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Reminds me of a couple I know. The husband told us that when he was a Bachelor, he was sure he was not going to marry a Yoruba girl cos he just did not like them and only an igbo girl would do. He did marry his igbo girl. Fast forward about 10 years later, they're getting divorced cos when the husband finally gets a good job and is even the least bit loaded, the wife becomes a stay at home mom who has a nanny and buys designer stuffs for her and 4 kids including the 1 year old twins to the extent that he's getting run down

Somehow true but most often that not, a guy will still want to try his luck. It's like you don't know until you try right.

This is serious to love sha...so sweet

this.

Bludeville: First, i will slap him back, whether i stay or leave depends on what happens next but i am definitely gonna get birth control pills for the next one or two years to make sure i don't have kids if he gets more violent.

Shame I have none...Not that involved on Nairaland

superstar1: The simple question I kept on asking that the OP has not answered is

If it was the MOPOL guarding the bank that asked him to re-park the bike, whether private or public, will he tell him he is in a hurry? He simply did not respect the guard and he looked down on him and the guard did his job. Simple. That is arrogance.


You are not staying in nigeria, so you won't understand how arrogant and rude people can be to people thy consider lower to their cadre. Which is wrong and sickening. Respect begats respects. Mind you this is Africa. You cant Go to first bank where your mothers mate is the customer service person and you will start shouting on her because customer is always right. Right there, other customers will tell you, you lack home training and call your parents name.

I am not an advocate of bad customer service and I don't stand it. People should stand for the rights but there are certain responsibilities expected of customers too within the ambit of customer is always right notion. If you do not fulfill your responsibility do not expect your right to be respected too.

That's great but I'm advocate of finding the cause and tackling that rather than tackling the symptoms or the aftermath. This all happened because maybe even the security guard lacked home training for not talking calmly and sensibly in the first place. There would be no rude ignoring or inadequate manager to talk to if the security guard had talked normally and assuming the OP is reasonable, he would have complied.

The bank needs to take responsibility that they did not do their part by displaying a sign so there would be no misunderstanding.

As for the mopol thing, why should people like that harass ordinary civilians simply because of their position? That too is wrong and just generally makes the country hard to live in. I have enough problems at home and work, I don't anyone drunk on power to try and exhibit that on me.

Very true. Sometimes I have this problem too and then I remember life is too short to be sad all the time. Live life and be good yourself. I think most people will stop overeating and being fat if they listen to their bodies rather than what other people say that when they fail, they fall way back and get even fatter. When you love yourself, you'll do what's right and show your body some love.

superstar1: Tell us where you are working first and let us based your supposed customer centric organisation against these banks customer relationship analysis.

Most of us are not better than them. Let us be real here. We are all Nigerians. How many times have we complained about poor network telecom service, airlines, civil service is even a no go area. How about shop owners abusing you, lectures working students out.

So what are we talking about here?

The OP was rude and arrogant and he is a potential security risk to the bank and was dealt with accordingly. If he likes, let him head to The Hague.

We're talking about the fact that that poor customer service attitude should not be prevalent. I work in kfc and just shouting at a customer for no reason is a disciplinary right there. If my manager doesn't act, I better pray that the headquarters don't hear about that attitude or there'll be nothing the manager can do it about it.

The OP might have been rude but that was in response to the security guy's behaviour. Nigerians shouldn't stand for that just because it's the norm otherwise it will never change. I don't live in Nigeria so I don't have to deal with that but for me to come to my country on holiday after sweating for my money and paying for a service only to get shouted at is just unacceptable.

I don't understand why Nigerians allow this. This is the same reason why customer service will continue to be poor in that country. Everyone saying he should have been humiliated like that, are you sure you have manners at all? Even if it was a wrong place to park, there are ways to inform the person without barking especially when the bank has a fault too not displaying the relevant sign in a prominent place. It's called being in a civilised community. The way all these Nigerian workers shout at their customers like they are children is appalling and due to this general lack of respect for anyone, he would not even answer the manager's call. That's a stinking attitude right there.

Silly thread. Who made you the judge?

oloriooko: This is the reason many nigerians find it difficult communicating.
Who is this lousy guy and no sane person could answer instead they are busy flogging the shadows

Don't you have google? Stop being a nuisance

Will you at least watch the video first before going off point kmt

https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=_YoGCQAeMEE

I'm moved more by sight cos I believe in actions more than mere talking. It's not about the money or the gadgets or whatever, it's just some guys are really good at the words thing and without backing that up with action, sorry, can't sway me. Your actions speak more of who you are than what you say that could change in a second.

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I'm not sure I totally understand the code but you maybe you make specific CSS rules with loops and if statements. Like use the loop to go through a number of rows, then the if statement to specify what CSS rule (like the margins and alignment) you want after a number of rows have lapsed.

This might be too late but you could import the java util library and use Arrays.sort(array). When you want to print out the array in ascending or descending order, you could manipulate your loop to start printing from wherever you want.

Like for ascending order, start from the very first value: for(int i = 0; i<array.length; i++){System.out.println(array[i])} and for descending order, start from the last value: for(int i = array.length-1; i>=0; i--){System.out.println(array[i])}.

aw this made me shed a tear. nice guy sha