₦airaland Forum

Balkony11223:
Hi everyone.I am livinf with Igbo.man whom I have 2 kids with.We live abroad.He has work me not coz noone to take care of our kids.He is extremely agresive.Only pays the bils and food for us and the rest money al goes to his siblings and mother in Nigeria.I feel so helples.He is so commanding stingy wicked to me.He most times treat me as slave in house

Let me tell you the simple truth. If he's the only one there, it would have been better. He's the only one working and the bills are much. His take home may not be much and after deducting the deductibles, the remaining won't be much for him to manage for the rest of the month, hence, he will act nasty

Prettygirl200:
Oga keep quiet, women are not sex starved like you men,cases of rape everywhere is always men, pedophiles are men bc you lots are sex starved, women can stay years without you while u lots can't, always looking for where to stick the rubbish in between ur leg's, men are the only gender that can confidently rape anything, 9months old, lizard, snake and even cows. Disgusting gender 🤮

From your mouth, and you pray to have a male child one day. What of women running after men. I have lots of them running after me but I gave myself sense. I have a bright future to keep. Watch your mouth and keep your nasty comment to yourself. Disgusting gender too.

That's how you loose your nine months relationship due to your nasty attitude. You better check yourself if you are ok. Disgusting stinking dirty nasty gender

Prettygirl200:
Oga keep quiet, women are not sex starved like you men,cases of rape everywhere is always men, pedophiles are men bc you lots are sex starved, women can stay years without you while u lots can't, always looking for where to stick the rubbish in between ur leg's, men are the only gender that can confidently rape anything, 9months old, lizard, snake and even cows. Disgusting gender 🤮

Speak for yourself. I can show you our conversation if you want to see. I'm not just writing anything. You too keep quiet joor

TreasureJunky:
Orji Uzor kalu is a disaster,, he will never become the president or senate President of this country

I come in peace.

Please, I'm not an Ibo guy and sentiment apart, he gave out the contract and was duly carried out. The company that did the construction should be held responsible. He wasn't there when the construction took place. I come in peace.

StreetFight:
You supposed know am nah, it's very popular. It's not far from pineapple market, just opposite banana market, and adjacent to mango market

Very close to cashew market

Prettygirl200:
Women enjoy sex more than men yet una no dey allow ashawo rest for brothels, u guys keep chasing women up and down and going into fake relationships just bc of sex. How many women have u seen chasing men bc of sex, dey there dey yarn dust. Yen yen yen

Yes, women loves sex oooo. They can travel from far distance to have sex ooooo. Even they can risk their lives at night to make sure they get what they want. I used to run away from women ni ooooo. A single mother of two wanted to pay me a visit last week and even this Monday, thank God I was on leave. I travelled immediately. Ki o ma ko ba mi. She even planned to spend a week with me. I need to run for my dear life. Not only her alone, lots of them.

pointblank247:
Your inability to concentrate on your reasons for being in the class is why your post is full of grammatical blinders. Continue

"Blinders" you too made grammatical blinders 😂😂😂

Holuwahphemy:
Hello Nairalanders

Please I need your advice on a pressing issue.

I love my girlfriend so much, and to a certain degree, I'm convinced it is reciprocal.

But sometimes I feel overwhelmed by the way she's all over me. There is this three seater sofa in my sitting room that looks older than the other sofas, despite the fact that they were all bought and brought in the same day. This is because I dare not sit elsewhere aside with her on that particular sofa. if I do, I'm calling for a fight. She's always wanting to be in a cuddle with me.

In the bedroom, our bodies must touch. If I stand up to the restroom to ease myself or do the other, if I'm not back within a short period of time, she's either calling out from the room, or coming to the bathroom to check what's up.

She literally follows me everywhere. To buy fuel, cut my hair, get something across the street, pick something from the car, you name it, the list is endless.

This has affected me that, in the rare moments that we are not together, probably when she's visiting her parents. I walk around like a zombie. Sometimes I'll do something as wierd as going to the closet to smell her clothes.

Something happened this morning, that actually called for the creation of this topic.

We were in the bedroom and she was sleeping, so I stood up to ease myself and get something from the fridge. What I wanted to get was stuck, so I left the fridge open to melt down the ice a little. Which I waited, I sat on one of the sofas, and was surfing the web on my phone, just to kill time. Less than 3 minutes later, I heard the bedroom door open, I jumped up and quickly dropped my phone, and started busying myself with trying to get the content from the fridge. She caught me and started laughing.

I was so angry because it's not as if she had caught me cheating or doing something actually wrong. I felt like an !diot for letting it get to the stage where it feels like I'm scared of her. I told her it wasn't funny and when she tried to hold me, I felt irritated and asked her to leave me alone.
She got angry and left me in annoyance.

I want to talk to her later, basically to let her know how i feel and probably find a nice way to tell her to be easy on the 'hovering'. Because it now feels as if I'm being choked or something.

Bro, if this is true, pls enjoy it while it lasts. She loves you. Your presence counts alot in her life. Like me for example, I've been married for the past 8 years, my wife never cuddle me for a day after our marriage. She has changed. So, enjoy it while it last bro

Onyidamola:

https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=IKAhz6SAEKg?si=e2LYOSIxptLLBLYX

Most single mothers I've met are blatant liers. I met one few weeks ago. She can lie like anything. Why are they lying self?

I've been following the news trend of this governor Fubara, I think something is wrong. Fubara was his right hand man when Wike was the governor and now, u want to investigate his 8-year tenure. Fubara will also indict himself.

fergie001:
I present to you the brand new Attorney-General of our dear State. Why are we bringing you at this very critical time, you have a big task. As it is today, in the local parlance, they say the Jungle don mature.

We will be setting up a panel of inquiry to investigate governance in the State so brace up, I am not going back on it.

- Fubara in



SOURCE

billionjoys:
Wha O!
@wanderlust007...
There should be a way when there is a will.
I used to listen to his song as a little boy too...
Very raw and direct source of inspiration...
I tried to get Special Gift album but with no luck...
I was only lucky to get Dear Mother and one other one in Ibadan ...
Pls can you direct me on where I can get the Special Gift or if you can forward it to me...
I will be so grateful,
Thanks

I still listen to Dear Mother in my car whenever I'm driving. My wonderful young girls also sing the song. Currently listening to DEAR MOTHER now

The pregnancy is not yours. It's simple and straight forward

Oya, body no be firewood oooo, I need to do the do

I've encountered lots of ladies on MiChat... Online begging has been the theme of the day. A lady begged me to send her money to come to my place to eat which I rejected. I later sent 2k to her that day. Few days later, she asked me and I yabbed her. Another one sweared with heaven and earth, I ignored her and another one needed 2k to fill her gas and I ignored her as well. Some ladies has turned to online begger and when anything happens, they will be saying men are scum.

homelybabe:
Plz I need your advice folks.
I'm newly married. Before I married,I got a government teaching job in the east. My husband stays in Lagos but I stay in one of the states in the east. We got married in January this year and since then it's been difficult for us because of the distance. My husband is doing a good job in Lagos. I'm just afraid of relocating and staying idle at home,coupled with the fear of losing a government job that is pensionable. My friends and colleagues advised me to continue with my work and visit him during the holidays but some advised against such. I'm in a tight spot right now and don't want to take a decision I will end up regretting tomorrow. Please,your opinions are needed. Thanks.

My sister, the only advise I will give you is to go and meet your husband. I've gone through all the write-ups above. No matter how much you earn, Your family comes first. You will be shocked when you get to Lagos and see another lady cooking for your husband. And apart from that, your monthly salary can't do you anything. Most government works aren't paying most especially State or local government work except in Lagos or some oil-rich states and Abuja. Pls pack your luggage and meet ur spouse. No matter how much you earn, don't expose your family to danger. Delay is dangerous.

Turn on: Chubby, smart, chocolate in complexion, not too fat, not too slim, good body odour, clean body
Turn off: Dirty, fat, bad odour (mouth as well) vg odour as well

U make sense. If I can marry you self..I won't mind

Quality20:
what u saying is all false

What he's saying is not false. I served in Sokoto State 15 years ago. It's capital TRUE. I've witnessed it myself. If u aren't there, don't say it's a lie. I'm a living witness.

Sirchiboy:
I bought fuel of 10k at 675 and reset my odometer to 0 and after the journey.
The 10k fuel only finished at 69 miles

The calliper has been removed

Why won't Nigerians have cardiovascular condition, it's because things are costly, people need to think on what to do and how to provide for their families. Their BP might have risen before watching the match and the tempo of the match resulted in their deaths. May the souls of the departed rest in peace.

Jennyclay:
Nigerian men have been happy since yesterday. Someone sent me money this morning due to the happiness.

I just pray these happiness last till February 14 so that they would be able to spend on us on Valentine’s Day without complaining.

Because I really need to upgrade my iPhone 13 to 15 and I also need a car, that’s all.

Biko, Nigerian men, you guys should continue to be happy. I destroy any obstacle that will spoil your happiness IJN!! Amen!!

Thank you!!

I just pity you

My own assertion is this, the guy didn't break up with her, he only want a break cos he knows how much he could spend for the valentine and immediately after the valentine, he will call her back. It's called *Valentine Break*

Stamina777:
Hello nairalanders, please I need your advice on this. I work in a bank as a cleaner and I go on errands for bankers in the bank. Am 24 year old and I only have my school start with me. I have an ambition to further my education though.

So their is this lady banker I like so much. I do go on errands for her. She is in her youthful age too but might be a little older than I do. I love her but I don't know how to tell her. I fear she might cast me if I tell her my intentions or I might lose my self respect.

Moreover, I always feel lonely because I rarely socialize. I go on errands because of the tips I make from it. Nobody gives me money for not doing anything. I feel less cared for but I care more about my loved ones even though I only give to them. I feel lonely all the time

Please what should I do

The only advise I will give you is, you are still young, u need to focus on your future. Pursue your education, get the best out of it, get a good job and start thinking of settling down. With your age and the type of work you are doing, your monthly stipend won't be enough for you to take care of yourself for a whole month compared with dating a lady. Pls, focus on your future. Don't let beauty or youthful exorbitant destroy your glorious future. Thank you.

Oga lie small small

Benue girls dey back ooooo. I can 1000% confirm this. No be lie ooooo. I'm a living witness

anointedlinks:
It's after all the above mentioned that one can start thinking of the wedding plans and pre-wedding pictures. See below for more on wedding preparations;

Source - https://connectnigeria.com/articles/2017/07/the-ultimate-wedding-checklist-from-engagement-to-the-d-day/amp

Weddings are always a hassle. You think you have everything covered until it’s the wedding morning and someone asks, ‘Where are the wedding rings?’ and your head scatters. We’ve taken time to put down a detailed list of everything you would need to buy, reserve, order and arrange for your wedding. However, note that not everything on the list is necessary. You can make your checklist from ours depending on your circumstance or choice. Here’s our Nigerian white wedding checklist:

Vendors

Photographer
Videographer
Caterer
Cake Baker
Mixologist/Bartender/Drinks ‘provider’
Decorator
Band/D.J
M.C.
Waiters/Ushers (*You could use family members)

Reservations

Wedding night accommodation
Honeymoon destination
Reception Venue
Chair/Table rentals
Hotel reservations for guests

Others

Wedding Rings/Totems
Engagement Photos
Wedding Website
Car decorations
Souvenirs
Wedding Invitations
Wedding Program

Bride

Dresses
Undergarments
Shoes
Head Gear(s)
Jewelry
Bouquet
Makeup
Hair
Cosmetics
Purse

Bridal Train

Dresses
Head gears
Shoes
Bouquets
Hair arrangement
Hair accessories (pins, combs etc.)
Makeup
Jewelry
Handkerchiefs

Groom

Suit(s)
Shirt (s)
Tie
Undergarments
Shoes/ socks
Haircut (day before)
Toiletries

Groomsmen

Suits
Shirts
Ties
Shoes
Haircut

In-Laws

Outfits for Couples’ mothers
Outfits for Couples’ fathers

Transportation

Cars and Drivers to convey bride, groom, and party to church.
Cars and Drivers to convey party and couple to the reception.
Cars and drivers to convey family members to church and reception.

Church

Food for Choir and other workers
Food for priests
Honorarium for priests and other groups

Roles to assign (Usually friends take care of this when there’s no wedding planner)


Camera phone handler for instant pictures
Food distribution coordinator.
Drinks distribution coordinator.
Time Keeper (works with MC and DJ)
Bridal Train Guide
Transportation coordinator
Souvenir distribution coordinator
Gifts stand coordinator
Cash Collector
DJ song coordinator for important segments
General coordinator

See gbese chai

presido997:
Jan 4

Wow!!! I finally found my birthday mate