The pregnancy is not yours. It's simple and straight forward

Oya, body no be firewood oooo, I need to do the do

I've encountered lots of ladies on MiChat... Online begging has been the theme of the day. A lady begged me to send her money to come to my place to eat which I rejected. I later sent 2k to her that day. Few days later, she asked me and I yabbed her. Another one sweared with heaven and earth, I ignored her and another one needed 2k to fill her gas and I ignored her as well. Some ladies has turned to online begger and when anything happens, they will be saying men are scum.

homelybabe:
Plz I need your advice folks.
I'm newly married. Before I married,I got a government teaching job in the east. My husband stays in Lagos but I stay in one of the states in the east. We got married in January this year and since then it's been difficult for us because of the distance. My husband is doing a good job in Lagos. I'm just afraid of relocating and staying idle at home,coupled with the fear of losing a government job that is pensionable. My friends and colleagues advised me to continue with my work and visit him during the holidays but some advised against such. I'm in a tight spot right now and don't want to take a decision I will end up regretting tomorrow. Please,your opinions are needed. Thanks.

My sister, the only advise I will give you is to go and meet your husband. I've gone through all the write-ups above. No matter how much you earn, Your family comes first. You will be shocked when you get to Lagos and see another lady cooking for your husband. And apart from that, your monthly salary can't do you anything. Most government works aren't paying most especially State or local government work except in Lagos or some oil-rich states and Abuja. Pls pack your luggage and meet ur spouse. No matter how much you earn, don't expose your family to danger. Delay is dangerous.

Turn on: Chubby, smart, chocolate in complexion, not too fat, not too slim, good body odour, clean body
Turn off: Dirty, fat, bad odour (mouth as well) vg odour as well

U make sense. If I can marry you self..I won't mind

Quality20:
what u saying is all false

What he's saying is not false. I served in Sokoto State 15 years ago. It's capital TRUE. I've witnessed it myself. If u aren't there, don't say it's a lie. I'm a living witness.

Sirchiboy:
I bought fuel of 10k at 675 and reset my odometer to 0 and after the journey.
The 10k fuel only finished at 69 miles

The calliper has been removed

Why won't Nigerians have cardiovascular condition, it's because things are costly, people need to think on what to do and how to provide for their families. Their BP might have risen before watching the match and the tempo of the match resulted in their deaths. May the souls of the departed rest in peace.

Jennyclay:
Nigerian men have been happy since yesterday. Someone sent me money this morning due to the happiness.

I just pray these happiness last till February 14 so that they would be able to spend on us on Valentine’s Day without complaining.

Because I really need to upgrade my iPhone 13 to 15 and I also need a car, that’s all.

Biko, Nigerian men, you guys should continue to be happy. I destroy any obstacle that will spoil your happiness IJN!! Amen!!

Thank you!!

I just pity you

My own assertion is this, the guy didn't break up with her, he only want a break cos he knows how much he could spend for the valentine and immediately after the valentine, he will call her back. It's called *Valentine Break*

Stamina777:
Hello nairalanders, please I need your advice on this. I work in a bank as a cleaner and I go on errands for bankers in the bank. Am 24 year old and I only have my school start with me. I have an ambition to further my education though.

So their is this lady banker I like so much. I do go on errands for her. She is in her youthful age too but might be a little older than I do. I love her but I don't know how to tell her. I fear she might cast me if I tell her my intentions or I might lose my self respect.

Moreover, I always feel lonely because I rarely socialize. I go on errands because of the tips I make from it. Nobody gives me money for not doing anything. I feel less cared for but I care more about my loved ones even though I only give to them. I feel lonely all the time

Please what should I do

The only advise I will give you is, you are still young, u need to focus on your future. Pursue your education, get the best out of it, get a good job and start thinking of settling down. With your age and the type of work you are doing, your monthly stipend won't be enough for you to take care of yourself for a whole month compared with dating a lady. Pls, focus on your future. Don't let beauty or youthful exorbitant destroy your glorious future. Thank you.

Oga lie small small

Benue girls dey back ooooo. I can 1000% confirm this. No be lie ooooo. I'm a living witness

anointedlinks:
It's after all the above mentioned that one can start thinking of the wedding plans and pre-wedding pictures. See below for more on wedding preparations;

Source - https://connectnigeria.com/articles/2017/07/the-ultimate-wedding-checklist-from-engagement-to-the-d-day/amp

Weddings are always a hassle. You think you have everything covered until it’s the wedding morning and someone asks, ‘Where are the wedding rings?’ and your head scatters. We’ve taken time to put down a detailed list of everything you would need to buy, reserve, order and arrange for your wedding. However, note that not everything on the list is necessary. You can make your checklist from ours depending on your circumstance or choice. Here’s our Nigerian white wedding checklist:

Vendors

Photographer
Videographer
Caterer
Cake Baker
Mixologist/Bartender/Drinks ‘provider’
Decorator
Band/D.J
M.C.
Waiters/Ushers (*You could use family members)

Reservations

Wedding night accommodation
Honeymoon destination
Reception Venue
Chair/Table rentals
Hotel reservations for guests

Others

Wedding Rings/Totems
Engagement Photos
Wedding Website
Car decorations
Souvenirs
Wedding Invitations
Wedding Program

Bride

Dresses
Undergarments
Shoes
Head Gear(s)
Jewelry
Bouquet
Makeup
Hair
Cosmetics
Purse

Bridal Train

Dresses
Head gears
Shoes
Bouquets
Hair arrangement
Hair accessories (pins, combs etc.)
Makeup
Jewelry
Handkerchiefs

Groom

Suit(s)
Shirt (s)
Tie
Undergarments
Shoes/ socks
Haircut (day before)
Toiletries

Groomsmen

Suits
Shirts
Ties
Shoes
Haircut

In-Laws

Outfits for Couples’ mothers
Outfits for Couples’ fathers

Transportation

Cars and Drivers to convey bride, groom, and party to church.
Cars and Drivers to convey party and couple to the reception.
Cars and drivers to convey family members to church and reception.

Church

Food for Choir and other workers
Food for priests
Honorarium for priests and other groups

Roles to assign (Usually friends take care of this when there’s no wedding planner)


Camera phone handler for instant pictures
Food distribution coordinator.
Drinks distribution coordinator.
Time Keeper (works with MC and DJ)
Bridal Train Guide
Transportation coordinator
Souvenir distribution coordinator
Gifts stand coordinator
Cash Collector
DJ song coordinator for important segments
General coordinator

See gbese chai

presido997:
Jan 4

Wow!!! I finally found my birthday mate

SenecaTheYonger:


She’s coming to spend the weekend with you? A married man spending the whole weekend with another married woman. Chai. [b]The fact you can’t even see how wrong this is shows how damaged you are. [/b]And most unfaithful partners are just like you.

Smile... Mind the way you construct your grammar. Between you and I, who's damaged? Learn from other people and don't judge. don't let me give you want you won't like to read early this morning cos it may spoil your day or week. If u go through my threads, I've never said such a foul word to anyone. Please mind you grammar. And if you think u can just say anything anyhow, you will know that you have a Master. And if u meet me, u won't be able to say such. Pls mind your words.

Foodqueen:


So what exactly is she coming to spend weekend in your house for.

Is her husband aware she's coming

U are just trying to justify your self. This is all shades of wrong.

Smiles.... Thanks. She has good reasons to come and spend some days. It would have been better if she comes during the week but I'm a very busy type which is as a result of my place of work. I won't be able to attend to her when she comes around and the expenses will be on my neck. She's not coming here to play. We have plans on what and what to do which is personal. The husband knows and the family members knows as well. She's an elderly person. She knows the best decision good for her. And let me tell you, she's not wayward. I can vouch for that.
And another thing, if two opposite genders who are truly "best of friends" and value each other, the last thing that will come to their mind is sex. sex is not everything. You share business ideas, opportunities, you help each other if u see an opportunity that benefits the other party.
Thank you.

Medianna:

Weldone Mr maturity.
Like emotion respects maturity.

Mrs. Maturity, u've responded well. But all the same, men differs. No matter the emotion or anything, nothing will happen. The lady and myself knows what we can do and what we can't do. For her to say she's coming, she knew very well that nothing like that will happen. For a matured male and female to date/court for 3 solid years without having sex or romance and sleep in the same room takes the grace of God. When you date someone (as best of friends). Nothing of such will happen and the thinking level won't even go towards that direction except iff any of the party has devilish agenda. It only takes the grace of God. She can vouch any time and any where with the respect we have for each other. I'm pretty sure if it's during this dispensation, ahhhhh, it would have been yam scatter scatter

Ballzproblem2:
na so devil dey work he will give you false sense of control before you knowno it you are bed with her.

true maturity is respecting her husband boundaries , they your lane no scatter person marriage.

Thanks. No one is scattering another person's marriage. Her family members knows me wella. I'm not an outsider to the family. Some of u may just be around few years old when the lady and I departed I mean 17 years ago during my final year days as an undergraduate. To this end, there's no scattering of family ooooo

Boondocxs:

But bros why are you having a weekend getaway with a married woman with kids
It’s dangerous oh

Thanks for your input. However, both of us are best of friends. We are age mate and few days older than each other. Let me talk in that level now, she's very close to 40 and likewise myself. There's sense of maturity between the two parties. If it's between two young opposite gender, it can be a different ball game. Before both of us depart, we do as if we've been friends from heaven. You won't know who's older than each other. Our spirit is far away from sex. We advise each other, give moral and financial support and even ask for each other's husband and wife. So, having sex is the last thing on our mind. Thank you.

SenecaTheYonger:


So you're going to have sex with another man's wife because you were madly in love in uni?

The First thing that comes to your mind is sex. I can't do that. Even we courted for 3 years and did not have sex or romance her. The respect is there. I'm a matured man and she's also matured (late 30's). So don't judge

Single mothers are good. It's just that they fall into the unexpected situation. I've met many single.mothers and they are fantastic. Although, both parties has their own stuff, but when there's mutual understanding between the two parties, there won't be problem. Before you meet each other, at least u inform yourselves what u like and what you dislike. What you can do and what you cannot do, your expectations from your ideal man or woman. Pls, stop tagging single mothers as bad. Some of them needs our support both morally and financially. There's one I met, and still my friend, whenever I'm at her residence, she will tell me all what she has passed through. I will give her listening ears and give her good response. She will feel relaxed and happy. Most of our single mothers needs our support. Pls, don't let us tag them as bad people..thank you. I come in peace.

Yes, I do. Almost everyday and anytime of the day. Although she's already married with a child, she's still in love with me. The cause of the separation wasn't as a result of fight or abuse. It just happened. She couldn't recover the shock until we reconnected back. She's coming to my place this weekend to spend some days with me. This is a reality and not falacy. She's my first love and likewise I'm her first love. We're madly in love with each other during our undergraduate days

S****X .... simple

Islie:
Niger governor demands 13% derivation from oil revenue; threatens to shut down Kainji Dam, other national power infrastructure

“We demand compensation for our people. Everything, every resource that comes from Niger state, must be compensated."



SOURCE

This is getting serious oooooo.

turmacs:
I kind of find this awkward
My boyfriend prefers to have sex in the shower. If i can count the number of times we fûcked last month, out of ten, seven were in the shower while the rest were on the bed.
Is there something about shower sex that makes it sweeter than bed sex

Ahhhh! With ur boyfriend? Which kind of life are you living. You are so cheap. Definitely sure the buy won't marry you.

You are not well!!!

I'm the koko no long thing just go my profile and let start talking.

You can request for my cucumber photos so see proof.

I'm honest and straight person