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balogundayo: I don't really fancy them so called innocent virgins as i dont plan marrying one.. I like bad girls who's had experience in sex and relationships, girls who know the time to initiate romantic moments nd hw to do them...

I find them real appealing to me... We all have different thinking perspectives...
Why should i marry a virgin? They are boring, inexperienced nd dont have sexy attributes...

One man's meat is another man's poison
#nonvirginsrock!

Shiorr

Profcamsey: I am not much into nollywood but I have watched both Alakada(Toyin Ahimaku) n Jenifa(Funke Akindele). The two lead actresses in this movie really tried, but I ll go for Alakada. Dat movie was fun from d 1st scene to the last especially Part 2n3. Personally, I think Return of Jenifa was overhyped due to large source of sponsorship and the use of many stars. I don't I really learn a lesson from Jenifa, a runs girl who actually made it. Jenifa character was too fake and she over do things (because I dont know why her intonations/pronunciation didnt change) but Alakada looks natural and I realised that there are people like that in our schools and society. You have to see Toyin in other movies she's always funny. Chau Chau

Nice point

Tallesty1: I have a feeling that all these girls that are crying immature have sent nude pictures to a guy.

In their fishy brain, they believe their privacy is secure but what they don't know is that most guys would like to revenge when dumped.

First of all, a girl shouldn't be sending naked pictures to anyone. Matured or not, it is a no no. There is a valid possibility that other people will see it. He may not even be the one to expose it. His friends may ask to use his phone, someone may steal the phone or the phone may develope fault and land in the hand of perverted engineer.

It is pretty risky to share nude picture. He may tell you that you are hot, but what he thinks is that you are a slut. He will bleep you as much he wants and switch to another girl.

Use your brain, blame the girl and not the guy. If the picture wasn't snapped then it wouldn't be shared

Mo gbadun e jo

IrishKez: Your eyes is too sharp
T'was less than a second mistake before I took it down





Does it mean I don't have my kind here or they're not available now?

I am one of ur kind

Tallesty1: Make I suspend for air if you and all the girls that will comment here do not have bfs.


Edit the heading of your post.

Ur posts most times make me smile and can c d no of girls following U,hmmmmm..........

Endless list!

tosyne2much: yeah change of environment has elevated my level of exposure and life generally but I still I don't act stupidly... Wait first, ar you implying those exposures ought to have stopped me holding conversation or chill wit my tenants or my old-time frnds ?

Ofcourse, one shouldn't ignore pple,if again they are those u c/meet everyday. I make friend anywhere I get to(mostly females) and do u expect me to keep in contact with all of those. I get other things to do in life guy!
Remember,guys(husbands) do not want too much friends for their wives( mislead belief ), so let's start from now and stop criticizing us

Chicken ! even if u no add enuf seasoning,it will still taste lovely

tosyne2much: I swear any lady that supports this act and see nothing wrong in it is dumb and immature .. What does river have to do with what we are talking about ?... I also noticed that too... Most of my dudes back den in secondary sch still maintain conversation even if it can neva be the way it used to be then... Most of those ladies are jst so dumb and myopic... They tend to change and start acting awkward because they lack insight, foresight and don't understand how life goes... They presume it's the best measurement of class so they drastically change... How would you neglect or stop holding a conversation with your old-time frnds, neighbours or classmates because say you enta sch... To all the ladies with this silly mentality, its hightime you changed for beta.. THERE'S MORE TO LIFE THAN ORDINARY ADMISSION

change of environment increases ur exposure to people and life generally and as u grow too,u should be able to choose who to befriend(d good, d bad,critics,enemies of progress etc); so to me it isn't abt admission

Maturity!

Brahms: He doesn't deserve shi!t! Same clown that said N1.9bn Ebola Fund was for his Ministry to buy Cars. He's a thief! And an Opportunist trying to take glory of Commissioner Idris.

thumbs up

idoncome: i no fit laugh

Pls do, its encouraged.So U don't think those traits could be seen in a man sit down there oooo

ocman: ARE YOU TRYING TO DESCRIBE ME?

Lols, I don't even know you but if its true, tour Barakallahu fihi

AbuuUthaymeen: This is the most complete statement I ever heard.

wow! am grateful; Jazakallahu khairan

Religious(fear of Allah), Good looks(+beard), ofcos Tall(cos am tall), Loving, caring,generous n cheerful(kind hearted), Educated(intelligent) and Neat

Arsenalholic: I beg to disagree with a part of this. That a guy does not respond to your ''little green-light tatics'' does not mean he's dull or clueless. It could be he's not interested, and would rather ignore instead of complicating things for himself and to a large extent the lady in question.

It's just the same way some girls reject a guy's advances when they're not interested. #Just My Opinion though.

Anyways, lemme observe. Ladies come and do justice to this topic.

True

standd:


I love my father so much. But I will NOT marry a man like him.

I also love my dad but I do not pray to marry someone like him

kaka22: @op... Well done, you are on point. To make at least 2.1 is not everything, it is the only thing. The issue of connection is over-exaggerated in Nigeria. Yes, we have issues like nepotism,favouritism and connections(who you know) but that doesn't mean that there are no companies that recruit based on merit. MOST people who come out to say that 'what you have in school will not determine where and who you will be in future' are the unfortunate and the unlucky. What you have in school will surely determine who and where you will be in future. If you later establish your company/business you can be rest assured that you still have your 2.1 or first class pali(certificate) to search for work when the need arises.Yes, we have some 2.2 and third class fellows that are making it but that doesn't mean that 2.1 fellows are also not making it. I make bold to say that the percentage of 2.2 and third class jobless fellows is more than that of 2.1 and first class. Even if you won't use your 2.1 to work, still make sure you have it because you never know...

Advice for undergraduates
Avoid anybody that discourages you from graduating with 2.1 or first class. Such individual doesn't wish you well. One of the laws in 48 laws of power says that avoid the unlucky and the unfortunate.

Last bullet: Yes, 2.1 or first class is not everything but make sure you have it before saying that nonsense...

wish I strived harder to obtain a good grade; most people think am a first class holder cos of my intelligence(not boasting though). pls am finishing my NYSC this October and I don't want to suffer bf getting a well paid job. I would be gladly honoured to receive Offer(s)

deesquarediddy: I did not mention it anywhere that I want a perfect partner. You think I’m asking for too much?

It’s simply what I desire and there are a lot of ladies that fit into my description out there.

Its good; best of luck

mindworx: Prove ??

Just as u claim tobe good so we have good ladies who are willing to satisfy every needs of their husband and that's becos they fear Allah n hoping to be amongst His beloved servants

harffie: Yea....support that! After 4yrs of being single I just got doubled!

Congrats Guy, I put my trust solely in Allah and I believe he wl grant me my heart desire too

Lurcky: Single cuz i got goals and deals to make with the kudi i earn cuz i save all my cash n make use of the allowances.
And i m not ready to buy another car yet cuz its a must for her and seriously bro being single *ROCKS*

Let me help u spend small

mindworx: Thanks man. Pls, are you married?

Then, that, (in bold) is not easy to come by sir.

U are wrong!

deesquarediddy: First, growing up was rough. I thank god for my life today but I have a minimum standard I can't compromise when it comes to caring for my wife and kids. Financially, I’ve not reached that level (I thank God still, I’m not poor).

Secondly, I love ladies with brains and I still want her to be very beautiful yet submissive (I’m not the controlling type). Most of the brainy ladies are average looking and just few of the very beautiful ladies have high IQ. I strongly believe I’ll one day find one of those ladies that posses all these qualities (so few).

I’m yet to meet that lady that will keep me interested in the relationship all without sex (Sex shouldn’t be all she’s got to offer). It takes a lot of courage and discipline to dig one hole for life. Beauty fades faster than you think and I’ll want a reason, a bond that will keep me glued to my partner for life.

In conclusion, what I want is a lady with ‘spark’ and independence. When I find one, I’ll put a ring on it.

No one is perfect! prioritise n compromise

Smoj: my only reason is dat the right person (a decent Muslim lady) is not available.

Decent ladies are everywhere but remember good women are for good men

mine is because of being picky!
Tall guy,Religious(Islam), loving/caring with good looks
Yoruba or Igbira

aisha2: This is where we get into trouble, trying to box everyone into a corner and assume we all like and must have the same thing. No 2 people in this world have the same finger prints same way no 2 people are totally alike.

This is how some men will go and marry what is defined as a wife material yet 2weeks into the marriage start cheating on her with a non wife material.

People should be bold enough to decide what they want in a partner as long as the partner makes them happy.
Some want women who work some don't. If the man who wants a non working wife now marries a working one because we have told him she is wife material and they start to have conflict same society will shout "what is wrong with him".

I have seen a case where a man dated his babe for years and because his mother said she wasn't wife material as she was career oriented he left and married a material who focused less on career and more on the home. Less than a year he began to complain and lament, the other lady being a go getter was always pushing him to do better and be better at work, always helping him check opportunities etc. The wife he married was content with a certain life style, took care of the home and always made it clean and fresh while the lady he left hardly did house keeping just the basics, the marriage didn't last 3years as good a "wife material" as the wife was as defined by the standards of others that wasn't what he wanted or needed.

You see so many men with the stepford perfect wife yet cheating with a mistress who cannot even hold a candle to their wife, they may not love or desire the women they marry but have them as wifes simply because society has defined them as wives.

There are some basic standards everyone should have eg decency, honesty etc not just for marital relationship but for basic human relationships. That aside every adult should be able to define for themselves what they want in a spouse and not what others say is a good spouse for them.

You see women pretending and struggling to fit into these boxes then immediately the ring and certificates are secure become monsters. A "wife material" who would before marriage wash her brother in laws boxers, who will cook all the delicacies the way mama in law wants it, will now start demanding brother calls her anty and suddenly. Pastor so and so will see a vision of mama being a witch and mama is banned from the house

U just nailed it. Kudos

[quote author=JurassicPark][/quote]"When I was 17, I read a quote that
went something like: 'If you live each
day as if it was your last, someday.
You'll most certainly be right.' It made
an impression on me, and since then,
for the past 33 years, I have looked in
the mirror every morning and asked
myself: 'If today were the last day of
my life, would I want to do what I am
about to do today?'"


Indeed, this is a reminder to us all

maclatunji: Islam is a practical religion. Its injunctions exist for the welfare of human beings as a whole. There is a teaching regarding epidemics in Islam:



Narrated Saud:

The Prophet (SAW) said, "If you hear of an outbreak of plague in a land, do not enter it; but if the plague breaks out in a place while you are in it, do not leave that place."

Source: Sahih Bukhari, Volume 7, Book 71, Number 624:

Jazakallahu khairan

simbiatadesomi: Well..... I asked cos it is generallly blived dat naija men ar not romantic & ur rite-up seeMs like somtin written by a dream hubby. U mite b a madrid fan mayb dats y ur name is wat it is.
Finally tellin me u ar single wud suffice addin hints on ur availability seems lik u might b hitin on moi

Hmmmmmmmmmmmmm
Just make it halal.lols

maclatunji: Is there anything wrong with the bolded?

Let me guess: female readers be like:"The one that marries this one will be fed on dry bread and water whilst slaving with house chores 25/7". Gifted are the ones that see beyond this.

I think the Ahlu sunnah are being romantic these days too, no fear frm sisters anymore