.

Now people, if there is anybody that you think you like and would want to get to know better, mention their names and if they are willing to give you a chance, Mukina2 should help you out. Fear Allah in all you do, this is not a place or time to joke or fool around.

maclatunji:
Salam, I think in as much as we are talking about relationship between man and woman. We should also talk about rejection. It is not every proposal that will be accepted. How should a lady reject offers that she is not interested in? And how should the man accept it?

Personally, I think as a man if you are rejected you should ask for a genuine reason for it and accept in good faith. Immerse yourself in your work or some other form of positive distraction and move on. Or what do you think?

deols:
also, d waliyy can present his daughter/ward to a man for marriage--Umar asked Uthman and then Abubakar to marry his daughter Hafsa after her husband died.They declined. he offered her to the prophet, who married her. Note-with her consent.

maclatunji:
Women tend to want a longer time to think about it whilst we men want a quick answer. So you see your question is complex. In reverse, women also tend to take a longer time to get over a man if things have gone sour where love once existed.

deols:
Seems we know what many people want in their spouses,

Now ladies, if u find a guy with the Qualities you want, would you ask him out?? if not, why wouldnt you

and

Guys, to what extent would you go to make that lady yours?? and how best do you think that should be done

toba:
spying

toba:
spying

maclatunji:
You have asked me for my definition of a Muslim diva and I have given it. I think it is fair enough that it is not every Muslim woman I come across with excellent qualities that I will like enough to want to be with. I have to really like you at a person-to-person level (and the way you look as well ).

A good question you might want to ask me is: Are you perfect yourself as a man? I am not, but I am working hard to make myself a better man all the time.

baba11:
..We are on the verge of forming a committee to look into the possibilities of Muslims brothers and sisters hooking up each other through this platform..so far,we've got three volunteers:two brothers and a sister..If you are interested,you need to signify so that you'll be added to it...

deols:
Here, am hoping we can talk as Muslims(wivout d dirty stuffs xterisn d romance section). Married people can chip in too. Aim is to discuss relationship matters in accordance with Islam nd to b able to solve problems Muslims face while trying to fulfill half of our deen.

papiforreal:
Very informative piece. I hope my sisters, looking for, handsome,rich,first class holder,and tall spouse would have a re-think after reading this.

foxyac3:
6. Those idiots that will try to take advantage of slightest disruption in power supply just to obtain ur gadget and leave ur charger for u. We caught one girl like that one day like dah.
7. Hahaha, The new love birds that turn night class to adventurous date.. U'll see them in every dark conner.
8. The ones that got tired of sleeping in their hostel.. A guy was snoring with vibration like that, we thought it was generator o.
9. The coffee guy, energy drink, bitter kola.

10. The musical Dj.
More to come.....



I'm a victim of many here o.... We dey fwenshen up go Night class ni o. ... UNILORIN folks "skyway things"

maclatunji:
Wa Alaykun Salam Prince.

maclatunji:
Wa Alaykun Salam Prince.

deols:
with too many arguments, I hope many people dont get further confused. I fear for that. ALlah knows best

Tallesty1: I 4 be d 4st to comment if I wanted to.

But people wey know me here will begin think say I dey bragg.


*MODIFIED*


It feels good when a babe woos you but you gotta use ur head. Don't just fall yakata because nah woman dey woo you. If you like her then take over the wooing from her and pretend you didn't notice all that she's been doing. It restores their ego.

But if you don't like her then be open and straightforward. Don't play them cause they don't easily let go and she may harm herself.

Another thing is these babes that have guts to woo a guy are not always reliable. They port any moment they see a better guy. So have that at the back of your mind.

While you are enjoying the relationship, try to get heart-repairing kits because the possibility of you getting dumped is high.

*from experience*