Working hard entails going through the normal struggles and procedures of getting things done. You simply do as others do without any effort to improve on the procedures or seek more convenient ways of getting it done. Many people fall into this category in life. They keep repeating what others they met have been doing and the circle goes on and on.

However, working hard will only leave one at the average level with little strength and every to think and do other things that can raise one's level. When you work intelligently, you will be done with your task and start doing other things when others are still busy sticking to the daily routine.

Although, this might not be applicable to some profession.  But the message is, in all you do apply wisdom.  Think of better ways on improving what you met. You have the capacity to do that only if you look closely and think intelligently.

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The mirror is a reflection of the person standing in front of it. It never lies and tells you exactly how you look. The reflection is raw without any effect or editing and I would love to relate the reflection to one's behavior or character. You see what you see in others is a reflection of your true self.

For example,  a Randy man will always be suspicious and apprehensive whenever his woman is away alone or stayed a little late due to traffic or other circumstances. His thoughts will be  "who is she with " "what could she be doing now " "is she cheating on me"... All those thoughts are the things you are capable of doing and that's why you are seeing them in her. You see yourself in others.

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I came across a funny story where a 44year old lady is suing her parent because she is ugly and feels it's the reason for her failed marriages. She said her first husband get nauseous seeing her face every morning that  he sometimes had to run to the toilet to puke. Her last husband was technically blind and after his sight was corrected, he divorced her the following week. Her submission was that the parents should have not copulate to produce off spring since they knew they were ugly.

Very laughable indeed because I think those people obviously married her for the wrong reasons. Or better still, she has a terrible character which she's displaying already by suing her parent.  I came across a picture of a super model who had fire accident. The accident damaged her looks but her lover stayed with her right from the hospital bed and he's still with her to date. That  I call love. Another case is that of an obsessed woman who could hardly walk so she intend to undergo surgery to reduce the fats in her body . Yes she has a husband who didn't leave her.

So why is your case different woman?  You are not sick,  no burnt face or any terrible experience that disfigured you.  Yet you are complaining.  The matter is people fail to critically examine themselves when things go wrong.
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Ones mindset has a crucial role to play in their thoughts and actions. What people display outwardly has been sealed and settled from the inside. This brings me to the things running through the mind of an average Nigerian Youth. The idea is go to university, get a degree which will pave way for a nice job either with the government or a juicy organisation.

However if this mindset is altered by reality, confusion sets in and frustration is on the rise.  Just like writing jamb severally to gain admission,you apply to multiple organisations, write alot aptitude test, some get lucky while some don't.  In all these efforts and struggle, very few consider coming up with a creative idea or inventing something.  This only makes me to wonder how our mind is wired in this part of the world. 
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