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HealthRe: Trying To Conceive A Child? TTC by TCF1980(m): 9:13am On Oct 17, 2014
Been on this TTC race for the past 4yrs and some months. At first, it was ma fluid which with the help of fetilaid for men, count and motility boost have gone up well (all glory to God). Wify has normal 28 days cycle and no issue. Had high prolactine sometime back which I believe her supplements must have settled too. Month by month we pray that Af doesn't show and the more we have waited and prayed, the more the disappointment.

This month, she spotted on Wednesday 15th and then today 17th instead of the 18th being the 28th day (although not expecting it). I pray and wish is implantation spotting. Often times I ask myself why did I ever get married in the first place.... Could this be that God doesn't know what those that reference His name and worships Him go through? We have sown seeds, worked tirelessly with in His vineyard. Pastors and church members had fasted, had vigils for our sake... prophecies upon prophecies amounting to nothing...

All the while, I have been supporting/encouraging wify whenever she' down while I go to the toilet on my own to cry it out without her knowing... I think is time to let God be and live each day as I see it since He seems too far to listen to our cries, so distant away to see our heartfelt tears... Doctors all over have sapped us dry, some telling wify to move on... unfriendly friends have done theirs by trying to put assunder... I don't blame them all the same. If God had given us reason to dance, no one would have be asking us the efficacy of the God we are worshiping...

So fed up!
HealthRe: Health Advice: Doctors Online by TCF1980(m): 8:32am On Oct 17, 2014
@Marc9

Been long she did hormonal profile with high prolactine on day 21. However, she is on fertilaid for women and ovaboost for a while and with faith that the hormone is now balanced (by God' grace). She has 28 days cycle. She spotted on 15th, and today 17th but her mp is suppose to be 18th (tomorrow). What could be the problem? Wish is implantation spotting because we have prayed and done all we could for the past 4yrs 8months... TTC is better imagined than experienced...
RomanceRe: My Boss In The Office Got My Sextape Online. He Wants To Sleep With Me. Help! by TCF1980(m): 8:33pm On Oct 14, 2014
I have gone through all of Liability' posts and as her/his name goes, he/she is indeed a LIABILITY. I don't his/her age, if she/he is an adult, what lessons she leaving for the younger generations?

I don dey tell people since 1806 sey too much of those una erotic magazines dey make some kiddo dem head dey touch...

Mtscheew! Opening a different forum called 'Illicit Business Professional' should be opened solely for you...
SportsRe: I Am Done With Ike Uche – Keshi Blasts by TCF1980(m): 2:17pm On Oct 09, 2014
Keshi left Uche for years and so what? Didn't Ghana leave Muntari for years? Mtscheew! Wondering why every Nigerian is a coach.... Keshi' contract expired after the World Cup, what have you guys been waiting for to get a different coach till date? Last time I checked, Okocha, Amokachi and the likes didn't wear Eagles jersey in all the matches played under Clemens Westerhof...
HealthRe: Health Advice: Doctors Online by TCF1980(m): 6:17pm On Oct 08, 2014
Marc9:
Yea! These kits can't give 100% accuracy! There are bound to be flaws.

But you try the ovulation cycle method. If her/your menstrual cycle is average of 28days, then within 11th to 17th from the start of menstruation is the likely fertile period. That can be further closed up to 12th to 15th. Meaning coitus must be intensified within this period.
But if the menstrual cycle is 30days or below 28days, the ovulation would be 14days to the start of menstruation. Meaning 17th would be ovulation, while 13th to 19th would be the fertile period.

This so far is the best method!
Thanks Marc9
HealthRe: Health Advice: Doctors Online by TCF1980(m): 1:11pm On Oct 08, 2014
Marc9:
Yes! Whoever experiences menstruation ovulates, except in the case of hormonal distortion from abusive use of OHC.

Regarding your second question, yes! There are are some kits that help pinpoint ovulation. There are basal thermometers that help check body temperature for possible elevation. The thermometer is used between the 11th to 16th day from the start of menstruation. The day the thermometer records elevated temperature, that is an indication of ovulation, although other factors could contribute to temperature rise like fever and stress. So basal temperature reading is not always accurate

The predictor kits are not 100% accurate as well, but are used with other ovulation signs identification like the basal thermometers in getting a precise/accurate result.

But the most obvious and accurate sign is the 'clear and stretchy mucus' that discharges from the v*gina on the day of ovulation. Ideally, the couple is expected to indulge in s*x on that day, and continue with the act for three or more days.
Thanks Mark9. I was tempted to buy Clear Blue Digital but going through review online, I found out that it predicts wrongly sometimes reason being that the hormones can be triggered where as ovulation fails to occur. Maybe, is better one makes use of both the clear blue sticks while temping basally
HealthRe: Health Advice: Doctors Online by TCF1980(m): 8:24am On Oct 08, 2014
Marc9:
There are some signs that present ovulation. At the peak of ovulation, most ladies begin to observe clear and stretchy vag*nal discharge, with some associated signs like elevated body temperature(slightly above 37'degree), with sexu*l arousal. In some cases, abdominal pain, and breast tenderness.

For anovulation ladies, menstruation would cease because the hormones responsible for ovulation(FSH and LH) control the secretion of estrogen and progesterone which are the hormones responsible for uterine lining development(endometrium) and it's shedding. When a lady is not ovulation, it means there's an inhibition in FSH/LH secretion. And with FSH/LH inhibition, estrogen and progesterone secretion would also be inhibited!
@Marc9. Implying that whoever experiences menstruation ovulates at the appropriate time based on her cycle right? Outside the vag*nal discharge, any other tool (technology wise) to pinpoint the exact ovulation date or time? Don't mean peeing sticks... heard about temping yesterday, how is it done and what is the degree of accuracy?

Thanks.
HealthRe: Health Advice: Doctors Online by TCF1980(m): 7:51am On Oct 08, 2014
Marc9:
For ladies with average menstrual cycle of 28days, ovulation is always at the 14th day from the start of menstruation. The fertile period begins from 11th to 16th day of the cycle.

Due to the fact that nature designed females to feel estrus(Hot) during their fertile periods, most ladies tend to have little control of themselves, and find it hard to resist sexual advancement made by their male partners, thus giving in to sex lustfully.

Ladies should learn to chart their menstrual cycles in order to help them avoid meeting their male partners during the estrus period(for ladies who aren't ready to bear pregnancies)
@Marc9.

How can a lady know if she is actually ovulating and can a non-ovulating lady menstruate? I don't mean someone in menopausal stage.
HealthRe: Trying To Conceive A Child? TTC by TCF1980(m): 11:03am On Oct 07, 2014
kechyl:
Gd morning mums in d house.

@Olubankemi, u can say dat again...Im in ph, I wld hv given u d address, it wasn't as painful as i thot it wld be & d doctor was v friendly, explaining each step.

I think its worth trying bt ur doc shld b in d best position to advise u. May God gv u a reason to smile!

@Akpaumuaka, tnx sweet.

A fruit-full week to us all...
@Kechyl. Please where in Port Harcourt?
CelebritiesRe: Ini Edo Busted By Her In-law Over Divorce Saga Lies by TCF1980(m): 7:13pm On Oct 06, 2014
pillzthadrugz:
What baffles me is that she couldn't even bear a child for such a great while. Haba!!!!!! There is something that is left untold here
Sorry to ask. Are you married? Do you think kids comes by how long one or might?
Jobs/VacanciesRe: Teachers' Salaries. Let's know How Much You're Paid by TCF1980(m): 7:53am On Oct 06, 2014
Sometimes I wonder what the problem with our government is. Teachers and security personnel are supposed to earn closely next to oil and gas workers. In Oil and Gas sector, contract personnel's daily pay are within the range of N25,000 - N150,000 while teachers that trained them goes home with almost nothing... I love teaching profession and would settle with it at retirement after investing enough from my current job though. I don't know how much my daughter' school at Ajah pays their teacher but their school fees is almost N100,000 for primary and her private lesson teacher collects around N20,000 monthly...
HealthRe: Trying To Conceive Twins by TCF1980(m): 2:23pm On Oct 05, 2014
aylaLynCoope:
Do not give up. I am 41 years old and I was diagnosed with poor ovarian reserve and very bad prognosis of having a baby with my own eggs. I was even given the option to consider donor eggs. That was around July 2014. I was absolutely devastated with the news and I arranged an IVF for November 2014. In the meantime, given that I had nothing to lose, I contacted on facebook (Oduduwa Ajakaye) help if anything with the coming IVF,. Believe it or not... I am already pregnant! with no IVF.... PLEASE TRY (Oduduwa Ajakaye)!
You can lie!
HealthRe: Trying To Conceive Twins by TCF1980(m): 2:23pm On Oct 05, 2014
wyankimberly:
HELLO I WANT TO SHARE A TRUE TESTIMONY ON HOW I GOT PREGNANT WITH PREGNANCY SPELL CAST BY DR. OGBEFUN THAT MAKE GET PREGNANT WITHIN 28DAYS AFTER BEEN MARRIED FOR THE PAST 10YEARS OF BEEN MARRIED TO MY HUSBAND WITHOUT NO CHILD AND AM HAPPY TODAY THAT AM PREGNANT BECAUSE I MET THE RIGHT PERSON FOR HELP CONTACT HIM ON miracletemple11@gmail.com OR CALL HIM ON +2347060552255 FOR HELP ALSO BECAUSE HE SAVE MY MARRIAGE WITH MY HUSBAND BECAUSE MY HUSBAND PEOPLE WHERE ALREADY COMPLAINING OF ME UNABLE TO GET PREGNANT FOR THEIR SON ONCE AGAIN THANK YOU DR. OGBEFUN FOR WHAT YOU DID FOR ME
You can lie!
HealthRe: Married In 2011 But Never Conceived,not Even Miscarried?Share your stories by TCF1980(m): 7:44am On Oct 03, 2014
Deezou: I am 24 and got married in july 2011 but never conceived due to fertility issues.share your stories too.
@OP.

There is already a support group for that. Join Trying to Conceive (TTC) thread and get all the info you want.
HealthRe: Trying To Conceive A Child? TTC by TCF1980(m): 10:20pm On Sep 27, 2014
mychildishere: SA is very good for conception. Your wife should ho on 50mg Bit. B6 plus lots of Ewedu for 3 straight months. Although she should always stop the b6 when pig is negative in that cycle, so she can allow af to show. The 50mg. vit. b6 is for progesterone, which will lower prolactin and increase progesterone.

By the way, what's her progesterone for cd21?
@MyChildishere thanks for the info.

Progesterone on CD21 is 9, FSH 6, Estrogen 90 and LH 11.
HealthRe: Trying To Conceive A Child? TTC by TCF1980(m): 2:03pm On Sep 27, 2014
Mamas and papas in the house good day and wishing everyone short stay in here... Collected my sa report and dis is the result. Colour: Creamy, Consistency: Opaque, Liquefaction: Satisfactory, Morphology: 75% normal, 25% abnormal, motility: 75% Fully active, 23% slightly active, 02% dormant, Count: 39mil/ml, Pus Cells: 6-8/hpE, Epith Cells: +

Awaiting Responses from sabi mamas and papas. However, Wify prolactine level on CD21 have been 36 while others are ok.
PoliticsRe: El-Rufai Is Boko Haram’s Executive Commander – Ihejirika by TCF1980(m): 8:58am On Aug 29, 2014
jjcbuthot: I should not believe a boko negotiator who has been making direct contact with boko boys?

Are you telling me the Autralian was lying? He mentioned Mamodu seriff whom all us know already.

I believe him more because I know the military is compromised and someone very powerful within the military must be involved.

I also know Ehijirika already have his own establishment within the military - he has his lieutenants and his sack may even be a tactical move on the part of his hiding collaborators.
PoliticsRe: El-Rufai Is Boko Haram’s Executive Commander – Ihejirika by TCF1980(m): 8:50am On Aug 29, 2014
berem: So Ihejirika knew El-Rufai was a boko haram sponsor and he is just telling us now? As a former COAS what did he do to arrest El-Rufai and his fellow boko haram sponsors? angry

Eyaaa!! Stories that really touches the heart. undecided

huh huh
@Berem. What happend to Gen. Azazi after telling Nigerians that Boko Haram have infiltrated PDP?

I happen to know the trainers of the two young NAF pilots that flew the helicopter that took the life of Azazi, Yakowa and others and those pilots are good... They were merely silenced...

There are positions you find yourself in public service, you keep quiet and live your normal life than opening cans of worm and paying with your life and endangering your family all the same. Opening of a similar can of worm under Babangida by Late Dele Giwa, the Glory Okon let to his death....
FamilyRe: Some African Parents Destroy Beautiful Love Relationships With Their Prejudices by TCF1980(m): 6:34am On Aug 22, 2014
Hahahahahaha! Prayer warrior kenan!

SAMBARRY: grin grin grin


So they sell prayers on nl again grin



you this circus clown, you won't kill me. Anyway I have a deal for you grin




in case your family $ parents don't approve of your bride, just invite me, I will pray well sotey you go dey wonder whether i be ayo babalola family member grin
shebi it's to wear gele, iro and buba and eat semo and egusi.leave the rest to me grin
HealthRe: Trying To Conceive A Child? TTC by TCF1980(m): 5:16pm On Aug 21, 2014
Please, where is GenBuahari?

He should come back because am back with a different Moniker ooo!

ayaakanoh: @alwaystrue my sis,more wisdom to ur brain wink u too much.
@all runaway mamas ekaabo sori eto na. grin grin we miss una plenty plenty,those wey never report for duty eg dreamsbic,mummy nani,safellicious baby,apinke pinky,omonikiba our own sexy size8,golden baby etc,oya make una come mark register.

my bori just dey sweet me,ttc tread nairaland is BACK &BETTER. Thank you jesus

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