loveis0320: My boyfriend is Nigerian. And I met him here in the states. He's a college student. When we first begin to be friends, I was dating another Nigerian, and he was much older. There are so many things you should know. First of all....this guy that you speak of is definitely seeking paperwork/greencard/ect. Know that in order to love someone, you must get to know that person. My boyfriend and I have been "dating" since May of last year. Its almost been a year. I have made him jump through hoops to prove how much he really loves me to insure to myself that he is not just after a greencard. He is my bestfriend. He's teaching me the Yoruba language and everything. I love everything about African culture. Its safe to say that he has changed my life in a "good" way.
I know many nigerians. And you will be amazed at the type of things I have found out about some of them. Not all Nigerian guys are seeking paperwork. Some are just living their lives here and tryna have a better life than they can have at home. I know Nigerian's that have wives back home, and they seek out women to marry them to get their paperwork. The guy I was dating before me and my boyfriend started dating...I found out he had a different last name that he was going by. And he was muslim. I typed it in to Facebook, and it pulled up ONE of his TWO wives. Found out he had TWO wives and a total of 4 kids. And was seeking two more wives. CRAZY!! I have friends that have married and later found out that their Nigerian husband had a wife and a family back in Africa. You definitely need to do your research. Because although there are some good Nigerian guys out there, there are some that are not.

At these Motherless homes. Anyone know how if you can adopt a child and possibly does it cost. If so maybe an estimate of how much??